I really wonder why you need the answer to that question when the deed has been done already

'em don use this one finish..

Niggas gat no chill!!

Anonymous1234:
Were not together anymore. I've realized literally yesterday that there was something really REALLY wrong with him. For so long I kept treating the situation as if he was your average unfaithful man and he needed some serious help but it's much deeper than that. I realize that now.

Let me tell you the sincere truth , girls don't love faithful men
They love bad guys like in your own case
If that guy were to be faithful 100% ,you won't value him

As an ex scammer so to say
I won't say u were part of a scam nah
Never
Buh to him it's genuine likeness towards u (nt love o)
as u remind him of wat his life would look like if he wasn't into fraud like tru love and all


buh it's hard to quit the game nah.
money speaks louder
loudest to those who's played the game b4


my 10kobo


take him back just a flung sha
tell him u don't want a future wit him since he's not legit
Then maybe held start living the double life for ur sake (legit / fake)

anyways
it's the life either u scam or get scammed

Anonymous1234:
I want to start this post by saying PLEASE do not judge my situation. (I'll try to be brief. Please ask questions if you have any)

So almost 2 years ago I met a guy online. He was from Nigeria but he was here in the states. No green card. He had a job but lost it later in our relationship. Super sweet. Very attentive. We hit it off immediately, talked and text on the phone all day everyday for about a month.

Then out of the blue he starts acting shady then I came to find out he had a girlfriend. We stopped talking for maybe 2 weeks but started back up again as friends (he told me that he wasn't with her anymore, I believed him) and eventually we became "exclusive" we moved in together.

Since we've been together he has cheated on me several times with multiple different women. I would find him on dating sites messaging women I've found Facebook messages, if messages, text messages. Most of them the women never responded to. Some of them did. Some of them he revealed his real name to and some he gave a fake name. Every time I would out information he would apologize cry, beg, plead for me to forgive him and take him back and I did every time.

I later found out that he was a scammer. He pretended to be other people online. Sometimes men sometimes women to get them to send him money. He would scam people on eBay making up fake PayPal invoices and taking the product and never giving them the money for it.

His friends also have taken people's credit cards and swiped them. He somehow got a hold of people's bank info etc. (I've now come to understand this to be 419 scamming) I never saw any of the money, meanwhile I was working and taking care of us.

Whenever we went out I paid for everything. Vacations. Birthdays. Literally everything. He never pressured me to marry him or asked me for large sums of money. He would ask for money for his bus card or phone bill. Small things like that. I loved him. I supported him. I wanted to help him. I wanted him to do better and be better. I wanted him to change so badly but he never did.

Cut to 2 months ago. I find out he's been cheating again. And in my house. I kick him out, we break up. He's apologizing he's crying he seems genuinely sorry promises to change the whole bit..

The minute I have him another chance he flipped the script. Started acting shady. Was telling me one thing and doing the complete opposite. He would tell me he still loves me and still wants to be with me etc.

cut to 2 days ago I find out on Snapchat that he's in a new relationship and "in love" and taking trips with this girl.

Mind you just last week he wanted to still work things out with me. I'm completely over it now. My question is was I apart of the scam? Or was this just a typical case of dealing with an unfaithful man? I knew he was a scammer. I begged him to stop but he wouldn't but for whatever reasons I never thought he would scam me.

It went bad. .Get over it

Thing is, he probably did not want to expose his modus operandi to you while you lived together. Either because he felt a pang of conscience, or decided you were good cover for his illicit activities.

You get apportioned a share of the blame 'cause the signs were right there in front of you.

Don't sweat him. Move on

True love will find you

@op, Madam if your old enough to be his mum or you're like 10-30yrs older than him then Na SCAM, but if you are younger or like 2yrs older than him then na LEGIT....

give that girl two medals. one for being an idiot. the second one is encase if she lost the first one

ZarZar:
Yes, he scammed you too because as you say, you paid for everything. He got something out of it like the parasitic user that he was.

ke Zullu gurl always following me why naw

Anonymous1234:
I want to start this post by saying PLEASE do not judge my situation. (I'll try to be brief. Please ask questions if you have any)

So almost 2 years ago I met a guy online. He was from Nigeria but he was here in the states. No green card. He had a job but lost it later in our relationship. Super sweet. Very attentive. We hit it off immediately, talked and text on the phone all day everyday for about a month.

