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Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by DeRay98(m): 6:22am On Feb 25, 2017
shinarlaura:
For tho planet earth? Men are born cheat.

"Most", how many men have sampled you or have you sampled?
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by naxman(m): 6:23am On Feb 25, 2017
My Answer is yes... Anyway hit d like for me pls.. its my day

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Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by khalhokage(m): 6:24am On Feb 25, 2017
I have been faithful for two years now, I see nothing difficult in it.
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by DeRay98(m): 6:25am On Feb 25, 2017
ojlifa:
This are the fact and you can quote me.Men marry women hoping they would never change,Women marry men hoping they would change but thisdays woman no longer search for men they can change they are after fantasies which are brought about by western media.

1) woman when dating sexes like a match,ready to twist and turn.once married becomes a log of wood
2)when dating wants a man who can lead,after marriage want to be boss
3)while dating,she is good with his friend once married she begin to plot how to get ride of his friends
4)while dating she wants to warm up to his family once married she start plot how to excommunicate his family while keeping hers close
5)while dating dress well,once married she no send you talk from now till next year
6)while dating willing to contribute once married want to be taken care of
in conclusion i think guys should just date women have kids rather than marry them.women this days have no idea what marriage means,infact to them its just status and provision,you doubt me ask tonto dike

Boom!!!
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by lazeal: 6:25am On Feb 25, 2017
shinarlaura:
For tho planet earth? Men are born cheat.
. You have not met a guy like me that's why.

For a guy like me, we are not sex freak and no woman can use sex to manipulate us like they do to other guys.

We don't lost our minds or brains over a hole! Nah.

We can fork one lady for years without getting tired because we know it's same vaginna and boobzz that others have.

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Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by scholes23(m): 6:28am On Feb 25, 2017
shinarlaura:
For tho planet earth? Men are born cheat.
yes I agree but with people like you Men have been cheating on their spouse
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by metallisc(m): 6:29am On Feb 25, 2017
shinarlaura:
For tho planet earth? Men are born cheat.



if i had someone like you, no cheating for me! grin grin grin grin i am not a cheat o!! grin grin grin
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by sagir1994(m): 6:36am On Feb 25, 2017
Of course man can be 100% faithful to his woman. I was completely faithful to my lady until yesterday when I found out she doesn't worth.. women brain is nothing but full of shit
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by dukeo(m): 6:37am On Feb 25, 2017
shinarlaura:
For tho planet earth? Men are born cheat.

And women are born liars

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Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by 99foxxy(f): 6:38am On Feb 25, 2017
Rules of the hole, when you're in one, stop digging.

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Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by Nobody: 6:40am On Feb 25, 2017
shinarlaura:
For tho planet earth? Men are born cheat.
I'N NOT trynna brag, but there are exceptions and i'm very lucky to be in that group...cool
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by amakadihot87(f): 6:41am On Feb 25, 2017
misteryman:


YOU ARE LYING. MISS POSTER
.....add a little respect to my name am mrs
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by amakadihot87(f): 6:48am On Feb 25, 2017
specter:
It's not a matter of being a dog or not, is a function of how both partners behave while in marriage.
How they dress, keep fit, have family time, behave and act sexually, how innovative they are in bed ,etc.
A born again should stay strictly with a born again, a guy lady should marry a guyman etc.
Now if this is not the case, there will always be vacuum and on the long run, a partner is bound to cheat.
Cheating is different and it often starts from the emotional level. For example,
I love sex , I love varieties, I love to club on some Fridays, I love to go to cinemas see a great movie, I love to go out for dinner , to the beach , etc.
Now my wife might see having sexual variaties as a son cos her pastors says so.
The implication is she holds on tenaciously to that and the sexual life becomes boring to a point that we could go months without sex. She is graudually pushing me out even if I am the holiest of all men, because of the way I am wired sexually. Ever wondered why pastors cheat?.
Sex is sex and bible teaching is bible teaching. A filled tummy at home won't have space for another food outside. It's a fact.
Sex :dressing in marriage. Do you still keep your self sexually fit a dresses to kill?
Spice up the marriage. Men fall for what they see.
Lastly how do you spice up the marriage?
If he likes clubbing, rather than preach him down or go report him to pastor, indulge him and follow him to ensure things are on the moderate, alcohol intake, what he sees, who he sees and dances with, etc, and what he spends.
Now if you talk him down, you don't work at the same office with him.
You might not know him work itinerary save and except he tells you.
Believe me , he will look for a reason to stay back and club.
I have seeing pastors leave Lagos to club in ph and Abuja while. some others go out side the country to club cos to some it's a son for pastors to club . But we are all humans and not super human.
If you ain't there , he takes alcohol, things gets outta hand , the desire has been there and unfortunately there is this amazing lady who came to fill a void and you guys connect and the rest is history.
The sex is some amazing you never wanna stop.
Guess this was the lesson we should find in Tyler Perry's confession of a marriage counsellor and taboo I suppose. And also Sam Adeyemi's series on sex and marriage.
Well men can cheat and still love a woman but it would be better if he stays faithful.
Women should stop the santimonous altitude of my pastor says and that is final.
It had broken so many marriage I have seen.
I guess that's the angle I wanna take this from.
Both partners shouldn't be afraid to talk about sex. In fact , it should be the number one on the menu.varieties. should also come in and parties should keep them selves trending to find our what they both want sexually.
No vacuum in life, and each void must be filled one way or another. I rise.
.....nice one
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by Max24: 6:56am On Feb 25, 2017
Mznaett:
My answer is YES. Though these kind are rare especially in this part of the world we're living in... Well, I'm proud to have one as a partnertongue
Yes, be proud UNTIL SOMETHING COMES UP. Men call it The Devils Work. So your job is to keep praying and fasting against the devil. Right !
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by boykas(m): 6:59am On Feb 25, 2017
We can't have this qualities at once, That makes us incomplete without this qualities, and we can just have those at once, someway somehow, we can get each of them 100%




