ladymichael:



Was it? My apologies. Am deeply sorry.was just too surprised that at that age and in this era. one is still insisting on a certain tribe to marry.
My fiancee is calabar and am from a totally different tribe yet he has all that I want in a man so it puzzles me when I see people being tribalistic on marriage

Once again,my apologies

No need for that, you haven't done or said anything wrong, you don't need to apologise to any backward thinking individual here

Pls next time u sand a topic like this, do sand all detail eg:

Age
Location
Qualification
State of origin
Picture etc ok

Rxpetite:

so you have met the lady in question? cos op never said anything about yanga

If I may hv to respond to your statement, base on the person you quoted, the OP of this topic might not have made measure of "Yanga" but we all know that 90% of unmarried ladies thisdays who have reached the age of 35-40yrs unmarried are caused by "yanga" @ an early age, perhaps from 21-26yrs wen they are still shinning, you see ladies are like this "abiscous flower" @ an early age, dey shine but @ night time dey wider, that is a good example of a lady, but most ladies dont know this, ask those lady that uses bleaching cream.....

aniffy4eva:
@OP

Please tell your friend I said...

Marriage isn't a destination. When you set your mind on marriage, what tends to happen is that you "screen" every male that approaches you through your "husband" criteria - and where he falls short, your mind puts him in a box potentially missing out on other possibilities that could have happened.

My advice - keep an open mind. Have fun. Break some rules. Enjoy life. Fall in love. Fall out of love. If it happens fine, if it doesn't, no worry. Laugh uncontrollably. Never regret anything that made you smile.... and most importantly. ... BE HAPPY!

People that think life is a Hollywood movie

She might be the type that feel age was on their side in those days. and any one that comes her way, she just snub
One day she woke up and discovered she was 35. most of the ladies guilty of building wall around themselves are those ones studying medicine. yes they are trying to concentrate on their studies etc. but bummmmm, they are 35 to 40.

just tell her to act normal as if nothing is happening but shes should not forget to attend functions like wedding, birthday parties,churches not white garment. no club and she should smile a little. that opens window of opportunity.

Kirinwa:


Lol. He was just being sarcastic. Anyway what was your attitude to men when you when you were 25?

Hmmmm........am 26 and engaged.
Last year sha, that's when I was 25, was still posing for my fiance till I sure say da guy dey serious.

So....that's the attitude I had at 25


Lol.....happy holidays, love. Don't eat too much

KAYCEEJUNIOR:
SMH, your level of reasoning is extremely poor, well I thought you are sensitive never knew that you are such a jeck and gulible, are you the one looking for a wife? how does tribalism comes to ones choice of marriage? just wondering how some people reason through their nostril......

dude raise your hand up high and strike it on your bottle shaped head..maybe you fit reason like human being...retarded kid seeking for attention..if I slap u your ancestors go feel dizzy.

Genea:
not everyone is meant to marry,u know

so are u among those who won't marry

KAYCEEJUNIOR:
SMH, your level of reasoning is extremely poor, well I thought you are sensitive never knew that you are such a jeck and gulible, are you the one looking for a wife? how does tribalism comes to ones choice of marriage? just wondering how some people reason through their nostril......

Having checked your signature, I shake my head for you

with this your level of reasoning, how will a sane person who has witnessed your stupidity on this forum, ever employ or inform you about any employment opportunity?

I just hope you don't end up being a single, bitter, broke, and jobless man at 60

ladymichael:
I really need advise from especially the men

My colleague is gonna be 35 in a few months and is not married or even have toasters. She has reached a point where she doesn't even think about it.
She says she sometimes asks herself on why she's still single and concludes that maybe she's not supposed to ever marry.

I really feel sorry for her but don't know how to advise her.

Please what could be the issue? Abd how to I advise her?

Where are the vickyyb s of this world?

ladymichael:
I really need advise from especially the men

My colleague is gonna be 35 in a few months and is not married or even have toasters. She has reached a point where she doesn't even think about it.
She says she sometimes asks herself on why she's still single and concludes that maybe she's not supposed to ever marry.

I really feel sorry for her but don't know how to advise her.

Please what could be the issue? Abd how to I advise her?

It's her type that bounces guys wen D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ come wen she was in her 20s.

I have a cousin like that, she is in her early 30s, when she was in her early 20s she rejected almost every guy dat chyked her

@OP

Your friend is not the only one facing this problem coz a lot of ladies out there are in the same shoes. I have close cousins who are above 35 sef. Foe example, in the compound where I live, the BQ (four rooms) is being occupied by four different ladies who are above 35 or even 40; and non of them is married.

So, the problem is not peculiar to your friend. It's just that men are everywhere but hubbys are very scarce to find these days. I blame it mostly on the harsh economic realities on ground and the attitude of some of our ladies who would rather remain single than settle with a man that is yet to make it.

