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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Talk2Bella(f): 3:57pm On Oct 21, 2016
ItsQuinn:
And if he says no? What's next? Ask another guy again and again and again? That's torture if you ask me undecided

Like I said in the writeup move on, how many guys have you turned down? So a guy says no you want to force him?

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by mhisbliss(f): 3:57pm On Oct 21, 2016
Talk2Bella:


Nah you got it wrong sweetie

You just haven't met a matured Nigerian man yet
wao so some of the cave men are matured sounds expensive, ask them out so they'll start getting ideas, especially the useless ones who are quick to brand someone a gold digger, my dad is the only man i know who wouldn't tag me a gold digger
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Talk2Bella(f): 3:58pm On Oct 21, 2016
mhisbliss:
wao so some of the cave men are matured sounds expensive, ask them out so they'll start getting ideas, especially the useless ones who are quick to brand someone a gold digger, my dad is the only man i know who wouldn't tag me a gold digger

You haven't been meeting the right sorts have ya grin

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by mhisbliss(f): 3:59pm On Oct 21, 2016
Talk2Bella:


You haven't been meeting the right sorts have ya grin
met all sorts they all look the same to me
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Talk2Bella(f): 4:01pm On Oct 21, 2016
mhisbliss:
met all sorts they all look the same to me

Nah hun I don't think so smiley

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by mhisbliss(f): 4:03pm On Oct 21, 2016
Talk2Bella:


Nah hun I don't think so smiley
strange, so how many guys have you asked out? And how has it been for you

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Talk2Bella(f): 4:04pm On Oct 21, 2016
mhisbliss:
strange, so how many guys have you asked out? And how has it been for you

Read my previous comment I answered that already

As for all men being the same, u said something about your twin brother looking for a girl like me, you saying if I ask him out he won't be matured enough to respond responsibly?

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by mhisbliss(f): 4:07pm On Oct 21, 2016
Talk2Bella:


Read my previous comment I answered that already

As for all men being the same, u said something about your twin brother looking for a girl like me, you saying if I ask him out he won't be matured enough to respond responsibly?
who knows, he made that preposterous declaration in a sarcastic way, you know why? Because he knows its far fetched and the probability of him taking you seriously is zero, afterall you asked him out
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Nobody: 4:07pm On Oct 21, 2016
If you want to solve that problem, you can just ask any guy to have sex with you, and no guy in this life will turn any lady down for sex.....but if it's about a relationship or a serious relationship, just forget it smiley
Talk2Bella:


When I like a guy, it doesn't matter if I want a long term relationship or a fling I go ahead and do the matured thing ask him out instead of having wet dreams upandan

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Talk2Bella(f): 4:08pm On Oct 21, 2016
mhisbliss:
who knows, he made that preposterous declaration in a sarcastic way, you know why? Because he knows its far fetched and the probability of him taking you seriously is zero, afterall you asked him out

E go shock you cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Talk2Bella(f): 4:08pm On Oct 21, 2016
ItsQuinn:
If you want to solve that problem, you can just ask any guy to have sex with you, and no guy in this life will turn any lady down for sex.....but if it's about a relationship or a serious relationship, just forget it smiley

Why do y'all attach much importance to sex?

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Nobody: 4:09pm On Oct 21, 2016
I solely disagree smiley
mhisbliss:
met all sorts they all look the same to me

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by mhisbliss(f): 4:11pm On Oct 21, 2016
ItsQuinn:
I solely disagree smiley
grin thats why i said they looked similar to me, it might be different with you
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by mhisbliss(f): 4:13pm On Oct 21, 2016
Talk2Bella:


E go shock you cheesy cheesy cheesy
am not shocked just thinks it's unusual and i thought you asked actual guys out and you really kicked it off with them, didn't know its cutehector
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Nobody: 4:14pm On Oct 21, 2016
Because human beings are sexual creatures smiley
Talk2Bella:


Why do y'all attach much importance to sex?

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Talk2Bella(f): 4:15pm On Oct 21, 2016
mhisbliss:
am not shocked just thinks it's unusual and i thought you asked actual guys out and you really kicked it off with them, didn't know its cutehector

U think cutehector is not an actual guy? cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

Anyway I am writing from experience and being a good advocator of not allowing men do all the work
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Lovelynature(m): 4:17pm On Oct 21, 2016
Talk2Bella:


Faulty phone dear

Sorry

Email me @ tork2bella@gmail.com

Thanks
lol


Just wanted your phone number. You are quite beautiful and I appreciate your posts. You can email me your phone number when you are done repairing it
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Talk2Bella(f): 4:19pm On Oct 21, 2016
Lovelynature:
lol


Just wanted your phone number. You are quite beautiful and I appreciate your posts. You can email me your phone number when you are done repairing it

Alright thanks smiley
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Lovelynature(m): 4:20pm On Oct 21, 2016
mhisbliss:
am not shocked just thinks it's unusual and i thought you asked actual guys out and you really kicked it off with them, didn't know its cutehector
Gush!!! You mean Cutehector isn't an actual guy?

