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Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by lexy2014: 2:09pm On Apr 03, 2017
QueenSuccubus:



grin

Aha...why, will u call me constantly? wink cheesy
well it depends on how u define "constantly". its relative but I will always b available 2 communicate as often as its possible
Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by lexy2014: 2:16pm On Apr 03, 2017
QueenSuccubus:



grin

Aha...why, will u call me constantly? wink cheesy
remember communication is 2 way traffic. if u aren't d calling or texting type, there's no way a guy can keep calling u indefinitely....sent u a mail
Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by QueenSuccubus(f): 2:20pm On Apr 03, 2017
lexy2014:
remember communication is 2 way traffic. if u aren't d calling or texting type, there's no way a guy can keep calling u indefinitely....sent u a mail


Sorry but I already forgot the PW of this email sha...I don't use the email I registered here...
Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by lexy2014: 2:21pm On Apr 03, 2017
QueenSuccubus:



Sorry but I already forgot the PW of this email sha...I don't use the email I registered here...
so how do we communicate outside NL
Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by lexy2014: 2:25pm On Apr 03, 2017
Omohjick:
My fellow nairalanders, I think I'm in a deep mess. Truly I'm old enough to settle down and my parents won't let me rest. They asked me to stop chasing after money but settle down and we all know men of these days, they like already made just as the way they complain about the ladies...now I met a guy who is ready to settle down and very responsible. He doesn't stay in Nigeria...

He is such a caring man and ha never married. He was born and brought up in England but he's from Lagos.

Hmmm...the worse part of him is that he's too jealous and calls me like 100times in a day. I'm not exaggerating plz. I'm here in Lagos but he never allows me to rest at all. If he calls me twice and I'm not picking its gonna be problem.

He keeps asking are you with someone there?
Why are you not replying my chat so fast?
Why did you put off your data please I hate it
What are you doing right now?
Why are you not speaking aloud?

Lots of questions and I can't begin to imagine right now.
I don't know what to do please help me. He's choking me and just too jealous which is why he's still single according to him, no wife no kids.

If possible he can ask me to do video chat with him while crossing the express road.
Chai! I don hia am
nobody asked this question: do u really love this guy or u just want 2 marry him?
Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by lexy2014: 3:36pm On Apr 03, 2017
mizeminent:


my story is exactly the same as yours, although it's a long distance relationship but still within Nigeria. I yaff tired but don't know what to do.
have u talked it over with him?
Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by lexy2014: 3:46pm On Apr 03, 2017
U said u have known this guy for just 4 weeks.am sure u have never seen him or interacted with him physically.all communication has been on phone.how do u want 2 marry a person u don't even no.I don't want 2 agree with u that u doing this cos of d pressure from ur parents.its ur choice...this is a judgement call and from every indication ur judgement is questionable.u are rushing and no one is forcing u to rush except u urself maybe 4 strategic reasons or other reasons best known 2u.how much do u no about marriage?hmmm.....this ur own na wa oh
Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Nobody: 5:06pm On Apr 03, 2017
SmartBug:


Pretty sure you ain't exaggerating but hallucinating!


Not everyone is poor like yourself.
Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by abisolaarshow(f): 5:57pm On Apr 03, 2017
if that is you on your dp, then he needs to be worried. but he is overdoing it
weigh the pros and con if you cant take
it then bounce.
Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by adellam16(f): 7:08pm On Apr 03, 2017
Omohjick:
My fellow nairalanders, I think I'm in a deep mess. Truly I'm old enough to settle down and my parents won't let me rest. They asked me to stop chasing after money but settle down and we all know men of these days, they like already made just as the way they complain about the ladies...now I met a guy who is ready to settle down and very responsible. He doesn't stay in Nigeria...

He is such a caring man and ha never married. He was born and brought up in England but he's from Lagos.

Hmmm...the worse part of him is that he's too jealous and calls me like 100times in a day. I'm not exaggerating plz. I'm here in Lagos but he never allows me to rest at all. If he calls me twice and I'm not picking its gonna be problem.

He keeps asking are you with someone there?
Why are you not replying my chat so fast?
Why did you put off your data please I hate it
What are you doing right now?
Why are you not speaking aloud?

