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Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 12:31pm On Dec 16, 2014
WARNING: This thread is not for little kids.

Usually when assessing why a person cheated, the one who plays the role of the victim often abolishes all responsibility or fault leading to the events that transpired.

Stats often show reasons mostly fall around not giving the partner enough attention, abusing the partner in one way or the other, getting tired, just did it for the lols, etc. However in all these claims there is often one VERY common reason that never quite makes it out. Probably due to the cheater trying to be polite, which is unfortunate because as I have always said, over-politeness robs the other party of any room for improvement, no matter how uncomfortable the critique. The reason I'm about to speak of is even more common than the "publicized" reasons. I think it is so important a reason now that it can no longer be hidden or ignored, especially if it helps someone (with a vagina) out there understand what it means to your union when you neglect this very important thing.

So here goes. Chances are your husband cheated on you and doesn't touch you anymore because.... your pussy stink.
He's told you and pleaded with you countless times to address it, but you've failed to do anything about it. Thinking "if he loves me, that won't matter to him".

Nonsense.

Not just that he won't touch you, He CAN'T touch you because the smell so bad he is afraid to even get you excited lest you wreck the atmosphere and cause him intense olfactory distress, rendering his equipment useless.
He feels trapped and depressed that this moldy cesspool of rotten fish is the hole he has to look forward to for the rest of his life.
This WILL turn off any man with a working nose and you had best DEAL with it if you want to keep a man for the long haul.

A lot of time people say "Oh put some spice back in your marriage", "Work on roleplaying", etc. Well there ain't enough roleplay in the world to mask the foul odours that are expunged from some female Instruments. Ladies, there is a lot of activity going on down there and so it requires just as much more attention than what a man has.

I am sure I will hear someone say "He should be a man and tell her", but do you actually know if he did? We all know that when some women want to neglect themselves, she will do so with or without him telling her that she needs to fix certain things. It will likely even cause fight, hence she creating an environment were the man has little other alternative but to stray when constantly buffeted with other options in search of greener pastures.

Understand this women, IT IS NOT NORMAL OR NATURAL TO SMELL LIKE FISH even after showering. especially not in this day and age! It means you have an infection. To even try to counter this is like saying you don't need to brush your mouth before kissing your partner because that is your mouth's natural smell. And that if they love you, they would french kiss you anyway. undecided

Read up and research how to fix this very serious problem. Neglect is not an option. You cannot blame him for going for other alternatives when yours, the one he is supposed to be enjoying, perpetually smells like sewage! It is highly inconsiderate and it is, in itself, a form of sexual abuse.

I know a lot of females that specialize in not hearing word are going to come in here to run their lips pointlessly, but I'm only saying this to help y'all. This is one of the REALEST talks from a man you will ever find on this subject, so those who are wise will take it as gold. In fact, this is a more serious problem than putting on weight (if that is even a problem at all).

There will always be cheaters, but you don't have to make it hard for an honest partner to stay faithful to you by malevolently refusing to accept you have a serious problem that needs fixing when pointed out. If this is your problem, if your partner has brought this to your attention...swallow your pride, get help FAST AND MAKE IT APPARENT to your partner that you are working on it so he can at least see the light at the end of the tunnel.... otherwise you have only yourself to blame when things go south.

-2Buff

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 1:31pm On Dec 16, 2014
Commiserations bro, I feel ya concerns..


May thunder fire whatever ikpu that made you to type all these.

Maybe it's time for you to invest on gas masks.

Some girls can be careless though.

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 2:02pm On Dec 16, 2014
This is the reason why some guys never get sensible women who are willing to commit to them. If she refuses to do something about "her flaws", why not leave the relationship instead of cheat? undecided

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 2:06pm On Dec 16, 2014
Mondisweets:
This is the reason why some guys never get sensible women who are willing to commit to them. If she refuses to do something about "her flaws", why not leave the relationship instead cheat? undecided

Leave. Cheat. Does it really matter?

