https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a_c2N6Eubxs

Greatzeus:
Just like Adeboye said,his teachings on marriage is not for everybody.Even so what Pastor Chris is saying is not for everybody.
So no need to work yourself up,his message is for Christians,whose sole authority in all matters of life is the Holy Bible.Those who wants to please God,not some bunch of hypocrites who hide behind their Phones and PC to spew trash at those they will never ever measure up to in life.
They will soon come and pour out their frustration on life and personal failure on Pastor Chris,the way they did on Pastor Adeboye's advice on marriage.

your god pastor Chris lives his life according to bible principles... ehmmm..ehmmm where is his wife?

Nice Teaching........Every young girl about to go into marriage or already in marriage to take these things he said very seriously.
Every wise nd God fearing woman that knws what husband/marriage is all about will not disagree bt commend these statement. When u take ur husband as ur master then, u serve him nd the home very well. but, when u equate urself with him, there is bound to be trouble.

Twaci:




If he didn't, why give him credit?

Walking by faith can be rightly used by any religious group you know...

Muslim terrorists can use it as a reason to kill "unbelievers"....they believe they are the tools of their "God"....that's working by faith...


Pagans too walk by faith as there's nothing to assure them they are doing the right thing....just faith


You shouldn't hide behind that phrase mister as it is not wide enough to cover you.

What doesn't make sense doesn't...and this doesn't.

gilr I love your response..you are just that constructive..

p1jiobi:
Pastor Chris is right. When someone is responsible for your feeding clothing housing etc. That individual is your master period. Women who enjoy their marriage are playing to this rule

What if it is the woman's income that is taking care of the rent, school fees etc?

ifenes:


Why not explain! The husband is a master to whom? Christianity is so anti-women

not just Christianity, religion, and most traditions I have seen are all anti-women

kenlinzo:
Nice Teaching........Every young girl about to go into marriage or already in marriage to take these things he said very seriously.
Every wise nd God fearing woman that knws what husband/marriage is all about will not disagree bt commend these statement. When u take ur husband as ur master then, u serve him nd the home very well. but, when u equate urself with him, there is bound to be trouble.

It is left for the man to look for that woman that will not disagree but commend those statement because people have different formation.

donnie:


Says who.. You wey dem born yesterday? This annointed man has been preaching since his childhood days. Held his first crusade at age 15. Where were you then? He has every right to talk to the church worldwide cos he is annointed and commisioned to do so.

By the way, are you married?

And then? That no mean say he no fit go hell fire... so kipchut

[quote author=donnie post=49150562]This post by Christ Embassy.Org Online Missions facebook page is causing heated debates...

FOR THE MARRIED WOMEN AND THOSE INTENDING TO GET MARRIED, LISTEN & TAKE HEED!!

Topic: Who is a HUSBAND and What is His Role?
By Rev. Chris OyaKhilome Dsc DD

Husband does not mean the male partner in a marriage, husband means master. The reason for most problems in Christian marriages is the fact that women refute God’s definition of marriage and form theirs. They believe they are equal partners. If most women had their fathers bold enough to talk to them, they will be very successful in their marriage and they will be very happy people. Most women have never been taught by their parents, their fathers particularly and that’s their biggest problem because they don’t know who a man is, they think he is another woman.

Wow... I like this one "That we dnt need a Marriage Seminar but a Word Seminar"... Nice one

And now this is where Id call my good pal Ms. Kingcheezypuff to rip into this.. Puffy
*hands her tha mic

ifenes:


It meant a woman shouldn't speak or give a speech in a church! Any woman who wants to be free should boycott Christianity. It isn't for them.

The opposite of Master is Slave. Women are slaves according to the bible.

were u a slave to ur parents? You submitted to their authority even when they got weak and frail, cos u knew n trusted them to steer u on the right path. That's subnission.

U children meddling in what u don't understand. In a pride, u have male lions, and the lioness in order to have a healthy community, they operate in certain ways. The day a lioness decides to become a lion or question the lion, it can't live in any pride so it has to b a loner. There's a reason when there's a war, male folks are called out, there's a reason in pogroms, the male folks and male children are butchered, there's a reason a woman jumps behind her husband in a threatening situation. Woman has her place in the home and its definitely not on the same pedestal with her husband. If you're a lady obsessed with having your way or not submitting to your man, please remain a babymama.
Even children threaten their mates with “when my dad gets here you'll be sorry”, not mum!! Let's save these feminists from destroying the society. Unfortunately its the kids that's worst hit. Submission isn't slavery, infact your husband will love you the more when he's respected, and then you have him in your palms. Women don't rule men by stamping their pretty little feet.

