Richiy:


What you cannot afford, the cash equivalent is usually an investment. He cannot afford those shoes, hence 93k is an investment to him.

What you cannot afford, the cash equivalent is usually an investment?Definitions of Investment : (plural investments)
The act of investing, or state of being invested.
A placement of capital in expectation of deriving income or profit from its use.
That with which anyone is invested; a vestment......... My sister, you are way beyond my league in how you see this life..

cabaliciouscabal:


Women !!! greedy as eva, dey find it hard to give to men, yet dey ar ready to injure a man by collecting his savings and send him on a journey of no return.

May be d guy was only testing her level of kindness and Caring, now she failed, no sensible man will want to marry a woman dat is self centered and unkind.


My candid advise for u is to kiss d relationship gd bye and don't even try to apiece d guy cus he has lost lnterest in u.


It reminds me of one of my x dat I call and asked her to send me Jst 1500 Naira recharge card to test her level of kindness but I was surprised,since den she decline calling, and Nairalanders guess Wat I was going to send #5000 to her fix her hair. But she lost d money, due to greed. I thank God though dat she got out of my life.

These ar part of reasons y Nija guys prefers to date foreign ladies. And Nija ladies ar increasing on deliverance grounds looking for husband dat is not coming.

Don't you dare insults ladies that way. This is what I hate on Nairaland. That you dated some cheap a.ss girl does not mean that all Nigerian ladies are as cheap as they come. It also speaks volumes about the kind of girls you attract.

On behalf of ladies that know their worth, I declare that you need Change.

Your boyfreind asked you to buy him a shoe,u then open a thread to seek people's opinion online if to buy it or not.useless girl/ useless thread/cheap liar.

Run if you still have your legs,dnt ever fall mugu,you will hate yourself later.

guccidriver93k:
Now, I am a student, furthering my studies. And he is working, he has worked for sometime too.
Ok, so I have some money that I am saving to do something later next year, when I will be graduating. But my fear is that he doesn't sound like he will give me back this money. Two, I have a problem with him wearing a 93k shoe in this harsh economy knowing that the money can be saved and invested in something of worth. His choice at the end of the day sha.

Do you think I should buy it Opinions pls

if dis story is true.....he is not ur boyfriend. ...jst walk out now its jst 93k..b4 it turns 2 a milli

mya1:


I'm compelled to think you're the guy in question.


It's a visionless man who would rather invest in a 93k shoes when he hasn't built an empire for himself.
It's a foolish man that will request that his self sponsored girlfriend "borrow" him money to purchase a 93k pair of shoes .

The crux is the purpose " a pair of shoes"

Op, beyond being a gold digger, your so called bae is visionless.

If 93k is such a big deal to you, I wonder what more I can say.. I have asked you, is it the amount in question that's your issue? if that is the issue, then we can't even talk.. you are obviously new to these things.. Also, how does asking your girlfriend for money, or shoes, or whatever, even when she can't afford it, means that you are VISIONLESS?Jeez!!! Have you wondered if the guy knows this girl more than you? Do you have background information of the buildup to this present gist?

nobeku:
What you cannot afford, the cash equivalent is usually an investment?Definitions of Investment : (plural investments)
The act of investing, or state of being invested.
A placement of capital in expectation of deriving income or profit from its use.
That with which anyone is invested; a vestment......... My sister, you are way beyond my league in how you see this life..

All these dictionary definitions can compound and confuse sometimes. What am trying to say is this: You cannot afford a 30m car, yet you want to buy it anyways, that 30m that you cannot afford can be used to invest in a venture that will yield profit so you can be able to afford the initial investment I.e the 30m and more in the long run.

guccidriver93k:
My boyfriend said I should buy him Gucci Driver shoes worth N93k when I am coming home for Christmas break, said he will give me the money when I come back. This is going to be the first time we will meet since we started our fragile relationship 9 months ago, we knew a bit in University few years ago.

Severally, I have told my boyfriend prior to now that I cannot afford it. Last before now, he said "but you can start saving now and you will get the money before your arrival". So this time, to be the virtuous girlfriend, I had to go all out and check up the prices for this shoe.
I think he assumes that because I am a self-sponsored student abroad, I am Dantata's love child.
Anytime i debunk this claim, he goes like "haba!" and

see bae

just dump your boy friend and date me..i will not ask for such for fashion...i will only ask us to invest it and make money for our future..your boy friend no love o..im here for you.

guccidriver93k:
Now, I am a student, furthering my studies. And he is working, he has worked for sometime too.
Ok, so I have some money that I am saving to do something later next year, when I will be graduating. But my fear is that he doesn't sound like he will give me back this money. Two, I have a problem with him wearing a 93k shoe in this harsh economy knowing that the money can be saved and invested in something of worth. His choice at the end of the day sha.

