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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by justynneke(f): 5:13pm On Dec 25, 2014
Datz poor man's mentality, it's nt abt tp
If Ʊ give her allowances n meet her pressing needs according to ur fin ability den tp should be lyk jara, so weneva it doesn't come she won't get angry cos Ʊ v done wots far worth more dan tp. She might even cook n bring for sef.
Dude tink A̶̲̥̅♏ well

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by Gboskee(m): 5:14pm On Dec 25, 2014
twerkjack:
UR AN ID!OT! SO COS SHES NOT A PROSTITUTE, SHE SHOULD GIVE U YANSH, AND U CANT GIVE HER COMMON TP. MEN ARE SO FREAKING USELESS GOSH
and most ladies r bastards freaking psyche and damn! Looters

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by sukkot: 5:15pm On Dec 25, 2014
if she cannot afford 150 to come see you she has no business being in a relationship. what she need to do is pick up a trade like hairdressing or tailoring and focus her energy on that instead of wasting time with a man when she is broke. that what she need to do

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by chimah3(m): 5:16pm On Dec 25, 2014
150 ke! Nawa o! You are her man...its yoour duty to take care of her! Its your type they dump o! Buckle up man!

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by peemeeks(m): 5:16pm On Dec 25, 2014
chimimi:
Why not?do u expect her 2 trek home? tongue
le le onu gi chimimi... grin
chimimi:
Why not?do u expect her 2 trek home? tongue
le le onu gi chimimi. Lol

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by GodMode: 5:17pm On Dec 25, 2014
twerkjack:
UR AN ID!OT! SO COS SHES NOT A PROSTITUTE, SHE SHOULD GIVE U YANSH, AND U CANT GIVE HER COMMON TP. MEN ARE SO FREAKING USELESS GOSH

You're a f**l... It's a disgrace that a "working class girl" does not have ordinary #150..

Anyone above 13 years old is working class.

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by eleko1: 5:17pm On Dec 25, 2014
Sensible post.Most of the post here are clueless/confusionist.Wonder how some peeps passed their exam.Pathetic!
sexyseun:
The OP isn't worried about giving the girl the TF, he is only concerned that the TF is just 150 naira which the girl should be able to have "sometimes" @ OP: Dont give her TF all the time, if she sends you a bad sms next time, gladly know she is only after your money, because i know you wont give her exactly 150 when she visits, it might be 1000 or 2000. Girls should sometimes learn to be independent naaaa!!!!
Some even resort to insult/abusive.Kids

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by toluleke(m): 5:17pm On Dec 25, 2014
Oh God of mountain of fire and elijah poverty shall not be my portion next year..

power to gives my galfrnd any amount fall upon my life..

You need to prayer this for seven days with serious fasting and prayer
#150 only you open thread and the silly mod. Put am 4 frontpage b lyk say seun don taya well other people go come we go another site

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by powerblaze(m): 5:18pm On Dec 25, 2014
If you ain't got no money, take your broke azz home!

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by Nobody: 5:19pm On Dec 25, 2014
End time boyfriends everywhere.

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by Chimezie198(m): 5:19pm On Dec 25, 2014
Buy bicycle so dat u no go dey spend #150 carelessly na
anytime she come and wan go na for her to siddon for back seat
go drop her wherever she frm come out.
no biggee
u fit borrow ur grandpa bicycle

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by koyyess: 5:20pm On Dec 25, 2014
sexaddict08:
thats girls for u....
sometimes i dnt knw the difference btw them and prostitutes
Your mum must be so proud.

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by showafrica(m): 5:20pm On Dec 25, 2014
Its just fair to give a girl TP because, they are not naturally priviledge to make money more than men.

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by redcliff: 5:20pm On Dec 25, 2014
chelseabmw:


hope u aint referring to me?

That would still be you he's referring to. Although he did not politely drive his point.. 150 is change but when a girl sees it as mandatory for you to pay her tfare all the time then i would have a problem with that...

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by Nobody: 5:22pm On Dec 25, 2014
you should if u have cash on you,it shows u appreciate her presence.must a topic like this even be brought up on NL.most men are becoming babes this days

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Dec 25, 2014
ochilikoko:
My girl only spends 150 naira to and fro when she pays a visit to my house.

The last time she came, I refused to give her transport fare as I normally do, and when got to her house, she sent me a provocative text message.

So, must I give her the money every time?

Consider it an investment in the relationship.

But then again...you and your lady need to discuss this. If it is putting a strain on your finances, you can come out and tell her....and if she is a fine girl, she would agree with you. If she STILL INSISTS ......maybe you need to reconsider the relationship...because relationships where people cannot honestly discuss their problems do not end well.

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by hadizadeezy(f): 5:26pm On Dec 25, 2014
Zedric:

No, its the girl that z taking begging to a new level. Y must u pay every time? Is she a gf or an escort?
see me see trouble! if you don't give her how would she know you can keep up to you responsibilities in the future?