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 2:08pm On Dec 16, 2014
2buff:


Leave. Cheat. Does it really matter?
Would you rather have a girl who is no longer interested in you, simply leave or pretend to still love you and cheat on you?

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 2:14pm On Dec 16, 2014
Lol, lawd knows I've met a few chics in my lifetime with the most egregious putrid pu.ssy ever. I still don't know how folks walk around smelling foul, yet they can't look after themselves. Some chics just have no shame. If a girl's pu.ssy stink, you just have to tell her. That's what I do cos I've got a phobia for bad odour. You just can't come to my house, and stink up the whole place with ya pu.ssy. You'll be called out for it. grin

Anyway, I think multiple se.x partners can also cause pu.ssy odour. If ya gf or wife's pu.ssy suddenly starts smelling like decayed fish. It's plausible that she's cheating. So, it's fair game if the guy decides to start cheating as well. Poetic justice.

Regardless, I think guys need to start being more vocal about smelly pu.ssies. If a chic's pu.ssy stinks, just tell her straight to her face that her pu.ssy stinks.

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by veave(f): 2:18pm On Dec 16, 2014
If her hygiene is poor you tell her. If she refuses to change, leave her. But make sure you tell her the reason you are leaving her.

I have a fault, i'm blunt to a fault and don't know how to paint the story colorful to make it sweet. I would also appreciate someone who can kindly point out my faults. Instead of gossiping or having resentment.

Thank you.

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 2:18pm On Dec 16, 2014
Mondisweets:
Would you rather have a girl who is no longer interested in you, simply leave or pretend to still love you and cheat on you?

So by your logic, a messy divorce would be preferable?
And when they ask why, what will you then say? "irreconcilable differences" grin

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 2:19pm On Dec 16, 2014
Matured mind smiley
veave:
If her hygiene is poor you tell her. If she refuses to change, leave her. But make sure you tell her the reason you are leaving her.

I have a fault, i'm blunt to a fault and don't know how to paint the story colorful to make it sweet. I would also appreciate someone who can kindly point out my faults. Instead of gossiping or having resentment.

Thank you.

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 2:20pm On Dec 16, 2014
Just answer the question and stop diverting from the issue smiley
2buff:


So by your logic, a messy divorce would be preferable?
And when they ask why, what will you then say? grin

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 2:23pm On Dec 16, 2014
Mondisweets:
Just answer the question and stop diverting from the issue smiley

Why don't you start by answering mine and then you will know the response to mine.

Asking me first has nothing to do with it. You're the one that wants an answer.

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 2:30pm On Dec 16, 2014
I don't think we can have a normal marriage relationship, if he/she doesnt do anything about the body odour, its affecting our sex life. its simple and straightforward.
A matured person would communicate with his/her partner about sensitive stuff like that and try to help them fix it. If the other person refuses to do something about, then the other person cannot blame you for leaving if you decide to do so.
Now can you answer me.
2buff:


Why don't you start by answering mine and then you will know the response to mine.

Asking me first has nothing to do with it. You're the one that wants an answer.

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Truckpusher(m): 2:33pm On Dec 16, 2014
SirShymex:
Lol, lawd knows I've met a few chics in my lifetime with the most egregious putrid pu.ssy ever. I still don't know how folks walk around smelling foul, yet they can't look after themselves. Some chics just have no shame. If a girl's pu.ssy stink, you just have to tell her. That's what I do cos I've got a phobia bad odour. You just can't come to my house, and stink up the whole place with ya pu.ssy. You'll be called out it. grin

Anyway, I think multiple se.x partners can also cause pu.ssy odour. If ya gf or wife's pu.ssy suddenly starts smelling like decayed fish. It's plausible that she's cheating. So, it's fair game if the guy decides to start cheating as well. Poetic justice.

