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Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by ambs50: 12:14pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Wow, it really the year of many weddings. It really been a long while dat marriage issues tend to trend @ d beginning of a new year like it's happening dis year. Only shows prophecy being fulfilled. "... many weddings this year,2017..." (Pst Adeboye) #Daddy G.O prophecies.#IKeyIntoIt |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by HarveySpecter1: 12:14pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Quintessential1: Sis, you aren't married so you won't understand. So you think that all there is to life is feeding? Do you know how much kids pay as school fees these days? Do you know how much c-section cost? Do you know the cost of baby foods? Even for a man on 400k, it isn't an easy task. I know what I'm saying, I'm not just throwing some figures around. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by Koolking(m): 12:16pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
This 'start with the little you have marriage syndrome' is one of the causes of 'brave infidelity' and broken marriages nowadays. It should never be about 'what you have' but about the zeal to see your happiness in the happiness of your partner. So much to sacrifice to see it work. 1 Like |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by lovat(m): 12:18pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Everything this guy said is true. I pray 2017 don't pass me by because I'm tired waiting for billions 5 Likes |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by jericco1(m): 12:20pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
lol for real? bro sorry for your underachievement. btw that doesn't stop you from married at your present age |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by darbeelicous(f): 12:21pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
No lady wants to get married to a poor guy, but the guy in question should be hardworking and financially balanced. In a way that he can cater for his family. |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by buffalowings: 12:21pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
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Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by ndcide(m): 12:22pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
I had this feeling the year I hit 32. It was a deep soul searching for me. In my compound I was seen as a big man. My landlady will clap for me. But my fellow tenants had their wife and children yet don't have the whole world. I think Lagos life plays a role in this thing. You'll be forming corporate life yet the years are rolling by. Some of your mates at home are married with kids, They buy land for 200k, build their house. While you will be forming hustle and insulting ladies. The artisans you invite to work for you have their wife and children in school. It's an evil thing. My dad told me this thing when I was moving to Lagos years back. Thank God I'm free indeed. 8 Likes |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by GrandMufti: 12:22pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Berbierklaus: Take am easy na! LOL |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by IVORY2009(m): 12:26pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
lovat: With determinatn u can get der, wat are ur skills? |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by Quintessential1(f): 12:26pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Sacluxpaint: Jude is the twitter guy? |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by LordIsaac(m): 12:27pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Quintessential1:Marriage goes far beyond feeding mouths....that's what differentiates a third world country from the first world. What is his motivation, having kids? Quality kids go beyond feeding mouths. 3 Likes |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by slydog(m): 12:28pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
All he said is true. The thing is, the earlier the better is best for and in everything in life. As long as you find something good doing, pls get married. In my office here a male contract staff who realised this and got married to a lawyer, imagine him with 60k permont salary taking care of his wife and one kid, living in hisown house though not completed. I think this is the focus and responsibility that comes when married, you won't be thinking of how to impress people with the little you have but how to make wife and kids happy with that little. I also kinda regret not settling down early too 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by Nobody: 12:28pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Quintessential1:Yes, the guy lamenting. |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by Quintessential1(f): 12:29pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Sacluxpaint: How old is he? |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by goingape: 12:29pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Berbierklaus:this are the people we are talking about! there are Wolf but hide in a sheep clothes! there comment may make sense to you but look deep down into it, the wolf is showing her true colors. ask this wolf if her mother ever think like her before she married her father? her mother won't have even born this she wolf. them don't want potential but want to eat result what do you called this kind of wolf? there are called the harvester in the night. there will go to your farm and wait still it grow and when it grow them eat your product and run away. 4 Likes |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by emperormossad(m): 12:30pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Mikylopez:You do not need buoyancy to settle. All you need is something doing, a job, a business venture, something that can bring income to the home. I understand him perfectly. Most dudes want to have the 'perfect' condition...even if you make it, a wrong move with a wrong lady will bring all your hardwork crashing down to the earth. The earlier you marry the better, take the initial pains and suffer so that you can enjoy your relationship with your spouse when you should instead of struggling to train them up. Pain before pleasure. Get her down, put a ring on her finger, work with her to build a home. It cannot be always rosy but with God, Hardwork and determination, a sound home can be built. That money you'll make, won't you pay tax? Won't you take care of your family? Won't you fulfil your civic responsibilities? Things will arise my brother, you can make it even within marriage. He who finds a wife finds a good thing, infact a helpmate suited solely for him. Take that plunge and have a life you've always envisioned. Money is crucial, yes, but it's not the sum total. 1 Like |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by Nobody: 12:30pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Quintessential1:30 something, there about. |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by metallisc(m): 12:32pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Berbierklaus: 1 Like
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Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by goingape: 12:33pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
ikp120:thank you! those are the people we called Wolf 1 Like |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by Sanchez01: 12:33pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
ndcide:Lagos life can be horrible for a bachelor. One minute, you think you're doing just fine, forgetting that the clock is ticking, the next minute, you realize you're way behind when it comes to critical life choices as your peers in other states are comfortable with the little they have. 4 Likes |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by Mskrisx(f): 12:34pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Just luk atew! Oga me let me hustle and die in my hustle than watch my child trek to school. No ffing way! See u...wicked advicer. I no blame you, I blame Buhari. #very long and drrry hissss# |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by minexpo(m): 12:35pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Berbierklaus: |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by freeborn76(m): 12:36pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Those of you still under 30 and even in your early thirties would not understand what the guy is saying...when you are in your late thirties and early forties and still unmarried, then you will understand the folly of chasing shadows...if you can, get married early, nothing beats that... 6 Likes |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by LordIsaac(m): 12:36pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Berbierklaus: |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by Quintessential1(f): 12:36pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Sacluxpaint: Alright. |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by emperormossad(m): 12:37pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Berbierklaus:It's good to eat results my dear. Very good. But ask any man...ANY MAN who truly values himself and he'll tell you one thing: he'd rather settle for the journey woman than the result woman. The economy doesn't favour men, and that's why some of us still struggle @ 26. I'd rather struggle in my youth with the right woman beside me than struggle @ 40 with the same woman. Be a realist. No one has it all. In secondary school days we were taught that man is insatiable. He'll always want more...just work with him and enjoy the glory with him. If I make all the money in the world what sort of wife do you think I'll be interested in having. Intelligent? Hardworking? Hell no! Let's not lose the moon while chasing stars. 4 Likes |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by HarveySpecter1: 12:38pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
dumodust: Well said. Most Nigerians care about having their kids out of the universities before they hit 50years. The development and success of these kids do not matter. To them, it's not how well but how fast. Harveyspecter1 4 Likes |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by happney65: 12:40pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
omolola15 what are you waiting for...go and marry.. |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by holluphemydavid(m): 12:40pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
wot of someone like me dat will be 33 dis year and newly get fed.govt job,and avnt marry.dnt even av anybody at hand sef 1 Like |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by chacoonder(m): 12:40pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
goingape:Though i totally disagree with some of your notions but you still made a few points. There are still a handful of decent women in our society , just that they are hard to get.But i can assure you that we still have them amongst us. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by goingape: 12:41pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
HarveySpecter1:that's our naija women mentality! what can a woman offer if not her yansh? 2 Likes |
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