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7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 12:21am On Aug 23, 2015
Except you are not mature emotionally as a lady or you are just too incapable of stepping up your game, the following characters should be a total turn-off for any right thinking lady with class!

1. "Mature" guys that sag: You can see the mature in quotation marks because I doubt if they are really mature! Some guys who are above 30 still sag their trousers! Don't you look at yourself in the mirror and see how you look like a condemned prisoner on Death Row to be hanged? Dress decently guys and stop all these silly attributes of a naïve teen that you are always trying to put up! That's irresponsibility to the core!!! No responsible woman will date you abegcheesy

2. Calling a girl countless times: Its time to behave yourselves guys. When you call a girl up to 3 times and she's not picking, chill and see if she calls you back. If she doesn't, it means she isn't into you at all. If she calls back, fine. You should know this by now; calling her all the way when she's not picking exposes you as a desperate love-starved guy that can used and dumped! Personally, this turns me off.

3. Wanting to have sex immediately you meet a girl: Except she is a woman of easy virtue, demanding for sex or trying to entice her to sleep with you would definitely turn a right-thinking woman off immediately! What if she's your sister? Would you want another guy to get down with her just like that? It is the unusual, abnormal and unnecessary thirst for sex that makes many guys to act like programmed machineswink when you see a woman, you begin to analyze her female anatomy with your ravened eyes like hungry lions because small shawarma and probably, 2 bottles of SNAP that you bought.

4. Begging a girl to love you: Any guy that begs me to love him has already been seen as an incurable mugu by me. It is a huge turn-off!!! Whether you do it through phone call, sms or face to face, its still the same thing. Do you know how you appear when you do this? Like a dumb ass! Yea, a dumb blokegrin Some would even go as far as kneeling down for you.

5. Bad English: When some guys open their mouths to speak, you would be surprised! They can't even differentiate past tense from present tense or past-participle from past tense! A guy once met me at a mall and asked: "Did you attend Uniport? Your face looks similar" cheesy. I held myself back from bursting out laughing!!! Instantly, right there, standing with him, I was turned off and I left him staring into the air like an abandoned child.

6. Begging a girl for cash and other goodies:

Whenever guys rant about digging in girls, I just laugh. I have experienced it several times and first-hand, where guys beg as if there's no tomorrow for stuffs like cash, recharge cards, etc. This is shameful. Its disgraceful angry If I want to get a present for a guy or give him cash, which is not advisable if he's not a worthy person, I'll do that from my heart but not you scheming and begging. Why don't you get up your lazy butt and look for something useful to do with your life? You think Nigerian ladies are like those white women you scam daily? We are far wiser...but some ladies still fall for such romantic scam all in the name of love from Mr Smooth-talker!

7. Irresponsible life-style: Some guys don't even consider their age. They still feel they are 10 years old. They do nothing other than smoking skunk, weed, cigarette, popping Tramadol and all silly types of drugs you can ever imagine. That's a huge turn-off if you don't know. Only the awful smell that emanate from your body after smoking and excessive drinking can even make a woman leave you immediately!

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by ronald4lif(m): 12:24am On Aug 23, 2015
Depending on my mode and the event I'm attending, I do sag. Who cares if it turns anyone off

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by CarinalEL: 12:25am On Aug 23, 2015
We still go girls looking for guys with those very qualities

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 12:28am On Aug 23, 2015
ronald4lif:
Depending on my mode and the event I'm attending, I do sag. Who cares if it turns anyone off
And u will still be the first one to complain about girls. You dress irresponsibly. That's why you can't meet the responsible ones.

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 12:30am On Aug 23, 2015
CarinalEL:
We still go girls looking for guys with those very qualities
Yea, the crazy ones without class!grin

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 12:35am On Aug 23, 2015
Can't help but agree with u..but that sex thing ehh..if u dont rush to bang..most girls will think u dumb..i have countless experiences on that..

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by lekjons(m): 12:37am On Aug 23, 2015
and they love bad guys undecided

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by ronald4lif(m): 12:38am On Aug 23, 2015
StephanieEzeh:
And u will still be the first one to complain about girls. You dress irresponsibly. That's why you can't meet the responsible ones.

Nna negwanu nsogbu o. Didn't remember telling I roll with irresponsible girls. On the contrary irresponsible girls don't cross my part. My mode of dressing has never affected the calibre of people I get attracted to or associate with.

