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Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by Ezibless: 7:21am On Dec 13, 2014
demsid:
so for your mind now , the guy no see abi. u never can tell, he may b right cos he's not d only one that av said such to u here. where more than 3 ppl are saying d same thing abt u . crosscheck yourself

MUST EVERYONE SAY A GOOD THING ABOUT A PERSON ni?


That's their cup of tea,slice of bread and lump of butter.









#sips HOT tea.

Care for some?wink
Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by Nobody: 7:23am On Dec 13, 2014
Kachisbarbie:
Disclaimer: This post is a hackneyed one and I respect the fact that we all can't be in consensus ad idem, that's why I have to state -it isn't entirely based on generalisation__ there are definitely some exceptions.

__ The term beauty/attractive in this context, I{We} would be looking @the physical beauty........now, I don't want that "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" saying {hehehe}_____ I am talking of that beauty, that transcends in the eyes of every beholder.

___ Mr Right {as opined by my humble self} is that man who communicates well, gives his lady that reassurance of self-worth and emotionally available.
If we have all assented to this...lets move on


She gets a lot of advances from "predators": Predators here are those men who are naturally attracted to beautiful ladies for all the wrong reasons in the world. Those kinda men that hunt women like, it's some game. Their ostensible aim is to love her, but their real aim is actually- "hit and run". When she falls prey twice/more, it is only normal that she becomes reticent about her feelings___ thereby shutting the good guy(s) out.

She Friend-zones a lot: The average beautiful girl can friend-zone even her ancestor. She has lots of men who are ever willing to be in that "zone" or hoping for her eyes/heart to open to what they feel for her. She doesn't hesitate to put them there. The truth 'bout FZ{Friend-zone} is, if one person is harbouring romantic thoughts, sooner or later......the relationship would reach that climax where it either metarmophose(s) into a "real relationship" or dissolve.
Ladies please stop calling your future husband "just a friend"___lolz.

Men see her as outta their League: The less attractive a guy is - the less likely the chances of him approaching a very attractive woman.
How many guys are attractive/courageous enough to ask out a beautiful woman? Lolz.
Ok, certainly there are but a handful.
So, basically {predators} see a lady's beauty as an invitation ___ while {Mr-Nice guy} sees it as a deterrent.

She has a turgid ego: I am sure we are all familiar with this. Beautiful women tend to come with this bombastic/bloated and swollen ego. They are very confident of their looks. They believe they can get a man, the very next minute. Thus their "maintenance/control manual" is very voluminous. This could make men avoid them, that's why you hear things like "fine girl-plenty trouble". She has this feeling that she is to you -what a hat-trick is to C.Ronaldo, so it's expected you treat her like a goddess.


Dearest beautiful ladies, swallow your pride more often____ it doesn't contain excess calories. kiss
..Nah!!! i diagree with dis....background matters. Dia r still God fearing n pretty gurls out dia, just dat ratio might be slim

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Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by xynerise: 7:26am On Dec 13, 2014
Reason why you should not compliment a beautiful woman on per second billing.

Well, I have one here with me and she has learnt a lot from me cool
Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by 1stola: 7:31am On Dec 13, 2014
ifymusa:
I tire ohh But no b all Beautiful ladies get pride oh na d rich ones get pride but than the Mr Right no wai show face
Oya I don show o...
Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by Classicalmusic: 7:39am On Dec 13, 2014
OP, what people don't realize is pretty girls have flaws. Not to seem rude, but their attitude hurts them. Most 'very pretty' women believe they have options and can get away with that. Some of them are just inept when it comes to making a decision.

What really suddens me is that they don't know that what actually goes around comes around. The genuine warmth in getting the perfect man is totally out of context.

To add more fuel to fire, imagine a girl who thinks because she's very pretty, every man will want her but when you don't call at all, she starts to scream and tell everyone how decent you're! Even at a point of lying just to get your attention:-)

I blame men who worship these girls. For they don't what they're doing.

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Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by MNDY(m): 7:41am On Dec 13, 2014
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Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by owolawitola(f): 7:42am On Dec 13, 2014
Its hard cause beautiful ladies have high expectations. They dont want to be beautiful and have a manageable guy. They want handsome, rich, hot, muscular, sexy, smart, funny guys. And they wont settle for less. They should better wake up and smell the coffee cause they cant find a man like that.

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Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by ChubbyT(f): 7:43am On Dec 13, 2014
100Cents:


Wetin you carry ?
4whr
Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by Andyempowered(m): 7:49am On Dec 13, 2014
Ezibless:


Last time i checked...







You hadn't collected your medicated glasses. And pls,advice your doctor to super magnify the lenses

Exactly how they think...fish brain, and she's not even stunning...just an average girl yarning trash














You hadn't collected your medicated glasses. And pls,advice your doctor to super magnify the lenses
Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by criuze(m): 7:50am On Dec 13, 2014
Ezibless:
Ok. Noted!








