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Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by Atk1nson(m): 11:52am On Mar 24, 2015
Dimples192:
I think what you need to learn from this experience is the fact that you teach a man how to treat you by treating yourself with respect. What I mean by this is that throughout the relationship you sacrificed your happiness for his and maybe that's why his mind was in the relationship but not his heart. The sad fact is that when we give all of ourselves to someone we will never get back what we invested so be mindful of what you're getting from the relationship before giving your all. It's give and take and you broke that balance by just giving. Had he invested in the relationship too then he'd have more to loose and maybe then his heart would be in the relationship .
very true, many people fall foul of this. Any relationship where only one partner is investing is a high-risk one. The non-investing partner can very easily call it quit because he/she has nothing to loose

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Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by chronique(m): 11:55am On Mar 24, 2015
I'm sorry you had to date a complete m0ron. I hope you meet a better man next time.
Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by dre11(m): 11:55am On Mar 24, 2015
kevinberry:


Dude if read the story,you will see where the girl said that the guy was angry with her when she went ahead to pay for entertainment of guest after they have both discussed that there won't be such...simply because her mother is against her man decision...


This alone should warrant for a break-up. Because no man would want any lady that goes against his decisions... Just maybe the lady have been repeating such dirty attitude and the man has been warning her but she refuse to listen.... No man loves that type of woman...

You must be an Alpha male who doesn't believe in compromise
Who believes his idea is the all and all...... and if the person goes against your word he would face the consequence of divorce.

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Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by olisaEze(m): 11:56am On Mar 24, 2015
Holywizard:
am nt sure dat u're a marriage material
that's quite harsh! Another man's poison is another man's favorite soup. Evidently, d guy needs therapy if @ 37yrs he's blaming a supportive woman 4an ex-girlfriend's actions 3yrs ago. My advice 2ds lady is, move on d best is yet 2come dnt settle 4less.

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Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by dre11(m): 11:57am On Mar 24, 2015
CityNG:


You get over it by humping every erect member for a few weeks. Then you'll be fine.




Which one is erect member.
Stop speaking in codes joorgrin
Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by anwo247: 11:57am On Mar 24, 2015
naijaboiy:
Sometimes I refuse to believe we have men who are emotionally wicked.

After how many years? And you let a good woman go?

And then he had the guts to ask that they still be friends probably out of his guilty conscience.

That man is wicked undecided


Yes there are men who are wicked and women who are wicked. For the most part, these wicked folks are generally foolish: both in thought and decision.

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Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by Nobody: 11:57am On Mar 24, 2015
So sad!just move on sis ,such is life?dats y is not advicable for a lady to invest so much in a relationship especially with the broke ass dudes,think wit ur brain not ur heart abeg

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Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by Nelgenius4me(m): 11:57am On Mar 24, 2015
Let him be . I guess he has made up his mind he wants to be using you to achieve his selfish end.
Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by Nobody: 11:57am On Mar 24, 2015
dharay99:


its a lie, u should say women are d "worstest" cry
lolzzzzz, what makes them ''worstest''
Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by focus7: 11:58am On Mar 24, 2015
I wonder if the writer is real and if she will ever read the comments on NL to this post. But I strongly suggest she should avoid that guy like a plague, such people exists among the males and females, they are sadist, they live with unforgiveness, bitterness, hate and vengeance. They are capable of murder and suicide. She should move on with her life because God just help her pushed an evil man out her life that could made life a living hell for her in marriage because of the bitterness in his heart. She should forget what happened as someone who deserves her love and faithfulness is outside there waiting to meet with her.

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Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by HopeAlive14(m): 11:58am On Mar 24, 2015
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

Let me not hastly conclude that he doesn't deserve you.

For something tells me that he will come back to you, apologising.

And when he does, forgive him, marry him and live happily after forever!
Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by alchemist(m): 11:59am On Mar 24, 2015
dre11:





http://dailyindependentnig.com/2015/01/ended-relationship-days-wedding/

Your man is scared that you will be rich than me, in other word, you will want to control things based on your financial position. Even though attitude/behaiviour wise, you might not be like that but he is just scared.

If he can tell you that you guys should be friends even when he knows you want to break up, then he is no longer interested in you. Please move on and dont go back begging him.

Its not easy but know that you will find a better man.
Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by dharay99: 12:00pm On Mar 24, 2015
Eliba:
lolzzzzz, what makes them ''worstest''
one of you ppl almost killed me all bcuz of shiiiiiiit... angry

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Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by Nobody: 12:00pm On Mar 24, 2015
Venom104:


THese girls of nowadays have nothing else to say than "Men are wicked".. is/was your dad also wicked? Every action is met with an equal and opposite reaction.. please ladies should learn to accept that they are partly responsible for their man's actions

Please dont bring my father into

Dont be rude!!!! No need for that . I gave my opion n dats it .. If ur not op pls dont quote me afterall there are other females n guys dat said the same thing .

