Can you remember one heediot's thread where he was like, "I hit her, I regret it, She deserved it? Na me be the 'she'.

You see that beautiful woman, babyosisi, I don't know her from Adam neither did I run into her back in my days at Eden, God really imbued her with rare insight to see beyond the surface.

And those who think I need deliverance,I really do. Why don't I,when I allowed that sickled demented fellow into my beautiful life.

Ask him, he'ld tell you that a hundred cloned persons that are his exact lookalike no fit reach my feet!

That guy has got talent. He writes well, but Mba! No! He no go gree use am well. Na to dey flood NL with rubbish, dey look for who im go invite im pity party.

Ehen! Back to the matter on ground, I used to physically abuse you ehn? Anu! Do I have anything to tell you? Never! What do you even expect me to do with an expired entity? Bullshit am big time!
So you didn't tell the world that you took a two months plus baby to a neighbour's house about nine poles away and hurried to the market to buy milk and baby carrier because you didn't want her to suckle my 'stupid' breast. Okwa ya?

Why didn't you tell the world you were sexually harassing my friend in my presence when you thought I was deep asleep and it happened that she slept over?
Why didn't you? Why?

So you told a girl I was an ex while we were together because you were trying to chat her up on whatsapp?
My friends hate you to the end of the world! Yes! They couldn't imagine their friend (me of course) doomed for life all in the name of marriage nzuzu. I was too blind in foolish love to see what they were seeing.

And you thought you had totally gotten me especially with my having a child for you? Oh boy you lied big time!

Everyone calls me wicked! That I left this fellow because he is moneyless! That's their damning business! Do I owe them an explanation? Never! All those times I was hungry while heavily pregnant because of misplaced and ill-timed love, I was just being a fool,I was!

You know one thing about this type of fellows? They have a sweet deceptive tongue! So what do I do to protect myself from them? I use my brain, make more than enough money and learn to act like a mermaid.

Chai! I felt like poo poo... This guy would tell me to my face, "thanks, you taught me to explore sex". He would even call me an irresponsible girl whose parents abandoned because of her irresponsibility!

So you could call a girl you once dated to come sleep over and you had the effrontery to tell me?

He would tell me how I was vulnerable, and how he was the only person who could love me. You don love me finish na? I believed him. I believed I was responsible for all the problems we had.

Why would you talk to me anyhow in the presence of others in the name of being 'frank'?

I became a nervous wreck. Jesus! I was totally losing my self worth. A terrible part of me I never knew was there surfaced.

And to even think that this dude told me to write down everything about him I would love to have changed... In my mind I was like, "why would I when I would just waste my time, merely baring my mind for him to see, just as he had been using everything I call secret against me."

So as you can see, I no longer have any secret. I am as open as a newspaper, so you just seat tight, read and yes, enjoy, if there is anything enjoyable!

Then he insulted my father to his face! Chai! That was the last straw!

FINAL WARNING: If you send any other bastard sms to me again, Amadioha go reshuffle your fingers!

Life's more fulfilling and more promising without you! Oshi!

Yawa don gas

That's why it's always good to hear from both sides before passing judgement...

Imagine sexually harassing your friend before you thinking you were asleep and then telling you he used you to explore sex, geeezzz

ThankGod you moved on gal, any relationship that's taking a toll on who you're ain't worth it, relationships should improve you and not the other way round but then I think both of you should resolve this issue privately and atleast become friends instead of worst enemies you seem to be..Also you need to calm down, all these insults you're sharing

Meanyl, your baby is cute

Eeehhh, first to comment ..

Oboi!!! I'm lost for words

MizMyColi:
Hmmmmm.
*adjusts chair*

Lemme read the other story first. https://www.nairaland.com/2172077/hit-regret-it-she-deserved

Thanx 4 d link babes

Woooooooooooow . . .

Easy M'am . . .

Form what you just posted that guy is certainly not worth losing your temper over. The SOB is probably feeling funky you dedicated a whole thread to him.

