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Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by Nobody: 12:23am On Feb 28, 2015
Ipledge:
i be good boy sad,thought u don go bed naa grin


Its only 11:22 still early

Friday night
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by Nobody: 12:24am On Feb 28, 2015
Lala247:



Its only 11:22 still early

Friday night
so you are one hour behind,am 6hrs behind...still have up to 6hrs
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by senorova(m): 12:31am On Feb 28, 2015
I feel this thread has been derailed.
BTW mirexx,
I feel that these "bad boy" traits are mostly found in an ideal boyfriend sort of, if you know what I mean.
An ideal husband has to be a nice guy if you wanna enjoy your marriage. You'll just have that feeling of fulfilment knowing your ideal hubby (mr nice guy) will stick with you when things turn sour.

So ladies, you can date as many bad guys as you wish and fulfill that weird fantasy of yours...but when you wanna settle down, please marry a nice guy.

That's my own advice to you. Marriage is a different ball game entirely!

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Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by ilo04(m): 1:15am On Feb 28, 2015
if a nice guy like me jam u in bed u go know whats up
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by ilo04(m): 1:17am On Feb 28, 2015
MrIncrediible:
[s][/s]
The reason why "nice guys" don't get the girls is because most girls have refused to get sense.
yes example like d op
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by Nobody: 1:54am On Feb 28, 2015
Ipledge:
so you are one hour behind,am 6hrs behind...still have up to 6hrs

6 hours
Where r u
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by Nobody: 1:54am On Feb 28, 2015
Lala247:


6 hours
Where r u
Newyork city,and you?
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by Nobody: 3:25am On Feb 28, 2015
Ipledge:
dheybi Natasha Don run away angry
Me tire o
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by Nobody: 3:31am On Feb 28, 2015
AgapeCharis:
Me tire o
cry cry
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by Nobody: 5:23am On Feb 28, 2015
The unrealistic, fake and irresponsible life some Nigerian girls are ready to lead!


BTW, Team Good Guys! cool
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by Hostermipo(m): 8:09am On Feb 28, 2015
you forgot to add that, you may never enjoy your marriage when you marry a bad guy
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by mirexxx(f): 8:13am On Feb 28, 2015
emusmith:
The unrealistic, fake and irresponsible life some Nigerian girls are ready to lead!


BTW, Team Good Guys! cool
Nigerian girls again? smiley
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by mirexxx(f): 8:14am On Feb 28, 2015
Hostermipo:
you forgot to add that, you may never enjoy your marriage when you marry a bad guy
smiley
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by Nobody: 8:57am On Feb 28, 2015
Hmmmm.... Where is unibenstudent and naijaboy abi na naijaboi?

Being an Alpha Male... Will get you any girl. I still gather momentum for una... Una never see anything yet. Once I have my 2015 goals attained... We go see for yonder! mirexxx, You want bad boy fa? You will get badest nigga ever liveth.... cool
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by mirexxx(f): 9:52am On Feb 28, 2015
2sExy1:
Hmmmm.... Where is unibenstudent and naijaboy abi na naijaboi?

Being an Alpha Male... Will get you any girl. I still gather momentum for una... Una never see anything yet. Once I have my 2015 goals attained... We go see for yonder! mirexxx, You want bad boy fa? You will get badest nigga ever liveth.... cool
the thread has ntin 2 do with me ooooo cheesy
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by Nobody: 10:12am On Feb 28, 2015
mirexxx:
the thread has ntin 2 do with me ooooo cheesy
I am not referring to you literally... But the ideals of the average Naija lady.

It's sickening honestly. I don't know though cos the only woman that can really take me out of my current state of mind is a woman that has something massive to offer...

A healthy relationship is much more than your list. What happens when you finally get your 'bad boy'?
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by Nobody: 10:16am On Feb 28, 2015
senorova:
I feel this thread has been derailed.
BTW mirexx,
I feel that these "bad boy" traits are mostly found in an ideal boyfriend sort of, if you know what I mean.
An ideal husband has to be a nice guy if you wanna enjoy your marriage. You'll just have that feeling of fulfilment knowing your ideal hubby (mr nice guy) will stick with you when things turn sour.

So ladies, you can date as many bad guys as you wish and fulfill that weird fantasy of yours...but when you wanna settle down, please marry a nice guy.

