timilehing:
It happened to me while in school, not that I broke up with my gf but this friend keeps looking for ways to get in line. This very day, she came to visit her friend in my hostel, she decided to stay late with her & later left her room saying it's late already that she can't sleep with her cos her friend's bf is around & she can't go to her place that night. Though I knew what she's up to but I played along. She started by undressing claiming she can't sleep with cloths on (but she can sleep with only bra & panty with a guy on the same bed). She was surprised I didn't even said anything to her big boo.bs or curvy hips, we went to bed but both disguising as sleeping. About an hour later, she starts her trouble, gently & softly still I played along & helped her to the mood she want but when it got to a place that she wants more than caressing, she was urging me to go in like that (full aboard) I use my last lifeline (I don't have con'dom at home & I'm even a virgin lol) I can't start nursing STDs at this stage. She got annoyed calling me different names but I didn't bulge. Though I see free punny in my front but I've decided not to give in. She tried times after times but I stand on my decision every other day. Don't ever give

lol u mean...thts really cool

I love this girl abeg. She knows what she wants and is bold enough to go get it. Guy you are currently single, you are free to do whatever you want

katzz:
lol u mean...thts really cool

you're not the sweetest I'm the sweetest. your background, is that Alaska?

lordthree:

we broke up because we argued a lot mostly because of her not cooking or cleaning when she stays over, it has been an issue. and yes my friend is single

bros, what kinda love is that!!!? A woman who does not know or want to cook and clean is ur woman Guy, wake up! Do u ever consider what ur future might look like with her not been able to do these things? It is either she put down her shoulder and learn to do these things, or she gets off my life.

I cant come and marry a woman, and be doing the cooking and cleaning, even if I may assist atimes. Plus if u argue too much, guy it is a no go area cos in marriage, this singularly may lead to lots of other problems. If your woman does not respect u or have a tendency to, at least, then u r loving trouble.

Back to ur best friend. If she has good qualities, give it a test. Do as one of the contributors said. Take time out and away from both of them, it is not bad if ur bestfriend is ur wife. Listen, apart from the seducing part of her, to me, there wont be a problem if after two months or three from now, u decided to settle with ur best friend, should in case the one running from lil responsibility does not see a reason to reason with u.

A girl nearly 'rap.ed" me in my 2nd year in school. I resisted her overtures. From that day I got maximum respect from her. Anytime I'm broke, she'll be there. I benefited from her after that day. Till today, she considers me her best friend, something I might have lost to some minutes of craze.

The best advice is the one you give yourself.

Wah are u till waiting for? Knack her!

adewale2011:
guy you just want make I use versiline this night, but God Win....Next time Bros go CNN not Nairaland

Lollllllllllllllllllllll. 9ja boyz

adewale2011:
guy you just want make I use versiline this night, but God Win....Next time Bros go CNN not Nairaland

Lollllllllllllllllllllll. 9ja boyz

Ryabcool:
you're not the sweetest I'm the sweetest. your background, is that Alaska?

Cape town, south africa

Baddestguyp:
and you expect us to understand what u just typed

I actually understood very well. But her approach no proper

Like say u no well, go f**k dat gal jare.

lordthree:

i really dont know, i love my girlfriend and i know we will get back together but my friend really gets me more than anyone, what if i regret not doing anything in the future.

my friend there is an old pidgin adage dt says ''chop d soup wen d soup dey hot because wen d soup cool u fit no chop am again" so in essence,go ahead quickly and chop n make sure u lick d plate o!

katzz:
Cape town, south africa

interesting. thanks for the clarification.

You look really good by the way.

Evina:
This is why I always give the side eyes when some heterosexuals delude themselves into thinking they can have really close platonic relationships with the opposite sex.

you are right dear
i use to wonder too.

fwb bro....friend with benefit. give her d D Abeg....na one of those tinz

.

lordthree:

she has helped me through a lot and i always ask her for advice when i have problems with my girlfriend she has been a good friend why her behavior now confuses me

op i wnt u 2 do some findings,she mite be d cause why u and ur ex broke up.

