Ebiz12:
I wonder why normal friendship between opposite sex is so complicated,somehow one would be expecting sex and the other is tagged selfish or a fool for not giving in.


Why can't a guy and girl just be friends and just let it remain like that.

chocolateme:
Its not too late, call her back now and grant her the desires of her heart since she is so blinded to observe the respect you accorded her.
Tomorrow they will say that guys don't have levels of self control.
Mtschrwww!!

FTC

Oliviaarims:

The answer's simple... Bcoz dey are not same sex nd feelings r bound 2 set in at some point. A boy nd a gurl are just not meant 2 b neutral buddies 4 ever. Never happened, not if dey are super close.

Oliviaarims:

The answer's simple... Bcoz dey are not same sex nd feelings r bound 2 set in at some point. A boy nd a gurl are just not meant 2 b neutral buddies 4 ever. Never happened, not if dey are super close.

Pdizzle:


Haha, Butch where you dey see these memes

pinkbee:


You should be my best friend

SexyStrawberry:


Chai, I wish I would have this kinda boyfriend with supper self control coz its almost impossible to see guys like this

andyanders:
Op, you for even suck her booby, then .............................

Women with their wahala.You no do, problem, you do, problem.You give respect, problem, you no give respect, wahala. Tufiakwa

freecocoa:
OP, you did nothing wrong, the girl is the problem and please don't take what she said as an invite to try touching any girl who might be alone with you.

I don't understand why some girls won't just use their brains.

Kachisbarbie:


Truckie, the girl only asked a very simple question. Sometimes I wonder why guys rush into conclusion(s).
It could be her only lil way of saying 'wow, you surprised me, I expected you to rush me like a wolf'.

I think the OP should grow up and stop reading meaning into every question. Except she explicitly asked for the sex.

Fourwinds:
hmmmmm. I dey look u with corner eye

Princedapace:
Well, I dont know whats up with some ladies..

Im even experiencing similar thing now...a lady i accommodated from Jan to June this year and didnt touch her because I respected her a lot. On the account on why she stayed with me for that long! She chose to...she was my friend. She refused getting apartment else where and she had the cash. Our agreement was that she would stay for only one month. One thing led to another, she stayed for 6 months..Very beautiful lady.... My case was funny and I dont even know how I was able to resist her! May be because I was getting the thing else where and wanted to act the good friend thing. No one ever believed we were not dating. She told her friend that Im wicked, that I made her cry most nights! How did i do that? They refused to tell me! All these revelations started coming out after 5 months and she actually left my apartment out of anger.

my greaetest surprise now is that she doesnt even talk with me again or when she does, she acts cold....she left last month and she has been angry for what i dont know. See babe wey I helped o. Just wanted to act the gentleman. My conversations with her showed that she is not happy that I could accommodate her for that long and never made even an attempt for once...towards the last month started sounding hurt and pained! Well, Recently, she sent me a text message that I greatly hurt her and I have pleaded her to tell me what I did, no way...lolzzz.. i have said it, I will not repeat such again. Ladies just dont know when you want to help them.

I'm [size=20pt]PrincedaPace[/size]

One house please

SexyStrawberry:

werrin happen? y u no use side eye?"

Kachisbarbie:


c'mon...na you dey talk this thing?

A lot of girls have asked their male besties very silly questions at some point and vice-versa. 'Are you gay?' after an unadventurous night together is very common and should be taken lightly pls_ more as a compliment, than an insult or invitation for more.

Ebiz12:
I wonder why normal friendship between opposite sex is so complicated,somehow one would be expecting sex and the other is tagged selfish or a fool for not giving in.


Why can't a guy and girl just be friends and just let it remain like that.

freecocoa:
I strongly disagree, why are you asking if he is gay when you aren't interested?why would you expect adventure(I take it as some intimacy)with a guy you aren't romantically interested in or involved with? You shouldn't discuss sex in suggestive manners with a guy, if you are not interested, doing so is definitely an invite for more.

Fourwinds:
dats is d way a girl loos when d boyfriend is send text message

Fourwinds:
do u know u girls are weird.!

Fourwinds:
nonsense again. imagine asking a girl silly questions., dey hardly take it. dey see it as insult no matter d besties stuff. what u don't like., don't push it to another person

pinkbee:


The answer is 'YES'.

Tie the goat with a strong rope on one side of room and keep the yam one the other side of the room.

Oliviaarims:
Why are you guys chastising him 4 not sleeping with her emphasizing on d fact dt her spending 3days with him implicitly means she wntid sex?.... Sex might not have been her initial motive 4 coming ever. Nd Ramos, yhu sounding lyk yhu did sth heroic by not sleeping with her. Et's a good thing, buh I'm sure yhu wntid 2 at a certain point nd regretted not going ahead now.

Kachisbarbie:


Truckie, the girl only asked a very simple question. Sometimes I wonder why guys rush into conclusion(s).
It could be her only lil way of saying 'wow, you surprised me, I expected you to rush me like a wolf'.

I think the OP should grow up and stop reading meaning into every question. Except she explicitly asked for the sex.

SexyStrawberry:


What have we done ?

Kachisbarbie:


Youngman, till you can converse in a civil manner like a human being, take note of my sobriquet and avoid it like a plague.
I can't entirely see the sense in your rebuttal, but I am not going to call it 'nonsense'.
Thanks.

kingsfield:
I guess if u r d yam u'll roll n walk to d goat. Guess dats hw u roll, u rly lyk (him) tied.

Ramos16:

well i wont blame you for asking me to grow up, its just unfortunate that written text cant bear expressions, else i will write in the tone whibh she uses to speak to me now

Sorry about the grow up. We are all growing up though...
Sometimes one needs to just act and reason like a blank being, for the sake of friendship.
You alone understood her tone, you claim she is your bestie...what concerns NL in the matter?
Probably she has even had a crush on you all this while_ it happens.