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Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by Nobody: 7:55am On Mar 10, 2015
Eh ya,but I won't dump you o
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by decode55(m): 7:55am On Mar 10, 2015
Logicalmind:

Sex doesn't bond any relationship but Love, understanding and sole purpose for the dating.
Sex is just a complement in a relatiomship.
You both are fools

You're wrong bro undecided
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by Kianiabene: 7:57am On Mar 10, 2015
Hmmmmmmmmmm
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by Fastlearner(m): 7:58am On Mar 10, 2015
Hey Young Man, Your not a failure in fact your God Fearing, a real woman I repeat Woman dat deserves you will come your way Soonest....Patience
Don't waste your time, your resources ..... wink

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Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by Fastlearner(m): 8:01am On Mar 10, 2015
redcliff:
Then dont date any woman till you are about to get married.
Says who, must a woman demand for Sex....

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Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by Nobody: 8:02am On Mar 10, 2015
decode55:


You're wrong bro undecided
What, then? sad
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by Beedude(m): 8:02am On Mar 10, 2015
lebete3000:


And d next tin nah to force her?

You never see where babe dey treat hin bobo fuckup b4 ba? Naija babes dey try sha...


U don't force a girl. Moreover am not a fan of it. But not all girls will allow u av her without little effort of persuation(for intergrity sake). U don't expect to throw it to her and she accept(though dere are some exceptional cases).. U just v to play ur part well.. She's ur gf and not a strnger bro
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by ElFenomeno1: 8:02am On Mar 10, 2015
Saimeritus:
The past 3 girlfriend I had dumped me because I refused to do the thing with them. I'm from a very responsible family and I had a covenant with God not to have sex until marriage. I have been good to those girls , buys them lots of gift cos I'm on 3 scholarships.The day I went to the home of my 2nd gf, we were all alone in the house, she kept touching me but I didn't make a move. This infuriated her. The next day I called her, she keeps busying my calls. She dumped me just like that. My last gf came to my room at school the other day and I cooked for her, entertained her very well but when she showed green light , I rejected it. I have been calling her since then but she doesn't pick my calls. They all say that I'm not a man. pls what should I do to keep a good girl into a relationship? I think I am a failure when it comes to relationships. candid advice needed

No one bloody cares if you have 10 scholarships, I am a bit baffled about how you got three scholarships in the first place!
When you see a woman you like and you start asking her out, make it clear before you dive in to a relationship.
Daft sod buying gifts all over the place .... use your head!

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Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by Nikyluv(f): 8:12am On Mar 10, 2015
u re still a kid
Saimeritus:
Will be .21 by june
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by decode55(m): 8:12am On Mar 10, 2015
Logicalmind:

What, then? sad

Sex binds couples more.

Why do you think girls start catching feelings in a "Friends with benefit" scenario?
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by Nobody: 8:21am On Mar 10, 2015
decode55:


Sex binds [size=60pt]couples more.

Why do you think girls start catching feelings in a "Friends with benefit" scenario? [/b]
Thank God you said couples; we are talking about girlfriend/courting scenario.
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by encryptjay(m): 8:22am On Mar 10, 2015
Nigerian girls hunting sex since 1860
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by Hawlahscho(m): 8:22am On Mar 10, 2015
Saimeritus:
The past 3 girlfriend I had dumped me because I refused to do the thing with them. I'm from a very responsible family and I had a covenant with God not to have sex until marriage. I have been good to those girls , buys them lots of gift cos I'm on 3 scholarships.The day I went to the home of my 2nd gf, we were all alone in the house, she kept touching me but I didn't make a move. This infuriated her. The next day I called her, she keeps busying my calls. She dumped me just like that. My last gf came to my room at school the other day and I cooked for her, entertained her very well but when she showed green light , I rejected it. I have been calling her since then but she doesn't pick my calls. They all say that I'm not a man. pls what should I do to keep a good girl into a relationship? I think I am a failure when it comes to relationships. candid advice needed



It's possible.

