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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by onionsoup(f): 10:49pm On Sep 26, 2016
Cutehector:
Pls shut up and ask God for forgiveness! Are you d only one dat has committed abortion? David killed Uriah and had sex with his wife and he prayed for forgiveness and d lord forgave him..



So may people in d past have in one way or the order committed crimes against humanity and God forgave them. Pls ignore such suicidal thoughts and seek the face of God


You no add say " besides, suicide = hell straight" abeg sis chill forgive yourself and move oooon.
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Lizzieo(f): 10:50pm On Sep 26, 2016
tosyne2much:
To be very frank and sincere, a lady who has once had an abortion is automatically a turn off for me unless I never got to know about it
Talking like a saint,what about dos ladies dat did abortion for u nko?

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Jacko1(m): 10:51pm On Sep 26, 2016
Eyah pele

No be am u do d abortion for so take life as u see am

Pity d next guy u catch.... Na him go suffer am

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by kingOG: 10:51pm On Sep 26, 2016
goingape1:
even if I'm the guy I would do the same and leave you to rot.

do you want to give me your broken womb angry

if I peradventure i married you and we fvck for many years without having kids and you later open up that you did abortion before, I will so kill you.


shall! karma will follow you still you die.na wa o even devil no fit condemn person like this...* at d coffee shop tho

it is better to be a babe mama than to do abortion.


you are worst than an animal for murdering a child. that child spirit will torment you still you kill your self.

and all those abortionists advising you that you should have keep your mouth quite will soon face the much worst what Is coming ya way.

keep advising her behind your keyboard.


useless naija women everywhere undecided



this is what will are paying Bride price for angry

piece of Shiite

Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by SirVintageCock: 10:52pm On Sep 26, 2016
As in ee.

Imagine the sob stories.
Mod kindly hid my post if found offensive but this lady deserve what she is getting.
What happened to condom? The aftereffect of abortion is disastrous but people won't listen. This is one of them, if the guilt did not kill you at least it will help you to keep your legs close.

You have not even learn anything, you are yet to even marry yet you are still opening legs hoping to get pregnant. Maybe God is stopping you from getting pregnant and aborting all the babies he had kept in store for you. Maybe he is waiting for you to get married before he opens up your Womb.

Dumb bitche
goingape1:
even if I'm the guy I would do the same and leave you to rot.

do you want to give me your broken womb angry

if I peradventure i married you and we fvck for many years without having kids and you later open up that you did abortion before, I will so kill you.


shall! karma will follow you still you die.

it is better to be a babe mama than to do abortion.


you are worst than an animal for murdering a child. that child spirit will torment you still you kill your self.

and all those abortionists advising you that you should have keep your mouth quite will soon face the much worst what Is coming ya way.

keep advising her behind your keyboard.


useless naija women everywhere undecided



this is what will are paying Bride price for angry

piece of Shiite

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by abduldope(m): 10:52pm On Sep 26, 2016
GBAM!!!... When 1 pastor was busy preaching avoid sex till marriage u turn deaf ears nw ure reaping the outcome. BTW when u were about having s3x with tha Ex did u seek our Advice #Hoes.evrwhr

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Shiitposter: 10:52pm On Sep 26, 2016
sexymoma:


We Open Up....Gbege
We Nor Open Up.... Gbege
My sister u don do your own restitution be dat ooo


Dont even try to play the gender victim card here.
She brought this upon herself by living a degenerate lifestyle in her youth.

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by LoveJesus87(m): 10:52pm On Sep 26, 2016
Cutehector:
whch one is gbege? U want d innocent man to not have kids? Pls abeg. She understands that it's all her fault so she shouldn't act all surprised he left.
innocent ko. Which innocent man? How u sure say d man himself innocent? Na so person dey dey 'innocent'
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Chubhie: 10:52pm On Sep 26, 2016
tosyne2much:
To be very frank and sincere, a lady who has once had an abortion is automatically a turn off for me unless I never got to know about it
If your wife ain't a virgin, you can't be certain what went down behind your back.

You must learn to embrace those that found the courage to tell you truth.The truth can be bitter you know?

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by chuckschukwurah(m): 10:52pm On Sep 26, 2016
de bible said we should say de truth an de truth shall set us free.is that all abt de freedom? sorry ooh
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by CHYMZZY(m): 10:53pm On Sep 26, 2016
faitheverest:
Someone just registered today and suddenly her posts dey front page... It is well oooo grin lipsrsealed
Make una no ban me I take God beg una!