eyeofpride:
Oh yes he can. For a man to love and be faithful to one woman, There must be:

natural love,
respect,
Ability to forgive
Compassion
fear of God,
decency and
standards

There are men with these qualities.
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by oluwaahmed: 7:03am On Feb 25, 2017
U need 2 ask urself, wat R d traits of male creatures(excludin man). For E.g can a lion be faithful all tru his existence 2 a lioness? Wat abt oda beasts & animals? If u watch Natgeo u find out most male animals battle demselves 4 control of females. Infcat in d animal kingdom, it's a tin of pride 4 a male 2 hav several females as wives dats how nature has made it. So wit man. Man did not come down 4rm Jupiter, man obeys d law of nature. A man can luv 1 woman yeah, but cannot be faithful to 1 for d rest of his life. U see back den in africa, d issue of infidelity was rare, because forefathers had more dan 1 wife. Even in d bible pple like David, solomon, Jacob did not hav 1 wife. Even Abraham slept wit his sexy maid, tho Sarah was very butiful 2 d extent kings wanted her.So man by nature can neva be faithful, it's not his fault it's jst natural. If u tink ur man is faithful, do sme diggin(NB- u mite not like wat u find tho). My advice 4 men & generally women, marry wat u are attracted to, it reduces d chances of cheatin drastically. because if u naturally attracted 2 sme1 u will always Wana be wit d person. Den again ask urslef how many married man dt hav regular/bomb sex wit deir wives remain faithful 2 her esp wen she's heavily pregnant
U mite bash me, but truth is reality. Am not tryin 2 be politically correct jst bein real. Can u find a faithful man 4 life? MayB? But hav u as a woman also bn faithful in ur past rships? D law of nature must take its course jst as how day must break, & night must fall
REGARDS

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Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by kingsleefolli(m): 7:09am On Feb 25, 2017
Faithfulness in home is determined by the level of response from each other.
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by chris31(m): 7:09am On Feb 25, 2017
Laveda:
Yeah, there are still faithful men out there. We just have to believe.

Sometimes its just insecurity, not every man is a dog who jumps from one vagina to the other..

So Toks, there are.
And u have sleep with more than 200 dogs under a month
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by Azubogucharles(m): 7:10am On Feb 25, 2017
Toks2008:
love and faithfulness are interlocked yet so different. A man can love one woman forever even if the lady marries another man but faithfulness on the other hand I think should be gauged individually because it is premised on one's nature.

So the answer is ABSOLUTELY YES...but the types of guys who can love and remain faithful to their woman are..

1.Those who marry ladies with the type of sexual endowments they desire
:

A lady can have all the good inner attributes and that will certainly make a man love her but she needs more than inner beauty to make a man sexually faithful to her.

Men are visual in nature and tend to get carried away by what they see...and whatever is pleasing to their eyes will inadvertently be pleasing to their soul.

Why marry a lady that does not turn you on physically just to get carried away by another lady who does?...in 8 out of 10 instances...men cheat with a lady who has some sort of sexual feature they want but lacking in their woman..FACT!


2.Men who are married to ladies who know how to sexually please them:


Some men are fortunate to marry a lady who can make them day dream about intimacy because these ladies will keep them sexually satisfied but guys who are married to sexually timid ladies stand the risk of going out to seek the fun they lack.

