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Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Eshyy(m): 7:04pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Who been dey wash him clothes before una start to date? Who dey wash ur own clothes before? Is this even an issue? Na wa ooo 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by freecocoa(f): 7:29pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
honeric01:Lol , that's what it's supposed to be na. |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by honeric01(m): 7:37pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
freecocoa: Good one for you there, btw, you turned down my request in style abi? not the way you're seeing it o.. |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by delors(m): 7:43pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Elesta: Thank u o jare my sister |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by freecocoa(f): 7:51pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
honeric01:Lol, which request are you talking about? |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by nomabeeee(f): 7:51pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Ezedon:exactly wat I always say..yes u re in a serious relationship..dating isn't marriage..u re jst his girlfriend and you should act like one..he cannot enjoy d benefits of marriage..I dnt concur to a lady doing a laundry job for her man.if he cannot wash his clothes..then he shuld take it to the dry cleaner..infact if not washing my man's clothes will cause him not to give me gifts then I dnt give a dame about it..this is my opinion..yes most men might not admit it openely but they actually love ladies who have principles.. 3 Likes |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by honeric01(m): 7:56pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
freecocoa: Sent you a pm some weeks/months ago. |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by mayorall(m): 8:05pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
I guess this depend on individual culture. If you refused to wash my cloths while dating, it means you won't wash it when I married you. Dating is like examination in which your certificate determine if you are qualified or not for marriage. He is not supposed to tell you to wash before you do. My lady washes my cloths without telling her to. I beg her sometimes to wash, I don't take it as her duty. Ireee o. 1 Like |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Nobody: 8:29pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
holatin: As if being single is a sin 5 Likes |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by VocalWalls: 8:32pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Funny, Even now that he can get a cheap washing machine for 20k? 2 Likes
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Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by OkikiOluwa1(m): 8:32pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Ogoanita:Is it that it's too dirty, too tough or too much to wash? Or you don't v time to wash? Last Bullet Explain berra maybe my advice may help you. 1 Like |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Ogoanita(f): 8:33pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Ok i have heard you all, tnx for all your wonderful contributions guess it up to me to decide now. |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by freecocoa(f): 8:34pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
honeric01:No vex bro, I hardly check pms, send anowa one na. |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Ogoanita(f): 8:35pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
[quote author=OkikiOluwa1 post=28972517] Is it that it's too dirty, too tough or too much to wash? Or you don't v time to wash? Last Bullet Explain berra washing is not jst my thing i enjoy cooking and every other house work |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Ogoanita(f): 8:37pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
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Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Ogoanita(f): 8:40pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Omotolu:washing a mans cloth does not guarantee a good wife 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by trublvr(f): 8:43pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
OP, do as he says. Wash those clothes sharply! Its a submissive attitude that a woman needs to cultivate before marriage. Whatever he tells you to do, do and don't complain. When you finish the laundry, sweep his house, polish his shoes and wipe his arse for him also! And stop complaining. You are a woman, therefore doing laundry is encoded in your DNA. Its all part of showing off your "submissive" side... |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Longstride: 8:46pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
rigarmortis: I guess your mom is a 'good girl' to your dad huh? 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by OkikiOluwa1(m): 8:47pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Ogoanita:Then its because you are lazy to wash (no insult intended). Last Bullet Try using washing machine or patronize dry cleaners |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Ogoanita(f): 8:55pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Hemanwel:you know that adage "person wey the ask question no dey lose road? Anyway i hrd my reasons for asking this questions, is not about beign indecisiv or anything, tnx for your comment anyways |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Ogoanita(f): 8:56pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
trublvr: trublvr: |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by honeric01(m): 8:57pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
freecocoa: Check your email, it should still be there i believe.... |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by freecocoa(f): 8:58pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
honeric01:Okay sir. |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Nobody: 9:01pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Ogoanita:...I did not write that it could guarantee a good wife. |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Ogoanita(f): 9:02pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
nikkymehmeh:am a student and i work as well so i takecare of my self except for the little help he gives here and there das jst it |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by bukatyne(f): 9:03pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
manny4life: I have gotten a new one... Cooking, washing and cleaning = love Maids and dry cleaners must be the best lovers then 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Ogoanita(f): 9:04pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Omotolu:my dear by your comment that wht you mean, btw tnx for your comment |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by bukatyne(f): 9:06pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
@OP: Why don't the both of you wash the clothes together? |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Ogoanita(f): 9:08pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Goldenboy007:am a student, i pay my bills in school and i work as well, so nobody is playing a "daughter or father" role here |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by Ogoanita(f): 9:11pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
bukatyne:anyways recently he washed why i rinsed, i talked about buying a washing machine if eventually we get married and guess what? He called me a western woman, any ways i dont want to start what i cant finish so das d deal 1 Like |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by bukatyne(f): 9:19pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Ogoanita: Then he has issues with selective 'westernization'. What prompted the issue of you washing alone since you both wash together? How far are you gone in the relationship? Is he the type of man who believes a husband should not do chores? Notice I said husband meaning what he does now is irrelevant. Expecting your answers. 1 Like |
Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by adebisicutie: 9:23pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Ogoanita: You are right, don't start what you can't finish. Let him accept you for who you are or move on, what's wrong with being a western woman? If the hand washing is so easy why is he running away from washing his own clothes? 2 Likes |
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