Nne Ndo!
E na enye nsogbu here!
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Philinho(m): 10:53pm On Sep 26, 2016
to hell with that guy.....dust yourself n forge ahead....pregnancy b4 marriage is an idea from d pit of hell....say not to slavery n bondage

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Ratello: 10:54pm On Sep 26, 2016
goingape1:
even if I'm the guy I would do the same and leave you to rot.

do you want to give me your broken womb angry

if I peradventure i married you and we fvck for many years without having kids and you later open up that you did abortion before, I will so kill you.


shall! karma will follow you still you die.

it is better to be a babe mama than to do abortion.


you are worst than an animal for murdering a child. that child spirit will torment you still you kill your self.

and all those abortionists advising you that you should have keep your mouth quite will soon face the much worst what Is coming ya way.

keep advising her behind your keyboard.


useless naija women everywhere undecided



this is what will are paying Bride price for angry

piece of Shiite

You are a weasel for this comment how are you sure your future wife or wife wouldn't have committed many abortions. *spits on his face*

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by pippimp(m): 10:54pm On Sep 26, 2016
ItsQuinn:
Now you've learnt your lesson, next time you would keep your mouth shut undecided....just move on abeg, you spoilt what you had by yourself tongue

Lol. Most people don't know that it is not everything you tell your boyfriend or girlfriend or even fiancee. You have to know what to say, when to say it, and how to say it. Our minds are very fragile and aren't many things it can handle. It's like me telling my wife all the sexcapades i did when i was in college. I would need a mental evaluation for that to happen. I don't want to know what she did before me and i ain't gonna blab my past. Unless she was a serial mass murderer, i don't wanna know. The past is the past for a reason. Mistakes are bound to happen.

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Shiitposter: 10:54pm On Sep 26, 2016
dollyjoy:
What makes you think he is innocent?


Do you know what a lady,somewhere is going through right now because of that same man? Pluseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesadsad

And what makes you so absolutely certain that the guy is innocent compared to someone who just admitted to having an abortion.
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Paulscholari(m): 10:54pm On Sep 26, 2016
fullofregrets:




my dear , you are right ,
we learn everyday ,
sometimes in just a hard way ,
I just wish he can give me chance to make things right again , but he refused to hear my pleas, he said he's fed up , and ready to find another girl , and impregnate her , well I can only wish him luck , am not bad either , God will surely send my own husband and children my way , I moved on already ,
good u moved on, good u confessed and told him, i knw he wil stil com back 2u, keep ur calm and watch

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by cyril700(m): 10:54pm On Sep 26, 2016
fullofregrets:
well I have done everything necessary , my
womb is okay and intact
how old r u?
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by blazer234: 10:54pm On Sep 26, 2016
dollyjoy:
What makes you think he is innocent?


Do you know what a lady,somewhere is going through right now because of that same man? Pluseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesadsad

Please, are u Yoruba?

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by tete7000(m): 10:55pm On Sep 26, 2016
You had abortion, you are asking for forgiveness then embark on another sinful fornication journey with a godless man who demand you have sex and get pregnant before marriage. If I may ask does getting pregnant guarantees one won't grow up and die childless still? Look, to be candid with you there is nothing godly in that your finance, living with him won't guarantee you happiness and you might just have been saved from a life of misery.

God forgives sins, God heals our past, only God can give children that will give happiness and a husband/spouse that gives peace and happiness. However, we need to really be repentant and live a righteousness life to enjoy this happiness. Miss, you need to be sincere and turn to God in repentance. He really will heal you of both emotional and physical wound and give you your heart desire. Remember though, we can't take a sinful route to a righteous destination. Do away with all that look like sin including every guise of fornication in your life and peace shall be yours.


Cc fullofregrets

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by faitheverest(f): 10:55pm On Sep 26, 2016
CHYMZZY:

E na enye nsogbu here!

Anyi n'enye nsogbu cheesy cheesy wink

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Willz5031: 10:56pm On Sep 26, 2016
First, am very very proud of u, u did the right thing love because he would have found out one way or another and if he can't take it now, he won't take it in future and life could be a living hell for u by then if u r already married to him.
So, don't beat urself up, ur past is in the past, go find out if there's something medically wrong that's making u not conceive. Don't go begging the dude bc it portrays u as being desperate. Give him time to take it in and if he doesn't come back, then he's blind to not see how much u love him to let him in on this. It will hurt but u r going to have to move on if he doesn't come back and pls, don't live in regrets bc it'll do u no good...