Seun:
Religion and sexism are close pals. You cannot separate them from each other. Personally, I think it's shocking that all women are not atheists.

Oga Seun, shooooooo?! This one u have been commenting upanda on every thread 2day? Its like sometin big is about to happen in ur life soonest. Linda don gree?

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ifenes:
And wife means servant?

Shows how u fail exams. Read b4 u respond not d other way round. The headline said sumtin difft frm d article. Read I say, read b4 u reply.

I have always seen pastor Chris as a teacher, I may not be a fan of the way he pastors his church but he is the best teacher on the pulpit that I have ever known, he's suppose to be in the classroom and not the pulpit, God bless you for this teaching but unfortunately the selfish nature and over fake westernized nature of our women won't let the see the truth in this. Thank you teacher chris.

I pity people who swallow the words of their pastors hook line and sinker instead of reading the Bible for themselves in order to understand it.

So, my husband is the master while I am slave abi? Very funny.
I understand that the husband is the head of the household, just as how Christ is the head of the Church.

Now, Christ the Lord and saviour who is the head of the church and son of God Almighty brought him self so low that he washed his disciples feet. Now which master /Slave relationship works that way?

These men are deluding themselves, megalomaniacs looking for respect and worship by force. God has made men and women equal heirs to his kingdom, how much more here on earth.

Granted men and women play different roles in the family but saying a wife doesn't qualify as an adviser or what not is totally wrong. Both should work together, the man doing his part and the woman supporting him where ever he needs support, not just pleasing him like a freaking puppet or doll.

This Pastor sounds as if women are to become 'oh yes master' all the time even if she is dying within, even if the husband is a violent monster who keeps battering her because he enjoys it. Or if he is a drunk womaniser who doesn't take care of his family.

Respect is very well earned and not by force or not because one so called man of God tells you that you are the master. Even masters need good counsel from subordinates all the time, so what is one so called man of God who could not hold his marriage together talking about?

Seun:
Religion and sexism are close pals. You cannot separate them from each other. Personally, I think it's shocking that all women are not atheists.

What's even more shocking is that you can make sweeping conclusions and assumptions... Implying that "all women" want the same thing or have the same orientations.

Abi na for programming and tech your sense finish?

Why throw a stone on Pastor Chris? Why not concentrate on your own house and take your nose out of another man's house?. And worst would be you're single

donnie:


Says who.. You wey dem born yesterday? This annointed man has been preaching since his childhood days. Held his first crusade at age 15. Where were you then? He has every right to talk to the church worldwide cos he is annointed and commisioned to do so.

By the way, are you married?

Don't mind him/her. Some people don't know the calamity they're heaping on themselves for talking against an anointed man of God. He has every right to preach about marriage and what he said in the above post is 100% correct. if u are a woman and u don't concur, u're not ready to get married.

ifenes:


Why not explain! The husband is a master to whom? Christianity is so anti-women

Christianity is not anti-women anything.
I am a catholic, we respect and adore Virgin Mary (a woman) the mother of our lord Jesus Christ. To us, Jesus is the second person in one God. He is God the son. So, we refer to Mary as the mother of God. Bringing it closer, we have reverend sisters, they are respected and adored by every catholic and they are women. just last week, a woman, Mother Theresa of Calcutta was made a Saint. that is the highest recognition by the church. We actually pray through saints. We believe they intercede for us.

So my dear, Christianity is not anti-women. The bible assigned roles to both man and woman which if followed, both will be happy.

ifenes:


Why not explain! The husband is a master to whom? Christianity is so anti-women

You people have a problem.

No religion is forced upon anybody, at least not here in Nigeria and in other democracies. If you or any woman rejects the idea EXPLICITLY STATED IN THE BIBLE, then what stops you from rejecting Christianity? But if you willingly subscribe to the doctrine of Christianity and believe in the Bible, why quarrel with its teachings? This is very ridiculous.

frank317:
says a man who cannot handle his wife. This man has no right to teach anything on marriage issues

You havent learnt anything. Stop acting holier and wiser. There a lot you dnt kw. Stop judging people from afar. Work on ur own self.

Stop perishing for lack of understanding.

