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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by frubben(m): 10:39pm On Sep 26, 2016
After he don chop u finish anyhow grin

Sorry just trying to ease the tense grin

Babe he no love period but babe need to control how they have sex anyhow in relationship. Now ur real husband go chop left over grin

Remember just trying to ease the tense wink

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by wahihi(m): 10:39pm On Sep 26, 2016
fullofregrets:
I am feeling so devastated right now , my fiance is leaving me , cause I open up to him , that I once had an abortion .
my fiance and I already meet with our parents , he asked of my hands in marriage, and I accepts , we have been to our parents house , but there's an issue in my side , my father don't was not really good with it , cause of cultural differences, but later agreed we can go ahead with it , so my fiance tells me I need to get pregnant , so that we will do the marriage , I agree to that , but it isn't forthcoming , so I started remembering my past , when I had an abortion , so I opened up to him cause of the love we and trust I shared with him , I have carried out possible best, I am okay but some hormonal challenges , after a month he text me , that he's no more interested in the relationship , i am full of regrets right now , I don't know what to do
WHY DID YOU HAVE AN ABORTION IF I MAY ASK? YOU THINK LIFE IS ABOUT FLEXING THEN NOW SEE WHAT ITS CAUSING YOU I HOPE OTHER STUPID GIRLS OUTSIDE LIKE YOU WILL LEARN FROM THIS.

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by lonelydora: 10:39pm On Sep 26, 2016
fullofregrets:
I am feeling so devastated right now , my fiance is leaving me , cause I open up to him , that I once had an abortion .
my fiance and I already meet with our parents , he asked of my hands in marriage, and I accepts , we have been to our parents house , but there's an issue in my side , my father don't was not really good with it , cause of cultural differences, but later agreed we can go ahead with it , so my fiance tells me I need to get pregnant , so that we will do the marriage , I agree to that , but it isn't forthcoming , so I started remembering my past , when I had an abortion , so I opened up to him cause of the love we and trust I shared with him , I have carried out possible best, I am okay but some hormonal challenges , after a month he text me , that he's no more interested in the relationship , i am full of regrets right now , I don't know what to do

Never let this kind of secret out until that ring is on your fourth finger. Even though i don't support abortion, but 98% of married couple have done abortion.

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by dazzy2(f): 10:39pm On Sep 26, 2016
angry sad angryNigerians don't know the meaning of LOVE

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Originalsly: 10:40pm On Sep 26, 2016
fullofregrets:
I am feeling so devastated right now , i am full of regrets right now , I don't know what to do
What regret? ...of telling him?...or of having the abortion? Guess you had to tell him because you weren't getting pregnant...guilty conscience is one hell of a burden to bear. Pick yourself up...find out your childbearing status...and move on with your life.

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by faitheverest(f): 10:40pm On Sep 26, 2016
Someone just registered today and suddenly her posts dey front page... It is well oooo grin lipsrsealed
Make una no ban me I take God beg una!

Nne Ndo!
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Eliteklaus(m): 10:40pm On Sep 26, 2016
don't blame him, u murdered someone

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by abossedey(f): 10:41pm On Sep 26, 2016
fullofregrets:
I am full of regrets and I feel so suicidal right now , I am really depressed

you shouldn't be, it better you have told him about it, if he is truly yours, he will definitely comes back. moreover why did he went you to get pregnant before marriage, I guess he need confirmation too. Confess to God and ask for forgiveness, because marriage is honourable with bed undefiled, and don't let any guy sleep with you till after marriage, making mistakes doesn't make you feel defeated until you keep nurturing it, just move on. No man should make you depressed and don't ever make it a secret to the man you intend to marry, he should love you for who you are, even though you can still conceive.

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by dazzy2(f): 10:41pm On Sep 26, 2016
Always think b4 u talk

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 10:42pm On Sep 26, 2016
Ooops shocked shocked shocked shocked.... Speechless
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Chubhie: 10:43pm On Sep 26, 2016
fullofregrets:




my dear , you are right ,
we learn everyday ,
sometimes in just a hard way ,
I just wish he can give me chance to make things right again , but he refused to hear my pleas, he said he's fed up , and ready to find another girl , and impregnate her , well I can only wish him luck , am not bad either , God will surely send my own husband and children my way , I moved on already ,
I admire your honesty but your 'openness' in whatever guise be it premised on marriage promises must be resisted and worked on.

Everyone has got a past. accept your past,work through it and make a clean break.

Does legs of yours ought to be shut henceforth. Your secrets remains your power till you find one worthy enough to know those secrets which must be mutually shared secrets.

