Be proud of urself.

I would have done the same. Fear of discovering small penis or erectile dysfunction on wedding night dey grip me.

I have had d same experience wen I was 21. D gal so much luv me & will neva stay a day without calling me. Any gal dat ll call u on phone & @ d end of everything u both tell each oda I luv u, wot do u think she ll be expecting @ d end of d day, the simple truth is sex. D gal later left me 4 anoda guy. Becos of dat I decided not 2 b in any relationship until marriage. Am 25 nw & I have sticked 2 dat decision. Let me tell u it is not an easy decision becos I get in contact wit gals due 2 de nature of my work, bt with God on your side You can do it. my advise is 2 u is 2 abstain 4rm any kind of relationship & drop any friend dat ll encourage u 2 have a gal friend.

Beedude:

In ladies dictionary No means Yes and vice versa don't be decieved.

Hmm I pity you...na so dem dey take tag person rapist o...

Nowadays NO means NO...its better to be called a coward afterwards dan end up in Alagbon...

Rilwayne001:
Ladies and sex

Smh

yet they behave as if they dont want .

falconey:
Hmmmmm what a predicament. OP you can go for all those JEHOVAH WITNESS girls.

Who says JEHOVAH WITNESS'S girls don't indulge in pre-marital sex? Abeg leave that thing jor. They are over hyped

The ones I know are spoilt brats. @op, just 4get about relationship for now and focus on your future. When you're ready for marriage, you can start dating

Saimeritus:
The past 3 girlfriend I had dumped me because I refused to do the thing with them. I'm from a very responsible family and I had a covenant with God not to have sex until marriage. I have been good to those girls , buys them lots of gift cos I'm on 3 scholarships.The day I went to the home of my 2nd gf, we were all alone in the house, she kept touching me but I didn't make a move. This infuriated her. The next day I called her, she keeps busying my calls. She dumped me just like that. My last gf came to my room at school the other day and I cooked for her, entertained her very well but when she showed green light , I rejected it. I have been calling her since then but she doesn't pick my calls. They all say that I'm not a man. pls what should I do to keep a good girl into a relationship? I think I am a failure when it comes to relationships. candid advice needed

Is your Dp Mechanical class (Agbebi) in UNN?

Saimeritus:
The past 3 girlfriend I had dumped me because I refused to do the thing with them. I'm from a very responsible family and I had a covenant with God not to have sex until marriage. I have been good to those girls , buys them lots of gift cos I'm on 3 scholarships.The day I went to the home of my 2nd gf, we were all alone in the house, she kept touching me but I didn't make a move. This infuriated her. The next day I called her, she keeps busying my calls. She dumped me just like that. My last gf came to my room at school the other day and I cooked for her, entertained her very well but when she showed green light , I rejected it. I have been calling her since then but she doesn't pick my calls. They all say that I'm not a man. pls what should I do to keep a good girl into a relationship? I think I am a failure when it comes to relationships. candid advice needed

Na ur type wey I dey even look for sef #CELIBACY THINGS#

lebete3000:


Hmm I pity you...na so dem dey take tag person rapist o...

Nowadays NO means NO...its better to be called a coward afterwards dan end up in Alagbon...

Funny u.. But u still give it a trial. U shuld know ur gf well nd not even forcing..(u put so many tins into consideration. How will u cope with a girl dat say no sex and decide to spend few dys with u .. Are u a doll ?

Saimeritus:
The past 3 girlfriend I had dumped me because I refused to do the thing with them. I'm from a very responsible family and I had a covenant with God not to have sex until marriage. I have been good to those girls , buys them lots of gift cos I'm on 3 scholarships.The day I went to the home of my 2nd gf, we were all alone in the house, she kept touching me but I didn't make a move. This infuriated her. The next day I called her, she keeps busying my calls. She dumped me just like that. My last gf came to my room at school the other day and I cooked for her, entertained her very well but when she showed green light , I rejected it. I have been calling her since then but she doesn't pick my calls. They all say that I'm not a man. pls what should I do to keep a good girl into a relationship? I think I am a failure when it comes to relationships. candid advice needed

What if God doesn't want you to make an abstinence covenant with him?

Beedude:


Funny u.. But u still give it a trial. U shuld know ur gf well nd not even forcing..(u put so many tins into consideration. How will u cope with a girl dat say no sex and decide to spend few dys with u .. Are u a doll ?

And d next tin nah to force her?

You never see where babe dey treat hin bobo fuckup b4 ba? Naija babes dey try sha...

Pls give me dos 3 gals because my tin dey work well well

Saimeritus,

I'm sure you know it's not a curse to stay single.

falconey:
Hmmmmm what a predicament. OP you can go for all those JEHOVAH WITNESS girls.

jehova witness girls bad sha.......

falconey:
Hmmmmm what a predicament. OP you can go for all those JEHOVAH WITNESS girls.

jehova witness girls bad sha.......

mtchewwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!

Saimeritus:
The past 3 girlfriend I had dumped me because I refused to do the thing with them. I'm from a very responsible family and I had a covenant with God not to have sex until marriage. I have been good to those girls , buys them lots of gift cos I'm on 3 scholarships.The day I went to the home of my 2nd gf, we were all alone in the house, she kept touching me but I didn't make a move. This infuriated her. The next day I called her, she keeps busying my calls. She dumped me just like that. My last gf came to my room at school the other day and I cooked for her, entertained her very well but when she showed green light , I rejected it. I have been calling her since then but she doesn't pick my calls. They all say that I'm not a man. pls what should I do to keep a good girl into a relationship? I think I am a failure when it comes to relationships. candid advice needed

You seem to date a particular type of girl, maybe you should start by pointing this out from day 1. Honesty is the best policy. The fact that these women don't seem to understand your decision/choice, then you were not meant to be with them in the first place. Ignore all the silly folks with their silly comments, move on - just be you, someone will come along and respect you for your decision.