Maybe it hasn't occur to you that irresponsibility is subjective so be reminded that what you consider to be irresponsible might not be so for some.

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by swanky500(m): 12:42am On Aug 23, 2015
Smelling Armpits is another turn off..

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 12:45am On Aug 23, 2015
Randyhot:
Can't help but agree with u..but that sex thing ehh..if u dont rush to bang..most girls will think u dumb..i have countless experiences on that..
That's becos it has been blown out of proportion! Can't u understand? Its overratedwink

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 12:46am On Aug 23, 2015
swanky500:
Smelling Armpits is another turn off..
gringringringrin

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 12:48am On Aug 23, 2015
ronald4lif:


Nna negwanu nsogbu o. Didn't remember telling I roll with irresponsible girls. On the contrary irresponsible girls don't cross my part. My mode of dressing has never affected the calibre of people I get attracted to or associate with.

Maybe it hasn't occur to you that irresponsibility is subjective so be reminded that what you consider to be irresponsible might not be so for some.
Certain attitudes are irresponsible. If the society frowns at it, then it is irresponsible.

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 12:53am On Aug 23, 2015
StephanieEzeh:
That's becos it has been blown out of proportion! Can't u understand? Its overratedwink
..then it cant fit into your lists..we are now in the age of sex revolution..even when i dont want to..i see the girls cornering me for a nice fu*ck..not just any girl..but those i ' supposed' classy..

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 12:55am On Aug 23, 2015
Randyhot:
..then it cant fit into your lists..we are now in the age of sex revolution..even when i dont want to..i see the girls cornering me for a nice fu*ck..not just any girl..but those i ' supposed' classy..
Self-deception!!! They are low class girls guy! What do they need from u? Just the cash!cheesy

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 1:01am On Aug 23, 2015
StephanieEzeh:
Self-deception!!! They are low class girls guy! What do they need from u? Just the cash!cheesy
..not cash..i think they just need a good time.. and i dont get ur criteria in judging a lady as low class... and i hav come to realize that ladies are more sexually disposed than men these days...

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by ronald4lif(m): 1:03am On Aug 23, 2015
StephanieEzeh:
Certain attitudes are irresponsible. If the society frowns at it, then it is irresponsible.

Well, for those who cares about societal stereotypes they might worry but for those who are unreceptive to social conformation like myself we don't give a hoot.

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Khutie: 1:04am On Aug 23, 2015
I fit close my eyes accept all dah yhu've written buh smoking? Chai... yhu no wan make we high again na ajo uwaa nka biko? yhu neva reach 30. When yhu reach 30 years without seeing a serious guy wey dey blow grammar na den yhu go know xay yhu missed yhur husband when yhu decided to ignore my fellow guy due to his grammatical error wic d last tym I checked ain't even in d 10 commandments of getting richer ( E-money no sabi blow grammar o)...



#oneLove

Abeg who have extra rizla my own just cast due to one jombo I wan arrange...

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 1:19am On Aug 23, 2015
Does this day society frown at women dressing half nakked, or at premarital sex?
StephanieEzeh:
Certain attitudes are irresponsible. If the society frowns at it, then it is irresponsible.

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 1:23am On Aug 23, 2015
@OP, kindly do a counter version of this thread on WHAT TURNS YOU ON

I am liking your genuine and unbiased mindset.

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 1:34am On Aug 23, 2015
ronald4lif:


Well, for those who cares about societal stereotypes they might worry but for those who are unreceptive to societal conformation like myself we don't give a hoot.
ok. I surely know ur type cheesy
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 1:35am On Aug 23, 2015
manlyprof:
@OP, kindly do a counter version of this thread on WHAT TURNS YOU ON

I am liking your genuine and unbiased mindset.

[size=8pt]WAITING[/size]
Hmmm
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by ronald4lif(m): 1:36am On Aug 23, 2015
StephanieEzeh:
ok. I surely know ur type cheesy

What's my type like? wink
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 1:37am On Aug 23, 2015
ilobasama:
Does this day society frown at women dressing half nakked, or at premarital sex?
Read my post. I never supported women dressing indecently. I was only making a reference to ronald4lif's view.

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by francizy(m): 1:37am On Aug 23, 2015
StephanieEzeh:
And u will still be the first one to complain about girls. You dress irresponsibly. That's why you can't meet the responsible ones.