That's my own advice to you. Marriage is a different ball game entirely!
so you are saying nice guys deserve unwanted ,use and dump goods? I fit break your head for this comment...
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by mirexxx(f): 10:16am On Feb 28, 2015
2sExy1:
I am not referring to you literally... But the ideals of the average Naija lady.

It's sickening honestly. I don't know though cos the only woman that can really take me out of my current state of mind is a woman that has something massive to offer...

A healthy relationship is much more than your list. What happens when you finally get your 'bad boy'?

lols ok u have fun! cheesy
what's ur definition of a bad boy anyway?
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by mirexxx(f): 10:19am On Feb 28, 2015
2sExy1:
so you are saying nice guys deserve unwanted ,use and dump goods? I fit break your head for this comment...
which one is unwanted and use and dump goods hehehe grin
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by mirexxx(f): 10:21am On Feb 28, 2015
senorova:
I feel this thread has been derailed.
BTW mirexx,
I feel that these "bad boy" traits are mostly found in an ideal boyfriend sort of, if you know what I mean.
An ideal husband has to be a nice guy if you wanna enjoy your marriage. You'll just have that feeling of fulfilment knowing your ideal hubby (mr nice guy) will stick with you when things turn sour.

So ladies, you can date as many bad guys as you wish and fulfill that weird fantasy of yours...but when you wanna settle down, please marry a nice guy.

That's my own advice to you. Marriage is a different ball game entirely!
grin grin no let some girls see this one ooo
i no dey! cheesy
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by Nobody: 10:42am On Feb 28, 2015
Ipledge:
Newyork city,and you?

London
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by Junki04(m): 10:50am On Feb 28, 2015
MzNelly:
I don't want a bad boy.

I want a good boy who'd be naughty just for me. smiley
am here for you
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by Nobody: 11:11am On Feb 28, 2015
quote author=senorova post=31155009]I feel this thread has been derailed.
BTW mirexx,
I feel that these "bad boy" traits are mostly found in an ideal boyfriend sort of, if you know what I mean.
An ideal husband has to be a nice guy if you wanna enjoy your marriage. You'll just have that feeling of fulfilment knowing your ideal hubby (mr nice guy) will stick with you when things turn sour.

So ladies, you can date as many bad guys as you wish and fulfill that weird fantasy of yours...but when you wanna settle down, please marry a nice guy.

That's my own advice to you. Marriage is a different ball game entirely! [/quote] so you are saying nice guys deserve unwanted ,use and dump goods? I fit break your head for this comment...
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by Nobody: 11:17am On Feb 28, 2015
2sExy1:
quote author=senorova post=31155009]I feel this thread has been derailed.
BTW mirexx,
I feel that these "bad boy" traits are mostly found in an ideal boyfriend sort of, if you know what I mean.
An ideal husband has to be a nice guy if you wanna enjoy your marriage. You'll just have that feeling of fulfilment knowing your ideal hubby (mr nice guy) will stick with you when things turn sour.

So ladies, you can date as many bad guys as you wish and fulfill that weird fantasy of yours...but when you wanna settle down, please marry a nice guy.

That's my own advice to you. Marriage is a different ball game entirely! so you are saying nice guys deserve unwanted ,use and dump goods? I fit break your head for this comment...


It really depends on what one see as bad ..

Eg . Wt u think is bad to meis good , so ur theory rlly doesn't apply to everyone.
Just cuz ur hearing bad bad bad diesnt mean bad in the way u think .


Example: he could be a bad guy at work , go getta no dey do mumu lol speaks up
Holds his ground ... I can go on
Now a nice guy : might b scare to show his true feeling , speak up cuz he doesnt want to upset anyone .....

