mhisbliss:
oh its your siggy, I'll be visiting, planning on setting mine up soon, who knows i might need some help

glossyfinger:
Na me asked my husband out 12years ago, he is d type of future husband I want. I am very happy I did

Talk2Bella:


Honey yes I have asked guys out

I have flirted with guys

I am a very sociable person most times its hard for them to turn me down, like I said it depends on how it was carried out

You need to understand someone before you go ahead and start exposing your feelings about them to them

"Matured minds"

Sometimes they understand I ain't serious and just want to flirt, there's no harm in having a good time, men love attention too you know and they also wanna be spoilt too it depends on how the approaching was done

Once we stop attaching much importance to sex we will stop getting hurt, you're not a virgin, you're notdeliberately celibate, you have sex with a guy and then you're feeling bad why? Enjoy it and move on and if it escalates to something strong have the best time of your life.

The writeup clearly stated how to ask Nigerian guys out not how to sleep with them

Talk2Bella:


All the best of luck darling

Rosella1:
Op thank you for this post
*Clearsthroat
My sugar blom-blom Lalasticlala peculair words are not enough to describe the basin of attraction I have towards you. Am sorry this is coming late, I was expressed without speech the Sunday we attended service together. S'il vous plaît ma sucre! Will you be my date to my convocation dinner?

Vince77:


Wow wow wow..... I think you are the last of your kind.


Babes like u no dey exist for any other place for this naija. Na only u remain. U too make sense

ItsQuinn:
A lady asking a guy out

mhisbliss:
its like those betting testimonies you get to hear the story of people winning but you'll never meet the winners in person, i know nigerian guys and backwardness, cliché

Talk2Bella:


CuteHector

mhisbliss:
what for because i asked the op if she has ever asked actual guys out?

chukz999:
I Understand...I Would'nt Like A Lady Asking Me Out Cos I Will Take Her For Granted

Activity77:


You sound bittered and heartbroken..lighten your mood and see some reasons with the op...you have dated all the nigerian guys and this was your conclusion and your hoping to get married or be a in loving relationship with same nigerian guys with backwardness....

OBTSubtle:
if you ask me out, you will become my sex slave.. Don't even think about it.. Wait for me..

ItsQuinn:
God forbid bad tin

Lovelynature:
Well, there's actually nothing wrong for a lady to ask a guy she has strong feelings for out. It all depends on the kind of guy he is. A real gentleman will really appreciate your courage and respect you for that if he has same feeling for you. That's why the op ask ladies to watch first before making this move.

A true gentleman will not even allow you to finish the process before he takes over from there and turn the story the other way round.

Personally, I will not look down on a lady that makes move at me. Even if I don't have feelings for her, I will still find a way to handle it politely.

In offline, I have a way of making a lady I like develop feelings for me even before we start talking, to the point it looks as if she's the one about to make the move. Just then, I strike like a lion waiting for its prey, because I know women hardly make the move first, and at this point she hardly says no.

for your tiny mind you be pro lols its your opinion not mine, you sound or behave cool doesn't mean you're really cool, good luck in advance to any girl who would ask you out

sinaj:
How many av u asked out nd how did it end up?

ucsparks:
I wouldn't want any girl trying that shit with me, i wouldn't take her seriously at all

ItsQuinn:
Thank you for saying the truth

ItsQuinn:
God forbid bad tin

Talk2Bella:


They read my post and didn't even understand because all I am seeing Is sexx sexx sexx and more sexx

I didn't say this is how to sleep with a guy or have a fling with him I meant actual dating and before you do that know the kind of person he is, if he's the kind of guy who deserves your love and all that and if he's someone you want to have a one night stand with or a lengthy fling issit not your body?

mhisbliss:
yea i can ask a white guy out but not the [b]nigerian cave men different people different mentality

Fingesi:
This works. I fell in love twice with ladies who were bold enough to ask me out. Sincerely no love compares to when a woman desires you so much and took the bold move to ask you out. but guys miss this opportunity sometimes because "we most times fall in love with those that do not appreciate us, and end up hating those who love us"

Delicious22:
I hope your boyfriend, brother and dad are not from Nigeria where we're cave men. Learn how to use the word *some* next time.