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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Guyman02: 12:36pm On Oct 29, 2015
charlesbailey:

The truth ladies don't know is that guys eventually get tired of their girl's/wife's pvssyy and the op's has set in earlier..

solution is to stay away from her for a while,no sex(with her or any other) and see her less often, the day you get so hornny, spperm starts coming out of your nose, try it with your babe, it would be like when you first met.

Sai! Omo see advise. I don suffer; by the time Spperm starts coming out of your nose? No kind thing wey we no go hear for this Nairaland grin grin

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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Nobody: 12:36pm On Oct 29, 2015
ernie1234:


Is that the advice He seek for?
Common sense......mtchewwwww

Give it to him then & stop the whinging. Lol, as if you're giving much input yourself. Take your own advice & apply some common sense before blindly qouting people, Batman grin
Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Nobody: 12:37pm On Oct 29, 2015
InsaneTamie:


What the f is psychological impotency? cheesy

Someone who isn't impotent, but can lose his ability to get a hard on cos of stress, tension, or anxiety.

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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Nobody: 12:40pm On Oct 29, 2015
Durentt:
Dont get married now.
And stop includin pastors in every cause of sexuality. Jeez, dis nigerians nawaooo

You have a long-way to go in discovering ur true sexuality. Maybe Gay or transgender. Who knows.

i noticed your comment on another thread about a bisexual gal, you seem to be a strong advocate for homosexualism...no problem, but this issue is not about not finding his true sexual stance....he had complete sex with another girl!..you should profer a better solution and not see this as a campaign for homosexuality



@ op, ask the girl to tell you what you need to know about her, nothing do you

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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by arabianights: 12:40pm On Oct 29, 2015
playtheblues:
Both of you are not sexually compatible.
You shouldn't marry her unless you don't care about sex at all.
Bye.


I really hope he takes you advise seriously.that marriage is going no where if he marries her

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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Smartresult(f): 12:45pm On Oct 29, 2015
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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by starwar(m): 12:45pm On Oct 29, 2015
Penboy:
OP, if you love her; go ahead with the marriage plans.

Sex is not too important in marriage.
If you need to reproduce, then there are Assisted Reproductory Techniques (ART) that are available. [see your gyn]
wetin this one dey talk abeg?
Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by charlesbailey(m): 12:45pm On Oct 29, 2015
thou go fear fear cheesy
Guyman02:


Sai! Omo see advise. I don suffer; by the time Spperm starts coming out of your nose? No kind thing wey we no go hear for this Nairaland grin grin
Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by umehmj(m): 12:46pm On Oct 29, 2015
i cast out every spiritual husband that has refused your Johnson to answer to call of duty! out now!.... you are free...go and come back with a testimony. amen!

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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by apogeez(m): 12:55pm On Oct 29, 2015
Maybe u two are related
Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Akalia(m): 12:57pm On Oct 29, 2015
Durentt:
You know sexuality changes over the period like weather changes. You can ask halfrica bcuz she's straight today, gay tomorrow, transgender in the night.


Thats life 4 u *Akara in the wheel of steam*
you are very loud on here as I have come to take cognizance of it. your blatant credence to immorality, natural anomaly and disregards for divine statutes are ones I find rather disgusting.
you just need to apply some moderation to your permissive will towards bodily lust and gratification.Stop showing ur shameful perversion in public I take GOD beg u.
Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by adaxxy: 12:58pm On Oct 29, 2015
shay101:
How can that anxiety be curbed because have gone too far already
My dear you are not sexually compatible,
So therefore move on.
Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by sirxris(m): 1:01pm On Oct 29, 2015
My dear, thanks to God you found this out on time. This is just one of the benefits of courtship. The simple fact from your ordeal is that you both are simply NOT COMPATIBLE! So, please dont make the mistake of continuing your marriage plans with her because the story will not end up well in the long run - mostly in frustration and unfaithfulness. Just talk it over with her and break up quietly.

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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by koife(m): 1:04pm On Oct 29, 2015
shay101:
Hi everyone,

This is my predicament, have been dating this lady for almost two years now and anytime we want to have sex I usually don't have an erection. This is unlike me because usually I am very active when it comes to sex. Even when I watch a simple music videos I feel an erection in me. But anytime am about to make love to my fiancee, even if I had an erection it just goes down. Sometimes even when I succeed in having an erection it dies [/b]in the middle of the sex[b]. [/b]We have never had a complete round of sex before[b]. I thought something was wrong with me so I tried having sex with another lady and this didn't happen.

Please people I'm here because I need your help on what to do because am about to start marriage plans, but I don't want a marriage I will not enjoy or where I will be cheating outside. Please help me everyone including pastors in the house.

Thanks
Bro pls your statement is fallacious....you're about to get married to a lady you can't have sex....pls see bolded. Thanks for confusing us....pls bore us no more....Adios!
Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Contumely: 1:04pm On Oct 29, 2015
seangy4konji:
Ur head is valid.
I had an experience once with one fine girl. Any time I was about to penetrate,it will be as if some one closed the door.my thing goes down. While fingering to get up. It will open again. I gave up dat day only to ask another nigga I knew was wit her some months back and nigga said same happen to him. She has a problem and she might not know her self.