Then out of the blue he starts acting shady then I came to find out he had a girlfriend. We stopped talking for maybe 2 weeks but started back up again as friends (he told me that he wasn't with her anymore, I believed him) and eventually we became "exclusive" we moved in together.

Since we've been together he has cheated on me several times with multiple different women. I would find him on dating sites messaging women I've found Facebook messages, if messages, text messages. Most of them the women never responded to. Some of them did. Some of them he revealed his real name to and some he gave a fake name. Every time I would out information he would apologize cry, beg, plead for me to forgive him and take him back and I did every time.

I later found out that he was a scammer. He pretended to be other people online. Sometimes men sometimes women to get them to send him money. He would scam people on eBay making up fake PayPal invoices and taking the product and never giving them the money for it.

His friends also have taken people's credit cards and swiped them. He somehow got a hold of people's bank info etc. (I've now come to understand this to be 419 scamming) I never saw any of the money, meanwhile I was working and taking care of us.

Whenever we went out I paid for everything. Vacations. Birthdays. Literally everything. He never pressured me to marry him or asked me for large sums of money. He would ask for money for his bus card or phone bill. Small things like that. I loved him. I supported him. I wanted to help him. I wanted him to do better and be better. I wanted him to change so badly but he never did.

Cut to 2 months ago. I find out he's been cheating again. And in my house. I kick him out, we break up. He's apologizing he's crying he seems genuinely sorry promises to change the whole bit..

The minute I have him another chance he flipped the script. Started acting shady. Was telling me one thing and doing the complete opposite. He would tell me he still loves me and still wants to be with me etc.

cut to 2 days ago I find out on Snapchat that he's in a new relationship and "in love" and taking trips with this girl.

Mind you just last week he wanted to still work things out with me. I'm completely over it now. My question is was I apart of the scam? Or was this just a typical case of dealing with an unfaithful man? I knew he was a scammer. I begged him to stop but he wouldn't but for whatever reasons I never thought he would scam me.

You should know the answer to this your question.he played you like ludo game...well I have a serious guy for you in this state that is ready for marriage...he is a citizen too...and hardworking.

Anonymous 1234. I'd advice you not to waste your time with some people here that vomit comments from their asses and not their brains. As regards your issue, the dude is a no good and don't let him become your bad habit. Don't emotionally invest yourself in him before you become emotionally bankrupt. Lastly, don't chase love, it happens in the most unexpected way.

Run fi ya life..

That hombre is a natural scammer

He's just using you.

When he hits it big, he'll dump you big time.

Such a dude may be married with kids back home..

Cut your loses gf.

CAN I GAT A CHILLED WATER PLS??


I Just don't know what's wrong with this nowadays loving loving affairs.

You've already known the answer to ur questions...

but when una collect,no be scam,for una mind una no be parasite abi

ZarZar:
Yes, he scammed you too because as you say, you paid for everything. He got something out of it like the parasitic user that he was.

Anonymous1234:
I want to start this post by saying PLEASE do not judge my situation. (I'll try to be brief. Please ask questions if you have any)

So almost 2 years ago I met a guy online. He was from Nigeria but he was here in the states. No green card. He had a job but lost it later in our relationship. Super sweet. Very attentive. We hit it off immediately, talked and text on the phone all day everyday for about a month.

Then out of the blue he starts acting shady then I came to find out he had a girlfriend. We stopped talking for maybe 2 weeks but started back up again as friends (he told me that he wasn't with her anymore, I believed him) and eventually we became "exclusive" we moved in together.

Since we've been together he has cheated on me several times with multiple different women. I would find him on dating sites messaging women I've found Facebook messages, if messages, text messages. Most of them the women never responded to. Some of them did. Some of them he revealed his real name to and some he gave a fake name. Every time I would out information he would apologize cry, beg, plead for me to forgive him and take him back and I did every time.

I later found out that he was a scammer. He pretended to be other people online. Sometimes men sometimes women to get them to send him money. He would scam people on eBay making up fake PayPal invoices and taking the product and never giving them the money for it.

His friends also have taken people's credit cards and swiped them. He somehow got a hold of people's bank info etc. (I've now come to understand this to be 419 scamming) I never saw any of the money, meanwhile I was working and taking care of us.