This guy is funny kwa! One will expect this man to be very wise with all his exposure. He must have forgotten that women that are successful in their marriages are successful because their partners worked with them to achieve the success. The unsuccessful marriages mean both the men and women failed at it. Since this preacher's marriage failed, it is safe to say he isn't qualified to speak with absolute confidence on successful marriages. He should go and take lectures from people who truly understand and appreciate marriage.

Twaci:




Oh I did...

I think you should too.

Is he trying to say this was what he had expected of his exwife? Was that why they had issues?

I am not a feminist but I know darn right when something lacks reasoning. And this does....

Yeah, I wanna ask you, does the bible pages lack reasoning or how do you want to interpret those clearly stated verse. It is clear that today, you all interpret the pages of the bible the way it soothes you. Truth is bitter, you can soothe yourself now but will God be happy with on the day of judgement with your characters to your husband?

ever811:
your god pastor Chris lives his life according to bible principles... ehmmm..ehmmm where is his wife?

God forgive you. So you only heard the split, you read that one. Did you read there beautiful union. His wife is right beside him you "Lucifer".

Why on earth will the mods change the topic to something diff on the FP.......SEUN and his mods are so stu...pid and foo..,lish.....


Take you atheism to yourself and your sens..eless group. I've been following ur comments on the religion session.....they are so pathetic. If someone else was posting those thrash, you would have sent ur backing idio...tic mods to ban him/her.

ifenes:


And that's barbaric. Well it's up to s woman to accept that. Some do based on religion and that sucks

pastor Chris is not talking of women in general but spirit filled women who are married.once a woman is married to man she has to yield to his authority and the man has to love his wife.its obvious the message isn't for u pass on and let those the message is for learn from it

Greatzeus:
Just like Adeboye said,his teachings on marriage is not for everybody.Even so what Pastor Chris is saying is not for everybody.
So no need to work yourself up,his message is for Christians,whose sole authority in all matters of life is the Holy Bible.Those who wants to please God,not some bunch of hypocrites who hide behind their Phones and PC to spew trash at those they will never ever measure up to in life.
They will soon come and pour out their frustration on life and personal failure on Pastor Chris,the way they did on Pastor Adeboye's advice on marriage.

I love your response to the unreasonable ones who claims to be a Christian. Ever learning, never able to come to the knowledge of truth.

Twaci:
Is he trying to say we have no right to be opinionated when married?

We should agree to whatever our "masters" say?

This particular sermon is unsettling

Having or expressing your opinion is radically different from being OPINIONATED. Consult your dictionary for the difference between 'opinion' and 'opinionated', and then come back if you have further enquiries.

Being opinionated is EXACTLY what the pastor is advising you CHRISTIAN women against.

donnie:


Says who.. You wey dem born yesterday? This annointed man has been preaching since his childhood days. Held his first crusade at age 15. Where were you then? He has every right to talk to the church worldwide cos he is annointed and commisioned to do so.

By the way, are you married?

it's God that makes a pastor not humans.. Because he held a crusade at the age of 15 doesn't make him a true man of God...after a divorce.. He definitely isn't the best to talk on marriage.. If he knew so much why didn't he keep his wife.. And after that abortion is okay ... I began to doubt his anointing.. Then when I heard they pay to get into services.. I gave up hope.. This man is a scam.. Its bitter but it's the truth..

repogirl:
I pity people who swallow the words of their pastors hook line and sinker instead of reading the Bible for themselves in order to understand it.

So, my husband is the master while I am slave abi? Very funny.
I understand that the husband is the head of the household, just as how Christ is the head of the Church.

Now, Christ the Lord and saviour who is the head of the church and son of God Almighty brought him self so low that he washed his disciples feet. Now which master /Slave relationship works that way?

These men are deluding themselves, megalomaniacs looking for respect and worship by force. God has made men and women equal heirs to his kingdom, how much more here on earth.

Granted men and women play different roles in the family but saying a wife doesn't qualify as an adviser or what not is totally wrong. Both should work together, the man doing his part and the woman supporting him where ever he needs support, not just pleasing him like a freaking puppet or doll.

This Pastor sounds as if women are to become 'oh yes master' all the time even if she is dying within, even if the husband is a violent monster who keeps battering her because he enjoys it. Or if he is a drunk womaniser who doesn't take care of his family.

Respect is very well earned and not by force or not because one so called man of God tells you that you are the master. Even masters need good counsel from subordinates all the time, so what is one so called man of God who could not hold his marriage together talking about?

calm down