3.Those who love God enough to keep their marital vow:


The question is; How many men have these 3 as highlighted above?

Such men are very rare which makes it difficult to see a man who will be sexually faithful to one woman...nevertheless,any man who truly loves GOD and has self control can overlook the first two points and remain faithful to his woman against all odds.

in a relationship women tends to cheat more.... But in marriage men tends to cheat more
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by oglalasioux(m): 7:12am On Feb 25, 2017
Very possible.
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by anthon47(m): 7:13am On Feb 25, 2017
Marriage is not all about Sex. This is the area our generation is going naught. Only God can save us. My submission birds of the same feather flock together.
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by anthon47(m): 7:15am On Feb 25, 2017
oluwaahmed:
U need 2 ask urself, wat R d traits of male creatures(excludin man). For E.g can a lion be faithful all tru his existence 2 a lioness? Wat abt oda beasts & animals? If u watch Natgeo u find out most male animals battle demselves 4 control of females. Infcat in d animal kingdom, it's a tin of pride 4 a male 2 hav several females as wives dats how nature has made it. So wit man. Man did not come down 4rm Jupiter, man obeys d law of nature. A man can luv 1 woman yeah, but cannot be faithful to 1 for d rest of his life. U see back den in africa, d issue of infidelity was rare, because forefathers had more dan 1 wife. Even in d bible pple like David, solomon, Jacob did not hav 1 wife. Even Abraham slept wit his sexy maid, tho Sarah was very butiful 2 d extent kings wanted her.So man by nature can neva be faithful, it's not his fault it's jst natural. If u tink ur man is faithful, do sme diggin(NB- u mite not like wat u find tho). My advice 4 men & generally women, marry wat u are attracted to, it reduces d chances of cheatin drastically. because if u naturally attracted 2 sme1 u will always Wana be wit d person. Den again ask urslef how many married man dt hav regular/bomb sex wit deir wives remain faithful 2 her esp wen she's heavily pregnant
U mite bash me, but truth is reality. Am not tryin 2 be politically correct jst bein real. Can u find a faithful man 4 life? MayB? But hav u as a woman also bn faithful in ur past rships? D law of nature must take its course jst as how day must break, & night must fall
REGARDS
Are u an animal comparing yourself with another carnivorous specis
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by Ogbeken1414: 7:15am On Feb 25, 2017
I disagree wit some of you guys that men are born to cheat, Not all men are born to cheat. I have stayed apart with my wife for a year now and I have never cheated or even thought of it. She is everything to me and I can never in my life entertain that thought. Men should be faithful to there wife, it doesn't pay to cheat. Marriage is not all about sex..
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by Shantyken(m): 7:16am On Feb 25, 2017
shinarlaura:
For tho planet earth? Men are born cheat.
and with women
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by jmoore(m): 7:18am On Feb 25, 2017
tomdon:



Know that deception is a bad thing that backfires
Do you ever get erections every morning and arbitrarily? and wet dreams?
What do you mean by clean slate?
I am only curious

clean sheet = virgin. That's what I meant.
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by Shantyken(m): 7:19am On Feb 25, 2017
sagir1994:
Of course man can be 100% faithful to his woman. I was completely faithful to my lady until yesterday when I found out she doesn't worth.. women brain is nothing but full of shit
they are the reason behind all

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Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by Nobody: 7:21am On Feb 25, 2017
HateU2:
No, the can never be faithful undecided


The search for hole can never make them to be faithful undecided



Toks, are you faithful

I disagree totally with you or anybody who feels every man cheats. my parents are living testimony, they've been married for 31yrs now, the love is on another level now. I envy them, well its not easy, sometimes the quarrel but they definitely reconcile before you know it. my mum can do shakara sometimes, my dad will just kiss her and she'll start blushing.

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Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by marv1: 7:23am On Feb 25, 2017
Hmm. Not all men. You are beautiful though.
shinarlaura:
For tho planet earth? Men are born cheat.
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by Mememan: 7:27am On Feb 25, 2017
shinarlaura:
For tho planet earth? Men are born cheat.
Yes we her. And they cheat with who?

Whôres
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by slap1(m): 7:28am On Feb 25, 2017
Speaking for myself, yes.
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by Mememan: 7:29am On Feb 25, 2017
Mznaett:
My answer is YES. Though these kind are rare especially in this part of the world we're living in... Well, I'm proud to have one as a partnertongue
Lol!

Be deceiving yourself there grin grin
Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by Adedaniel211(m): 7:30am On Feb 25, 2017
shinarlaura:
For tho planet earth? Men are born cheat.
Na 50/50... Woman worst pass..

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