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Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by dinachi(m): 11:50am On Mar 16, 2015 |
Rose2014:See excuses! Naah was for una. You can defend even the devil before God. 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Rose2014: 11:50am On Mar 16, 2015 |
Owliver: Chai guy won't kill person today Where u want meet am biko? |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by MizMyColi(f): 11:52am On Mar 16, 2015 |
iykedare: I laugh Hapu okwu. This is not about being rich joor. The lady was putting up with subtle shiii before now. Except she's not what I perceive...... She'd walk out anyway. Rich guy or not. It might just take longer. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Rose2014: 11:53am On Mar 16, 2015 |
dinachi: Don't forget the guy himself is verbally abusive too at least he agreed small in his own write up even while claiming angel Here: mcdokwe:I wish he could tell us what he said of her family. Chai The guy is an abuser who was fed with his own medicine and he got out of control Threading words with a woman n beating her again on top of it. See the type of blows sef. Smh |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Owliver(m): 11:53am On Mar 16, 2015 |
MizMyColi:let me tell you why the guy wants her back. Not cos he was wrong he even said she deserved it duuuuh*... But because he thinks he is inlove, they are destined for each other, he can't live without her... You know when someone is "in love" he does stupid things. But some of us know better, the love thing is just a joke. A scam, a mere feelings, if you live with someone you hate for too long you'll fall inlove for that someone I believe. So the idea of the guy sucks that's why 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by dre11(m): 11:54am On Mar 16, 2015 |
fem29: There is one thing I want you to know When a guy is fuming with anger and wants you to excuse himself Better leave him and let him do it because if you keep resisting him. You will get what you never bargain for. The guy wanted to go out and the lady refused him to cool of his anger and she got beaten.... ° Why not blame the lady for being the aggressor here. ° Why not blame her for not allowing the guy to cool of his anger after he has know his limit and any spark can result to what he never planned for ° Why not blame the for taking the guy for granted, that he won't do that She was the one that called for the beaten. But, I don't support his going the second time to beat the lady ...... But, her online personality show she is abusive, uncultured and not a lady of viture because she could have made her points without the curses and abuse 4 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by dinachi(m): 11:54am On Mar 16, 2015 |
MizMyColi:Show me where he is asking her to come back. And don't you know that abused victims sometimes refuses to press charges against their abusers and still love them. Before the split, the lady has been the one physically and emotionally abusing him, the day he dealth her a handsome blow to reset her brain, una come dey yarn Zapata. 3 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 11:55am On Mar 16, 2015 |
dinachi: There is NOTHING I will not see on Nairaland! A guy beats up a woman, the mother of his child, and gets acclaimed as a 'total gentleman' . . . Chineke me zie okwu! Being a MAN is not about how strong you are it's about how you can manage women and their 'tricky' nature. Women are like children, they respond to you the way you treat them. I bet this woman wasn't this 'crazy' untill she met him! I have been in that kind of relationship so I can totally relate with her. Thank God I had the foresight to walk . . . If she is a 'misfortune' he would have left her since nah . . . Instead of beating somebody's daughter and sister to a pulp. I don't know what it feels like to get beaten up by a spouse, someone you open your legs to and says sweet words to. But my blood boils at the thought of that . . . I dey vex biko . . . 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Rose2014: 11:56am On Mar 16, 2015 |
dre11: The guy too is abusive o mcdokwe:He should tell us what he said of her family *sips my fanta* |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Owliver(m): 11:56am On Mar 16, 2015 |
Rose2014:loooolz* I thought people used to say this world is a small world na, even if I no meet her she go meet my type ehn. Na there she go know say kaki no be leather. You come at real people with that "you know we women talk" idea. Its war |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by dinachi(m): 11:58am On Mar 16, 2015 |
Wedon:Well you gave an excellent analysis. You have been in a similar situation and you walked. Why don't bayou advice them both to do same instead of apportioning blames. 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 11:59am On Mar 16, 2015 |
Rose2014: Didn't you read his post . . . Treated his own sister like shyte sef until OP taught him better. All I can think of is how she got mixed up with such a loser . . . Us women should be more careful abeg . . . The 'things' that call themselves men these days sha . . . 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:03pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
dre11: My point exactly... |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by iykedare(m): 12:04pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
MizMyColi: Most women would rather cry in a 2015 range rover than smile on a bike... There are exceptions to the above and mizmycoli is that exception. Well, easier said than done. There is no perfect human being. The guy admitted that he was wrong to have hit her,this I love about him. Most guys I know don't admit to their mistakes. They can work things out but then the guy is broke. That to me,is the main problem. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:04pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