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by goingape1: 10:43pm On Sep 26, 2016
fullofregrets:
I am feeling so devastated right now , my fiance is leaving me , cause I open up to him , that I once had an abortion .
my fiance and I already meet with our parents , he asked of my hands in marriage, and I accepts , we have been to our parents house , but there's an issue in my side , my father don't was not really good with it , cause of cultural differences, but later agreed we can go ahead with it , so my fiance tells me I need to get pregnant , so that we will do the marriage , I agree to that , but it isn't forthcoming , so I started remembering my past , when I had an abortion , so I opened up to him cause of the love we and trust I shared with him , I have carried out possible best, I am okay but some hormonal challenges , after a month he text me , that he's no more interested in the relationship , i am full of regrets right now , I don't know what to do
even if I'm the guy I would do the same and leave you to rot.

do you want to give me your broken womb angry

if I peradventure i married you and we fvck for many years without having kids and you later open up that you did abortion before, I will so kill you.


shall! karma will follow you still you die.

it is better to be a babe mama than to do abortion.


you are worst than an animal for murdering a child. that child spirit will torment you still you kill your self.

and all those abortionists advising you that you should have keep your mouth quite will soon face the much worst what Is coming ya way.

keep advising her behind your keyboard.


useless naija women everywhere undecided



this is what will are paying Bride price for angry

piece of Shiite

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by dazzy2(f): 10:43pm On Sep 26, 2016
Are you not having sex with your girlfriend?
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by kingOG: 10:43pm On Sep 26, 2016
Lool he left because of your English.... Just joking. Honestly tho the bastard don't deserve you. I mean there's always gonna be a truth to tell him and if he can't respect that you're telling d truth then f**k him
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by chubbygal(f): 10:44pm On Sep 26, 2016
My dear move on with your life. Hope you have a good source of income.

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Chubhie: 10:44pm On Sep 26, 2016
nma24:
Ooops shocked shocked shocked shocked.... Speechless
That's how you make me feel.

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by SirVintageCock: 10:45pm On Sep 26, 2016
Hahaha, your children including the one " murdered" huh. Stop being pretentious here, your sin caught up with you hard, I mean very hard. Do not hold it against the guy cos not many people sanctions abortion. So even with the dangers inherent and the emotional trauma involved not minding the religious angle you still opted for it and now want him to stand by you to show solidarity for a sin you committed when frolicking uppandan. You wasted an innocent blood to hide your reckless lifestyle then you come to the internet to be patted on the back and have your fiancé cursed by online trolls for leaving your murderous ass.
It is time to seek inner forgiveness cos I believe this must have been weighing you down for a long time and you are waiting for the opportunity to voice it out. You did but to the wrong ear so you need a Reverend father....visit a confessional in a Catholic church anywhere and confess your sins. Whether you believe or not, you will feel relieved, at least you won't go about rambling to every D!ck,Tom and Harry that may come your way.
fullofregrets:




my dear , you are right ,
we learn everyday ,
sometimes in just a hard way ,
I just wish he can give me chance to make things right again , but he refused to hear my pleas, he said he's fed up , and ready to find another girl , and impregnate her , well I can only wish him luck , am not bad either , God will surely send my own husband and children my way , I moved on already ,

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 10:45pm On Sep 26, 2016
Marriage is a Neanderthal construct. Relax, knowing there will be no marriage in the next 20 to 50 yrs. Look around you, do you see black and white TV ? That is how marriage will go.

As for that psycho-spirito-philosophically immature person you called fiance, he was not worth it, and is still not worth it even if you chose to ride the ocean of life with him.

I can detect that you are not very lettered, there is a limit to where ignorance can take you. If you truly know what life is, then you wouldnt be worried about marriage and bonding. Live free as a bird, fly like a butterfly and when the ding dong calls at the tick tock, you kiss bye to the oxygen and drop dust to dust.

Be like me. I enjoy my every moment, as if its the last breath.

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by dahmie2013: 10:45pm On Sep 26, 2016
fullofregrets:
I am full of regrets and I feel so suicidal right now , I am really depressed

Na wa o! How can u bring urself 2 dis? Feeling suicidal over a man! But y did he insist u get pregnant b4 d marriage? He probably suspected all along. Nywys, sumthings had better remain un-said. Also, why didn't u tell him 4rm d word go.
It is well dear. Move on!