Whenever we went out I paid for everything. Vacations. Birthdays. Literally everything. He never pressured me to marry him or asked me for large sums of money. He would ask for money for his bus card or phone bill. Small things like that. I loved him. I supported him. I wanted to help him. I wanted him to do better and be better. I wanted him to change so badly but he never did.

Cut to 2 months ago. I find out he's been cheating again. And in my house. I kick him out, we break up. He's apologizing he's crying he seems genuinely sorry promises to change the whole bit..

The minute I have him another chance he flipped the script. Started acting shady. Was telling me one thing and doing the complete opposite. He would tell me he still loves me and still wants to be with me etc.

cut to 2 days ago I find out on Snapchat that he's in a new relationship and "in love" and taking trips with this girl.

Mind you just last week he wanted to still work things out with me. I'm completely over it now. My question is was I apart of the scam? Or was this just a typical case of dealing with an unfaithful man? I knew he was a scammer. I begged him to stop but he wouldn't but for whatever reasons I never thought he would scam me.

Oooh lawd !!! What can I say? Emotional Scammer on the prowl

Still accept him maybe until he sell ur house and ran to other state with his new bae then your eye go clear.
Or wait until FBI come arrest both of una alert u be accomplished

He won't change you had better leave before he gets you into trouble. He does not care about you or anyone else and he will only end up either infecting with disease from his cheating habit or steal your money and leave you heartbroken.

Better go through this and find out which of the mental problem he is suffering from.

http://www.webmd.com/mental-health/features/sociopath-psychopath-difference#1

northvietnam:



lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.

Stupid bitches..

u will be friend zoning Decent guys around you and u want to Date C Ronaldo's twin online..

God will punish all of u one by one

I say Amen to that.Most of these useless oversabi girls always like the bad guys,so i dont have any pity for none of them.Kudos to that sharp guy

ojlifa:
but when una collect,no be scam,for una mind una no be parasite abi

Go ask the "una" that collected something from you. I make my own, fool.

you met a hustler with no conscience.. Too bad you fell deep in love

This your story reminds me of one dummie like that, already married and was still fooling around with flirty mails via pm. I had to challenge the moro.n one time to show her husband the mails but couldn't. Funny thing is the guy also used fake name but this dummie was already making sweet calls and chat with the scammer or maybe ritualist sef

maybe that's how your specie is sha.. just be careful next time

if you have left him,why then are you worried about his next woman,second i suspect you are looking for backing on the evil deed you have planned in your mind that you want to carry out,and lastly if he didn't like you,he would have cleaned you out.bear in mind i haven't accepted your story until i hear his side of it because women thisdays you people can lie and are in the habit of slandering any man who cant take your rubbish anymore

Anonymous1234:
He never pressured me about marriage. He never asked for large sums of money like they typically do in these situations so I was confused. My heart was in it 100% but my gut was telling me to RUN and I'm glad I left. I feel bad for the. Ew girl because she probably has no idea what she's dealing with.

How in the world did you think you were off limits from being scanned by your scammer boyfriend? . You can't cry wolf after putting such problems on yourself.

Taio Cruz ft ludacris. Break your heart

make your own from who,alhaji abi na who,abeg almost every woman today her hustle na man,the once in the office slept with men to get there job and sleep with there boss to get ahead.

ZarZar:


Go ask the "una" that collected something from you. I make my own, fool.

young lady... let him outta ur life. hes a leech in ur life... am a nigerian n wd proudly tell u nigerians r ungrateful and they snitch. i lost my wife to some guy i knw from university in santa clarita. he framed me up n she stupidly believed him cos they were 2hrs apart. santa clarita to visalia... while am here in nigeria. dnt let the ingrates toy with ur heart. guys like that r d reason some people hate nigerians n call us names. u in america n u cant work wt ur hands...dang that! henceforth i wd neva vouch for any nigerian.

Be thankful that he didn't scam some fat lady while living with you cos you will be tagged accessory after the fact and you could go to jail for it. Love of such nature is a scam. Yes, you were scammed. Crying and acting is all a scheme ladies use against men, I am surprise that a brother has mastered it. He flipped the script.

Well babe wise up, he is using u 100% to achieve a particular aim. The moment he gets another lady dt he can stay with comfortably and foot his bills, he is off for good.

Well if a man love a woman, he would not cheat and if he mistakenly does that, he will never attempt dt again no matter what.

To me, you should like a landlord that offers food, sex and other freebies.

