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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 7:51pm On Apr 09, 2015
[quote author=Maamin post=32533104]
You sure say u no dey try add her to ur collection

Hahahhahaha. Me no dey like another person thing ooo....Lonely ones are myriads. .too many. grin

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 7:51pm On Apr 09, 2015
Truckpusher:
Constant treatment.

Remember to holla when your hair starts to fall off
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 7:53pm On Apr 09, 2015
Truckpusher:
Yeah.

Looking good is good business wink grin

But again what's wrong with that?

You just don't seem the kind to worry about such minute things.

Nothing's wrong.
It's pretty interesting.
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 7:54pm On Apr 09, 2015
Justfollowit:


Remember to holla when your hair starts to fall off
grin grin grin


I'll simply go on low cut - I've got fine waves when I bring it low with a fine chocolate scalp to go with it. tongue

Besides, Im growing plenty beards to enable me have a skin cut with no single hair - This kind of hairstyle creeps out ladies like you. tongue
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 7:56pm On Apr 09, 2015
Truckpusher:
grin grin grin


I'll simply go on low cut - I've got fine waves when I bring it low with a fine chocolate scalp to go with it. tongue

Besides, Im growing plenty beards to enable me have a skin cut with no single hair - This kind of hairstyle creeps out ladies like you. tongue

Hehehehehehe.
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 7:57pm On Apr 09, 2015
MzNelly:


You just don't seem the kind to worry about such minute things.

Nothing's wrong.
It's pretty interesting.
Of course I do and if I don't have the time I simply wear face cap.

Sometimes I spend more than 3hrs in the barbers shop. tongue
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nursecaleb(m): 7:58pm On Apr 09, 2015
Why wud i raise my hand to slap sum1 i wanna marry,its wrong

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by ewizard1: 7:58pm On Apr 09, 2015
if your brain dey malfunction, na to take slap reset am na!

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 7:58pm On Apr 09, 2015
dearpreye:


Hehehehehehe.
Bro always remember to fold your hands ,let them keep imagining the day it would land on their face. grin

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by ilovecritics(m): 7:58pm On Apr 09, 2015
dearpreye:
That's the present dilemma my female friend has found herself. She just couldn't believe her fiancee, whom she loves so much, could lay his hands on her. Unfortunately, it's happened!

Immediately I got a call from her last weekend, I could feel some pain in her voice. We met in a popular eatery, with tears in her eyes, she let out her disappointment and frustration. They've been courting over 4 months- having been mere friends over 5 years.

They had an argument. It got heated up. Words were spilled from both ends, and a slap from the guy brought her back to realityr she had just received a slap from the man she might end up getting married to. I tried to calm her down. Both of them are my friends!

Women can really weep, especially when someone whom they deeply love treats them poorly; they have containers of tears behind those two sockets at their foreheads! They are a very emotional and sensitive people; too precious and tender!

She sought my advice. I simply ask her if that was the first. She reluctantly said NO; the guy has slapped her twice before this recent one. I didn't want to be responsible for the breakup of an intending couple. And I don't also believe that, even in the face of verifiable, unbearable character defects, one should jump into a marriage with the hope of changing their spouses...you may just have inherited a prayer and fasting ministry! !!!

I advised her to look at the matter with her head, not heart. But trust, emotions are usually stronger than knowledge!

She called me yesterday, and told me she was going ahead with the courtship. It's her call. But i didn't fail to warn her that she could be receiving hotter slaps in the years ahead. Kicks could even follow!

If you were in her shoes, as a lady, what would have been your decision?

Was my advice a wrong one?

He just restored her default settings! cry

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Ishilove: 7:59pm On Apr 09, 2015
If it is a one-off incident, yes, I might, but if it is more than once... HELL NO. Before he goes all Tunde Arowolo on me, I'd terminate the courtship let everyone find their way.

I just can't sad embarassed

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 7:59pm On Apr 09, 2015
Truckpusher:
grin grin grin


I'll simply go on low cut - I've got fine waves when I bring it low with a fine chocolate scalp to go with it. tongue

Besides, Im growing plenty beards to enable me have a skin cut with no single hair - This kind of hairstyle creeps out ladies like you. tongue

OK o

But as for your beard, of course it would creep me out. You are meant to look like a man not a boy. lipsrsealed
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by OkikiOluwa1(m): 7:59pm On Apr 09, 2015
falconey:

OP its only a SLAP!
abi o!
Common thing that they should settle btw themselves, they ll bring it to the social media.
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 7:59pm On Apr 09, 2015
EggovinMma:
undecided


Court ship kor, judge ship ni.
No man dare raise his hands on me. It's better you call off the relationship. I am good in packing and leaving without bring told anyway. I go slap my own back!

Super woman!
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Ishilove: 7:59pm On Apr 09, 2015
ilovecritics:


He just restored her default settings! cry
Seriously?
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 8:00pm On Apr 09, 2015
Justfollowit:


OK o

But as for your beard, of course it would creep me out. You are meant to look like a man not a boy. lipsrsealed
Men keep beards and not boys.

Where are your senses or you're simply desperate for a slap? angry
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by XBLadez: 8:00pm On Apr 09, 2015
I would kiss her in return. Na devil temptation. My money can't be wasted like that. If she like make she curse my family, after marriage and banging i'd reply her

Abosede, I'm talking to you! angry

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 8:01pm On Apr 09, 2015
Truckpusher:
Of course I do and if I don't have the time I simply wear face cap.

Sometimes I spend more than 3hrs in the barbers shop. tongue

shocked shocked

Wth?