but,

[size=20pt] I'm doubting the originality of this your post.[/size]

remember: It's my mind.
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by MsTIQ(m): 8:26am On Mar 10, 2015
Since they think you aren't a man and u cnt do sex, I think BJs are your remedy(Don't mind me, that was ma other side grin )but really it's either you stay completely away, relationships aren't really necessary for now , face the future and u seem bright( if u're truely a beneficiary of 3 scholarships), OR you state ur side b4 getting into any other one... I wouldn't say you should stop buying the gifts, if U truely like to give 'em, all the same but atleast try to do them moderately! no be like that *mumu* for titanic! If U do ur stuff with ur heart C'mon take ur brain along(atleast to do the thinking)... PEACE smiley
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by frisky2good(m): 8:30am On Mar 10, 2015
Before I know what advice to give, answer these questions. Does your abunna stand at all? If yes, do you have a problem with the size? The fact that you are attracted to girls means you are not gay so how can you resist a ponmo that has "eat me" written all over it? Abi you do money ritual?
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by Nobody: 8:35am On Mar 10, 2015
Saimeritus:
The past 3 girlfriend I had dumped me because I refused to do the thing with them. I'm from a very responsible family and I had a covenant with God not to have sex until marriage. I have been good to those girls , buys them lots of gift cos I'm on 3 scholarships.The day I went to the home of my 2nd gf, we were all alone in the house, she kept touching me but I didn't make a move. This infuriated her. The next day I called her, she keeps busying my calls. She dumped me just like that. My last gf came to my room at school the other day and I cooked for her, entertained her very well but when she showed green light , I rejected it. I have been calling her since then but she doesn't pick my calls. They all say that I'm not a man. pls what should I do to keep a good girl into a relationship? I think I am a failure when it comes to relationships. candid advice needed

ever been dumped by ur male friends? I guess NO

Are u thinking Wat I'm thinking ?
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by decode55(m): 8:39am On Mar 10, 2015
Logicalmind:

Thank God you said couples; we are talking about girlfriend/courting scenario.

LoL. Dude, boyfriend/girlfriend scenario no be couples dem be?

Abi na singles? grin grin
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by Nobody: 8:44am On Mar 10, 2015
Saimeritus:
The past 3 girlfriend I had dumped me because I refused to do the thing with them. I'm from a very responsible family and I had a covenant with God not to have sex until marriage. I have been good to those girls , buys them lots of gift cos I'm on 3 scholarships.The day I went to the home of my 2nd gf, we were all alone in the house, she kept touching me but I didn't make a move. This infuriated her. The next day I called her, she keeps busying my calls. She dumped me just like that. My last gf came to my room at school the other day and I cooked for her, entertained her very well but when she showed green light , I rejected it. I have been calling her since then but she doesn't pick my calls. They all say that I'm not a man. pls what should I do to keep a good girl into a relationship? I think I am a failure when it comes to relationships. candid advice needed
op I swear na ur type I dey find,haba wetin dey for sex sef, huh?provided d ego is dere lol
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by unilever(m): 8:46am On Mar 10, 2015
OP stay on ur own OYO
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by obosirow: 8:47am On Mar 10, 2015
Saimeritus:
The past 3 girlfriend I had dumped me because I refused to do the thing with them. I'm from a very responsible family and I had a covenant with God not to have sex until marriage. I have been good to those girls , buys them lots of gift cos I'm on 3 scholarships. The day I went to the home of my 2nd gf, we were all alone in the house, she kept touching me but I didn't make a move. This infuriated her. The next day I called her, she keeps busying my calls. She dumped me just like that. My last gf came to my room at school the other day and I cooked for her, entertained her very well but when she showed green light , I rejected it. I have been calling her since then but she doesn't pick my calls. They all say that I'm not a man. pls what should I do to keep a good girl into a relationship? I think I am a failure when it comes to relationships. candid advice needed

