Saimeritus:
The past 3 girlfriend I had dumped me because I refused to do the thing with them. I'm from a very responsible family and I had a covenant with God not to have sex until marriage. I have been good to those girls , buys them lots of gift cos I'm on 3 scholarships.The day I went to the home of my 2nd gf, we were all alone in the house, she kept touching me but I didn't make a move. This infuriated her. The next day I called her, she keeps busying my calls. She dumped me just like that. My last gf came to my room at school the other day and I cooked for her, entertained her very well but when she showed green light , I rejected it. I have been calling her since then but she doesn't pick my calls. They all say that I'm not a man. pls what should I do to keep a good girl into a relationship? I think I am a failure when it comes to relationships. candid advice needed

hamilton62:

@op
What do you mean by ...I refused to do the RIGHT thing?
Is sex the right thing in a relationship? No!
Why did you paste this here if it's the right thing?
Please lets mind our words, you remind me a lot about me but sincerely, they never stopped me from being strong rather I understood that those ladies are out to destroy me... Sincerely, everyone needs a very loving relation but it must be godly. There comes a time when you slip and someone holds you and encourage you like mum or dad without trying penetration. Love is sweet without sex. Just pray to God and continue, you will meet a girl who knows her value and you will be very happy for being who you are.
However, prepare your mind for disappointment because that's the nature of man, some will be with you but with time they will start searching for sex outside very soon you will be dragged to the mud for being right.
But at last, they will come running back to you and will always respect and see you and compliment you as a unique dude than they foolishly thought.
I am saying this out of experience.
Sex kills the destiny of a man and it's the only sin the word of God ask us to FLEE from and not run. so you can understand the perilous state it has on a man?
This just reminded me Ecclesiastes 1:9; the thing that hath been, it is that which shall be; and that which is done is that which shall be done; and there is no new thing under the sun.
God bless and thanks!

redcliff:
Then dont date any woman till you are about to get married.

Timitunechi:
he can try deeper life girls am 99.9% sure they wont trouble him or my sister way don breakup recently like NEPA light because she refuse to give boys kiss una fit

Saimeritus:
The past 3 girlfriend I had dumped me because I refused to do the thing with them. I'm from a very responsible family and I had a covenant with God not to have sex until marriage. I have been good to those girls , buys them lots of gift cos I'm on 3 scholarships.The day I went to the home of my 2nd gf, we were all alone in the house, she kept touching me but I didn't make a move. This infuriated her. The next day I called her, she keeps busying my calls. She dumped me just like that. My last gf came to my room at school the other day and I cooked for her, entertained her very well but when she showed green light , I rejected it. I have been calling her since then but she doesn't pick my calls. They all say that I'm not a man. pls what should I do to keep a good girl into a relationship? I think I am a failure when it comes to relationships. candid advice needed

SkinnyDude:
stop masturbbating.
period.

francizy:
OP, your joy stick no dey work ni?

redcliff:
Then dont date any woman till you are about to get married.

Saimeritus:
The past 3 girlfriend I had dumped me because I refused to do the thing with them. I'm from a very responsible family and I had a covenant with God not to have sex until marriage. I have been good to those girls , buys them lots of gift cos I'm on 3 scholarships.The day I went to the home of my 2nd gf, we were all alone in the house, she kept touching me but I didn't make a move. This infuriated her. The next day I called her, she keeps busying my calls. She dumped me just like that. My last gf came to my room at school the other day and I cooked for her, entertained her very well but when she showed green light , I rejected it. I have been calling her since then but she doesn't pick my calls. They all say that I'm not a man. pls what should I do to keep a good girl into a relationship? I think I am a failure when it comes to relationships. candid advice needed

RaeMystix:

Seconded

stonecoldcafe:

Did you say you are on 3 scholarship programs? Its a lie! Your written english sucks! Work on that issue first.