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Ratello: 10:45pm On Sep 26, 2016
fullofregrets:
I am feeling so devastated right now , my fiance is leaving me , cause I open up to him , that I once had an abortion .
my fiance and I already meet with our parents , he asked of my hands in marriage, and I accepts , we have been to our parents house , but there's an issue in my side , my father don't was not really good with it , cause of cultural differences, but later agreed we can go ahead with it , so my fiance tells me I need to get pregnant , so that we will do the marriage , I agree to that , but it isn't forthcoming , so I started remembering my past , when I had an abortion , so I opened up to him cause of the love we and trust I shared with him , I have carried out possible best, I am okay but some hormonal challenges , after a month he text me , that he's no more interested in the relationship , i am full of regrets right now , I don't know what to do
Sweet heart let him be he is not for you. He is just a loafer, if he truly loves you he will even stick more to you for opening up to that extent. You are truly a jewel and God will give you your husband. How many ladies can be this real as you are. I love you jare and please open up to your future husband and see God perform his wonders in ur life.

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by lonelydora: 10:45pm On Sep 26, 2016
Cutehector:
whch one is gbege? U want d innocent man to not have kids? Pls abeg. She understands that it's all her fault so she shouldn't act all surprised he left.

It is not so when properly done. The problem is when you do it with a quack who charges 5k for it.
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 10:45pm On Sep 26, 2016
CSTR2:
Seriously? This is a devilish advice and a wrong foundation to build a marriage on.
He will find out one day, they always do, and when he does the lady would wish she never got married.
I definitely won't advice any member of my family to hide stuffs like that.
calm Your nerves and don't let Your emotions cloud Your reasoning. Abortion is not Ebola, You will never know provided the procedure was carried out successfully.

You don't go about announcing it to the whole world You've had an abortion, when its of no use.

Same way You don't start telling Your wife how many women You've slept with. Its of no use, makes zero sense.

And oh, my advise is not "devilish". cheesy It's just common sense.

Case closed.

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Rhymez(m): 10:46pm On Sep 26, 2016
fullofregrets:
I am full of regrets and I feel so suicidal right now , I am really depressed

Are you a coward? It seems the word "Suicidal" is too easy to pronounce.
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 10:46pm On Sep 26, 2016
Chubhie:
That's how you make me feel.
undecided
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by dazzy2(f): 10:46pm On Sep 26, 2016
Eliteklaus:
don't blame him, u murdered someone
shut up already
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 10:46pm On Sep 26, 2016
Sist your fiancee do not love you, no one is above mistake or sin.. am proud of u becos u told him d truth, don't worry u will see some one that love u beyond circumstances and do not fail to tell ur next man ur predicament b4 any relationship and I will advice u to fun fertility test. but come to think of it oh, so some1 must get pregnant b4 marriage dats bullshit, sowi to say these. ur bf must be a village guy oh...
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by dahmie2013: 10:47pm On Sep 26, 2016
chubbygal:
My dear move on with your life. Hope you have a good source of income.
Ur head is correct! Dat is all dat matters! A good source of income! Period! Not "feeling suicidal"

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by goingape1: 10:47pm On Sep 26, 2016
lonelydora:


Never let this kind of secret out until that ring is on your fourth finger. Even though i don't support abortion, but 98% of married couple have done abortion.
I pray your sister or your child will do what you are advising.

and I pray you will marrying a woman who have done multiple homicide (abortion) and I pray you will have a healthy home with blessed children.


keep putting cursed on yourself
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 10:47pm On Sep 26, 2016
VikingsOO7:

calm Your nerves and don't let Your emotions cloud Your reasoning. Abortion is not Ebola, You will never know provided the procedure was carried out successfully.

You don't go about announcing it to the whole world You've had an abortion, when its of no use.

Same way You don't start telling Your wife how many women You've slept with. Its of no use, make zero sense.

And oh, my advise is not "devilish". cheesy It's just common sense.

Case closed.
Nice one

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by doll912(f): 10:48pm On Sep 26, 2016
bloomstar:


Move on till when? Do you know what it means to be barren? She should mellow down... Pray to God. Get medications. If she confirms medical that she can conceive.
Then she can move on happily hoping that another man will come

So having an abortion means you are barren? Nigerians! Ur advice is fair but hope you realise that even virgins can be infertile... and even medically fit people can have fertility issues? Nairaland with stories that touch and replies that suck...
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by sugarbeesmith(m): 10:49pm On Sep 26, 2016
you don't need to think about suicide or whatever@ops, remember the worst sins are always been forgiven..always read psalms 51......and as for the guy let him be.whatever is yours will always be yours ,.don't let your sins judge you.OK??

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