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| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by babadem2much(m): 9:07pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
zealblinks: walk away to where? She is looking for a serious relationship and she got one, i think nothing can be so serious than this one... The guy serious die |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Nobody: 9:08pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
OLAJADON:Are you also in a long distance relationship .. just cause you might feel that way doesnt mean everyone will feel that way . It is very very easy to cheat .. and guilt leads to harrassing the other person in relationship .. almost like their way of feeling better.. hence why i gave two options  if she thinks properly she will know which one he falls into . End of the day she knows him better than any of us here . |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by sugarbeesmith(m): 9:09pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Bumbae1:u beautiful hun.u welcome tho |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Nobody: 9:09pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
sugarbeesmith:Gracias  |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Anusiemgood(m): 9:11pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Omohjick:Are you referring this to me..hmmm |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by KKKWHITE(m): 9:14pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
His ex cheated on him so he dont want such mistake to repeat itself . |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by zealblinks(m): 9:15pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
The guy serious die we call it jealous not serious a serious minded person doesnt act like this. He is hot-headed person |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Nobody: 9:17pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Bumbae1:na so,,,ok so weitin make u say d boy might be cheating on her?wait oo the woman na native doctor? |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Jumeeeeesal(m): 9:19pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Omohjick:kai wetn u talk? Omo that 1 na ur semi-grandpa of nowadays |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by sugarbeesmith(m): 9:19pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Bumbae1:lol how does a guy request for a ladys contact.in Spanish pls ? |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by MicWizzy: 9:20pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
SmartBug: Oluwa ooo, Nigerians sabi reply... |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Nobody: 9:20pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
sugarbeesmith:Lol dont know yanno Honestly that's the only thing I know in Spanish .. |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Jumeeeeesal(m): 9:22pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Omohjick:op hope u don't call him with all those swt names because e no befit am @ all. Names uncle 47, Granny @47 or suga daddy u no fit call am mah luv again |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Jumeeeeesal(m): 9:23pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
torres89:that 1 na grammer. |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by sugarbeesmith(m): 9:24pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Bumbae1:only know of gracias muncho .thank you very much 1 Like |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Nobody: 9:27pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
sugarbeesmith:You speak french ? Or German ? |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by sugarbeesmith(m): 9:31pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Bumbae1:non of them .only pick few words |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by OneManLegion(m): 9:31pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Omohjick, I dunno if someone has already said what I'm about to say o but you should disregard all those telling you you're lucky and all, they either lack self-esteem or wisdom or both. You can't stay with a man who puts you under the spotlight constantly. Why not? Simply put, because he doesn't trust you and he feels he can micro-manage you into being what he wants. But he's actually battling his own distrust and paranoia not you or your perceived lack of fidelity. Now, have you thought of what a guy who feels he can micro-manage your life in lagos all the way from UK can do to you if you marry him? You need to sit his jealous ass down and let him know that trust is a veritable prerequisite of any successful relationship and you can't date a guy who doesn't trust you. I'm guessing he'll promise to change. I'm also certain he won't change, because people usually don't change their habits. At the end of the day, you have to decide if you can manage his mistrust and paranoia or you'll have to dissolve the relationship. Let no one, least of all an anonymous social media entity tell you what to do. What we can do is to clarify your options to you and let you know their implications. I can speak about long distance relationships because I'm in one myself. Good luck. 1 Like |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Nobody: 9:32pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by sugarbeesmith(m): 9:34pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Bumbae1:probably u teach the few you know and I do the same lol |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by stephnie44(f): 9:48pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
tonio2wo:dis exact words would hurt him oooo 1 Like |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by metallisc(m): 9:48pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Bumbae1: bum things on point!  |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Nobody: 9:49pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
metallisc: baddest you just land ni |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by stephnie44(f): 9:51pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Benelovelace:ow do u Cope? going through similar stuff |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by hoebamaa(m): 9:52pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
SmartBug:She might be saying the truth...during my service year, a guy called her gf 90 times within the space of 2 hours and called me 15 times with 5 SMS. |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by metallisc(m): 9:54pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Nobody: 9:55pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
metallisc:Ok o read up  |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by metallisc(m): 10:01pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Bumbae1:
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| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Chiefukofi: 10:05pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
100 times in a day? u just ended up with a monitoring spirit bae 2 Likes |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by manfred10(m): 10:05pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
QueenSuccubus: Different strokes for different folks |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by PatEinstEin(m): 10:05pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Omohjick:Congratulations |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Diplomaticbeing(m): 10:09pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
His stated attitude is a characteristic of an extreme possessive person - don't mistake it for care. And that's a sign of a control freak. One thing with people who loves to control others/deny others their freewill is that they're always selfish. Selfishness on its own is really a very bad vice and one who possess it do automatically possesses other vices like prejudice, perfidiousness, opportunism etc. It's unfortunate that you as a person is yet to achieve self-realization. . . Citing your submissions herein. Well, two people of different ethical philosophies can never find enduring happiness in each other's arms. When they mistakenly marry, at best they can only tolerate each other but they can never find the catalyst that will make them to celebrate each other. Love will always eluded them. 1 Like |
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