Ray360:
dear OP, from the culmination of your quotations to various posts above, I could deduce that the problem is psychological and can't be remedied by mere shallow means. can you answer these questions
1.What is her sexual appeal like?
2. Primarily, what Type of woman have you always prefered to make love with? shape or stature wise. busty women? slim women? women with plentiful behind? fat women? please answer.

3. what shape does your fiancee fall into according to question 2 above?

4. the other woman you made love with and used as a control experiment specimen, what's her shape like? what excited your hormones before you made love to her?


Do justice to these questions please, I await a reply

shay101:
He got high sex appeal. He body type is okay but her breast doesn't really turn me on.
the other lady I had sex with was not as beautiful as she is.

Ray360:

hmm! do you like big breast? and do you think the sight of her breast kills your urge? these questions might seem silly from me, But they can be roots of your plight

shay101:
Hi everyone,
This is my predicament, have been dating this lady for almost two years now and anytime we want to have sex I usually don't have an erection. This is unlike me because usually I am very active when it comes to sex. Even when I watch a simple music videos I feel an erection in me. But anytime am about to make love to my fiancee, even if I had an erection it just goes down. Sometimes even when I succeed in having an erection it dies in the middle of the sex. We have never had a complete round of sex before. I thought something was wrong with me so I tried having sex with another lady and this didn't happen.
Please people I'm here because I need your help on what to do because am about to start marriage plans, but I don't want a marriage I will not enjoy or where I will be cheating outside. Please help me everyone including pastors in the house.
Thanks

shay101:
No

Ray360:
dear OP, from the culmination of your quotations to various posts above, I could deduce that the problem is psychological and can't be remedied by mere shallow means. can you answer these questions
1.What is her sexual appeal like?
2. Primarily, what Type of woman have you always prefered to make love with? shape or stature wise. busty women? slim women? women with plentiful behind? fat women? please answer.

3. what shape does your fiancee fall into according to question 2 above?

4. the other woman you made love with and used as a control experiment specimen, what's her shape like? what excited your hormones before you made love to her?


Do justice to these questions please, I await a reply

shay101:
If you feel it will pass, have you been in such or do you know anyone that has been and how did he get over it?

shay101:
This is something serious.

Durentt:
Dont get married now.
And stop includin pastors in every cause of sexuality. Jeez, dis nigerians nawaooo

You have a long-way to go in discovering ur true sexuality. Maybe Gay or transgender. Who knows.

ShaheedBinAliyu:





Eleyi gidi gaan

megafone:
Ha!

vfactor:



Pls use another example. Maybe scientifically reseached and confirmed case of changing sexuality. Don't even use caitilyn Jenner abeg! Those ones no follow.


However I don't think that's the case with this young man. His case is psychological impotency.

shay101:
Hi everyone,

This is my predicament, have been dating this lady for almost two years now and anytime we want to have sex I usually don't have an erection. This is unlike me because usually I am very active when it comes to sex. Even when I watch a simple music videos I feel an erection in me. But anytime am about to make love to my fiancee, even if I had an erection it just goes down. Sometimes even when I succeed in having an erection it dies in the middle of the sex. We have never had a complete round of sex before. I thought something was wrong with me so I tried having sex with another lady and this didn't happen.

Please people I'm here because I need your help on what to do because am about to start marriage plans, but I don't want a marriage I will not enjoy or where I will be cheating outside. Please help me everyone including pastors in the house.

Thanks