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Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by EkeneElectrons(m): 4:22am On Jul 12, 2017
Alero3Arubi:
While helping a guy build up, you have to build yourself up too, because when they eventually hammer they need a presentable woman to be beside them as trophy.
So my dear do yourself some good by upgrading yourself as well (if not more than) the man.

Is she not presentable?
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by dingbang(m): 4:53am On Jul 12, 2017
Slay queens don't have money...

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Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Paulpaulpaul(m): 5:54am On Jul 12, 2017
sekxy:

your comment doesn't make sense..how can you just conclude that she's giving them attitude when she said that after helping them to stand on their feet all she gets is disappointment. .honestly some men are scum

His statement is hypothetical na, nobody knows why they do that to her but I have the same view with the guy.
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Martin0(m): 6:04am On Jul 12, 2017
sekxy:

but don't you think that she's just unlucky...she said only struggling guys comes to meet her
Er Nne let her relax over this things first,she should just face her work and men who are seriously intrested in her will come,if she's in haste men will continue to use her and scarm her based on her desperation...
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Afamed: 6:11am On Jul 12, 2017
dyadeleye:
Your destiny is to be the breadwinner of your home!
Deal with that or email me!.
I can change your destiny
You as person can change someone destiny?
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Lolosky(m): 6:13am On Jul 12, 2017
Oyindidi:
That is just me being the funny me. Those close me here know what I say off Nl
You see!! you deceive others through jokes, and still expect yours to work out. what goes around comes around.
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by hgnbello(m): 6:22am On Jul 12, 2017
nothing.. jx go bak to ur village and ask for forgiveness.
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by mathy2p2: 6:25am On Jul 12, 2017
You ar serious ,looking for already made you will get old quick.
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Oyindidi(f): 6:27am On Jul 12, 2017
Lolosky:

You see!! you deceive others through jokes, and still expect yours to work out. what goes around comes around.
Mtcheeeeeeeeew
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Nobody: 6:38am On Jul 12, 2017
toastedbread:


Inasmuch as she needs to update herself also. what about the guy, if after making it decides to bring her up to his own level. Is that a crime?
I believe they never really loved he that much.
No its not.
That's a possibility.
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Nobody: 6:39am On Jul 12, 2017
EkeneElectrons:


Is she not presentable?
I don't know.
Is she?
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Yakzo(m): 6:44am On Jul 12, 2017
Everybody is a struggler in this country including those you thought have made it.

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Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Blackhawk03(f): 6:44am On Jul 12, 2017
Martin0:
shocked Er hmmmm sekxy and oyin what do u ve to say to this...I can prove her wrong ooo?Regarding what op said and also hmmm well

Kinni?
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Nobody: 6:45am On Jul 12, 2017
Martin0:
Er Nne let her relax over this things first,she should just face her work and men who are seriously intrested in her will come,if she's in haste men will continue to use her and scarm her based on her desperation...
nasoo..you have a point
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Martin0(m): 6:47am On Jul 12, 2017
Blackhawk03:


Kinni?
madam sorry to ask ooo.Are you a man or a woman?Because if you are actually a woman then you will be straight forward.
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Martin0(m): 6:49am On Jul 12, 2017
sekxy:
nasoo..you have a point
na wa ooo Nna Er
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Danpersie31(m): 6:57am On Jul 12, 2017
adabenji:
I don't want to believe I'm under bondage cos only guys who are still struggling to make it come to me for serious relationship. When i accept and join them in hustling and praying something good eventually comes and they break up with me.
What do I do?
well I am not like DAT..
it seems u are a blessing magnet, come and b my +1 and I won't leave u.
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Nobody: 7:00am On Jul 12, 2017
sekxy:

must you mention my monicker when you are being too stupid..if vulgar and rotten words are what you call finishing then I'm afraid sense is far from you...

I was trying to correct his stupid ideology....and not to engage in any e-war.. atleast he got my message

undecided

Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by skedy1(m): 7:01am On Jul 12, 2017
Am here, I have already made it!