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by redsun(m): 5:27pm On Dec 25, 2014
Is she a teenager? Beware of child molestation.

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by Nobody: 5:27pm On Dec 25, 2014
Poverty na bad thing oooo! na person wey broke dey ask dis kind question.

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by donpizzle123: 5:27pm On Dec 25, 2014
Gals dey fall hands pass guyz.y must a gal depend on her guy for evryfin..jst #150 for transport na hin she stil wan kolect frm d guy.mehn gals r so parasitic...
#teampriesthood

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by Nobody: 5:27pm On Dec 25, 2014
Orikinla:
Yes. if she is not working.
I even give more than that to girls I am not dating for cabs.
Majority of Nigerian guys are just stingy and yet they want regular sex.
[size=18pt]Broke guys should not date.[/size]
I dont think its about being broke, i sometimes get bored and call my boo that am coming over to play Video game "Call of duty" i might end up staying late and he sometimes goes to work for night shift, before he gets back i would have gone home/work depending on the next day, does that mean i should ask him for TF even before i leave? its just 150naira for heaven's sake that the poor girl cant afford. If you check her very well, she wouldnt have gotten the OP any sort of gift/present before.
Broke Asss girl. mscheeeeew

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by Classicalmusic: 5:28pm On Dec 25, 2014
ochilikoko:
My girl only spends 150 naira to and fro when she pays a visit to my house.

The last time she came, I refused to give her transport fare as I normally do, and when got to her house, she sent me a provocative text message.

So, must I give her the money every time?
OP, does that has to do with loving you?

You don't want to spend money yet you want to enjoy the stuff? Shame on you!!

I totally blame the girl who is dating you. She doesn't know that she's supposed to be in love with a much more organized person. She should be coming to your home on a cab and not on a public bus. And your job is to pay the taxi driver and hug her wholeheartedly.

In other words, it's really pitiful because your girlfriend might be telling her friends how nice you are, whereas in reality, it's other way round. You're as greedy as the grave cheesy

Indeed, some girls are inept when it comes to choosing the right guy.
Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by watchindelta(m): 5:30pm On Dec 25, 2014
I no like stinging girls lie lie.
Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by dabossman(m): 5:30pm On Dec 25, 2014
sexyseun:
The OP isn't worried about giving the girl the TF, he is only concerned that the TF is just 150 naira which the girl should be able to have "sometimes" @ OP: Dont give her TF all the time, if she sends you a bad sms next time, gladly know she is only after your money, because i know you wont give her exactly 150 when she visits, it might be 1000 or 2000. Girls should sometimes learn to be independent naaaa!!!!

God bless you my dear. I think many are missing the point here. Your girlfriend sends you a nasty text message simply because you couldn't help her with N150 transport fare? Come on. The Op's question is clearly a result of the nasty text message she sent him.

Well, I thank God for the chicks I dated o.

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by axeman10(m): 5:30pm On Dec 25, 2014
Guess you should do the visiting then. She is your 'girlfriend' not just any 'friend'..if you don't take care of her who will?
Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by Nobody: 5:30pm On Dec 25, 2014
Some people are getting it wrong.
It's not about the #150 but if it's compulsory for him to give her transport fair everytime she visit. The amount is not important.

I don't have a gf so I know nothing about this case.....sorry
Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by GodMode: 5:31pm On Dec 25, 2014
hadizadeezy:
see me see trouble! if you don't give her how would she know you can keep up to you responsibilities in the future?

So girls/women no get responsibilities... U must be one of those "f:uck the highest bidder" girls...

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by Sunny4Gold: 5:32pm On Dec 25, 2014
Boy that is your problem.
Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by sukkot: 5:32pm On Dec 25, 2014
sexyseun:
I dont think its about being broke, i sometimes get bored and call my boo that am coming over to play Video game "Call of duty" i might end up staying late and he sometimes goes to work for night shift, before he gets back i would have gone home/work depending on the next day, does that mean i should ask him for TF even before i leave? its just 150naira for heaven's sake that the poor girl cant afford. If you check her very well, she wouldnt have gotten the OP any sort of gift/present before.
Broke Asss girl. mscheeeeew
hmmm na which company for naija dey emply people for night shift ? be like say ya boyfriend na sina rambo, lawrence anini kinda guy. make dem no go aluu4 the guy oooo. me i done talk my own sha undecided

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Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by Olufemiolaolu(m): 5:33pm On Dec 25, 2014
Its normal now. if u cant pamper ur girl now, it ll be difficult 4 u 2 pamper her when u eventually get married. ur stinginess beats me guy. Oridinary #150 u can give her, but you sabi nack her right? u go like awoof ooooo lol
Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by hadizadeezy(f): 5:33pm On Dec 25, 2014
GodMode:


So girls/women no get responsibilities... U must be one of those "f:uck the highest bidder" girls...
me?
Re: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by EmperorSpecie(m): 5:34pm On Dec 25, 2014
jmoore:
Am I the minister of transportation?

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