Regardless, I think guys need to start being more vocal about smelly pu.ssies. If a chic's pu.ssy stinks, just tell her straight to her face that her pu.ssy stinks.
Sleeping with too many partners is not the only factor that can cause a puccy to develop bad odor.There are whole lot of factors that causes this unfortunate situation.
Infections from childbirth can cause it as well.
Meanwhile,it is natural for the puccy to maintain some form of smell for it to be palatable grin
Who wants an over washed puccy for dinner? cheesy

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 2:35pm On Dec 16, 2014
Truckpusher:
Sleeping with too many partners is not the only factor that can cause a puccy to develop bad odor.There are whole lot of factors that causes this unfortunate situation.
Infections from childbirth can cause it as well.
Meanwhile,it is natural for the puccy to maintain some form of smell for it to be palatable grin
Who wants an over washed puccy for dinner? cheesy

I know, just saying it's plausible. grin

Nah, I don't want smelly pu.ssy - good pu.ssy should always smell like water.

Personally, I can't stand odour...once the pu.ssy stinks, it kills the mood.

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by armyofone(m): 2:35pm On Dec 16, 2014
Ladies should know how to clean down there...I mean cut your nails, deep your hand down and wash grin cheesy
Don't be scared...wash it like your life is being threatened by 2buffs grin
See ur PP if you think something is wrong.

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 2:40pm On Dec 16, 2014
If that's the case, then smelly balls and mouth might be part of the reason women cheat too or not? undecided

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 2:42pm On Dec 16, 2014
Mondisweets:
I don't think we can have a normal marriage relationship, if he/she doesnt do anything about the body odour, its affecting our sex life. its simple and straightforward.
A matured person would communicate with his/her partner about sensitive stuff like that and try to help them fix it. If the other person refuses to do something about, then the other person cannot blame you for leaving if you decide to do so.
Now can you answer me.

As one matures, you begin to understand that life is not all white and black. The thing with a man is he can rightly divide between sex and love. You women mostly can't and so have a hard time understanding this. That he is forced to seek "relief" elsewhere does not mean he is not in love with his wife. He just simply needs the sex to function, and thus, if the woman is serious, she would do all she can not to force him down that path. Better sef that he lets her know that "this is what your funk is forcing me to do".

Now ofcourse if it gets consistent and she still doesn't intend to see the light, then its best to end it, but the first couple times while being forced to cope with impedances from the woman's end to him getting the sex from her is no true cause for alarm. A divorce need not be a knee-jerk reaction to every little drama. That's how marriages last. Just being real.

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Truckpusher(m): 2:42pm On Dec 16, 2014
SirShymex:


I know, just saying it's plausible. grin

Nah, I don't want smelly pu.ssy - good pu.ssy should always smell like water.

Personally, I can't stand odour...once the pu.ssy stinks, it kills the mood.
The puccy has a smell which is natural and acts as a kind of aphrodisiac.
I like it when this natural smell is not tampered with. cheesy
A totally Odorless puccy is a no go area for me. grin
In abo.ki man's accent....*I like am por natural odor*. cheesy

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 2:45pm On Dec 16, 2014
This is all i asked. Would you rather have a woman leave you or pretend and cheat on you? Could you kindly pick one. smiley
2buff:
[s]

As one matures, you begin to understand that life is not all white and black. The thing with a man is he can rightly divide between sex and love. You women mostly can't and so have a hard time understanding this. That he is forced to seek "relief" elsewhere does not mean he is not in love with his wife. He just simply needs the sex to function, and thus, if the woman is serious, she would do all she can not to force him down that path. Better sef that he lets her know that "this is what your funk is forcing me to do".