I'll swallow my pride from now ongrin



I thought he said beautiful ladies
Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by Ezibless: 7:52am On Dec 13, 2014
[quote author=Andyempowered
post=28835735][/quote]



#yawns....








NEXT!
Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by Dymondgurl(f): 7:57am On Dec 13, 2014
Anwasia:
[color=#006600][/color]

I have seen many beautiful women
But I have never seen an extraordinary beauty until this day... kiss kiss
merci, gacias.
Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by Ezibless: 7:58am On Dec 13, 2014
criuze:




I thought he said beautiful ladies

You mean you went through the stress of checking out my pix?grin


You must be every hard working,i think i like yougrin:p
Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by Andyempowered(m): 7:58am On Dec 13, 2014
Ezibless:




#yawns....








NEXT!
You just portrayed your bad attitude here. Imagine you were beautiful, would you ever find Mr Right?

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Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by Ezibless: 8:02am On Dec 13, 2014
Andyempowered:
You just portrayed your bad attitude here. Imagine you were beautiful, would you ever find Mr Right?

No, i won't.




He would find mewink




And you also protrayed your ''good'' attitude with that
''...fish brain...yarning trash...'' statement.
Thanks!smiley
Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by frisby: 8:04am On Dec 13, 2014
onadana:
cheesy Well there are exceptions.....most men are weaklings when it comes to assertiveness with women,with beautiful women they are slaves ..just because of their beauty.Being assertive is the key....what I believe is if these beautiful damsels(God is great for his marvelous creation)meet a real man they are reduced to dust.I have this chick....damn .....she is so...so ...beautiful and very cute.. grin I alone solely own the franchise.But you must do the needful.

The thread says "mr right" not "boyfriends".
Pretty girls rarely lack in the "boyfriend" department Because most guys won't mind just dating one just for d thrill of it. Nothing serious and no long term value whatsoever.

So your whole theory of "assertiveness ", how does it fit into the entire picture?

And..... do you consider yourself mr right for that girl?
Do you have serious long-term plans for her?
How much personal value have u added to her life?
Do her parents even know you?
Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by frisby: 8:06am On Dec 13, 2014
missvera:
you should not. Some beautiful ladies are lover babes, if the guys they were so much into bleeped them up, they could just decide to take some break before going into any relationship again. But men believe that a lady who looks good always will definitely have a man behind her smile which is not so in all cases. But the major problem is the numbers of olosho beautiful ladies increasing every day who are ready to use what they have to get whatever they want. Psychologically, it gives men negative orientation about beautiful ladies especially the ones that look classy.

Very well spoken!
Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by cupidhero(m): 8:10am On Dec 13, 2014
Ezibless:
Ok. Noted!








I'll swallow my pride from now ongrin
Ok! lemme run a pride check.
Hello gorgeous!
Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by Ezibless: 8:13am On Dec 13, 2014
cupidhero:

Ok! lemme run a pride check.
Hello gorgeous!

Hi handsome!
Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by ROZZAYY(f): 8:15am On Dec 13, 2014
Ok madam karchisbarbie I haff hear.
Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by frisby: 8:16am On Dec 13, 2014
VALERIE20:
most men are too scared to go for the best of the Ladies ...only the brave worthy ones try...

"Scared"? And you know this how exactly?

I'm assuming you realize there's a HUGE difference between being scared of someone and ignoring another because her body language screams ....MANNERLESS SNUB!
Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by Jetson: 8:20am On Dec 13, 2014
owolawitola:
Its hard cause beautiful ladies have high expectations. They dont want to be beautiful and have a manageable guy. They want handsome, rich, hot, muscular, sexy, smart, funny guys. And they wont settle for less. They should better wake up and smell the coffee cause they cant find a man like that.
I'll make myself available cos am alLiNoNE
Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by frisby: 8:26am On Dec 13, 2014
Andyempowered:
You just portrayed your bad attitude here. Imagine you were beautiful, would you ever find Mr Right?

QUITE TO THE CONTRARY..... she has shown an admirable level of restraint, politeness and maturity. did u see d number of guys jabbing her with snide comments? (dunno what she looks like tho) and what's her worst retort? "YAWNS". U gotta admit, not even some guys will keep from letting lose on u with verbal brimstone.

FREE the cHIQ pls.

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Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by 100Cents: 8:30am On Dec 13, 2014
ChubbyT:

4whr

Are you from Bakassi Local government ?
Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by Ilekokonit: 8:30am On Dec 13, 2014
Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right

Because Beauty plus Bad Character = Ugliness of the Spirit.

