The poster shld tel d girl to stop. Forget d idea of telling ur wife as suggested here. That will bring mistrust. She is still a lttle girl and may be thinking she pleasing u. You shld also stop all green light. U shld try this first as evry body deserves a second chance. Udo

Acekidc4:


Pls kindly answer me; wich religion re u?

thats the problem. the bible is not a religion. the LORD did not bring religion. the bible is a HOLY CONSTITUTION we are guided by. the devil made it into church buildings and religion

james 1 vs 27 Pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father is this, To visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction, and to keep himself unspotted from the world. <<< this is what God calls the only religion he wants you partaking in. fatherless and widows means the powerless people of society. the only religion God wants you doing is religiously helping the powerless people around you. thats GODS RELIGION FOR YOU. not your demonic dens of iniquity you call churches

ANAMBRA11:
When next she tempts you,grab her,strip her and squeeeze those oranges,then suck them,then take her to your room remove those panties and fu ck her til she bleeds, if you don't do it,you will catch konji and die

sukkot:
thats the problem. the bible is not a religion. the LORD did not bring religion. the bible is a HOLY CONSTITUTION we are guided by. the devil made it into church buildings and religion

james 1 vs 27 Pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father is this, To visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction, and to keep himself unspotted from the world. <<< this is what God calls the only religion he wants you partaking in. fatherless and widows means the powerless people of society. the only religion God wants you doing is religiously helping the powerless people around you. thats GODS RELIGION FOR YOU. not your demonic dens of iniquity you call churches

I undastand u well but Wich Religion write d Bible!

Misogynist2014:

Can't stop laughing

As a pastor, u ought to know better, I know people will say things; like "we are not perfect", "body no be fire wood" etc, but Christ admonishes us to be dead to the flesh. Immediately she did that the first time, you should have called her to order. CALL URSELF TO ORDER.

Chibest2000:

Ok am d secondary OP, now can u pop up with ur comments? Tnx

no sir.....i don't need the secondary op.....i need the primary op......if possible the nursery op.......i wan advice am.....den from there know if the thing dey sweet to do with housemaid

Very interesting story

Super story plus Ikebe super, since you want advice pls make sure you dey hammer the thing until she get Bele foolish he goat, ppl like you go Bleep their own child.

Acekidc4:


I undastand u well but Wich Religion write d Bible!

[b] bros, no religion wrote the bible. the bible was written by illuminated celestial men ( meaning men controlled by the spirit of God in egypt ) after the fall of the world into darkness. before then they didnt need the bible because these celestial men controlled the world ( what is called garden of eden ) but after the world fell into darkness, they needed to write it all down to bring them into remembrance of how they are supposed to be living. so these celestial men ( angels of the LORD, which angel just means messenger ) in egypt wrote down the bible ( what is allegorically presented as moses going to collect the commandments from God from a burning bush etc ). so after writing these scrolls. several empires came and went. babylonian then medopersian then greek and finally roman. it was during the roman empire that the duty of getting the second fruits from the gentiles was done and for this the scribes of that time wrote the new testament. so at this point they are just a collection of books written by scribes. no religion attached. then the white man came into power. got in control of all the books. compiled them and then , you know the white man is crafty. he saw it for its true potential and how this could be used to control the world. so he started building institutions and roman catholic churches. and under the white man did everything you see today develop. so to answer your question, it was not written for religious purposes. it was written as a holy constitution to guide all men. and then out of that came the muslim religion. quran was written out of the bible[/b]

eagleeye2:
Ladies are just saying "house girl
dirty", "smelly house girl", "stooping low" bla blah.
This.particular house girl is a distant relation and she will soon
secure admission.
Abeggi....... A saying goes thus, "no matter how a lady is, if you climb
her you will get to know that something sweet is inside of her"

A distant relation? the more reason you should have the instinct of
protecting her rather than jumping into bed together.what manner of men
are ye?