Now ofcourse if it gets consistent and she still doesn't intend to see the light, then its best to end it, but the first couple times while being forced to cope with impedances from the woman's end to him getting the sex from her is no true cause for alarm. A divorce need not be a knee-jerk reaction to every little drama. That's how marriages last. Just being real.[/s]

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 2:46pm On Dec 16, 2014
Truckpusher:
The puccy has a smell which is natural and acts as a kind of aphrodisiac.
I like it when this natural smell is not tampered with. cheesy
A totally Odorless puccy is a no go area for me. grin
In abo.ki man's accent....*I like am por natural odor*. cheesy

Bwahahaha

Each to this own...when pu.ssy stinks, it's highly problematic. grin

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 2:46pm On Dec 16, 2014
Truckpusher:
The puccy has a smell which is natural and acts as a kind of aphrodisiac.
I like it when this natural smell is not tampered with. cheesy
A totally Odorless puccy is a no go area for me. grin
In abo.ki man's accent....*I like am por natural odor*. cheesy




Hmmmm.. .. trucky you don spoil finish
Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Truckpusher(m): 2:46pm On Dec 16, 2014
byvan:
If that's the case, then smelly balls and mouth might be part of the reason women cheat too or not? undecided
Madam, this class today is about smelly puccy, when we get to smelly balls an automatic reminder would be sent to you. cheesy

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 2:46pm On Dec 16, 2014
byvan:
If that's the case, then smelly balls and mouth might be part of the reason women cheat too or not? undecided

As if girls don't also have smelly mouth. I believe I covered that up there.

That aside, if a guy perpetually refuses to take care of his hygiene too and the girl keeps telling him but he does nothing about it, he has himself to blame when she stops getting her thing from him.

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 2:48pm On Dec 16, 2014
Mondisweets:
This is all i asked. Would you rather have a woman leave you or pretend and cheat on you? Could you kindly pick one. smiley

I gave you the answer befitting your question. read and comprehend.
Men and women are different.

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 2:49pm On Dec 16, 2014
2buff:


As if girls don't also have smelly mouth. I believe I covered that up there.

That aside, if a guy perpetually refuses to take care of his hygiene too and the girl keeps telling him but he does nothing about it, he has himself to blame when she stops getting her thing from him.



What happens to calling it quit? If the person is so smelly, while deceive them that you are there when you are not?
Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 2:50pm On Dec 16, 2014
Even as a lady I cant stand the odor of some ladies. Keep it clean ladies don't give them more reasons to cheat.

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 2:50pm On Dec 16, 2014
byvan:




What happens to calling it quit? If the person is so smelly, while deceive them that you are there when you are not?

All of the above happens.
Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 2:51pm On Dec 16, 2014
2buff:


All of the above happens.


Ok
Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Truckpusher(m): 2:54pm On Dec 16, 2014
SirShymex:


Bwahahaha

Each to this own...when pu.ssy stinks, it's highly problematic. grin
There is a difference between a bad smell and a natural smell.
Your expensive perfume stinks/smells but you still wear them,the puccy has a strong natural romantic smell that increases your sensory organs which releases a certain hormone thereby helping your libido.
Most of this natural smell do not come as soon as one gets undressed but will come naturally when you hit the pay zone this is normal.
Boy, say 'no' to over washed puccy, it's not natural anymore. grin

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Truckpusher(m): 2:56pm On Dec 16, 2014
brito:





Hmmmm.. .. trucky you don spoil finish
We are adults.So, we can talk about sex with consenting adults too.

Abi you hear say I be saint? cheesy

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Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 2:57pm On Dec 16, 2014
Truckpusher:
We are adults.So, we can talk about sex with consenting adults too.

Abi you hear say I be saint? cheesy
Re: Why He Cheated: Your kitty Stinks by Nobody: 3:06pm On Dec 16, 2014
Truckpusher:
There is a difference between a bad smell and a natural smell.
Your expensive perfume stinks/smells but you still wear them,the puccy has a strong natural romantic smell that increases your sensory organs which releases a certain hormone thereby helping your libido.
Most of this natural smell do not come as soon as one gets undressed but will come naturally when you hit the pay zone this is normal.
Boy, say 'no' to over washed puccy, it's not natural anymore. grin

I think you missed the point of what the OP was alluding to.

Pu.ssy in its normal state, even when it's wet, should NEVER stink.

What are you're alluding to is the natural smell that comes with penetration, as the vaginal lubricants start to ooze out, especially the one that looks like mucus. That's pounding effects. grin

But when you smell fish - now that's a fvcked up pu.ssy! grin

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