Cc Mod lalastical

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Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by slymichael(m): 12:01pm On Mar 24, 2015
Its soooo sad my dear sista bt one thing u should know is dat neva put ur trust in man bt God. Rejoice n be thankful cuz ur victory is near. Cheer up jor
Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by slymichael(m): 12:02pm On Mar 24, 2015
Its soooo sad my dear sista bt one thing u should know is dat neva put ur trust in man bt God. Rejoice n be thankful cuz ur victory is near. Cheer up jor[color=#006600][/color]

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Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by freshcvvs: 12:02pm On Mar 24, 2015
dre11:


You must be an Alpha male who doesn't believe in compromise
Who believes his idea is the all and all...... and if the person goes against your word he would face the consequence of divorce.

Was the "changes or contrary view from her mom" discussed by both party before she went ahead with the decision?

God knows i won't marry any woman who takes a 3rd party decision different from what we both agreed on before hand.

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Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by slymichael(m): 12:02pm On Mar 24, 2015
Its soooo sad my dear sista bt one thing u should know is dat neva put ur trust in man bt God. Rejoice n be thankful cuz ur victory is near. Cheer up jor[/color][color=#006600]
Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by khellz47(f): 12:03pm On Mar 24, 2015
Holywizard:
am nt sure dat u're a marriage material
not a nice thing to say to someone who's undergoing a serious emotional trauma.

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Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by Nobody: 12:03pm On Mar 24, 2015
dre11:


You must be an Alpha male who doesn't believe in compromise
Who believes his idea is the all and all...... and if the person goes against your word he would face the consequence of divorce.

In relationship understanding each other should be the keyword instead of love or compromise..

I can't compromise the way I want my life to be because of someone all in the name of love and regret it later....

The gril disobeyed him when they are yet to get married, the guy did a good thing by leaving the girl....what if later after marriage the girl now resort to taking and acting soley on evrything her mother tell's her...I personally cannot take such lady as my wife...

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Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by Nobody: 12:04pm On Mar 24, 2015
dre11:





Which one is erect member.
Stop speaking in codes joorgrin

It's actually not a code grin
Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by Bigcake: 12:04pm On Mar 24, 2015
It's painful that you are doing everything to show love to your partner but all he/she thinks is that you cant survive without them. For me i dont know how to cheat and wont support cheating no matter what. It appears the man was using the lady for personal gains and perhaps was crushing on another girl or even cheating on the lady. I pity the girl because this feeling is not easy to manage.
Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by prettyrosiemua(f): 12:08pm On Mar 24, 2015
Some guys are cowards. Why wait for so long to end a relationship u ain't interested in? But as a girl, u should be sensitive enough in a relationship to know if the man truly loves u or if he's just managing u.
Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by Venom104: 12:08pm On Mar 24, 2015
Lala247:


Please dont bring my father into

Dont be rude!!!! No need for that . I gave my opion n dats it .. If ur not op pls dont quote me afterall there are other females n guys dat said the same thing .

Cc Mod lalastical

Apologies... didnt mean to come on as rude...

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Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by barbados1: 12:09pm On Mar 24, 2015
You'll never find out the truth until you hear from that man. These ladies are not to be trusted at all....ask me why!

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Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by Nobody: 12:09pm On Mar 24, 2015
Brymo:
Never allow someone to be your
priority while allowing yourself
to be their option.
Jeez! I just love u 4 dis comment
Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by Nobody: 12:11pm On Mar 24, 2015
Another nollywood story, next angry
Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by Nobody: 12:11pm On Mar 24, 2015
dharay99:

one of you ppl almost killed me all bcuz of shiiiiiiit... angry
But is true na, why will a grown up man not even a boy o be doing that and leaving the girl in pieces, it's unfair
Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by Nobody: 12:12pm On Mar 24, 2015
freshcvvs:


Was the "changes or contrary view from her mom" discussed by both party before she went ahead with the decision?

God knows i won't marry any woman who takes a 3rd party decision different from what we both agreed on before hand.

Seriously guy,the thing pains me...

We both agreed on something,then you went behind me to discuss with your mother and agreed on another thing which I did no support at first...that CHEATING...

What if we are now married,you will surely call your mother to come and beat me up in my own house because I offend you abi...

She still went ahead asking for favours from the guy again,and they are both working..

She is not ready for marriage..
She is a flower
The guy is a wine

We all know wine last longer than flowers

The girl is just foolish and stupi_d....

She got served...
Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by Nobody: 12:12pm On Mar 24, 2015
This comment of yours took my thoughts back to the past and I just realized something I never get to understand then until now. God bless you for your truthfulness.

I had similar issue with an ex too. For 5 years we dated, I never asked for a kobo buh the day I asked was the end of the relationship.!
I asked for some money not because I needed it but because I wanted to know if he's naturally stingy or because he felt I dont need it. But before you ask if he has the money or not, Yes he did and what I asked for was something I know he can give if he wants to.

I just realized now that I have been the only one investing in the whole relationship. Had an accident in between the relationship, he never came to the hospital to see me. At the end, I wept and made up my mind to let everything go.

thank you once again.

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Re: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by dharay99: 12:13pm On Mar 24, 2015
Eliba:
But is true na, why will a grown up man not even a boy o be doing that and leaving the girl in pieces, it's unfair
call d man and hear his own story too jor.

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