You strive to impress the ladies, dontcha? undecided
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by onoja12: 8:01pm On Apr 09, 2015
watin you go do

EggovinMma:
undecided


Court ship kor, judge ship ni.
No man dare raise his hands on me. It's better you call off the relationship. I am good in packing and leaving without bring told anyway. I go slap my own back!
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 8:01pm On Apr 09, 2015
Ishilove:

Seriously?
Yes na angry
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by pomide(m): 8:01pm On Apr 09, 2015
Actually Op, i think Girls are more prone to Slapping thier BFs now adays...living witness!! So are 2 of my friends...we all did d same thing....Not retaliate, den Try to callOFF d relationship, The females all did d same thing to...Beg for forgiveness and ask why we didnt slap Back! #Gentlemen smiley ! Now, na we be d boss for everything about d biatches! And we dont love dem no more!
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Sexytemi(f): 8:02pm On Apr 09, 2015
when e no won receive breeze on top transformer o, no guy will try that with me without receiving like four slaps in return, even if we are arguing over something, he still doesn't have right to, won't leave him o, but me slapping him back should reset is brain.
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Ishilove: 8:02pm On Apr 09, 2015
EggovinMma:
undecided


Court ship kor, judge ship ni.
No man dare raise his hands on me. It's better you call off the relationship. I am good in packing and leaving without bring told anyway. I go slap my own back!
And women who can't hit back nko? Someone like me ehn, na just mouth I get. If you slap me once I will faint grin

The best thing is just quietly call it quits and flee.
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by ZUBY77(m): 8:02pm On Apr 09, 2015
dearpreye:
That's the present dilemma my female friend has found herself. She just couldn't believe her fiancee, whom she loves so much, could lay his hands on her. Unfortunately, it's happened!

Immediately I got a call from her last weekend, I could feel some pain in her voice. We met in a popular eatery, with tears in her eyes, she let out her disappointment and frustration. They've been courting over 4 months- having been mere friends over 5 years.

They had an argument. It got heated up. Words were spilled from both ends, and a slap from the guy brought her back to realityr she had just received a slap from the man she might end up getting married to. I tried to calm her down. Both of them are my friends!

Women can really weep, especially when someone whom they deeply love treats them poorly; they have containers of tears behind those two sockets at their foreheads! They are a very emotional and sensitive people; too precious and tender!

She sought my advice. I simply ask her if that was the first. She reluctantly said NO; the guy has slapped her twice before this recent one. I didn't want to be responsible for the breakup of an intending couple. And I don't also believe that, even in the face of verifiable, unbearable character defects, one should jump into a marriage with the hope of changing their spouses...you may just have inherited a prayer and fasting ministry! !!!

I advised her to look at the matter with her head, not heart. But trust, emotions are usually stronger than knowledge!

She called me yesterday, and told me she was going ahead with the courtship. It's her call. But i didn't fail to warn her that she could be receiving hotter slaps in the years ahead. Kicks could even follow!

If you were in her shoes, as a lady, what would have been your decision?

Was my advice a wrong one?

All these things always happens to our friends.. Non happens to any member of nairaland.

We must never be afraid of letting the world know our problems, everybody is fighting a war down here on earth.
It was the original plan for every passage on earth..
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 8:02pm On Apr 09, 2015
MzNelly:


shocked shocked

Wth?

You strive to impress the ladies, dontcha? undecided
That's the problem - I try to look good.

I don't need to impress you psychos. grin
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 8:04pm On Apr 09, 2015
I for one will never lay my hands on a guy, I have still got dreams to fufill tongue. However I have got brothers and enough money to spend grin. So It is a case of either of the two to get back at him

On the other hand, it depends on when and how. I can forgive him ONCE but there is a no way there would be a second time and if that happens. I will pack my luggages and leave because ABUSERS NEVER CHANGE.

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 8:05pm On Apr 09, 2015
Ishilove:

And women who can't hit back nko? Someone like me ehn, na just mouth I get. If you slap me once I will faint grin

The best thing is just quietly call it quits and flee.
If you can't hit back then behave and all you've got to worry about is your asss being slapped around. grin
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 8:05pm On Apr 09, 2015
ZUBY77:


All these things always happens to our friends.. Non happens to any member of nairaland.

We must never be afraid of letting the world know our problems, everybody is fighting a war down here on earth.
It was the original plan for every passage on earth..

Yeah.
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 8:06pm On Apr 09, 2015
Justfollowit:
I got one will not my handa in a guy. I have got dreams to fufill. However I have got brothers and enough money to spend. It is a case is either of the two to get back at him

On the other hand, it depends on when and how. I met forgive him ONCE, there is a no way there would be a second time and if they happens. I will pack my luggages because ABUSERS NEVER CHANGE.
Shut the fucck up, you can't divorce a man. tongue
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:06pm On Apr 09, 2015
Quiet there. You don't know why d man did that.it ur kinda ppl dat will get der man so mad dat he will slap u al round n u will only rant heaven and hell
EggovinMma:
undecided


Court ship kor, judge ship ni.
No man dare raise his hands on me. It's better you call off the relationship. I am good in packing and leaving without bring told anyway. I go slap my own back!
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 8:06pm On Apr 09, 2015
Justfollowit:
I got one will not my handa in a guy. I have got dreams to fufill. However I have got brothers and enough money to spend. It is a case is either of the two to get back at him

On the other hand, it depends on when and how. I met forgive him ONCE, there is a no way there would be a second time and if they happens. I will pack my luggages because ABUSERS NEVER CHANGE.

Yes. They never change. And it usually starts subtly and then snowball into a ring fight. ...bruised eyed and cheeks are usually the accompaniments. .mm
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by delishpot: 8:06pm On Apr 09, 2015
Op let her marry jarey! Dem nor dey tell blind man say salt nor dey soup. When him taste am, him go know by himself. Let her marry and lay on her bed as she is making it

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