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Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by cupidhero(m): 8:30am On Dec 13, 2014
Ezibless:


Hi handsome!
cheesy
Ezibless:


Hi handsome!

*grabs mic* Hey guys! Her prides is realy down!! She is ready for em lines now,who is gonna woo her first?
Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by frisby: 8:31am On Dec 13, 2014
owolawitola:
Its hard cause beautiful ladies have high expectations. They dont want to be beautiful and have a manageable guy. They want handsome, rich, hot, muscular, sexy, smart, funny guys. And they wont settle for less. They should better wake up and smell the coffee cause they cant find a man like that.

Not true. Such men abound.
But real men are scarce. All those things u mentioned don't make a real man and therein lies d problem.
Women have been misguidedly taught that those are the things to look out for in a man.. so they waste their prime dissing real men because they only have their eyes for what the movies and mass media have told them are "the real deal". In d end, the same "real deal" waste their time, ruin their lives and dump their broken asses for the next shiny object.

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Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by Patented: 8:32am On Dec 13, 2014
Kachisbarbie:
Disclaimer: This post is a hackneyed one and I respect the fact that we all can't be in consensus ad idem, that's why I have to state -it isn't entirely based on generalisation__ there are definitely some exceptions.

__ The term beauty/attractive in this context, I{We} would be looking @the physical beauty........now, I don't want that "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" saying {hehehe}_____ I am talking of that beauty, that transcends in the eyes of every beholder.

___ Mr Right {as opined by my humble self} is that man who communicates well, gives his lady that reassurance of self-worth and emotionally available.
If we have all assented to this...lets move on


She gets a lot of advances from "predators": Predators here are those men who are naturally attracted to beautiful ladies for all the wrong reasons in the world. Those kinda men that hunt women like, it's some game. Their ostensible aim is to love her, but their real aim is actually- "hit and run". When she falls prey twice/more, it is only normal that she becomes reticent about her feelings___ thereby shutting the good guy(s) out.

She Friend-zones a lot: The average beautiful girl can friend-zone even her ancestor. She has lots of men who are ever willing to be in that "zone" or hoping for her eyes/heart to open to what they feel for her. She doesn't hesitate to put them there. The truth 'bout FZ{Friend-zone} is, if one person is harbouring romantic thoughts, sooner or later......the relationship would reach that climax where it either metarmophose(s) into a "real relationship" or dissolve.
Ladies please stop calling your future husband "just a friend"___lolz.

Men see her as outta their League: The less attractive a guy is - the less likely the chances of him approaching a very attractive woman.
How many guys are attractive/courageous enough to ask out a beautiful woman? Lolz.
Ok, certainly there are but a handful.
So, basically {predators} see a lady's beauty as an invitation ___ while {Mr-Nice guy} sees it as a deterrent.

She has a turgid ego: I am sure we are all familiar with this. Beautiful women tend to come with this bombastic/bloated and swollen ego. They are very confident of their looks. They believe they can get a man, the very next minute. Thus their "maintenance/control manual" is very voluminous. This could make men avoid them, that's why you hear things like "fine girl-plenty trouble". She has this feeling that she is to you -what a hat-trick is to C.Ronaldo, so it's expected you treat her like a goddess.


Dearest beautiful ladies, swallow your pride more often____ it doesn't contain excess calories. kiss
can tell u r a lawyer.......u r generally on point sha!!

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Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by Ezibless: 8:33am On Dec 13, 2014
cupidhero:
cheesy
*grabs mic* Hey guys! Her prides is realy down!! She is ready for em lines now,who is gonna woo her first?

Lol,u get work o
Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by criuze(m): 8:34am On Dec 13, 2014
Ezibless:


You mean you went through the stress of checking out my pix?grin


You must be every hard working,i think i like yougrin:p


I haven't checked your pic. You comment is enough to know your image.
Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by Ezibless: 8:40am On Dec 13, 2014
criuze:



I haven't checked your pic. You comment is enough to know your image.


ok.







Thank jhu
Re: Why It's Hard For Beautiful Ladies To Find Mr. Right by onadana: 8:47am On Dec 13, 2014
[[/color]quote author=frisby post=28836086]

[color=#006600]
The thread says "mr right" not "boyfriends".
Pretty girls rarely lack in the "boyfriend" department Because most guys won't mind just dating one just for d thrill of it. Nothing serious and no long term value whatsoever. [/color]

So your whole theory of "assertiveness ", how does it fit into the entire picture?[color=#006600]


kissWell you have a point there,I agree entirely and share same View....the issue is most ladies are so blinded that they don't check the signs......what value had he added to your life that's very important?I have always emphasized the importance of parents meeting the male friends....if this dude is not genuine...he will be so uncomfortable with the setting and look for an excuse to flee.

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