missstella:
Na ur type wey I dey even look for sef #CELIBACY THINGS#

Saimeritus:
The past 3 girlfriend I had dumped me because I refused to do the thing with them. I'm from a very responsible family and I had a covenant with God not to have sex until marriage. I have been good to those girls , buys them lots of gift cos I'm on 3 scholarships.The day I went to the home of my 2nd gf, we were all alone in the house, she kept touching me but I didn't make a move. This infuriated her. The next day I called her, she keeps busying my calls. She dumped me just like that. My last gf came to my room at school the other day and I cooked for her, entertained her very well but when she showed green light , I rejected it. I have been calling her since then but she doesn't pick my calls. They all say that I'm not a man. pls what should I do to keep a good girl into a relationship? I think I am a failure when it comes to relationships. candid advice needed

simplisity:
i have the same convenant with God, althou wat has bein my weapon is God's grace, but another strategy is that, i stay away frm woman till am ready to marry, i will go into relationship. My advice to d young ones is that, the benefit of chasity in Christ, is uncomparable. I am a testimony to that.

Saimeritus:
The past 3 girlfriend I had dumped me because I refused to do the thing with them. I'm from a very responsible family and I had a covenant with God not to have sex until marriage. I have been good to those girls , buys them lots of gift cos I'm on 3 scholarships.The day I went to the home of my 2nd gf, we were all alone in the house, she kept touching me but I didn't make a move. This infuriated her. The next day I called her, she keeps busying my calls. She dumped me just like that. My last gf came to my room at school the other day and I cooked for her, entertained her very well but when she showed green light , I rejected it. I have been calling her since then but she doesn't pick my calls. They all say that I'm not a man. pls what should I do to keep a good girl into a relationship? I think I am a failure when it comes to relationships. candid advice needed

simplisity:
i have the same convenant with God, althou wat has bein my weapon is God's grace, but another strategy is that, i stay away frm woman till am ready to marry, i will go into relationship. My advice to d young ones is that, the benefit of chasity in Christ, is uncomparable. I am a testimony to that.

Saimeritus:
The past 3 girlfriend I had dumped me because I refused to do the thing with them. I'm from a very responsible family and I had a covenant with God not to have sex until marriage. I have been good to those girls , buys them lots of gift cos I'm on 3 scholarships.The day I went to the home of my 2nd gf, we were all alone in the house, she kept touching me but I didn't make a move. This infuriated her. The next day I called her, she keeps busying my calls. She dumped me just like that. My last gf came to my room at school the other day and I cooked for her, entertained her very well but when she showed green light , I rejected it. I have been calling her since then but she doesn't pick my calls. They all say that I'm not a man. pls what should I do to keep a good girl into a relationship? I think I am a failure when it comes to relationships. candid advice needed

InZA:


Pre-marital sex kills the destiny of a man

egobetatoday:
if i were u i will use this period to pray. there are so many things to pray for: your academics, spiritual life, your future wife, future family, job etc. if u have made a convenant with God, why are u trying to tempt yourself? because in ur case it is not the devil tempting u. i wonder how u intend to protect yourself from falling into sexual sin if u have a gf now who doesnt know God. pray that God leads u to who ever he wants u to go out with. Gods spirit wont lead u to a wayward girl like the 3 girls u've meet. your spirit led u to them.

on the other hand, u can have platonic friendship with girls in your schools fellowship. i know there are still daughters of jezebel there but there are also daughters of zion. make friends with the latter. when u are ready to marry u can then move the relationship further making your choice from those u already know.

tweeby:

Tell me plz,lemme learn frm u

stonecoldcafe:
I don't really care how many you have. All I'm saying is your written English sucks for a graduate. God bless bro

Adeyeancah:
Its not funny jare! Person had a covenant with God, u dey ask if him joystick no dey work...Him tell u say him no dey use am piss?

stonecoldcafe:
I don't really care how many you have. All I'm saying is your written English sucks for a graduate. God bless bro

stonecoldcafe:

Did you say you are on 3 scholarship programs? Its a lie! Your written english sucks! Work on that issue first.