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Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Guyman02: 2:39pm On Mar 22, 2016
Is she into a serious relationship with your friend that may lead to the altar or just a BF/GF thing?
If its the first let him know what he is getting into, you can save him a whole lot of future crisis

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Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by olaolulazio(m): 2:39pm On Mar 22, 2016
Go get a job, maybe by then u will learn to mind ya business.

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Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Deen77: 2:40pm On Mar 22, 2016
Peacefulgold:
If u luv ur friend so much and u tink he is planning to have a future wit dat girl,den I think u should call d girl and talk to her,tell her if she continues in dat act u will spill everytn out to ur friend....but if ur friend is just catcing fun with her ,u leave trash for lawma....nobody holy pass.....note..if after u warn her she continues den make heed to ur threat and tell ur friend wit enuf evidence...

What of if she continue but more secret without his knowledge.

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Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by MadCow1: 2:40pm On Mar 22, 2016
martyns303:
I went to visit family members where I used to stay, then decided to quickly say hi to my secondary school friend who stays in the same neighborhood.

On getting to his place he was drinking a mixture of alcohol, we talked about old times and the future. This guy keeps drinking the mixture so I couldn't help but ask him why he's drinking that at afternoon, he told me that a girl is coming to visit him and he "needs to finish work", he went on to tell me of his escapades with this girl, I just laughed and said he won't change.

Just as I was about leaving the girl called him that she is almost at the gate. I was going to leave immediately since his place is a self contain and I don't want it to look awkward that I am leaving because she came. I was right outside his door when the girl walked into the compound, and for a moment I thought my mind was playing tricks on me. This same girl is a girlfriend to a close friend of mine where I live, this girl from what I know is the decent type, my guy's serious date, whenever she is around we would be like ah madam don show.

Thinking about the details and escapeds this my secondary school friend just told me, I couldn't believe she is the same person. Long story short, I don't know how she got my number, she had been calling me, when I refused to talk to her she sent me a message on whatsapp saying she doesn't know why she did what she did, and that she loves her BF what what.

I have been cheated on and thanks to a NL who was able to help me go through that phase, I know how much it hurts and I don't want to be the one to put my friend through same pain. Should I just keep quite and hope he finds out or should I tell him?



Snitches are liable to die young.

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Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Praizekeyz(m): 2:42pm On Mar 22, 2016
Report to any *dibia u know.
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by great664(m): 2:42pm On Mar 22, 2016
0What is even wrong with Nigerians saying don't tell him, mind your business etc?

OP please tell your friend and save him from future heartbreak and STD when he has little time to walk to the altar with her...

its a win-win situation.

1. Your friend get angry at first but forgive her later cause of love and her promise to change.

2. She dump her sorry asss, she feel hurt, heartbreak and angry and then later move on to another relationship and be more committed and trustworthy in future. And by so doing you convert a slut to a wife material and she will be grateful in future...

So leave those saying don't tell your friend. How would u feel if your friend know about yours and kept mute?

Remeber
MOB
FOB

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Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by schumastic(m): 2:42pm On Mar 22, 2016
martyns303:
I went to visit family members where I used to stay, then decided to quickly say hi to my secondary school friend who stays in the same neighborhood.

On getting to his place he was drinking a mixture of alcohol, we talked about old times and the future. This guy keeps drinking the mixture so I couldn't help but ask him why he's drinking that at afternoon, he told me that a girl is coming to visit him and he "needs to finish work", he went on to tell me of his escapades with this girl, I just laughed and said he won't change.

Just as I was about leaving the girl called him that she is almost at the gate. I was going to leave immediately since his place is a self contain and I don't want it to look awkward that I am leaving because she came. I was right outside his door when the girl walked into the compound, and for a moment I thought my mind was playing tricks on me. This same girl is a girlfriend to a close friend of mine where I live, this girl from what I know is the decent type, my guy's serious date, whenever she is around we would be like ah madam don show.

Thinking about the details and escapeds this my secondary school friend just told me, I couldn't believe she is the same person. Long story short, I don't know how she got my number, she had been calling me, when I refused to talk to her she sent me a message on whatsapp saying she doesn't know why she did what she did, and that she loves her BF what what.

I have been cheated on and thanks to a NL who was able to help me go through that phase, I know how much it hurts and I don't want to be the one to put my friend through same pain. Should I just keep quite and hope he finds out or should I tell him?


if you don't tell him, then you are a very wicked friend..just tell him in a matured way and safe him from dating a wh*re angry angry

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Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by MyGeneration(m): 2:43pm On Mar 22, 2016
Tell ur friend.
Girls can be funny.
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by solidman59(m): 2:43pm On Mar 22, 2016
To be very candid with you, I think you should tell your friend. Trust me, she's only sorry that she got caught. What a small world
martyns303:
I went to visit family members where I used to stay, then decided to quickly say hi to my secondary school friend who stays in the same neighborhood.

On getting to his place he was drinking a mixture of alcohol, we talked about old times and the future. This guy keeps drinking the mixture so I couldn't help but ask him why he's drinking that at afternoon, he told me that a girl is coming to visit him and he "needs to finish work", he went on to tell me of his escapades with this girl, I just laughed and said he won't change.

Just as I was about leaving the girl called him that she is almost at the gate. I was going to leave immediately since his place is a self contain and I don't want it to look awkward that I am leaving because she came. I was right outside his door when the girl walked into the compound, and for a moment I thought my mind was playing tricks on me. This same girl is a girlfriend to a close friend of mine where I live, this girl from what I know is the decent type, my guy's serious date, whenever she is around we would be like ah madam don show.