Now this topic is serious!!!






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Saimeritus:
Na only deeperlife I go see decent girls?

3 girlfriend and u have got 3 scholarship?

OP don't get carried away by all those praising you. Pls go for medical check up, u might just be impotent

Saimeritus:
The past 3 girlfriend I had dumped me because I refused to do the thing with them. I'm from a very responsible family and I had a covenant with God not to have sex until marriage. I have been good to those girls , buys them lots of gift cos I'm on 3 scholarships.The day I went to the home of my 2nd gf, we were all alone in the house, she kept touching me but I didn't make a move. This infuriated her. The next day I called her, she keeps busying my calls. She dumped me just like that. My last gf came to my room at school the other day and I cooked for her, entertained her very well but when she showed green light , I rejected it. I have been calling her since then but she doesn't pick my calls. They all say that I'm not a man. pls what should I do to keep a good girl into a relationship? I think I am a failure when it comes to relationships. candid advice needed

I like your kind of guy OP.

Saimeritus:
The past 3 girlfriend I had dumped me because I refused to do the thing with them.
I think I am a failure when it comes to relationships. candid advice needed

I have a question, do you mean to say these ladies didn't know your stance on premarital sex before you asked them out? If so that's your problem. You want to ask someone out, you need to get to know the person a little, and devout christian in particular tend to be reserved about talking about sex.
Get to know her, get to know her stand before asking her out, and if you're not compatible, move on

Saimeritus:
The past 3 girlfriend I had dumped me because I refused to do the thing with them. I'm from a very responsible family and I had a covenant with God not to have sex until marriage. I have been good to those girls , buys them lots of gift cos I'm on 3 scholarships.The day I went to the home of my 2nd gf, we were all alone in the house, she kept touching me but I didn't make a move. This infuriated her. The next day I called her, she keeps busying my calls. She dumped me just like that. My last gf came to my room at school the other day and I cooked for her, entertained her very well but when she showed green light , I rejected it. I have been calling her since then but she doesn't pick my calls. They all say that I'm not a man. pls what should I do to keep a good girl into a relationship? I think I am a failure when it comes to relationships. candid advice needed

Do not give what is holy to the dog

Dondav:
Oh $hit

You are probably leading them on by these attention and the gifts. Be upfront with them but try also to look for a woman who want to wait until she's married, like you.

Best Wishes!!!!

tosyne2much:
Apart from that, our ladies always claim they want NO sex relationships yet they will dump you if you fail to do the needful

yes, dats for d non virgin ones

ignis:

We are saying the same thing in a different way.
One failing to do the needful means one is immature. Even in a sex free relationship, there comes a time when the girl is in the mood. If the guy dulls, it's always a red card because it's a pointer that the guy is not man enough.

dat type of Man is Man ENOUGH, but has a GREAT PLAN. Having a different plan doesnT mean one is weak.

Logicalmind:

You are the only fool.
Bonding kor, openess ni

LOGICAL MIND :its better u use LOGIC(reasoning) to talk and NOT Emotion. Hope u know d meaning of ur moniker?
If u do, prove what u wrote abeg.

For most girls over 16 they want a guy to "talk" them into having sex whether they are virgins or not. So they can blame someone else.

So a guy like you will not work for them. Guys are mostly forward and aggressive whilst most women pretend and give hints. In this world your type of resolve is rare. Also for women.

Be single if you don't want to have sex.

ADVISE ALERT..
NO FEMALE GENDER IS A VIRGIN..
THEY ARE ALL SEX ADDICTS..
THEY ARE EITHER SELF-SERVICING OR
LOOK FOR A MAN'S JOYSTICK..
TO BE JOYSTICK THEM WHEN THEY WANT IT
NO GIRL IS INNOCENT WHEN IT COMES TO THIS..
THEY ARE ALL GUILTY OF SUCH ACTS..
IN SECTION 472 OF NIGERIA CONSTITUTION
BUT THEY WILL ALWAYS DO PRETENCE
SOME WILL EVEN FORM HOLYER THAN YOU
ITS A MORMAL SHOW GLASS FOR THEM..
THEY MAKE WE THE GUYS LOOK LIKE WE ARE THE DOGS THAT WE CAN'T DO WITHOUT BLEEPING BUT TRULY THEY ARE THE ONES ALWAYS ON THEIR HEAT PERIOD 247..
I HARDLY COMMENT BUT WHEN I DO.. I SPEAK THE TRUTH..
I CHECK THE WHOLE COMMENTS.. I CAN EVEN COUNT THE FEMALE FOLKS THAT COMMENTED.. MEANING THAT WHEN A THREAD SOUND SO TRUTHFUL.. THEY ONLY READ PEOPLE'S COMMENTS.. THEY DON'T COMMENT THEMSELVES..
#ADOYII..

Saimeritus:
The past 3 girlfriend I had dumped me because I refused to do the thing with them. I'm from a very responsible family and I had a covenant with God not to have sex until marriage. I have been good to those girls , buys them lots of gift cos I'm on 3 scholarships.The day I went to the home of my 2nd gf, we were all alone in the house, she kept touching me but I didn't make a move. This infuriated her. The next day I called her, she keeps busying my calls. She dumped me just like that. My last gf came to my room at school the other day and I cooked for her, entertained her very well but when she showed green light , I rejected it. I have been calling her since then but she doesn't pick my calls. They all say that I'm not a man. pls what should I do to keep a good girl into a relationship? I think I am a failure when it comes to relationships. candid advice needed

u have a great plan OP. Dont give up. Stay away from dating.
Someone like Elantracey knows how to give courageous advice.