It is nt a must deal, dat girl didn't luv u 2 d core. I blv u r a gud spender dats y she has bn coming.

twerkjack:
UR AN ID!OT! SO COS SHES NOT A PROSTITUTE, SHE SHOULD GIVE U YANSH, AND U CANT GIVE HER COMMON TP. MEN ARE SO FREAKING USELESS GOSH

My sister, na so we see am o. She is a prostitute if she ask for money but not a prostitute if she sleep with him for free.
Tell that to her father. Sir your daughter is not a LovePeddler o, I mount her for free. lets see if he will see it as possitive recomendation.
Many men are selfih sha. Many men will be pissed if their babe says no sex cos she isnt a LovePeddler but will be happy if she bangs them for free and says she isnt a LovePeddler.

Pain:


Confirmed bozo

ANU MPAM.

I dnt even wait for her to ask me 4 transport fare.... I jus giv her my wallet n let her use her hand do herself...... She's n understandin type, she doesn't go pass d T-fare

The OP must be dating one selfish, broke ass girl.

ochilikoko:
My girl only spends 150 naira to and fro when she pays a visit to my house.

The last time she came, I refused to give her transport fare as I normally do, and when got to her house, she sent me a provocative text message.

So, must I give her the money every time?

What's wrong with paying her transport fare?

Dude ur girl came to fucck, the least u cud do is give her tfare, or u wana keep fuccking for free cos she ur gf? She gonn leave u for the highest bidder. He aint even happy she aint asking for money to fix her hair. Dat girl she a low end babe. Treat her ryt b4 she leaves u

Nope,you shouldnt give her everytime..it is a relationship that involve two pple nt just one person..if she keep expecting u to give her money everytime den she aint really committed to it..

ochilikoko:
My girl only spends 150 naira to and fro when she pays a visit to my house.

The last time she came, I refused to give her transport fare as I normally do, and when got to her house, she sent me a provocative text message.

So, must I give her the money every time?

Guy, right from 1700, real men have being wooing women with gifts and money. Even when you go to her parents house, you dare not go empty handed. If you find it difficult to show your love and care for her well being, then you are not ready to be in a relationship. Don't mind all the males here talkin rubbish, most of them are broke ass dudes that are only in relationships with their pornographic dvds that's why they can't think straight like real men should.

Dis Dude must be an Arsenal Fan.....so STINGY

sexyseun:
The OP isn't worried about giving the girl the TF, he is only concerned that the TF is just 150 naira which the girl should be able to have "sometimes" @ OP: Dont give her TF all the time, if she sends you a bad sms next time, gladly know she is only after your money, because i know you wont give her exactly 150 when she visits, it might be 1000 or 2000. Girls should sometimes learn to be independent naaaa!!!!

the only sensible comment so far.

Its good a man give anything he has to his love o I mean atleast whenever they see he should try and make her happy by giving her some good things including cash so she will live a comfortable life to buy anything she needs.

This OP man. You think you have started to spend. Wait until you get married. Then you will know the meaning of the word spending. You get luck sef say na provocative text she send you. Wait until your wife seizes your car keys or locks the door and puts the key where you can't find it. You will beg for mercy that day. Women are powerful o. No joke with them.

To me,it is wrong for a girl to ask a guy for t.fare,especially if the distance is not far,l know a girl that will flash you and still tell you ,you must buy her a recharge card,all these silly demands doesn't bring respect for the lady,it makes a lady looks cheap ,..there should be an understanding between couples especially if the lady is not working

Another thing if a guy invites a lady over,he should pay for her t.fare but if she chose to come herself then there is no need to give her t.fare

hmmmm dats 1$ by blogging

ochilikoko:
My girl only spends 150 naira to and fro when she pays a visit to my house.

The last time she came, I refused to give her transport fare as I normally do, and when got to her house, she sent me a provocative text message.

So, must I give her the money every time?

Let's read the text she sent to you

Ksslib:

First of , why not let us in on the content of the text message she sent? What did she type?

Akproko!

sexyseun:
I dont think its about being broke, i sometimes get bored and call my boo that am coming over to play Video game "Call of duty" i might end up staying late and he sometimes goes to work for night shift, before he gets back i would have gone home/work depending on the next day, does that mean i should ask him for TF even before i leave? its just 150naira for heaven's sake that the poor girl cant afford. If you check her very well, she wouldnt have gotten the OP any sort of gift/present before.
Broke Asss girl. mscheeeeew

ur guy must be a lucky person. @topic i can bet the op gf cannot afford 100 naira airtime for herself . i can only support her if she is jobless but sending a provocative sms just for once she didnt receive TF shows she is not in love with op.

tosyne2much:
What kind of silly replies am I seeing up there ? Is it that people lack question answering skill or what ?