Do you think I should buy it Opinions pls

from what i deduced while reading your chat messages, your so called boyfriend isn't that "into you" at least not enough to take seriously hence the warning he gave for you not to address him as husband (be wise) That aside, there's nothing wrong buying gifts or luxury goods for your date but that's only if you can afford it of which as a student, he should have shown remorse while making demands from you (I'm a guy but i still think that's heartless of him) then again, what do i know ? If the amount won't pain you, just get it for him but don't expect a refund or the relationship to even go anywhere at least till after the "talk" he said you guys need to have.

e pain too mush aswear

Richiy:


Really, people shouldn't be this clueless anymore naaaaa. E dey pain me wallahi.

xamuel17:
slippers don finish for market?

nawa for you oh, you too harsh.

trapQ:
op, your boyfriend digs more diamonds than the miners in Sierra Leone and what's worse is that you ain't noticed it yet. what are you still doing with a nigga like that. and that rubbish he said about you not being his wife yet is stupendously stupid. you shouldn't be with a man that talks, reasons, and acts like a 2 yr old.
why does he want to wear a 93k shoe when he cannot afford it?? he even expects you to save up to buy his "fantasy shoe". op pls widen up and do the needful before its too late. you got the type of man to put his "wants" first before paying the children's fees. that nigga is gonna even depend on you for accommodation and clothing. you need a mature man: one that sets his priorities straight. not one who wants you to save up for a 93k shoe that he can't afford.

for the record he don't love you. if he did, he'd even be happy you thought of him being a potential husband.
if you were my sister I would've took the next available flight to wherever you are just to give you a hot resounding slap. run for your dear life my dear sister. we girls should never miss red flags like this.

Hahahahaha. Well said!! Applies vice versa too.

In olamide voice

He say he want Gucci oh
He say he go marry me oh
I say I no get money oh
Story for the gods the gods oooooooo In olamide voice

Pls who is the director of this film? TITLED ;
OH! MY GUCCI SHOE. Part 1

Invest 93k in a guy? Hope you have something you own that worths 100k+. No right thinking fellow will spend such an amount on a shoes except they are very comfortable already. Dont be threatened, dont be desperate for marriage. Its obvious that you are being bullied. A good guy or girl will tell you to get him whatever you can afford.

Invest 93k in a guy? Hope you have something you own that worths 100k+. No right thinking fellow will spend such an amount on a shoes except they are very comfortable already. Dont be threatened, dont be desperate for marriage. Its obvious that you are being bullied. A good guy or girl will tell you to get whatever you can afford.

my urhobo sister

Pearlkevwe:


Hahahahaha. Well said!! Applies vice versa too.

haywire07:
Buy it or tell him u've bought the shoe ( u can send him pix of d shoes without buying ) but don't make d mistake of sending it o. If u send , den u b maga for life .
Its bettr to give him hand to hand and secretely record d conversation that ensues. So u can tender d record as an evidence to the police in case d guy wants to scam u .

My opinion, Pretend to have bought it, then start asking for part of cash. Also, insist on one-on-one delivery. Stories would start, I bet you

Emzyme: @op my advice RUN or sorry Raned
dat guy aint serious at all expecting 93k gift frm u
Now lets go to my 2nd advice 4 u
do u knw a place call onitsha market or alaba ..1).download a picture of the original shoe design when u get to nigeria go straight to those places i mentioned ...2) when u get there ask 4 either Emeka,chukwudi or any name dat rhymes with that shw him d downloaded pic nd ask him to produce 2 pairs of exactly that design 3)tell him u need it in a hurry 4)wait for 2-3hrs nd u have ur gucci driver shoe 4) go meet ur bf nd presnt it to him 5)dnt forget to thank me oooo
NB) it shouldnt cost more than #9,300

Bad guy!!! I hope my gf is not reading your comments, cos she might take to this your second advice if I ask her for exorbitant gift.

kaboninc:


But sweery, I've taken notice of the screenshots you said came from him. Then if you noticed also, you'll see that there was a 6 hour difference between when he told you not to buy the shoes again and when he replied you rudely.

My interest is in his rude reply. I strongly believe that something led to it, either you guys had a fight or something as I do not think he sent that text immediately after the previous ones.

No dear, no conversations in between. Even till now, none. He is a very rude person. Ex now, though.

He is not interested in the relationship or in ur wellbeing, the truth is he is only pretending to keep the relationship with you because he wants the shoe to b bought by you. A Gift is not something one should be compelled to give. My dear friend,if ur boyfriend really wants the shoe let him send you the money he has saved to buy d shoe. Don't use ur savings for such venture else u will regret it.

cabaliciouscabal:


Women !!! greedy as eva, dey find it hard to give to men, yet dey ar ready to injure a man by collecting his savings and send him on a journey of no return.

May be d guy was only testing her level of kindness and Caring, now she failed, no sensible man will want to marry a woman dat is self centered and unkind.


My candid advise for u is to kiss d relationship gd bye and don't even try to apiece d guy cus he has lost lnterest in u.