Abeg gbafuo ya biko . . . Go take care of yourself and your lovely baby.

Gobe!

what a way to start a monday.....

miraijj, can you formally introduce yourself and tell the house who you are & what your query is?

looooool make I spread mat here o, lemme go and read


Modified: ehen, Mizmycoli, thank you for the link sef.
Babyosisi, please come o, come and see the other side of the story mbok!!

In the OP's defense, the guy kept on stressing that she was a good woman (she's low maintenance, abandoned her friends and family, truly loves him and had his child without giving the Papa even one glass of wine ). on the other hand, the man seems to be a broke cheating abuser
I am surprised that he expected her friends to like him.
Anyway, I wont say more until the guy has had a chance to refute the OP's claims. then and only then shall I ...

Hell hath no fury like a scorned woman.

coogar:
what a way to start a monday.....

miraijj, can you formally introduce yourself and tell the house who you are & what your query is?

Seconded!
Madam tell us who you are.

coogar:
what a way to start a monday.....

miraijj, can you formally introduce yourself and tell the house who you are & what your query is?

How is that necessary? If not to feed your amebo . .

Op, this guy seems to miss you, he has talked you severally and opened threads... "You don't know the value of what you have until you lose it"..

https://www.nairaland.com/1936816/please-me-win-back

https://www.nairaland.com/2172077/hit-regret-it-she-deserved

https://www.nairaland.com/1929139/guys-how-deal-ladies-mood

Many of his comments are about you too...

this one is strong.

The joy of getting the other side of a story. No those who can would advice better.

#following

MarvellousGod:
Op, this guy seems to miss you, he has talked you severally and opened threads... "You don't know the value of what you have until you lose it"..

https://www.nairaland.com/1936816/please-me-win-back

https://www.nairaland.com/2172077/hit-regret-it-she-deserved

https://www.nairaland.com/1929139/guys-how-deal-ladies-mood

Many of his comments are about you too...

hehehe, unfortunately for him, OP has called on Amadioha to reshuffle the fingers he is using to type all those things .

Let me also call on all those people who contributed seriously to that thread, make they come read the part two!
CC
dheartless
sweetcocoa
Genbuhari
owliver
greatgod2012
Kimoni
Rose2014


...and the wife batterer corrector himself
mcdokwe

you are all welcome, free popcorn for all

MarvellousGod:
Op, this guy seems to miss you, he has talked you severally and opened threads... "You don't know the value of what you have until you lose it"..

https://www.nairaland.com/1936816/please-me-win-back

https://www.nairaland.com/2172077/hit-regret-it-she-deserved

https://www.nairaland.com/1929139/guys-how-deal-ladies-mood

Many of his comments are about you too...

Let me read too....but how did you get all this links? Make I read biko.

Miraijj:
Can you remember one heediot's thread where he was like, "I hit her, I regret it, She deserved it? Na me be the 'she'.

You see that beautiful woman, babyosisi, I don't know her from Adam neither did I run into her back in my days at Eden, God really imbued her with rare insight to see beyond the surface.

And those who think I need deliverance,I really do. Why don't I,when I allowed that sickled demented fellow into my beautiful life.

Ask him, he'ld tell you that a hundred cloned persons that are his exact lookalike no fit reach my feet!

That guy has got talent. He writes well, but Mba! No! He no go gree use am well. Na to dey flood NL with rubbish, dey look for who im go invite im pity party.

Ehen! Back to the matter on ground, I used to physically abuse you ehn? Anu! Do I have anything to tell you? Never! What do you even expect me to do with an expired entity? Bullshit am big time!
So you didn't tell the world that you took a two months plus baby to a neighbour's house about nine poles away and hurried to the market to buy milk and baby carrier because you didn't want her to suckle my 'stupid' breast. Okwa ya?

Why didn't you tell the world you were sexually harassing my friend in my presence when you thought I was deep asleep and it happened that she slept over?
Why didn't you? Why?