Did the OP complain about the money ? He only said "does courtesy demand he gives her T-fare for every visit "

OP, it's not a bad idea giving t-fare each time she comes, it will only be a silly thing if she thinks it is mandatory you pay for every visit

Financial pressure shouldnt be one sided.. Both sides have something to lose in a relationship. Any lady who is not ready to lose in terms of finance has no business being in a relationship

Pls I always see this "OP" in replies, what does it mean ? s

It depend on her understanding but she shld know that at time you might not have money or may be you are testing her

iluvpomo:
based in your post, I would say you are the minister of foolz

Ewu gambia!!

One of the reasons I don't date girls that are not independent. They exhibit traits of whores.

koyyess:

Guy, right from 1700, real men have being wooing women with gifts and money. Even when you go to her parents house, you dare not go empty handed. If you find it difficult to show your love and care for her well being, then you are not ready to be in a relationship. Don't mind all the males here talkin rubbish, most of them are broke ass dudes that are only in relationships with their pornographic dvds that's why they can't think straight like real men should.

Sorry o oga, are you married? Do you pay house rent, school fees, take care of your parents and in laws? I'm a married man and I think the girl is being cheap by sending her bf a nasty text message just because of N150 t.fare. Don't come here sounding sanctimonious please. Even when I was dating as a student in the university, I would usually pay the bike man to take my chic back to her hostel, but on several occasions she would tell the bike man to hurry off before I could do so. That's a girl who takes pride in her self esteem and is not cheap.

The op's girl thinks it is a right and that's the problem. If she can't pay 150 every now and then to visit her own boyfriend, then she has no business dating. She should just face her Waec instead.

In as much as it isn't a right on the part of the girl to have her fare paid for all the time, it doesn't rule out the place of commonsense. Her insistence that you pay all the time is likely rooted in her experience and how well she has studied you. Some guys have not flowing fountain of generosity in them. If you don't twist their arm, they won't use their brain.
When you are in a relationship with a girl who is weak financially, you don't expect her to spend 150 of the 300 naira she's been asked to use prepare dinner stew on transport fare to your crib, do you? That's why it's appropriate you step in financially in this respect.
In blunt words, I think it's only a stingy dude that would want to run a relationship free of financial sacrifices.

OohMpa:
Ooh Mpa can bet his future private jet that the people supporting the poster are single...

Poster clearly said "My girl" ie relationship. To top it all, it's just #150. She came all the way to see you and the least, very least you can do is to give her One hundled and fifty naila

She wan maintain relationship, you dey fall hand. Give ooh Mpa her address, he'll pay for the t.fare to his place, mumu

Ooh Mpa has said this countless: If you can't take care of your babe, stay glued to your soap

Lmao@bolded!

Jsmile:


Pls I always see this "OP" in replies, what does it mean ? s

OP» Original Poster ( the creator of the thread)

OohMpa:



Ooh Mpa understands. You sleep way too much on the internet (1 month and five days) to get to his comprehension level

Get a girlfriend then you can delude yourself to a point of competition, mate

Idiopathic Psychotic dunce

UchihaMadara:
I dey always send my driver make in use the helicop 4 backyard go pick up my sweet.

So next time una see one blue helicop, mk una know say, my sweets are inner.

OP, I haf say prayers for him, one day, u willing a helicop.

bros na pilot dey fly am and e no land for house backyard

UchihaMadara:
I dey always send my driver make in use the helicop 4 backyard go pick up my sweet.

So next time una see one blue helicop, mk una know say, my sweets are inner.

OP, I haf say prayers for him, one day, u willing a helicop.

bros na pilot dey fly am and e no land for house backyard

Yomieluv:
Bro,courtesy demands you give her,and when you don't have,let her know by explaining to her..

Hw many girls go gree understand

I believe OP is still too young to understand the implication of this post.Having a girlfriend is an expensive business in our culture and environment.

It all depends on the txt msg she sent to you. Hence you have grown to have a girlfriend it is your responsibility, if she works or not. If she is working, there is no need to be giving her T/F every time she comes visiting but that does not mean you should not be giving her.If she is not working and she is coming to visit you whereby she enters a public transportation, it is your responsibility to foot her bill. If you fail to do that, she will stay by the road side, to get a lift/ride and the next man if he got the cash, will take over your responsibility by providing for her and she will be double dealing without you even knowing

Your attitude is stinginess or attitude issue.