Lots of questions and I can't begin to imagine right now.
I don't know what to do please help me. He's choking me and just too jealous which is why he's still single according to him, no wife no kids.

If possible he can ask me to do video chat with him while crossing the express road.
Chai! I don hia am
I have read ur story? What do u want me to do now? I believe u get sense and know wat to do.
Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Nobody: 7:34pm On Apr 03, 2017
adellam16:
I have read ur story? What do u want me to do now? I believe u get sense and know wat to do.

I never invited an underaged like you to read my story little girl.
Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Benelovelace(f): 9:22pm On Apr 03, 2017
[quote author=Omohjick post=55233618]
You shldnt bring her mother into dz

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Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Nobody: 9:25pm On Apr 03, 2017
[quote author=Benelovelace post=55236541][/quote]

I should plz
Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Nobody: 9:25pm On Apr 03, 2017
SmartBug:


Huh?

I strongly advice you to ask your Mother what sex style produces dullards like you for the sake of humanity...


Ask the same question from your father boy
Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Benelovelace(f): 9:27pm On Apr 03, 2017
stephnie44:
ow do u Cope? going through similar stuff
i manage
Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Benelovelace(f): 9:30pm On Apr 03, 2017
himkers2:


Even u wey dey use phone with tie tie rubber band ? grin grin
i'd xo love 2 see ur face,b4 i say wat it is i want 2 say

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Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Benelovelace(f): 9:33pm On Apr 03, 2017
oshe11:
So as U small reach U dn dey slip man house n u open mouth dey talk am out?



I will tell Ur elder broda





Like seriousli our gurls are no longer wat our mothers used to be CHARACTER-WISE
if u dnt undstand wat was written there,u 4get hide ur ego nd ask,no one z going 2 crucify u here,laters

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Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Nobody: 9:34pm On Apr 03, 2017
SmartBug:


Huh?

I strongly advice you to ask your Mother what sex style produces dullards like you for the sake of humanity...


You kids of nowadays just talk to people anyhow you like without knowing who you're talking to and when things get harder for you in the nearest future or your mates are making it big in life but you're lagging behind, you keep blaming your step mother...I feel so sorry for your life boy
Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Benelovelace(f): 9:34pm On Apr 03, 2017
tosyne2much:
This your issue serious pass the OP own ooo
no o
Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Benelovelace(f): 9:37pm On Apr 03, 2017
joeace2020:


He loves you though but is now obsessed and that is risky. Obsession is what drives many men into crazy things like what he is doing to you know. You need to have a serious discussion with him on your commitment to the relationship, allay his fears and make him realize he just has to trust you because his behavior is driving you nuts.
fnx,i'll talk 2 him

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Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by midehill(m): 9:38pm On Apr 03, 2017
QueenSuccubus:
grin



Where can I find that kind of guy that call me constantly? grin grin


Most men nowadays, will juz call or text once in a blue moon with a NONSENSE emoji angry angry angry

.

I am that man...u can try me out...inbox me ur no...let's begin from there
Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by joeace2020(m): 6:40am On Apr 04, 2017
Benelovelace:
fnx,i'll talk 2 him

Good!
Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Nobody: 9:33am On Apr 04, 2017
lexy2014:
have u talked it over with him?
Yes and he said "Is because i love you so much and am afraid of losing you".
Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Nobody: 9:33am On Apr 04, 2017
lexy2014:
have u talked it over with him?
Yes and he said "Is because i love you so much and am afraid of losing you".
Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by lexy2014: 9:43am On Apr 04, 2017
mizeminent:

Yes and he said "Is because i love you so much and am afraid of losing you".
hmmm...I can't tell u dump him or stay with him but check this out:

"Don't let the world dictate your happiness, let it be decided by only you..."

Is that familiar?its up 2u...its about what u want

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Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by adellam16(f): 10:05am On Apr 04, 2017
Omohjick:


I never invited an underaged like you to read my story little girl.
no wonder u had to come to nairaland to tell us this fake story. U r an attention seeking brat. And yes it is official! U truly don't have sense and cannot think on ur own and make ur own decisions. Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha.

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