Bros, stand firm on your covenant with God; No lady is worth you breaking that. Don't mind those telling you that you are not man enough or that your are not functioning; these are just the devils trick to make you fall then he'll feast on your destiny. God is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him. God who sees will reward you with a true God fearing, faithful and virtuous woman whom you will give God thanks for, the rest of your life. smiley
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by Mikwus(f): 8:48am On Mar 10, 2015
Saimeritus:
The past 3 girlfriend I had dumped me because I refused to do the thing with them. I'm from a very responsible family and I had a covenant with God not to have sex until marriage. I have been good to those girls , buys them lots of gift cos I'm on 3 scholarships.The day I went to the home of my 2nd gf, we were all alone in the house, she kept touching me but I didn't make a move. This infuriated her. The next day I called her, she keeps busying my calls. She dumped me just like that. My last gf came to my room at school the other day and I cooked for her, entertained her very well but when she showed green light , I rejected it. I have been calling her since then but she doesn't pick my calls. They all say that I'm not a man. pls what should I do to keep a good girl into a relationship? I think I am a failure when it comes to relationships. candid advice needed


Explain to them............the one who understands is for keeps

Meaqnwhile, they might think you're getting it else where............just tell them what you believe in, if they don't buy it.....let them GO
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by chim14(m): 8:55am On Mar 10, 2015
my dear, don't tempt satan to tempt you.

Men are moved by sight, women are moved by: 1) Words, 2) Touch, 3) Money and gifts

No matter how good, holy a lady is, these are primary instincts dat sway women generally.

You can use a combination of this three essential ingredients skillfully without sleeping with them and maintain a good relationship.

EVEN THAT GOOD GIRL YOU ARE LOOKING FOR IS CURIOUS.
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by oloworulz(m): 9:06am On Mar 10, 2015
Logicalmind:

Someone is in dire need of an advice, and this Mumu is looking for babe to straff.

Zombie!
is ur sister available? Ode
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by Nobody: 9:09am On Mar 10, 2015
How and who will he marry if he doesnt date?



you?





redcliff:
Then dont date any woman till you are about to get married.
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by maberry(m): 9:19am On Mar 10, 2015
So u dey find person daughter wey u want suffer abi?
Meat wey u no go chop, no use teeth divide am
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by stonecoldcafe: 9:21am On Mar 10, 2015
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Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by BRAINTORMS(m): 9:32am On Mar 10, 2015
Saimeritus:
The past 3 girlfriend I had dumped me because I refused to do the thing with them. I'm from a very responsible family and I had a covenant with God not to have sex until marriage. I have been good to those girls , buys them lots of gift cos I'm on 3 scholarships.The day I went to the home of my 2nd gf, we were all alone in the house, she kept touching me but I didn't make a move. This infuriated her. The next day I called her, she keeps busying my calls. She dumped me just like that. My last gf came to my room at school the other day and I cooked for her, entertained her very well but when she showed green light , I rejected it. I have been calling her since then but she doesn't pick my calls. They all say that I'm not a man. pls what should I do to keep a good girl into a relationship? I think I am a failure when it comes to relationships. candid advice needed

The Worst thing to do to yourself, is to change and be someone/something else , because of people who dont care about you

Your morals are different, rather than you lamenting here ,go to church and give tesimony that God has gotten rid of unimportant people in your life

Dont feel a failure, you belong to a different Class, its that simple
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by Jennifer89(f): 9:35am On Mar 10, 2015
Op so what? undecided
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by lebete3000: 9:36am On Mar 10, 2015
Beedude:


U don't force a girl. Moreover am not a fan of it. But not all girls will allow u av her without little effort of persuation(for intergrity sake). U don't expect to throw it to her and she accept(though dere are some exceptional cases).. U just v to play ur part well.. She's ur gf and not a strnger bro


I feel you I'm talking to those guys dat will take what you said hook, line & sinker by going ahead to force a girl thinking her NO means a YES....
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by berbajiday(m): 9:40am On Mar 10, 2015
malonephill:
When next you have new girlfriend, don't buy her much gift, don't show her lot of feelings she won't make an advance of romance to you!!!

Also stayout of any dating till you ready to marry, else soonest chicks gonna rape undecided
lmfao valid

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Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by efemena22(m): 9:50am On Mar 10, 2015
redcliff:
Then dont date any woman till you are about to get married.
very simple. I wonder why the dude is complaining...
Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by teeastute(m): 9:55am On Mar 10, 2015
Find better girl woo,after that introduce her to me and I promised when u are about to get marry I go release am for u and then u are good to go

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