It reminds me of one of my x dat I call and asked her to send me Jst 1500 Naira recharge card to test her level of kindness but I was surprised,since den she decline calling, and Nairalanders guess Wat I was going to send #5000 to her to fix her hair. But she lost d money, due to greed. I thank God though dat she got out of my life.

These ar part of reasons y Nija guys prefers to date foreign ladies. And Nija ladies ar increasing on deliverance grounds looking for husband dat is not coming.

All this rant for recharge card of 1500 and hair money of 5k? Smh. #hiss
A girl has NEVER met a guy, and he has guts to request 93k shoe? Such a shameless b*st*d. He won't even send part of the money to her? From your response, you would do same and I'm not surprised, looking at your 1500 and 5000 story. My guy would not give me 5k for hair and won't request for 1500 recharge card please! Such reasoning. Where lies your level of responsibility? Nonsense!! Naija girls this, naija girls that! When your mates are setting up their girls in preparation for the future, and being busy building investments for their future together. You think it's all women who ask for stuff from guys? Not to be boastful, but I could earn my hair money from sewing just a piece of bridal dress among a set of 6 ordered ones.

And UNKIND is a nice word for a greedy working being expecting a self-sponsored STUDENT to spend 93k out of her savings.

Please let's see space for more matured responses here..

Dolypson04:

Op did u create an account strictly for ds thread or u renamed ur profile?
BTW how sure are we that the guy hasn't given u something ten times costlier than d shoe?

Nope. We haven't seen since we started dating. No monetary or gift exchange before.

Please my dear i beg you in the name of God don't be this silly man's mugu. First of all from his tone he is not serious about you, he could have found a better way of saying you guys are just dating. To the main issue please ask him how many 93k shoes does he have in his closet and he can start saving now to send you the money to buy the shoes for him and also one for you *side eyes. Kindly dump the gold digging man smhhhhhhh.

SO na only guys sabi buy una expensive things abi? na nw u knw say najia hard. wen una dey buy Brazilian nd contonu hair una no dey no say dem fit use dt kind money invest. nw ur bf ask u for shoe na d whole world wan hear am. gerra out of here for real men.. u knw what am saying

That's a gold digging Negro! He doesn't love u! At best you are his friend with benefits! What a shameless and huge disgrace to manhood! It seems he means more to ya than you to him! Dump his a55, he does t love u!!!!

See OP ehn this guy doesn't like talkless of love you. open your eyes! Never go on a journey with your heart without your brain!See una conversation sef...e no even be like say una dey relationship. what's regards? No even try am! 93k shoe koh!

Richiy:


All these dictionary definitions can compound and confuse sometimes. What am trying to say is this: You cannot afford a 30m car, yet you want to buy it anyways, that 30m that you cannot afford can be used to invest in a venture that will yield profit so you can be able to afford the initial investment I.e the 30m and more in the long run.

Now you have put it better, I concur.. BUT this totally a complete Uturn to your earlier postulation. . the thing is we shouldn't come here and say things based on reported info.. These things border around the matters of the heart.. judgement will definitely be wanting..

Gucci driver shoes, i actually had to go ask google what type of shoe that is. lol i concur with the guy that suggests aba or onitsha made. Na maximum two hour job be that.

Boss13:
I will not conclude because I don't know what your relationship is like. I just got curious about this story because of the shoe and I did a google check. Your boy friend can get a counterfeit of that shoe for 15-25k in Nigeria here and even on Amazon. The Chinese are very good in ensuring that. I wonder what he wants to use the shoe for (my guess). I am not saying it is bad to spend N93k on shoes, well if it is Oxford and you can afford it, however, from the situation of things, it appears your boy friend cannot afford it and willingly to go into debt for it. Maybe he is a fashion craze person, but putting a N93k shoe paid for by another person is not a very good thing. Hence, I would advice you not to buy it, let him pay for it with his own cash. Also, there is electronic transfer, he can pay with his MasterCard or VISA card.

When he first talked about this shoe, I ask him, "can we pls make due with alternatives for now?". He said "no, ah no nah, pls don't buy Chinese shoe for me o". Yes he is a up to date fashion type. Thanks for your valuable contribution.

SAVEDBABA:
"I want to use it for something" dat part bursted my head..... Bt on a second mayb he want s to buy and give to one of his ogas..... For reasons known to him.... My advise....dnt give him... Quote me to no y

Thanks for your valuable contribution.

Make I also chuk mouth.
Is he a celebrity trying to wear a 93k shoe?
I doubt if Tuface wears 93k shoe sef. But if he can afford it, that's his business. Meanwhile if he's really serious about buying the shoe, he should send u the money for u to buy.
He's already warning u of not calling him husband.
Looks to me u r d one trying to force relationship on him... Not the other way round.
Meanwhile, should u be considering to marry someone who likes to save for months just to spend it on 93k shoe??
These are the signs u look at while dating.
I'm sure God has better plans for u other than that.
I'm sure from what I've said, u know what to do. All the best.