Sounds like vaginismus
Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Contumely: 1:05pm On Oct 29, 2015
seangy4konji:
Ur head is valid.
I had an experience once with one fine girl. Any time I was about to penetrate,it will be as if some one closed the door.my thing goes down. While fingering to get up. It will open again. I gave up dat day only to ask another nigga I knew was wit her some months back and nigga said same happen to him. She has a problem and she might not know her self.
Looks like 'vaginismus a medical condition.

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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by rmgbemeje: 1:05pm On Oct 29, 2015
Hmmmmm.
Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by lumideee: 1:05pm On Oct 29, 2015
sorry .
Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Nobody: 1:08pm On Oct 29, 2015
PunkyVeer:
Never mind everything else, I still can't get over the image of you getting an erection from watching a music video. LMFAO. So when the rest of us are mindlessly watching & not paying much attention, you on the other hand are getting freaky with it. Go on with your bad self .

How about you become the judge of the year? huh?
Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Nobody: 1:13pm On Oct 29, 2015
emmyrichie:


How about you become the judge of the year? huh?

Ugh. Do you even know the meaning of that or did you just feel like posting? That's like me saying to him "You go boy!"

How about you take a nap, huh?
Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by henroe2k2(m): 1:17pm On Oct 29, 2015
Durentt:
Dont get married now.
And stop includin pastors in every cause of sexuality. Jeez, dis nigerians nawaooo

You have a long-way to go in discovering ur true sexuality. Maybe Gay or transgender. Who knows.
this one Don craze....
somebody is seeking your help in the form of advise and U are here spewing trash....
Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Nobody: 1:17pm On Oct 29, 2015
shay101:
Hi everyone,

This is my predicament, have been dating this lady for almost two years now and anytime we want to have sex I usually don't have an erection. This is unlike me because usually I am very active when it comes to sex. Even when I watch a simple music videos I feel an erection in me. But anytime am about to make love to my fiancee, even if I had an erection it just goes down. Sometimes even when I succeed in having an erection it dies in the middle of the sex. We have never had a complete round of sex before. I thought something was wrong with me so I tried having sex with another lady and this didn't happen.

Please people I'm here because I need your help on what to do because am about to start marriage plans, but I don't want a marriage I will not enjoy or where I will be cheating outside. Please help me everyone including pastors in the house.

Thanks
Too much of P0RN is destroying your life..
Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Sunseeker: 1:18pm On Oct 29, 2015
BEND DOWN AND PRAY..

Ask your self some questions....1, First question do you really love your fiance...
2.. Second question do you believe that NAIRALAND is the place to address such personal issues.
3.. Are you taking GOD and relationships seriously !!!
Then after that you can take matters to hand

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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Nobody: 1:22pm On Oct 29, 2015
#SpiritHusbandTinzs shocked
Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by DonBobes(m): 1:26pm On Oct 29, 2015
shay101:
Hi everyone,

This is my predicament, have been dating this lady for almost two years now and anytime we want to have sex I usually don't have an erection. This is unlike me because usually I am very active when it comes to sex. Even when I watch a simple music videos I feel an erection in me. But anytime am about to make love to my fiancee, even if I had an erection it just goes down. Sometimes even when I succeed in having an erection it dies in the middle of the sex. We have never had a complete round of sex before. I thought something was wrong with me so I tried having sex with another lady and this didn't happen.

Please people I'm here because I need your help on what to do because am about to start marriage plans, but I don't want a marriage I will not enjoy or where I will be cheating outside. Please help me everyone including pastors in the house.

Thanks

its nt much of a prob, relax ur mind wen u want to mak luv 2 her. Guess u r alwys ovr xcited. Again reduce ur sugar intake.
Call me 4 more tips 080003. All d best.
Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by shay101: 1:29pm On Oct 29, 2015
koife:

Bro pls your statement is fallacious....you're about to get married to a lady you can't have sex....pls see bolded. Thanks for confusing us....pls bore us no more....Adios!
You lack understanding

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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by shay101: 1:30pm On Oct 29, 2015
Don't even watch porn
Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Anthony247: 1:31pm On Oct 29, 2015
Op, I think your problem is purely psychological. It's just your mind-set, but this happens mostly when a guy or girl has in so many occasions had canal knowledge of a particular girl or guy, hence he's tired of it already. But in your own case it seems that you haven't even had much sex with the girl in question. Marriage is a lifetime affair, inotherwords u must be sexually attracted to each other. Talk to yourself or u seek an advise of a councilor, but if nothing changes, no need going ahead with the marriage.
Altimately, pray about it.
Good luck
Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by umehwrites: 1:39pm On Oct 29, 2015
I think the problem is you. U are supposed to have an "Erection "Attention" pls take note
Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by JideTheBlogger(m): 1:40pm On Oct 29, 2015
One niccur's jazz is working eh eh grin

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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Kbs468(m): 1:41pm On Oct 29, 2015
shay101:
how can this problem be solved? Because we are getting close to getting married.
Can you just share with us her reactions, utterances, comments, physical display, complaint or attitude towards your plight and experience? Because doing that will lead us somewhere
Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by jesussaves22: 1:42pm On Oct 29, 2015
Durentt:
You know sexuality changes over the period like weather changes. You can ask halfrica bcuz she's straight today, gay tomorrow, transgender in the night.


Thats life 4 u *Akara in the wheel of steam*
For thinking gay as option may thunder fire you bloody soon to be lynch gay..

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