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My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by Ramos16(m): 1:08am On Aug 24, 2015
I am not good at telling long story, so this will be short, My best friend, a girl, had a boyfriend, whom i do not really relate to, their relationship had issues so she decided to take a break.
She called and asked if she could come to my place, i agreed, and was happy to have her, as even i had to just had a break up.
Long story short, she spent three days in my place, we ate from the same plate, and slept on the same bed for three days but i never touched her or made advance.
When she left my place, she called and asked if i am okay, that something must be wrong with me for not having sex with her or even touching her once througout when she was with me.
My honest thought through out her stay was that i was trying to help a friend who was heart broken, so i played the gentleman.
My people pls help me oh. Did i do wrong?

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by chocolateme(f): 1:12am On Aug 24, 2015
Its not too late, call her back now and grant her the desires of her heart since she is so blinded to observe the respect you accorded her.
Tomorrow they will say that guys don't have levels of self control.
Mtschrwww!!

FTC

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by Tnycee(m): 1:24am On Aug 24, 2015
seriously,...is that why you opened a thread?? *mkpo ase ba o...*

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by Kenzico(m): 1:24am On Aug 24, 2015
I have done this act to 2 different ladies who voluntary decided to sleep in d same room with me on different occasions...Upon all d respect I accorded 2dem all through. They still disliked me cha....and I still stood proud and had no regrets for not touching them. My bro, leave d biAtch....she jux wan put u 4 problem or very soon she go say u RAPED me

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by hola106(m): 1:26am On Aug 24, 2015
Nice move

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by bosslhadi(f): 1:41am On Aug 24, 2015
Ramos16:
I am not good at telling long story, so this will be short, My best friend, a girl, had a boyfriend, whom i do not really relate to, their relationship had issues so she decided to take a break.
She called and asked if she could come to my place, i agreed, and was happy to have her, as even i had to just had a break up.
Long story short, she spent three days in my place, we ate from the same plate, and slept on the same bed for three days but i never touched her or made advance.
When she left my place, she called and asked if i am okay, that something must be wrong with me for not having sex with her or even touching her once througout when she was with me.
My honest thought through out her stay was that i was trying to help a friend who was heart broken, so i played the gentleman.
My people pls help me oh. Did i do wrong?
What a funny story....you did nothing wrong, just call her back and do the needful

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by Ramos16(m): 1:41am On Aug 24, 2015
Tnycee:
seriously,...is that why you opened a thread?? *mkpo ase ba o...*
sorry, no vex, was confused and just needing opinions

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by Mrbigman1(m): 1:52am On Aug 24, 2015
Lol, It has happened to me severally and I get even worst returns.

I just landed in Nija but while I was away, I was having a very friendly chat with my account manager.

When I landed, she was d first person I called that am coming to warri and if she can grant me d grace of coming to my house to keep me company. She agreed and came. We enjoyed good chat while I cleaned my house. She eventually slept over.

I gave her a shirt which she slept in, middle of d night, d devil in me woke up and she dnt resist.
All she said, promise me u'd never fvck me, I respected her and felt, why kill my self when I Wnt do anything thing further and I dnt like begging.

After sometimes, I continued and she enjoyed d touches with loud moan and a lot of water downlow.

In the morning, she felt so ashamed and I apologised and she left.

When she got home, she dnt pick my calls no more and I went to her office and she said to me

"What kinda man puts a woman in such mood and apologies after all. Infact, why did I even sleep over in ur house at first? Dnt I know d road to my house? "

I died inside me and since den, I have never used dat branch.

One thought is, do women really love and wnat dis sex more dan us men?

Why d many pretence?

Why dnt dey just tell u what dey want so we can do it fast fast?

Dat has been will continue happening cos she's someone daughter and I can't force her to go against her will.

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by LongPennis(m): 4:13am On Aug 24, 2015
Why does this ewu, after successfully friendzoning himself by himself, come here to disturb people

The poor girl is obviously tired of friendzoning him but he still enjoys the status. Boys falling men's hand since time IMO river. angry

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by SmooshCHN: 4:47am On Aug 24, 2015
You chose you action already. And you did nothing wrong. Females and double standards. undecided undecided You act mature they say he's too boring, you try to give them what they want, you're the Irresponsible Guy. As for me, I've learnt. call me whatever you want. I'll make my move if I'm interested. If you say no, fine. It's not a problem. We can cuddle with no strings attached wink wink
chocolateme:
Its not too late, call her back now and grant her the desires of her heart since she is so blinded to observe the respect you accorded her.
Tomorrow they will say that guys don't have levels of self control.
Mtschrwww!!
That's the way to go. cool

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by Adesiji77: 5:09am On Aug 24, 2015
Ramos16:
I am not good at telling long story, so this will be short, My best friend, a girl, had a boyfriend, whom i do not really relate to, their relationship had issues so she decided to take a break.
She called and asked if she could come to my place, i agreed, and was happy to have her, as even i had to just had a break up.
Long story short, she spent three days in my place, we ate from the same plate, and slept on the same bed for three days but i never touched her or made advance.
When she left my place, she called and asked if i am okay, that something must be wrong with me for not having sex with her or even touching her once througout when she was with me.
My honest thought through out her stay was that i was trying to help a friend who was heart broken, so i played the gentleman.
My people pls help me oh. Did i do wrong?

If your story is true, then, you have not done anything wrong by not having intimacy with her.

But you have "played with fire" by sleeping on the same bed with her for three days!

What were you thinking? shocked

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by Nobody: 5:22am On Aug 24, 2015
chocolateme:
Its not too late, call her back now and grant her the desires of her heart since she is so blinded to observe the respect you accorded her.
Tomorrow they will say that guys don't have levels of self control.
Mtschrwww!!
Sister na guy u be or babe? Ur response just sounded like a guy. Good one sha

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by Ramos16(m): 5:55am On Aug 24, 2015
Adesiji77:


If your story is true, then, you have not done anything wrong by not having intimacy with her.