He could be bad in the bedroom ... Doesn't mean his a criminal and goes around shooting ppl
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by Nobody: 11:42am On Feb 28, 2015
hmm dating bad boys...lol. no wonder most female undergraduates love running after cultists and yahoo yahoo boys.
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by iamrealdeji(m): 12:39pm On Feb 28, 2015
Op,so you want to start dating an armed robber now,an armed robber is a true bad boy
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by Nobody: 12:40pm On Feb 28, 2015
Wt is yahoo yahoo boys
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by Nobody: 12:44pm On Feb 28, 2015
Lala247:
Wt is yahoo yahoo boys

Boys who owns Yahoo mail i guess
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by Nobody: 12:45pm On Feb 28, 2015
jacksparrow1207:


Boys who owns Yahoo mail i guess

Lol it means something else
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by Nobody: 12:46pm On Feb 28, 2015
mirexxx:
The truth behind why nice guys sometimes finish
last! cheesy
It almost seems like most men fall into either the bad
boy or the nice guy category. In my opinion, wink the ideal
man is neither, but walks that fine line between the
two. smiley While some women say they want a nice guy,
they usually end up dating bad boys. Here's why!




1. Their Personalities Don't Seem Genuine

Nice guys are too nice. No one can always be that
nice unless they're a saint. They are busy being nice
instead of being real and women instinctually don't
trust that. Bad boys "keep it real." Nice guys don't
want to upset the apple cart.


2. They Don't Have Self-Respect!

No one respects a doormat. Nice guys don't set
boundaries or make any real demands. A bad boy
doesn't let a woman walk all over him or control him.
Women can't respect a man they can control. No
respect equals no attraction.


3. They're SO Predictable—Which Is Just Boring!

Most people lead boring, predictable lives, so they're
attracted to people who are exciting and a bit
unpredictable. Bad boys are always a challenge.
Nice guys are never a challenge. Predictable plus no
excitement plus no challenge equals I prefer a bad
boy.


4. Loving A Bad Boy Is In Our Genes[b] lolz cry (not every girl tho) smiley

Women are designed to nurture. However, instead of
doing this with children, they often end up doing it
with bad boys. They think their love will save them.
Nice guys rarely need to be saved.


5. [b]Women Like To Feel Needed


Nice guys don't usually need "to be fixed". Bad boys
usually do, so they become a project. Some women
think if they can "create" the perfect man, he will
never leave them. Also, if they're busy fixing
someone else, they don't have to look at what needs
to be fixed in their own lives.


6. Their Sperm Is Weak shocked

Women are designed to procreate with the strongest
possible genes. Bad boys are sending an
unconscious message that they have great genes,
so they're not afraid of losing the woman by
misbehaving. Nice guys are sending a message that
they don't think their genes are good enough, so
they won't misbehave.


7. They Have A Fear Of intimacy
If a woman is afraid of intimacy, she subconsciously
knows she can avoid it with a bad boy, since she
can never get close enough to him to have to go
there. A nice guy will eventually want a commitment,
and that's scary.


8. They Sometimes Have Low Self-Esteem
We don't feel comfortable with people who treat us
better than we treat ourselves. If you don't think
much of yourself, the bad boy is simply reinforcing
your negative belief. A nice guy is treating you in a
way you're not familiar with.


9. The Sex Isn't As Mind-Blowing
Women feel a nice guy won't be good in bed. They
sometimes like to be manhandled and think a nice
guy won't be able to take control and get the job
done. A bad boy comes across as being able to
deliver, even though that may not always be the
case.


10. Bad Boys Are Totally Sexy

Have you ever seen a bad boy who wasn't hot? I'm
sure there are a few, but they wouldn't be able to get
away with half the stuff they did if they didn't look so
good. Meanwhile, when a woman describes
someone as a nice guy, she means, "He's not hot."


11. They Aren't As Charming

Nice guys don't always know what to say and are
sometimes at a loss for words. Bad boys can be very
charming and know exactly what women want to
hear. However, they eventually switch over to being
selfish. By the time they reveal their true colors, the
woman has fallen for them and has a hard time
letting go.


12. They're Not As Strong Physically

Historically, men have protected women — physically
and otherwise. Bad boys give the illusion of being
able to protect women, while with nice guys, women
aren't so sure. Life is all about balance. Until men
learn how to do that, more often than not, women
will choose the bad boy, until they realize that his
bad qualities outweigh his good ones.



source: cheesy cheesy



SO YOU ARE NOT A VIRGIN AFTER ALL YOUR FORMINGS SHAME
Re: Reasons Why Nice Guys Dont Always Get The Girls by Nobody: 12:48pm On Feb 28, 2015
Lala247:


Lol it means something else

I wouldnt kw
But thats how far my guess goes

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