Even tho I hate doing most of the things you listed if not all, I'd advice any reasonable guy not to stop doing whatever he does just because you girls wish so. Do you know how many things girls do that pisses guys off? But in many cases, the guy just bears it. But on the other hand, you girls expect a guy to be perfect just because of you.

I've learnt in life that whenever I meet a woman who nags over little things, best thing's to run else, the relationship won't last.

By the way, I don't think you should add bad grammar up there because not everyone was afforded the opportunity to attend good schools or even attend any. I see it as discrimination.

Ronald4lif, a million likes..

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 1:38am On Aug 23, 2015
ronald4lif:


What's my type like? wink
The "I don't care" typegrin Ain't it? I know u wouldn't admit.

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 1:40am On Aug 23, 2015
francizy:


Even tho I hate doing most of the things you listed if not all, I'd advice any reasonable guy not to stop doing whatever he does just because you girls wish so. Do you know how many things girls do that pisses guys off? But in many cases, the guy just bears it. But on the other hand, you girls expect a guy to be perfect just because of you.

I've learnt in life that whenever I meet a woman who nags over little things, best thing's to run else, the relationship won't last.

Ronald4lif, a million likes..
Here, it is very simple. Don't seek for responsible women when you u are not!angry

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 1:44am On Aug 23, 2015
Khutie:
I fit close my eyes accept all dah yhu've written buh smoking? Chai... yhu no wan make we high again na ajo uwaa nka biko? yhu neva reach 30. When yhu reach 30 years without seeing a serious guy wey dey blow grammar na den yhu go know xay yhu missed yhur husband when yhu decided to ignore my fellow guy due to his grammatical error wic d last tym I checked ain't even in d 10 commandments of getting richer ( E-money no sabi blow grammar o)...



#oneLove

Abeg who have extra rizla my own just cast due to one jombo I wan arrange...
U don't know the awful smell that is produced whenever u smoke what ever u hv bin smoking. Continue to endanger ur life nwanne angry

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 1:45am On Aug 23, 2015
Yeah I know, I meant something else anyway.
StephanieEzeh:
Read my post. I never supported women dressing indecently. I was only making a reference to ronald4lif's view.
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by francizy(m): 1:47am On Aug 23, 2015
StephanieEzeh:
Here, it is very simple. Don't seek for responsible women when you u are not!angry

And I ask, how many "responsible" women out there end up with "responsible" men?

In most cases, its the good men who ends up getting married to bad women and vise versa. I've always been responsible and will always be. Not doing what I ought to just because it makes the closest girl happy, doing what is right because I have to.

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 1:49am On Aug 23, 2015
francizy:


And I ask, how many "responsible" women out there end up with "responsible" men?

In most cases, its the good men who ends up getting married to bad women and vise versa. I've always been responsible and will always be. Not doing what I ought to just because it makes the closest girl happy, doing what is right because I have to.
All what I listed are not worthy of a right-thinking guy to do. Don't u get it?

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by francizy(m): 1:51am On Aug 23, 2015
StephanieEzeh:
All what I listed are not worthy of a right-thinking guy to do. Don't u get it?

And who made you the judge and jury over the attitude of guys?? cheesy

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by ronald4lif(m): 2:00am On Aug 23, 2015
francizy:


Even tho I hate doing most of the things you listed if not all, I'd advice any reasonable guy not to stop doing whatever he does just because you girls wish so. Do you know how many things girls do that pisses guys off? But in many cases, the guy just bears it. But on the other hand, you girls expect a guy to be perfect just because of you.

I've learnt in life that whenever I meet a woman who nags over little things, best thing's to run else, the relationship won't last.

By the way, I don't think you should add bad grammar up there because not everyone was afforded the opportunity to attend good schools or even attend any. I see it as discrimination.

Ronald 4lif, a million likes..

Daalu nwanne madu. No one should live their lives based on what the society has conditioned them to or to please any one. While it is necessary to conform to social vintages and fits into the society one shouldn't abandon their true personality and character in doing so. It would backfire at some point.

The growing expectation and standard the society keeps setting on people is responsible for why many people are living fake lives, pretending to be who they are not. When one is real to themselves and people don't like them for who they are they can buzz off. The one for you will accept and appreciate your realness.

Who knows maybe this is why lot of marriages fail lately. Because at some point one get tired of putting up a false personality and the other party get pissed and quits coz the new personality (original self) is in complete variance with who they have known them to be. Turn off ko, turn on ni.

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