But you have "played with fire" by sleeping on the same bed with her for three days!

What were you thinking? shocked

i have one bedroom, and a cold cold tiled floor

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by Nobody: 6:05am On Aug 24, 2015
Guy u did well, u don't just sleep with a lady u re not dating all because the opportunity present it's self. Let her be and pray u ve a relationship of ur own

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by SPG4U(m): 6:06am On Aug 24, 2015
You are a good guy for respecting her...

Tell her to come around that d last time she came u had something heavy in ur mind

She will be worried and want to come around

Den u can grant her desire


But do not tell her u were respecting her in the first place or else she will now feel cheap



She is ur best friend make her happy, sex is a good thing if both of u are ready



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And get a free keyfinder as bonus**

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by Cutehector(m): 6:51am On Aug 24, 2015
One thing I"v learnt in life


One doesn't need a boyfriend or a girlfrnd to hav sex with....

Sex just happens

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by Nobody: 6:53am On Aug 24, 2015
I wonder why normal friendship between opposite sex is so complicated,somehow one would be expecting sex and the other is tagged selfish or a fool for not giving in.


Why can't a guy and girl just be friends and just let it remain like that.

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by Nobody: 6:56am On Aug 24, 2015
Mr nice guy, undecided

if she came for consolation, she would've left that same day!!

she came to LASH away her sorrows.....and you were busy forming chief priest undecided

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by knostbrown01(m): 6:58am On Aug 24, 2015
What are you friend for?? Gimme her number, lemme sleep with her

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by Nobody: 7:10am On Aug 24, 2015
knostbrown01:
What are you friend for?? Gimme her number, lemme sleep with her
even if she has HIV undecided

"is that how you USE to do "

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by knostbrown01(m): 7:23am On Aug 24, 2015
Tomfrench:
even if she has HIV undecided
I actually see dt she was right about you!!! ... Don't tell me you dnt knw what 2use to knack her OR are you a virgin??

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by knostbrown01(m): 7:25am On Aug 24, 2015
Ebiz12:
I wonder why normal friendship between opposite sex is so complicated,somehow one would be expecting sex and the other is tagged selfish or a fool for not giving in.


Why can't a guy and girl just be friends and just let it remain like that.

There is age limit which friendship can exist between girl and guy if not professional... #Getusetothat#

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by Nobody: 7:29am On Aug 24, 2015
knostbrown01:


There is age limit which friendship can exist between girl and guy if not professional... #Getusetothat#



@ #Getusetothat# its not a do or die affair,I've tried it once and it didn't work so I'll never do it again

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by knostbrown01(m): 7:34am On Aug 24, 2015
Ebiz12:




@ #Getusetothat# its not a do or die affair,I've tried it once and it didn't work so I'll never do it again
Am just telling you the noble fact about it.. Guys and ladies can't be friend ~Fernando sucre (culled from Prison break when talking about maricruz)

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by Ginaz(f): 7:34am On Aug 24, 2015
lol, this scene reminds me of a Chinese movie I watched, they were doing "chan shin shu chan" the actor na vex and blow the boss, the boss fell and broke his neck. grin

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by Abbey2sam(m): 7:58am On Aug 24, 2015
Ginaz:
lol, this scene reminds me of a Chinese movie I watched, they were doing "chan shin shu chan" the actor na vex and blow the boss, the boss fell and broke his neck. grin

How does this relate to the story here ? grin

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by cyprus000: 8:01am On Aug 24, 2015
Kenzico:
I have done this act to 2 different ladies who voluntary decided to sleep in d same room with me on different occasions...Upon all d respect I accorded 2dem all through. They still disliked me cha....and I still stood proud and had no regrets for not touching them. My bro, leave d biAtch....she jux wan put u 4 problem or very soon she go say u RAPED me
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Guyz need to be careful with all this devil in human skin.
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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by Nobody: 8:05am On Aug 24, 2015
Ramos16:
I am not good at telling long story, so this will be short, My best friend, a girl, had a boyfriend, whom i do not really relate to, their relationship had issues so she decided to take a break.
She called and asked if she could come to my place, i agreed, and was happy to have her, as even i had to just had a break up.
Long story short, she spent three days in my place, we ate from the same plate, and slept on the same bed for three days but i never touched her or made advance.
When she left my place, she called and asked if i am okay, that something must be wrong with me for not having sex with her or even touching her once througout when she was with me.
My honest thought through out her stay was that i was trying to help a friend who was heart broken, so i played the gentleman.
My people pls help me oh. Did i do wrong?

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by SporaD8: 8:07am On Aug 24, 2015
SPG4U:
You are a good guy for respecting her...

Tell her to come around that d last time she came u had something heavy in ur mind

She will be worried and want to come around

Den u can grant her desire


But do not tell her u were respecting her in the first place or else she will now feel cheap



She is ur best friend make her happy, sex is a good thing if both of u are ready

***see my signature**
And get a free keyfinder as bonus**
Wow! It takes a gal to know another gal's mind!
Pls sis, my gf's complicated mind-game is giving me headache and I will like to have your opinion if you dont mind.

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by afolwalex20(m): 8:14am On Aug 24, 2015
But guy u suppose don code now...
3 days
She's definitely up to something undecided

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Re: My Best Friend Wanted Me To Sleep With Her by Ramos16(m): 8:19am On Aug 24, 2015
knostbrown01:

I actually see dt she was right about you!!! ... Don't tell me you dnt knw what 2use to knack her OR are you a virgin??
lol, i did not make the above comment

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