I see alot of unmarried older women around my neighbourhood and in my church. I begin to wonder what the problem is, not that they are not pretty. I have come to the conclusion that not every one is meant to be married, thats why we see alot of brocken homes these days.

dearestaramide:



Mscheeeeeeewww. Very rude tribalistic thing. Get off this topic, jor

who is this one? mtcheew

Her picture or no comments?

ladymichael:
I really need advise from especially the men

My colleague is gonna be 35 in a few months and is not married or even have toasters. She has reached a point where she doesn't even think about it.
She says she sometimes asks herself on why she's still single and concludes that maybe she's not supposed to ever marry.

I really feel sorry for her but don't know how to advise her.

Please what could be the issue? Abd how to I advise her?

Her friends, like you, are more concerned for her than she is for herself. She probably never wants to get married. Respect her choice and leave her alone

35years and no toaster?something is wrong...she needs to visit prayer city

macdon4all:
so are u among those who won't marry

if i marry or i dont,i will just make sure am happy and i wont get bothered abt it cos marriage doesnt guarantee happiness,i lv ma peace more dan anytin

ladymichael:
I really need advise from especially the men

My colleague is gonna be 35 in a few months and is not married or even have toasters. She has reached a point where she doesn't even think about it.
She says she sometimes asks herself on why she's still single and concludes that maybe she's not supposed to ever marry.

I really feel sorry for her but don't know how to advise her.

Please what could be the issue? Abd how to I advise her?

tell her to run straight to mountain of fire and miracles ministry for prayers and deliverance

@duni04

duni04:

People that think life is a Hollywood movie

Just because yours is shitty doesn't mean others aren't having lives "better than Hollywood movies".

Get out more often.

ladymichael:


Excuse me? My level of reasoning? You asked me if a lady is IBO so that you can match make and yet u insult me for telling you tribe doesn't matter? My GOD.

Do have a blessed holiday

Sweetheart, you should not have gratified him with a response in the first place. If he did not notice tribalisim in his suggestion, then I see no reason to banter with a hereditary bigot.

ladymichael:


Excuse me? My level of reasoning? You asked me if a lady is IBO so that you can match make and yet u insult me for telling you tribe doesn't matter? My GOD.

Do have a blessed holiday

Mature Reply...Nice one..

frustratedman:
I WILL MARRY HER IF I HAVE MORE DETAILS

lol u won marry her abi u won frustrate her More like ur name goes

ladymichael:
I really need advise from especially the men

My colleague is gonna be 35 in a few months and is not married or even have toasters. She has reached a point where she doesn't even think about it.
She says she sometimes asks herself on why she's still single and concludes that maybe she's not supposed to ever marry.

I really feel sorry for her but don't know how to advise her.

Please what could be the issue? Abd how to I advise her?

ladymichael:
I really need advise from especially the men

My colleague is gonna be 35 in a few months and is not married or even have toasters. She has reached a point where she doesn't even think about it.
She says she sometimes asks herself on why she's still single and concludes that maybe she's not supposed to ever marry.

I really feel sorry for her but don't know how to advise her.

Please what could be the issue? Abd how to I advise her?

HUSBAND FOR SALE !!!

It's that toaster part that is serious. its normal for any lady not to married at that age but not having even a toaster is what I don't understand.

But don't worry she will marry 2015.

Genea:
if i marry or i dont,i will just make sure am happy and i wont get bothered abt it cos marriage doesnt guarantee happiness,i lv ma peace more dan anytin

But u will be having se.x right? with who?

Jamean:
She should also change that mindset of "maybe marriage is not for her".

Some ladies resort to this after selecting suitors like beans and ignoring them in their 20s

your brain is working

samflexxy:
toast her now

We should stop all these childish talk. Somebody is seeking for advice, if we dont have anything to contribute just chill, read and learn.

Genea:
if i marry or i dont,i will just make sure am happy and i wont get bothered abt it cos marriage doesnt guarantee happiness,i lv ma peace more dan anytin

most times na we dey use our own hand cause problem for ourselves,tomorrow now we go dey cry no husband

ladymichael:
I really need advise from especially the men

My colleague is gonna be 35 in a few months and is not married or even have toasters. She has reached a point where she doesn't even think about it.
She says she sometimes asks herself on why she's still single and concludes that maybe she's not supposed to ever marry.

I really feel sorry for her but don't know how to advise her.

Please what could be the issue? Abd how to I advise her?

She is the cause. Ask me how and why?
1- Her type was to busy forming big girl at her early twenties!
2- probably in line of making money forgetting about relationship
3- don't make friends with males.
4- maybe she don't maintain herself well enough
5- lazy to walk to a guy and confess her feelings.


If am wrong prove me please! Because am sure here in nigeria. Even the most ugliest has a toast. So she is probably not the most ugliest even if she is ugly.