ANAMBRA11:
When next she tempts you,grab her,strip her and squeeeze those oranges,then suck them,then take her to your room remove those panties and fu ck her til she bleeds, if you don't do it,you will catch konji and die

ure a damn bad Sombody . I nominate. U as the next special adviser to the president on 'crucial issues'

Pastor of which church??

sukkot:
[b] bros, no religion wrote the bible. the bible was written by illuminated celestial men ( meaning men controlled by the spirit of God in egypt ) after the fall of the world into darkness. before then they didnt need the bible because these celestial men controlled the world ( what is called garden of eden ) but after the world fell into darkness, they needed to write it all down to bring them into remembrance of how they are supposed to be living. so these celestial men ( angels of the LORD, which angel just means messenger ) in egypt wrote down the bible ( what is allegorically presented as moses going to collect the commandments from God from a burning bush etc ). so after writing these scrolls. several empires came and went. babylonian then medopersian then greek and finally roman. it was during the roman empire that the duty of getting the second fruits from the gentiles was done and for this the scribes of that time wrote the new testament. so at this point they are just a collection of books written by scribes. no religion attached. then the white man came into power. got in control of all the books. compiled them and then , you know the white man is crafty. he saw it for its true potential and how this could be used to control the world. so he started building institutions and roman catholic churches. and under the white man did everything you see today develop. so to answer your question, it was not written for religious purposes. it was written as a holy constitution to guide all men. and then out of that came the muslim religion. quran was written out of the bible[/b]

Waoh! Den just say it in plain language 4 evry1 2 hear, dat any kind of religion is totaly fake abi. Is dat nt wat ure tryin 2 say. Say it n I won't argue again.

Acekidc4:


Waoh! Den just say it in plain language 4 evry1 2 hear, dat any kind of religion is totaly fake abi. Is dat nt wat ure tryin 2 say. Say it n I won't argue again.

every religion you see out here is fake and is by the devil and used to lure people into darkness. the road to the truth is narrow and only few will find it. today is your chance to get that truth. ever notice how the most religious countries are the most chaotic and fvcked up ? such as nigeria ? all the religious demons are spiritually destroying the country by bringing negative energy and negative repercussions from God to the country

Chibest2000:
Source: Sweetdating

Sorry nt really me! Copied it 4rm a website n thought advises n suggestions could help someone here who might b in dsame shoe with d original poster. Tnx!!

send her packing out of the house and explain to your wife.

3 weeks she was hugging you and you let it happen? For 3 good weeks. Hian bros, I can only imagine all the nymanyama she has been putting in your food so that you will love her.
Next thing is she may try to remove your wife from the picture so that you will have time for her.

jahbiz:
A Pastor that comes to Nairaland to get advice on a simple issue like this should be demoted to a mere Sunday School student.

tanks 4 dat words.

This is how most women cause havoc in their marriages by themselves without even realising it.

Your husband tells you to send the house girl home and all you could think about is the fact that he wouldn't want to pay her school fees...really??

And this is why I'd install hidden cameras in my home without my husband's knowledge, becos I won't be doing it to monitor the housegirl and kids alone

alexis007:
no sir.....i don't need the secondary op.....i need the primary op......if possible the nursery op.......i wan advice am.....den from there know if the thing dey sweet to do with housemaid

Hmm! Ur advice must b an expensive one, bt am afraid d OP is nt on nairaland, notwithstanding, I tink I can reach him with ur advice if u wouldn't mind?

sukkot:
every religion you see out here is fake and is by the devil and used to lure people into darkness. the road to the truth is narrow and only few will find it. today is your chance to get that truth. ever notice how the most religious countries are the most chaotic and fvcked up ? such as nigeria ? all the religious demons are spiritually destroying the country by bringing negative energy and negative repercussions from God to the country

Tank u so Much! Den wat's d point worshipin any type of god! Phew. U knw wat, u just comfirmed it dat Atheists re rite after all. Up Atheisim.

bisous:


These is not a question of who they meet in trouble its a question of people understanding that the easiest way to mislead others is to mention I am pastor this or G.O that especially because that way many like who I used to be won't question their motives.......

in time of distress, we need people to console...Likewise these pastors....We are all humans u know.

beckyomas:

You no hear say the guy na pastor? Lol.
Anyway, it's an old story, them dey find our mouth.

okk the pastor grabbed her.
guess he was only tryna cast few demons thats all.
watsop.