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by gbagyiza: 10:56pm On Sep 26, 2016
[quote author=fullofregrets post=49693579]I am full of regrets and I feel so suicidal right now , I am really depressed
I believed u r medically fit as u said but u all forgoten that you followed a sinful way, that is, to be pregnant b4 getting married. It did not occur to you that God was not please with what u were abt doing, thats y d pregnancy was not forth coming...I believed if u n ur fiance get married today lawfully as God wants, u will both have children of your own

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by dazzy2(f): 10:57pm On Sep 26, 2016
Eliteklaus:
don't blame him, u murdered someone
Always think b4 you talk
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Jailerrr(f): 10:59pm On Sep 26, 2016
ladyF:
And he hasn't though that maybe... just maybe he has low sperm count? grin
its ladyf again...

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by WesBreezy: 10:59pm On Sep 26, 2016
sexymoma:
My sister move on
E don hapin, E don hapin
you can't change the fact that it has happened


We Open Up....Gbege
We Nor Open Up.... Gbege
My sister u don do your own restitution be dat ooo


na so. She can console . Mrs make you feel good. That's how easy et is
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by olanrewaju99(m): 11:00pm On Sep 26, 2016
It is a heavy matter though I can't really blame the guy, cos he may be shocked to hear that from you. Just give him sometime if he really loves you he will come back.
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by ststyreal(f): 11:00pm On Sep 26, 2016
fullofregrets:
I am full of regrets and I feel so suicidal right now , I am really depressed

Since medically u have been confirmed to be okay, y opening up to him again about your past? Which man will hear that his fiancee committed an abortion not for him but for another man and will still remain in such relationship? Sincerely, u gulfed big time. The only person u have a case with is God Almighty whom you consistently need's his mercies and forgiveness and not mortals who will show u that they can not bear your pain and burdens with you. Some past are better left in the past. Your fiance did what a normal guy would do especially since you have not been able to conceive for him. See girlfriend, get up, dust your self and move on. Next time, keep your past in the past except when it is confirmed to be responsible for your present predicament. My innocent opinion though.
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by distilledwalex(m): 11:00pm On Sep 26, 2016
You brought this upon yourself. .. I wonder what was going on in your head when you opened up on such issue. Aside that how foolish can someone be at this age and time. . Asking a woman to get pregnant before he can marry her.. My sister.. And u claimed he love you... I dont think so... He just want a baby making machine... If you marry that kinda man.. He would eventually impregnate ur maid if pregnancy is not forthcoming. . BTW ... What makes you think hes okay madically and that hes fertile. .. Foolishness is a disease i must say... And you've shown how badly youve been infected. .. The basics of marriage is companionship. .. The earlier we Africans know that the better... Am just very pissed at this silly story walahi. Mtchewwww.. Abeg if i talk wetin dey my mind... You no go greet me again angry
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by TAXMASTER: 11:00pm On Sep 26, 2016
ItsQuinn:
Now you've learnt your lesson, next time you would keep your mouth shut undecided....just move on abeg, you spoilt what you had by yourself tongue
I Pity ur present/future husband.

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Eliteklaus(m): 11:00pm On Sep 26, 2016
dazzy2:

shut up already
is abortion not murder?
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by HMZi: 11:01pm On Sep 26, 2016
Hate to say it but you shdnt av opened up..c were that lead you to?the irony of everything is that everyone has deep secrets that we will rather take to the grave than reveal including your now presumed ex ....e go beta..

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by goingape1: 11:01pm On Sep 26, 2016
SirVintageCock:
As in ee.

Imagine the sob stories.
Mod kindly hid my post if found offensive but this lady deserve what she is getting.
What happened to condom? The aftereffect of abortion is disastrous but people won't listen. This is one of them, if the guilt did not kill you at least it will help you to keep your legs close.

You have not even learn anything, you are yet to even marry yet you are still opening legs hoping to get pregnant. Maybe God is stopping you from getting pregnant and aborting all the babies he had kept in store for you. Maybe he is waiting for you to get married before he opens up your Womb.

Dumb bitche
this is what we are facing with dem women!

always wanted to give us spoil product.

the funny thing is that there always find one good nice and gentle guy (mugu) to put there curse on.

you are enjoying ya life jumping from one diccck to another murdering unborn child but when you want to marry that's when you will find an innocent man to put ya after effect on!


life doesn't work that way!

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