Ryabcool:
interesting. thanks for the clarification.

You look really good by the way.

thank you

adewale2011:
guy you just want make I use versiline this night, but God Win....Next time Bros go CNN not Nairaland

Na wah for you o! Na so e hungry you reach?

Act as if you didnt see what she trying to make out...and dont try to see opportunity in this to go intimate with her oo

lordthree:

she has helped me through a lot and i always ask her for advice when i have problems with my girlfriend she has been a good friend why her behavior now confuses me

She's just Hot and wants to Fvck, but she also wants to use it to tie u down!! if u don't feel anything for her don't fvck her!! if not u can't have another relationship as long as she's around u!!

shadowgwalker:
...beat her blue and black and tell her, 'you don't touch the tail of a tiger and go free '

i hope its nt wat am tinking.

lordthree:

we broke up because we argued a lot mostly because of her not cooking or cleaning when she stays over, it has been an issue. and yes my friend is single

Ehen!!! So you are bf of the female nairalander that posted a topic that her bf doesn't find her "wife material" because she doesn't cook, wash or lay de bed she sleeps on everytime she visits her bf....so na you??

[quote
author=shadowgwalker post=31279783]...beat her blue and black and tell
her, 'you don't touch the tail of a tiger and go free '[/quote] Oga Seun Ban dis guy claimn to be girl,hez dp is promoten Porn on NL here!

lordthree:
Lately, I and my girlfriend have been having problems so we broke up two weeks ago and immediately my best friend heard about it she has been behaving weird. She called me to her place and when i got there she was in her underwear and told me to help her pick out clothes to wear it took like ten mins and she was in her underwear all through. She even rubbed her butt a couple of times asking what i thought about it .

Another day while we were talking, she asked if i found her attractive and i said i did but we are just friends then she asked why I'm not emotional with her, i said i have a girlfriend, she said "you have an ex" while saying this she had her hand on my thigh and was stroking it. It took the grace of God to leave there without doing anything

I'm confused. Do i go ahead and give her what she wants or do i just wait till i get back with my girlfriend because we have been dating for a while and sometimes we break up.I'm just confused.

Just chop then clean mouth

Do u feel anything for her? If u do, go for her but if not keep her as a friend but as for ur ex gf, she has no good thing for u because she is not ready to change yet and i wonder wat u are still waiting her for. All she can bring is more misery to u, mark my words.

Is she that ugly?

Evina:
This is why I always give the side eyes when some heterosexuals delude themselves into thinking they can have really close platonic relationships with the opposite sex.

er u telling me homosexuals only can have platonic relationships hahahahaha pity

eyeview:
Let me tell you this...
1,The moment you get to have sex with her,that friendship is destroyed forever. It will never be same again with her.
2,Its not every advance from a lady that you must weakly fall for. Had it been she was the one in a troubled relationship that had issues,would she give in to your advances? I guess no.
3,She's going thru a lonely phase and if you manage to avoid this,when she gets into a happy relationship,she'll appreciate you for being a gentleman.

Your number 1 and 2 are not true jor.

I have bleeped a lot who come close yet we are still friends. It all depends on your game.

It does not mean you are weak, weak guys don't bleep babes? They are used and dump in the friends zone line

lordthree na coyo(completely on ur own), if u like do am, if u like dnt do am, every man for itself na u go carry ur cross.

since she has been your best friend all this while..i think u should gv her chance..cos from bff to gf is d best thng dat will happen to ur reationship, she understands u more than any girl...so ur relationship with her will last longer even to marriage lol..unless she is nt as beautiful as ur EX..if she is...den my man gv her a shot..she z a sure deal #experincetalkshere

Evina:
This is why I always give the side eyes when some heterosexuals delude themselves into thinking they can have really close platonic relationships with the opposite sex.

seconded!