Flee from every appearances of evil/sin... if u fall into her trap just by sleeping with her just for 5 mins, DAT single act can take a lifetime to correct... don't because of few minutes pleasure cage your destiny till eternity ... fleeee

What kind of advice is that? He should follow his confuheart? Hjaaaanba

IKJ66:
Follow ur heart !!!!!

Acekidc4:


Tank u so Much! Den wat's d point worshipin any type of god! Phew. U knw wat, u just comfirmed it dat Atheists re rite after all. Up Atheisim.

[b]ahhhh dont forget you are a spiritual being. your flesh is just soil. your spirit is electromagnetic energy. your spirit stores up all your trangressions and then you will pay for it. so you worship God by helping the poor and powerless. this is how you worship God and build good karma. you also worship God by studying the bible to show yourself approved to him. study the bible and be a good righteous person. this is how you build good karma with God which would eventually pay off when his kingdom is established on earth. remember, your spirit never dies and you will return to the world again in another body as a brand new baby after you die and have rested in the spirit world for a short time. the spirit in you is tens of thousands of years old. you have lived several lives before this one and will live several lives after this one. so you always want to build good karma so that nothing evil happens to you because every evil thing that happens to people is from God and not satan as the lying church has deceived people to think[/b]

isaiah 45 vs 7 I make peace, and create evil: I the LORD do all these things. << he creates evil

proverbs 16 vs 4 The LORD hath made all things for himself: yea, even the wicked for the day of evil. << he has made wicked people for when he needs them for evil like the popo or armed robber who he will send to kill people. these are evil angels

amos 3 vs 6 shall there be evil in a city, and the LORD hath not done it? << the LORD asking you shall there be evil anywhere in the world and he hasnt done it ?

deut 28 vs 60 Moreover he will bring upon thee all the diseases of Egypt, which thou wast afraid of; and they shall cleave unto thee.
Also every sickness, and every plague, which is not written in the book of this law, them will the Lord bring upon thee, until thou be destroyed. <<< sickness disease ebola aids etc. na BABA GOD DEY USE AM PUNISH PEOPLE. NOTHING IN LIFE IS COINCIDENCE

PROVERBS 78 VS 49 He cast upon them the fierceness of his anger, wrath, and indignation, and trouble, by sending evil angels among them. <<< sending evil people around the world to discipline people who have commited sin. like he fit send woman into ya life who will eventually take your life etc etc. NOTHING IN LIFE IS COINCIDENCE

The only way to overcome temptation is to run from it. Read the story of Joseph in Potifa's house in Egypt. He had to run and even leave his property(shirt). The only way you can run from commiting this act is by telling your wife the truth which she will help in doing away with the house girl. If you dont tell her and she get to hear it from another source your marriage will be at stake. These days even walls have ears.
Two things are at stake here your pastorial work and your marriage. This is the plan of the devil to bring you down completely so resist him.

Do her. Cos the truth is your wife doesnt care about you. Women who are jealous and protective would pick up cues no matter how subtle. The fact that you suggested the girl leave shouldve rang alarm bells.

Either your wife is more into her career than you. . . Or someone is distracting her.

Either way, you lose.

Do the house girl.

nacosprof:
I Love you swt hrt, plsss give me a contact

Thanks but no thanks you have asked to marry almost half of Naira land ladies you want to add me to your list huh,abeg leave me for my lane oooh

Hmmm.....pastor telling lies to his wife! He is enouraging the house virl...silence is consent. He is enjoying the views and embraces. If he is serious he can always shoot video of her trying to seduce him and play it for his wife. His mind is already made up to have a fling....sooner or later...regardless of what we say.