Thinking about the details and escapeds this my secondary school friend just told me, I couldn't believe she is the same person. Long story short, I don't know how she got my number, she had been calling me, when I refused to talk to her she sent me a message on whatsapp saying she doesn't know why she did what she did, and that she loves her BF what what.

I have been cheated on and thanks to a NL who was able to help me go through that phase, I know how much it hurts and I don't want to be the one to put my friend through same pain. Should I just keep quite and hope he finds out or should I tell him?

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Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by schumastic(m): 2:44pm On Mar 22, 2016
Monalisa185:
lol...martins....it's as simple as ABC....Let your friend find out by himself....let him be as smart as you were....if you tell him, and the relationship crumbles, I'm not sure you will be happy with yourself.....

when next the girl calls, take her call and tell her that whatever you saw does not concern you...

DO NOT TELL YOUR FRIEND.....channel that energy into making your own relationship stronger!

#cheers

to think this is coming from you smh cry cry sad

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Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by kaziblake(f): 2:44pm On Mar 22, 2016
Don't tell your friend about it,scold and warn her.

Pretend like you didn't see anything.
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Moz22: 2:44pm On Mar 22, 2016
Wee u kip chut?
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Nobody: 2:45pm On Mar 22, 2016
Whatever happens in Vegas must stay in Vegas. Mind your business.
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by VictorRomanov: 2:45pm On Mar 22, 2016
rubsaphy:
well, she obviously cares about your friend, but just need want to have fun. Am sure there are several nasty sexual stuff that she can't do with your friend but want to try it with some one else. Well ask yourself, if she was your girl would you want to know she's cheating?


See excuse! See backing!
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by chichriso: 2:46pm On Mar 22, 2016
What type of thread is this on the front-page
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by lielbree: 2:46pm On Mar 22, 2016
It's non of your business o. The best you can do is to tell him you don't think that's the right woman for him.

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Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by shamecurls(m): 2:46pm On Mar 22, 2016
Better join the queue and mark attendance.

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Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Damfostopper(m): 2:47pm On Mar 22, 2016
Mind ur bizzness n tell d guy.... She aint d right one

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Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Peacefulgold(m): 2:49pm On Mar 22, 2016
Deen77:


What of if she continue but more secret without his knowledge.
Dats d part God has to fight for d guy as His child...
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Cutehector(m): 2:49pm On Mar 22, 2016
Report to ur frnd! Arrant nonsense
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Nobody: 2:49pm On Mar 22, 2016
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Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Next2Bezee(m): 2:52pm On Mar 22, 2016
rubsaphy:
well, she obviously cares about your friend, but just need want to have fun. Am sure there are several nasty sexual stuff that she can't do with your friend but want to try it with some one else. Well ask yourself, if she was your girl would you want to know she's cheating?

What a very deceptive level of reasoning...So you think for whatever blasted reason she has, it is ok for her to cheat? undecided

If i found out that my good friend knew that my babe was cheating and he never told me, the friendship ends immediately! angry

Op if the guy is really your friend then please tell him! You are saving him time. The heartache will come and go and he will move on with his life but at least he'd always have you to thank for the fact that he didn't settle with a serial cheating girl who would have made his entire life miserable.

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Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Nobody: 2:54pm On Mar 22, 2016
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Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Seeeeeeee: 2:54pm On Mar 22, 2016
Tell her to come and give u ur own share of the sexcapes thats the only thing that can shot ur mouth.. Mtcheeeew

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Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by MckOBEY(m): 2:54pm On Mar 22, 2016
ma guy open your head!
u should only tell if she no allow you enter set
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Kenneth10110(m): 2:56pm On Mar 22, 2016
Tell him
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by SeishinSenshi: 2:57pm On Mar 22, 2016
Op how close are you to your friend? Do you trust him and does he trust you too?
I have a better idea. Why not take your friend to see your old classmate. There you can reveal his cheating gf and expose her sexcapades.
Pls do not listen to that girl. The excuse she gave you was trash. You cannot love someone and still do things that'd tear them apart.

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Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Prales(m): 2:57pm On Mar 22, 2016
Once a cheat always a cheat. What if you didn't catch her in the act? How long would she have continued? She's sorry because she got caught. Truth is, tell your friend. There's a possibility that they will sort it out.

One of the silly reasons while guys cheat is to belittle the girl's boyfriend. The guy will now see the girl's boyfriend as nothing, stupid and incapable of making contributions when 'men' gather. It can even affect your friendship with your guy knowing that his girl is sex slave to a serial cheat.

But if you want to mend their relationship and you are sincere with yourself, try this silly advice. Threaten the girl and demand that she sleeps with you if she doesn't want you to report to her boyfriend. If she accepts, then know that its her way of life. She can never change. If she refuses, it shows a bit that she's remorseful. Confess why you asked her in the first place, pressure her to tell her boyfriend by herself and help them work it out. But don't cover her up. It could be you.

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Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Truthisit: 2:57pm On Mar 22, 2016
Please go and tell him quickly. Well, whatever follows it, just take it as your destiny!

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Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Nobody: 2:58pm On Mar 22, 2016
schumastic:


if you don't tell him, then you are a very wicked friend..just tell him in a matured way and safe him from dating a wh*re angry angry
To think the other friend is even using Alcohol to do the girl. Drilling something that someone else will end up paying brideprice on.

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Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Bitojoe(m): 2:58pm On Mar 22, 2016
Amebo
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by kenx1(m): 2:58pm On Mar 22, 2016
Girls girls girls girls !!!!!

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