dinachi: Similar no be say the bobo beat me ooh. I swear no man alive can ever lay his fingers on me . . . I will make sure he lives to tell the story. Not to talk of going home with him and having 3ex with him that same night . . . OP messed up big time abeg. Common babydaddy ooh, no be say na husband. I'm only trying to set you guys right nah . . . you guys were the one hailing him on in his thread and claiming the girl was insane. Tell me, would you beat a woman? Under ANY circumstance It's like those people who pour hot water on their house-helps claiming the 'deserved' it. Shebi na person pikin? If you don't want her to live with you anymore you send her home nah, haba! We need to stop encouraging violence abeg. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Rose2014: 12:04pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Wedon:Me sef I tire And to think that someone is here defending him If he was the angel he claims, why not drop d lady already instead of killing her for her parents and coming here to justify the nansense *sips my fanta again* 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Owliver(m): 12:05pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Dear miraijj go and apologize to him now... He deserves it and learn not to talk anyhow you are not in America. 4 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Owliver(m): 12:07pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Wedon:no wonder. I talk am say you no fit be man... God forbid. So you be woman I now understand. 3 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by MizMyColi(f): 12:08pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Owliver: dinachi: While it might seem like I'm absolving her of any fault...... I am not. Neither of them knew any better. Mark my words....if she will attest to this. This very ugly side of hers surfaced because he did something to her, repeatedly, which he considered as trivial. Even when she spoke about it.....directly and/or indirectly......she was made to second guess herself. Those attitudes she displayed are evidences of pent up frustration. It is a common trait in ladies who are very nice and loyal to a fault.....especially the outgoing ones - to vent their frustration and anger through vile verbal and physical abuse. It takes a conscious decision to become a better person and burying those evil tendencies for good. Which is why they must pair with a partner who is emotionally sane, has lots of self control and fore sight......someone who understands them and yet isn't controlling --- allowing them to live their lives, because...they're usually free birds. Perhaps, I'm over-simplifying these things. Perhaps.....I'm reading the story behind her story. The one.....people, generally speaking, are not as apt to see. Perhaps..... She, infact.....both of them, need to make a conscious decision to become better for themselves and the world around them. No one is absolved....we all, including me - we have our good, bad, ugly and UGLY side. I will not judge her.....I will not judge him. If I didn't know better....I'd prolly do and say worse. If You Have Not Walked A Person's Journey.....You Might Wanna Show Some Leniency While Judging Their Story (If! you must judge). 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by iykedare(m): 12:08pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Owliver: This got me 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Rose2014: 12:09pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Wedon: Don't mind them. They think a particular gender has the monopoly of violence. I hope they'll support the women that cut off their husband's JT if the guy (according yo to them)deserves it 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:10pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
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Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Owliver(m): 12:11pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
MizMyColi:well, you have spoken well. From his part of the story she started th "frustating"... From her side of the story he started the "frustrating" so we can't rili know who started what... But from both stories its clear both of them have problem with their medular oblacatar. They are not compatible mayb cos money don finish looooolz* nice write up jare 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Rose2014: 12:12pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Owliver:Honey I would've preferred us (me n u) to live in America |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:12pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Rose2014: I swer that news scared the BeJesus out of a lot of guys . . . see guys praying and fasting for such not to befall them . . We need to understand that violence is NEVER the way out . . This is not a MAN versus WOMAN thing. What is wrong is wrong. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:13pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
dre11: Believe me I have already chastised her about her actions. I can NEVER in my life hold a man's shirt or hit him. I will only use my words and I will not use nasty abuses I may shout but I stay on topic and I'm able to express myself clearly. It's easy to kill someone in anger without intending to. Imagine hitting her, she falls backward hitting her head into the edge of a table bam, dead. Fair enough he hit her to get out of the house, then he went to be pounding her in someone else's house again, why? Cos he is angry, can he not calm down and control himself. Which kind of anger is that. We cannot control what others do but we can endeavour control our own actions and behaviour |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by dinachi(m): 12:13pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Wedon:Tell me would you beat or verbally abuse a man under ANY circumstance? |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Rose2014: 12:13pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Owliver: Fair enough |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:14pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Owliver: Leave matter jor . . . I have seen men who can control the anger in the face of the greatest provocation . . . I married one of such men and he earned my respect. I call him a REAL GENTLEMAN . . tested and trusted! 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Owliver(m): 12:15pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
iykedare:you know say that side dey carry equality for head. If you report this kind ish for naija na sara oooh. Police go even dey abuse you sef this one na small, go saudi arabia or afgan. Women are like trash there. If husband beat you no case at allll..... Nigerian me, being nice to their ladies since the days of king jaja of okpobo 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by dinachi(m): 12:16pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Wedon:Yet I have not seen you condemn her for beating him prior to this incidence. Don't be a hypochrite! |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Owliver(m): 12:16pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Wedon:hahahahahaha* I am happy for you ehn. And I hope you don stop oh cos the man BP go just dey escalate. Abeg stop if you never stop |
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