Sorry what kind of love do you feel that could have cloud ur sense of seeing and understanding what's happening.

Nawao.......But some guys eeeee. I can't imagine myself indulging in that useless game called scam that can make a man unsatisfied for the rest of his life. If i found an oyibo woman as a lover haa.....i don marry be that nah

ojlifa:
make your own from who,alhaji abi na who,abeg almost every woman today her hustle na man,the once in the office slept with men to get there job and sleep with there boss to get ahead.

I'm glad you said "almost" because I sure don't belong to the group that bleeps their way to the top. So before you make stupid ASSumptions, try a method called asking.

i am asking now tell me how you make your own as you claim,bear in mind i am tried to detected lies

ZarZar:


I'm glad you said "almost" because I sure don't belong to the group that bleeps their way to the top. So before you make stupid ASSumptions, try a method called asking.

I cannot stress this enough, whether you are a man or a woman; if you want to date a person make every effort to know where he/she comes from, the people he/she associate with and previous relationships. This is very crucial in making an informed decision. It's simple, you are not a magician, you are not expected to know another person's mind. So do your due diligence and leave the rest to God. Go into a relationship knowing you have done your very best and only then do you love with all your heart. Chances are you will be still get hurt, but let it happen on your own terms. If you must be a maga be an informed maga, if it quacks, walks and looks like a duck, my sista it is a DUCK!

[/quote] u better run for ur lifr and not try to change him...no amount of job u try to get him can make him stop scamming......very addictive...he will only do d work. For a while and tell u d pay is too small.......hes's in d state to scam and come back home to oppress. And spend d money anyhoe......he's not there to hustle to be great ........he will never ask u for huge amount.....he only needs u to accommodate him and care for him till he accomplish his mission and run back.....pls be wuse u can end up going to jail because of that guy.......a time will come he will scam with ur identity and uu are in for it.........WISE UP.....

Anonymous1234:
I want to start this post by saying PLEASE do not judge my situation. (I'll try to be brief. Please ask questions if you have any)

So almost 2 years ago I met a guy online. He was from Nigeria but he was here in the states. No green card. He had a job but lost it later in our relationship. Super sweet. Very attentive. We hit it off immediately, talked and text on the phone all day everyday for about a month.

Then out of the blue he starts acting shady then I came to find out he had a girlfriend. We stopped talking for maybe 2 weeks but started back up again as friends (he told me that he wasn't with her anymore, I believed him) and eventually we became "exclusive" we moved in together.

Since we've been together he has cheated on me several times with multiple different women. I would find him on dating sites messaging women I've found Facebook messages, if messages, text messages. Most of them the women never responded to. Some of them did. Some of them he revealed his real name to and some he gave a fake name. Every time I would out information he would apologize cry, beg, plead for me to forgive him and take him back and I did every time.

I later found out that he was a scammer. He pretended to be other people online. Sometimes men sometimes women to get them to send him money. He would scam people on eBay making up fake PayPal invoices and taking the product and never giving them the money for it.

His friends also have taken people's credit cards and swiped them. He somehow got a hold of people's bank info etc. (I've now come to understand this to be 419 scamming) I never saw any of the money, meanwhile I was working and taking care of us.

Whenever we went out I paid for everything. Vacations. Birthdays. Literally everything. He never pressured me to marry him or asked me for large sums of money. He would ask for money for his bus card or phone bill. Small things like that. I loved him. I supported him. I wanted to help him. I wanted him to do better and be better. I wanted him to change so badly but he never did.

Cut to 2 months ago. I find out he's been cheating again. And in my house. I kick him out, we break up. He's apologizing he's crying he seems genuinely sorry promises to change the whole bit..

The minute I have him another chance he flipped the script. Started acting shady. Was telling me one thing and doing the complete opposite. He would tell me he still loves me and still wants to be with me etc.

cut to 2 days ago I find out on Snapchat that he's in a new relationship and "in love" and taking trips with this girl.

Mind you just last week he wanted to still work things out with me. I'm completely over it now. My question is was I apart of the scam? Or was this just a typical case of dealing with an unfaithful man? I knew he was a scammer. I begged him to stop but he wouldn't but for whatever reasons I never thought he would scam me.

My sister, I suspect that nigga's love voodoo is working on u big time...and if u think it's not working, my sister run and never look run, just run!