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Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Abagworo(m): 11:46pm On Mar 16, 2017 |
Mr OP you are very very funny. Marriage is beyond your gimmicks 2 Likes |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Nobody: 11:48pm On Mar 16, 2017 |
The OP is like an agbero in this area. He's an unmarried bachelor n his 40s who has never married. His advice hasn't helped him in life, don't be a guinea pig. Take marriage advice from him at your peril. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by DavidEsq(m): 11:49pm On Mar 16, 2017 |
ObinzeRoyEmeka:Holy man from Daura! Uncle why are u so dope with grammar but very wicked like dis na. 1 Like
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Re: The simplicity of getting married. by neocortex: 11:50pm On Mar 16, 2017 |
dacblogger: Are you married ? Have you been scammed ? |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by DavidEsq(m): 11:52pm On Mar 16, 2017 |
OkoYiboz:See slaying! Are u a slayking? |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Nobody: 11:53pm On Mar 16, 2017 |
Ladies loves to do a long case study on the guys they wish to marry... However you can't know a man or a woman fully. On my own perspective to have a long lasting marriage especially in this present world you will have to take your spouse as a friend and vice versa. Moreso have a basis for your marriage. |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Nobody: 11:53pm On Mar 16, 2017 |
Alesandese: he can't his consistency in using the F word is part of his signature. He's not cursing at you that's just his trademark |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Acidosis(m): 11:59pm On Mar 16, 2017 |
You can never truly know anyone completely whether you spend a week or a century together. Nevertheless it is ideal to get the basic knowledge about your partner before saying "I do". Getting married is way simpler than divorce. Divorce is not easy so don't make it sound easy. The time you don't want to spend knowing your partner, you will end up spending that time running to the magistrate and counselors when things turn out badly! Do not rush in... You might rush out! You don't have to live with someone to understand their basic lifestyle. In fact, it is better to study someone from afar before accepting to date or court them. Study your partner, study the family they hail from. Ensure you know your partner's siblings and parents before accepting that ring. The ladies should take this advice more seriously. They are usually the worst hit when things change! Do not allow a man send you out of the house with 3 kids! Do not say you're not warned. Follow a man's step at your own risk. A 40 year old married man can disguise anytime and claim the single status. But you a woman cannot hide for too long. You all deserve good marriages.. your children deserve better... A man at any age can bring home pros.titutes when his marriage crashes! But you a woman, because of your children, would have to spend the rest of your life running and hiding in guest houses just to protect your dignity and the shame that comes with the act. Make I rest here 1 Like |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Nobody: 11:59pm On Mar 16, 2017 |
Alesandese: 1 Like
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Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Sikay19(m): 12:08am On Mar 17, 2017 |
I want to marry at the age of 23 . what is your view about this. hope it is not too early @Toks |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by marltech: 12:15am On Mar 17, 2017 |
quiet amazing |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Nobody: 12:16am On Mar 17, 2017 |
For me two questions is this person adding value to my life. Can I handle my children sharing the same personality etc This helped me stay away from deep end 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by pocohantas(f): 12:17am On Mar 17, 2017 |
You keep speaking from two sides of your mouth. Dating beyond one year is for kids?! Then on another thread you'll be the same person advising ladies to wait on their man. If the guy wants to marry the girl, but for specific reasons he can't, most especially financial stability...what does she do? Move over to the next guy and date for another one year maybe. Short courtship doesn't guarantee happiness, neither does a long one. People should take their time to make a life decision. Ladies especially should take their time. The world isn't fair on women during marital break-ups, OP isn't even married. If you're so knowledgeable on how relationship works, why hasn't it worked for you... Imagine mentioning fornication, deceit and GOD in the same post...smh Don't come for me with your comments, you'll be ignored. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by bababodmas(m): 12:17am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Alesandese: Ma'am... This ur profile pic ehn..... I just weak for here |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by stagger: 12:29am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Toks2008: You are obviously not married. I did a long courtship and I can tell you that my wife and I have achieved great things together with more to come. Marriage is a great institution if you make the right choices. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by marltech: 12:30am On Mar 17, 2017 |
I have seen what a laugh can do. It can transform almost unbearable tears into something bearable, even hopeful. |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Nobody: 12:32am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Toks2008: You some marriage counselor or something? |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by TinaAnita(f): 12:40am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Marriage wahala |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by emekaesc(m): 12:45am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Nobody: 12:58am On Mar 17, 2017 |
YES! what an excellent idea FTBOY: |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by bestspoke: 1:00am On Mar 17, 2017 |
pocohantas: Me just wan say "weh done ma" ...waiting for your real dp...shey you'll let us see yourreal face oneday. |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Nobody: 1:01am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Sorry I can't date or have a courtship less than a year. Kolewerk! Mine is 4 years at least before tieing the knot. |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by WiserPrince(m): 1:03am On Mar 17, 2017 |
ItsQuinn:Can I meet you, am a cool guy |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by EYIBLESSN(m): 1:06am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Toks2008: Sarcastically sarcastic |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Nobody: 1:07am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Thank you for that question. Like I seriously don't get it either SmartMugu: |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Nobody: 1:08am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Sorry I already have a bf WiserPrince: |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Nobody: 1:10am On Mar 17, 2017 |
You just pointed out the real truth of his agenda. Listen to the op at your own risk OkoYiboz: |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by WiserPrince(m): 1:12am On Mar 17, 2017 |
ItsQuinn:Ok that's good. We can still be friends, am different I don't try to date everyone I meet |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Nobody: 1:14am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Sorry I'm a lone wolf.... I don't have friends and I don't plan on starting now. Take care Good morning. WiserPrince: 1 Like |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by WiserPrince(m): 1:21am On Mar 17, 2017 |
ItsQuinn:Ok no p, I respect ur decisions, do u mind Linkin me to a friend. Promise to be cool |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Nobody: 1:46am On Mar 17, 2017 |
dacblogger: I concur, as you con be female i foh finish. #respect 1 Like |
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