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Laveda(f): 4:20pm On Oct 21, 2016
PeachyP:

Aww, how did he react?
grin wasn't really mutual.
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by mhisbliss(f): 4:21pm On Oct 21, 2016
my observations, it might be different from your point of view, air your own views without quoting me, am not interested i mean it angry

No nigerian guy will have a quickie with you and be hush hush about it, they must snitch

They'll never hold you in high esteem if you initiated the whole ish, infact whenever they see you they'll think, hey its the whor,e who begged me for a quickie the last time

They don't understand the no strings attached concept

They dont admire the courage it takes for a lady to ask a guy out, infact its desperacy to them and they assume you've asked alot of random guys out

They'll never regard or love you the way you loved them to the point of taking the bold step

They always emotionally blackmail you threatening to leave you at the slightest provocation

They'll always take you for granted

You'll be the financial muscle most time and they get to make request

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Taiofil(m): 4:22pm On Oct 21, 2016
Talk2Bella:


God bless you smiley

Thank you grin
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by mhisbliss(f): 4:22pm On Oct 21, 2016
Lovelynature:
Gush!!! You mean Cuthector isn't an actual guy?
you just said that not me angry
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Nobody: 4:23pm On Oct 21, 2016
ItsQuinn:
If you want to solve that problem, you can just ask any guy to have sex with you, and no guy in this life will turn any lady down for sex.....but if it's about a relationship or a serious relationship, just forget it smiley
So you saw it too grin cheesy


Lemme just continue reading in ghost mode. I no want trouble grin

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by mhisbliss(f): 4:24pm On Oct 21, 2016
Talk2Bella:


U think cutehector is not an actual guy? cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

Anyway I am writing from experience and being a good advocator of not allowing men do all the work
indeed, now i thought unicorns are extinct, aside cutehector have you asked an actual guy out? What did it culminate into, how long did it last, did you have sex?
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Activity77(m): 4:29pm On Oct 21, 2016
mhisbliss:
am not shocked just thinks it's unusual and i thought you asked actual guys out and you really kicked it off with them, didn't know its cutehector

Nne I understood the angle your coming from... The op said before you ask a guy out, get infos about him, his hangout, friends, make sure he is single etc... You have to put all this into consideration before venturing.. Matured guys abounds and that one is of age is not maturity
... Personally I will have huge and uncompromised respect for any lady who asks a guy out.. Its not easy for ladies to do so...i have a friend who was asked out by a lady.. They are still together waxing stronger... Its all about the mindset both of you have not who did the job of asking out..

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Talk2Bella(f): 4:35pm On Oct 21, 2016
Activity77:


Nne I understood the angle your coming from... The op said before you ask a guy out, get infos about him, his hangout, friends, make sure he is single etc... You have to put all this into consideration before venturing.. Matured guys abounds and that one is of age is not maturity
... Personally I will have huge and uncompromised respect for any lady who asks a guy out.. Its not easy for ladies to do so...i have a friend who was asked out by a lady.. They are still together waxing stronger... Its all about the mindset both of you have not who did the job of asking out..

They read my post and didn't even understand because all I am seeing Is sexx sexx sexx and more sexx

I didn't say this is how to sleep with a guy or have a fling with him I meant actual dating and before you do that know the kind of person he is, if he's the kind of guy who deserves your love and all that and if he's someone you want to have a one night stand with or a lengthy fling issit not your body?

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by mhisbliss(f): 4:36pm On Oct 21, 2016
Activity77:


Nne I understood the angle your coming from... The op said before you ask a guy out, get infos about him, his hangout, friends, make sure he is single etc... You have to put all this into consideration before venturing.. Matured guys abounds and that one is of age is not maturity
... Personally I will have huge and uncompromised respect for any lady who asks a guy out.. Its not easy for ladies to do so...i have a friend who was asked out by a lady.. They are still together waxing stronger... Its all about the mindset both of you have not who did the job of asking out..
its like those betting testimonies you get to hear the story of people winning but you'll never meet the winners in person, i know nigerian guys and backwardness, cliché
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Lovelynature(m): 4:36pm On Oct 21, 2016
mhisbliss:
you just said that not me angry
lol... hector is coming for you. Watch it
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by mhisbliss(f): 4:38pm On Oct 21, 2016
Lovelynature:
lol... hector is coming for you. Watch it
what for undecided because i asked the op if she has ever asked actual guys out?
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by beautiful232(f): 4:38pm On Oct 21, 2016
ask a guy out ko,ask a guy in ni

no be my mate guys the kill their self for so

try asking a guy out in Nigeria, and see if he will not feel as if he won a lotto

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Tajbol4splend(m): 4:39pm On Oct 21, 2016
Disneylady:
Hmnnnnnn na so

It's difficult and risky, isn't it what U mean?

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