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Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by Kenneth205(m): 1:15pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Mathematical: Except me |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by dodorima147(m): 1:15pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
I don't encourage phone cheekin 4rm either party,I won't cheek urs and don't cheek my bt if I catch u dat wil b our end nt mindin if we re marrid or nt |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by Nuella222(f): 1:15pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
We pick each others calls when either of us is not around. He is my husband, I use his phone when I don't hv much airtime, and likewise he uses mine. When we ar free to use each others phone this way, y will I suspect him by going thru his inbox messeges? There's no need stressing myself going thru it when am sure I will find nothing. All I know is that a cheating partner goes to the bathroom with his phone but mine doesn't. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by Nobody: 1:15pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
papawemba: Lolzz, I lock my phone too |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by naijaboiy: 1:16pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
damseyl:Yea |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by Nobody: 1:16pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Misogynist2014:hmmmmm funny enough the bolded is not funny. you need not use that symbol secondly i don't have a husband but my boyfriend is responsible and mature. U should have asked if he is still doing it before drawing that conclusion thirdly u really have to work on your comprehension to notice when someone switch from personalizing to generalizing. Note i understand your cause of confusion but am a lady of little words and typing. at times i tend to skip some explainations.if you had read the thread further before quoting you would have understood better. Don't be too forward to find errors. my piece!!! |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by pak: 1:17pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
It's an issue I have had to battle with....... I grew up in a home where everything was open....phones, books, rooms anything. My dad even encouraged us going through his books and documents back then cos he was an avid reader and had a vast collection and wanted us to know as much as possible about his past. And we the children were open about everything, nothing to hide! Fast forward to school, both Sec school and Uni, I only had friends that I could trust to a large degree, infact there was a point when two of my friends had my email address password...... Long story short, it's more of a shock to me that in relationships ppl are scared of their better half checking their phones considering my background. All my partners have always known the lock pattern of my phones and the password to my computer system (which I even use more than my fone cos of my job) I remember my gf at some point seeing some things she didn't like on my system and telling me about it but that's part of life, I'm human and don't intend to hide myself from anybody. There are some negative things I've said about myself that people actually didn't believe I did. So really am human and I embrace both my negative and positive sides. If you don't love me at my worst, then you don't deserve my best. Got nothing to hide, though I ain't perfect! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by Tashaamania(f): 1:17pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
naijaboiy:For where kwanu? I just dont have energy for lengthy postss.. Okay, One last shot - I've always wanted to go through his phone. But then, after sometime, I thought whats the need? Its his phone, he decides who he wanna chat with. It didnt stop him from showing his love to me, so, what the heck? I also have peeps I entertain and that never stopped me from loving him or giving him the attention he needs. Its alright to keep friends, friends that might even show love to you, but then it all depends on how far you wanna go with these people.. I know two people dating, girl and guy, the guy reads through the girl's chat and sometimes act like the girl and keeps chatting with the girl's contacts and flowing with them. Most times they laugh about it together. They understand themselves. Not every relationships will understand themselves like this especially when one partner has trust issues from the onset. So, its safer you delete I've said enough that will last me for one year, phew!! Thank you On a side note tho, Truckpusher baby take |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by Nobody: 1:19pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Congrats Bro... LoL! I fit use your THREAD take SEW suit...walahi, e make sense! |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by Nobody: 1:20pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
naijaboiy:naijaboiy!!! stop putting words in my mouth you can interrogate!! |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by shumuel(m): 1:21pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
naijaboiy: I check her phone all the time, for the latest downloaded Game see my ex was not a Phone freak so even if she was cheating on me 'which i now believe she did' she wouldn't had brought it to her phone, she doesn't give her phone number out easily like that, e tay before even me sef get am. I remember back then she would always exchange our phones mine would be with her while hers would be with me. She likes my collections of music while i love the games on her phone thanks to her younger brother. |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by Qmab: 1:22pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Keeping constant tab on my boyfriend's phone once saved from a horrible triangular relationship - his ex. So ever since I do it to give me heads up when trouble is looming on the horizon. That way, i can squash it from afar 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by Qmab: 1:23pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Keeping constant tab on my boyfriend's phone once saved from a horrible triangular relationship - to include his ex. So ever since I do it to give me heads up when trouble is looming on the horizon. That way, i can squash it from afar |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by Mathematical(f): 1:24pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Kenneth205: Noted |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by highcheecks(f): 1:29pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Yes I will allow him,evn answer my calls .lolx |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by chronique(m): 1:30pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
I can allow my partner check my phones cos I don't hide things or do things that aren't honest. The people I don't reall feel comfortable with leaving my phones with,are my business partners/associates who are already very close to me. I don't want people stealing contacts from my phones. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by Truckpusher(m): 1:36pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
naijaboiy:Once it is getting serious then you need to make some changes and ensure that trust is built which will save you a lot of headache. I don't want to be clinging to my phone anytime she is around. |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by Tashaamania(f): 1:37pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Truckpusher: Who was this chic I didnt know about? |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by PouhJreal: 1:37pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Helo people if a man want to cheat on u he will.........especially some guys dat have dis innocent faces, dey do it very clean thinking u don't knw anytin at all. |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by azeeza(f): 1:39pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Yeah! He does that on per seocond billing. Ki ni big deal |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by Truckpusher(m): 1:39pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Tashaamania:That was a long time ago |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by BotherMleeper(m): 1:39pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
naijaboiy: PERFECTLY COMFORTABLE but she needs to gain access first beyond 3 layers of security: fingerprint scan, backup password, and of course, VAULT. |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by Chommieblaq(f): 1:40pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
I use ma boyfriend phone, either to browse or he shows mi a music video, some tyms he leave it wit mi n collect it later or d next day. Same tin wit mi, I sometyms forget ma fone in his house. Buh I have Neva gone 2ru his inbox, though I have many opportunities to do it, as jus see it dat if I start going 2ru his messages I ll start breaking d trust I have for him, gradually sowing a seed of distrust. though I don't know if he checks mine. |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by shevon: 1:40pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
I honestly don't know why I can't give my wife (or partner as you put it) my phone to go through, except if I am hiding something Just last week, we were at a meeting and the discussion about if we (the staffers) have friends in the office and how we can build team spirit and business retreat topic was brought up. Because the issue off cost associated with retreat was mentioned, I made inference to a dinner one of our colleagues took us to and the consequent effect and that my wife feels comfortable to pick my official calls as long as she saw that colleague's name who took us out and ALL the men and 80% of the women in the meeting look at me with shock. My oga even told me in the presence of everyone that I was bold to allow my wife near my phone and I am like "What's the big deal?" As long as I have nothing to hide, she can browse my phone all she wants. 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by naffysa(f): 1:43pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
naijaboiy:yes he can |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by Tashaamania(f): 1:45pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Truckpusher: |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by xlnc2324: 1:48pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
If you've got nothing to hide, why not? |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by Tashaamania(f): 1:48pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
AyokunleRuth: What was your old moniker pls? |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by naijaboiy: 1:49pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Tashaamania:Enough that can last you a year Now you want to sound like mzmycoli.. So by entertaining other people you mean? |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by Nobody: 1:49pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
shevon: Yep yep. You can go thru my stuff- iphone, ipad, purse. In fact i encourage it. It fosters and promotes honesty, trust and commuincation. Its not to be done out of jealousy or snooping or fishing for something etc.... |
Re: Can You Allow Your Partner/spouse Go Through Your Phone? by Nobody: 1:51pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Tashaamania:hmmm why did you ask? |
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