So you told a girl I was an ex while we were together because you were trying to chat her up on whatsapp?
My friends hate you to the end of the world! Yes! They couldn't imagine their friend (me of course) doomed for life all in the name of marriage nzuzu. I was too blind in foolish love to see what they were seeing.

And you thought you had totally gotten me especially with my having a child for you? Oh boy you lied big time!

Everyone calls me wicked! That I left this fellow because he is moneyless! That's their damning business! Do I owe them an explanation? Never! All those times I was hungry while heavily pregnant because of misplaced and ill-timed love, I was just being a fool,I was!

You know one thing about this type of fellows? They have a sweet deceptive tongue! So what do I do to protect myself from them? I use my brain, make more than enough money and learn to act like a mermaid.

Chai! I felt like poo poo... This guy would tell me to my face, "thanks, you taught me to explore sex". He would even call me an irresponsible girl whose parents abandoned because of her irresponsibility!

So you could call a girl you once dated to come sleep over and you had the effrontery to tell me?

He would tell me how I was vulnerable, and how he was the only person who could love me. You don love me finish na? I believed him. I believed I was responsible for all the problems we had.

Why would you talk to me anyhow in the presence of others in the name of being 'frank'?

I became a nervous wreck. Jesus! I was totally losing my self worth. A terrible part of me I never knew was there surfaced.

And to even think that this dude told me to write down everything about him I would love to have changed... In my mind I was like, "why would I when I would just waste my time, merely baring my mind for him to see, just as he had been using everything I call secret against me."

So as you can see, I no longer have any secret. I am as open as a newspaper, so you just seat tight, read and yes, enjoy, if there is anything enjoyable!

Then he insulted my father to his face! Chai! That was the last straw!

FINAL WARNING: If you send any other bastard sms to me again, Amadioha go reshuffle your fingers!

Life's more fulfilling and more promising without you! Oshi!

I had actually wished to hear your side of the story and it's not different from what I expected.
My dear I never believed that so called guy one bit.
Oh and pls don't call him a good writer cos he's not. Because while he was writing so hard claiming to be angel, I could very clearly read in between the lines. I hate lies mehn, it irritates life out of me. My friends know this

By the way Where are my sweethearts?
Dinachi and Owliver

miraijj, to be honest, your post sounds very disjointed and makes you sound unstable.

What exactly happened. Were you married to this guy or what. It sounds like you need to work on yourself, stabilise yourself. Life is not about what friends say.

From his post he beat you up badly, I'm sorry to hear that as violence is never excusable. You are best out of the situation. But please try and learn from this whole saga, the real tragedy will be if we do not learn from things that happen to us. What do you think YOU could have done differently. We cannot control what others do but we can control how we behave.

Interesting.

bestestgirl:


hehehe, unfortunately for him, OP has called on Amadioha to reshuffle the fingers he is using to type all those things .

Let me also call on all those people who contributed seriously to that thread, make they come read the part two!
CC
dheartless
sweetcocoa
Genbuhari
owliver
greatgod2012
Kimoni
Rose2014


...and the wife batterer corrector himself
mcdokwe

you are all welcome, free popcorn for all

Nnem abeg shift make I siddon near you jare*

And Pls help me with some popcorn and fanta.
Thanks

fem29:
miraijj, to be honest, your post sounds very disjointed and makes you sound unstable.

What exactly happened. Were you married to this guy or what. It sounds like you need to work on yourself, stabilise yourself. Life is not about what friends say.

From his post he beat you up badly, I'm sorry to hear that as violence is never excusable. You are best out of the situation. But please try and learn from this whole saga, the real tragedy will be if we do not learn from things that happen to us. What do you think YOU could have done differently. We cannot control what others do but we can control how we behave.

Madam . . . Not everybody is an orator or an excellent writer.

And yea, she may be a bit dis-organized, but wouldn't you After passing through what she passed thorough in the hands of an abuser!

It will take a bit of time for her to heal, let go of her anger and completely/finally move on.

For now, she is allowed to VENT!!!

fem29:
miraijj, to be honest, your post sounds very disjointed and makes you sound unstable.

What exactly happened. Were you married to this guy or what. It sounds like you need to work on yourself, stabilise yourself. Life is not about what friends say.

From his post he beat you up badly, I'm sorry to hear that as violence is never excusable. You are best out of the situation. But please try and learn from this whole saga, the real tragedy will be if we do not learn from things that happen to us. What do you think YOU could have done differently. We cannot control what others do but we can control how we behave.

U may not need to judge her person by her write up
Not everyone is a good writer. Though her points are not too sophisticatedly(if there's such a word ) presented, I for one, can very well understand her pain.

What she could've done differently: she shouldn't have gotten preggy for such a guy especially outside marriage

Wedon:


Madam . . . Not everybody is an orator or an excellent writer.

And yea, she may be a bit dis-organized, but wouldn't you After passing through what she passed thorough in the hands of an abuser!

It will take a bit of time for her to heal, let go of her anger and completely/finally move on.

For now, she is allowed to VENT!!!

Oghene!! how did u take these words out of my mouth
See my comment below yours

Better get out of my head

Herzumpther:


Let me read too....but how did you get all this links? Make I read biko.

... went through his profile

Rose2014:


Oghene!! how did u take these words out of my mouth
See my comment below yours

Better get out of my head

Lol . . . And I was gonna add that she should not have had a baby for him in the first place.

You must be my e-shadow.

Wedon:


Lol . . . And I was gonna add that she should not have had a baby for him in the first place.

You must be my e-shadow.

Are you serious? Chai there is god o

MarvellousGod:
... went through his profile

From the way he writes the guy loves op o but....chai

I was thinking it was the guy who opened a thread saying his girlfriend called his dad a pot bellied beast I never believed that guy too.

Btw oga Seun and mods, mbok kindly move this counter thread to front page so others can hear the other side of this story.

*sips my fanta*

bestestgirl:


hehehe, unfortunately for him, OP has called on Amadioha to reshuffle the fingers he is using to type all those things .

Let me also call on all those people who contributed seriously to that thread, make they come read the part two!
CC
dheartless
sweetcocoa
Genbuhari
owliver
greatgod2012
Kimoni
Rose2014


...and the wife batterer corrector himself
mcdokwe

you are all welcome, free popcorn for all

Looooooooolz* I have read this one now my body don come down. Well, I don't believe this woman but if what the she and the husband claim are true then, its seems both of them got problem. They both planned the fall. Nothing else to say... I only hope the husband would come in and trash it out.

bestestgirl:


hehehe, unfortunately for him, OP has called on Amadioha to reshuffle the fingers he is using to type all those things .
...and the wife batterer corrector himself
mcdokwe

you are all welcome, free popcorn for all

On that other thread, from the guy's description, she was really beat so hard

And some people were even supporting/sympathising with him
I always knew that for the girl to have taken the bold step of leaving the guy after having a baby for him, then the guy's attitude must be so bad because most times baby mamas esp in Nigeria tend to manage/clinge to the guy for the fear of what people will say...

It's well OP..

Meanyl, I siddon dey wait for the mcdokwe to come ..

Rose2014:

I had actually wished to hear your side of the story and it's not different from what I expected.
My dear I never believed that so called guy one bit.
Oh and pls don't call him a good writer cos he's not. Because while he was writing so hard claiming to be angel, I could very clearly read in between the lines. I hate lies mehn, it irritates life out of me. My friends know this

By the way Where are my sweethearts?
Dinachi and Owliver

and how were you able to detect who's lying and who's not? Loooolz* everyone is always right. Duuuuh*

MarvellousGod:
On that other thread, from the guy's description, she was really beat so hard

And some people were even supporting/sympathising with him
I always knew that for the girl to have taken the bold step of leaving the guy after having a baby for him, then the guy's attitude must be so bad because most times baby mamas esp in Nigeria tend to manage/clinge to the guy for the fear of what people will say...

It's well OP

Gbam
Imagine beating her mercilessly twice o in one day
Talk about a beast