Pm me let's make d world jealous.
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by AleAirHub(m): 7:02am On Jul 12, 2017
Same here too... Only hole's n I dey hungry , I dey sick , flasher , I dey come with my friends , na my friend give me tp. Yeye talk dem angry angry angry .
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Seunnzy(m): 7:07am On Jul 12, 2017
Oyindidi:
There's nothing wrong with that. I met my man when he was earning less than 30k about 11 years ago. Then I'll buy stuffs for him when he's broke cos I was doing business. I gave him money to buy his laptop when he was doing a professional course. Guess whatgrin he earns far more than that and I'm glad to start when he had nothing.

Sister me, you're not in bondage. Pray God to open your eyes to the right man.
if I find a woman like u later in dis life..or even now sef..i swear she ain't going nowhere
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Blackhawk03(f): 7:12am On Jul 12, 2017
Martin0:
madam sorry to ask ooo.Are you a man or a woman?Because if you are actually a woman then you will be straight forward.

Straight forward in what sense?
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by mainkendo: 7:16am On Jul 12, 2017
ikp120:
Na only broke girls wey dey look my car o. All these slay queens broke as fvck, just looking for the dude wey go pick up their bills.

Babe abeg just work on your attitude. I guess you must be part of those wey dey give broke guys attitude like "You should be thankful that I am dating you".

If I be broke guy and I date a girl wey dey give me that kinda attitude, when I make it eh, I go use her for rituals. angry
ahhhhh, u gat no chill
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Nobody: 7:17am On Jul 12, 2017
Alero3Arubi:
While helping a guy build up, you have to build yourself up too, because when they eventually hammer they need a presentable woman to be beside them as trophy.
So my dear do yourself some good by upgrading yourself as well (if not more than) the man.
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Martin0(m): 7:17am On Jul 12, 2017
Blackhawk03:


Straight forward in what sense?
You will know what to say to her as a lady..You will just tell her the simple truth(Eziokwu)
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Theultimate(m): 7:18am On Jul 12, 2017
Alero3Arubi:
While helping a guy build up, you have to build yourself up too, because when they eventually hammer they need a presentable woman to be beside them as trophy.
So my dear do yourself some good by upgrading yourself as well (if not more than) the man.

I so much love this. I have the mindset, pray and work along. I even told her what you just said by myself(to avoid disappointment). I don't pretend.

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Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Martin0(m): 7:19am On Jul 12, 2017
Martin0:
You will know what to say to her as a lady..You will just tell her the simple truth(Eziokwu)
well ve said my own sha,and I know u ve seen my reply,that what is expected of a lady to say and not from men..
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Blackhawk03(f): 7:19am On Jul 12, 2017
Martin0:
You will know what to say to her as a lady..You will just tell her the simple truth(Eziokwu)

Ezi what? angry angry
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by FTrebirth(m): 7:22am On Jul 12, 2017
some nairaland girls and their stupid comments.

a girl said she has had a series of unsuccessful relationships with boys and you failed to question her attitude first before attacking the so-called broke exes who are not here to tell their own side of the story.

once a girl comes online and posts any rubbish about guys, you team up to support her without investigating to know why she's grieving. reason is because y'all have been severely used and dumped by the same broke boys you despise. at least, op is resourceful but y'all are a bunch of leeches with smelly panties! stop venting your paranoia on innocent guys and stop using nairaland as your wailing arena.


big cucumber fall on you!
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by austyn0(m): 7:24am On Jul 12, 2017
Reasoning this way concerning relationships is totally odd, made men can come to you and you know how and where to present yourself which is indecency.. In the world we live in today, 80-85percent of happily married ladies or ladies in a happy relationship started with struggling guys,, it all comes down to the kinda struggling guy you accepted into your life, when next a struggling guy approaches you, use your head to help your heart... Lastly,, change that ''only struggling guys approach me'' mentality please or you risk becoming an object of pity and mockery.
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by kennykendo(m): 7:26am On Jul 12, 2017
adabenji:
I don't want to believe I'm under bondage cos only guys who are still struggling to make it come to me for serious relationship. When i accept and join them in hustling and praying something good eventually comes and they break up with me.
What do I do?

Op, it is natural for humans to say 'see what they did to us' without them saying see what we did to them.

There has to be something, about you that seems to be a turn off or no no.

Look at at least the first two relationships, or look at the relationships you had with the guys you knew or you could beat your chest and say 'he's a good a man', the people you were so proud of. What was that particular thing they complained about?

From your write up, I deduced one thing, you have inferiority complex issues which you might not want to hear, it also goes hand in hand with temper issues..

Like you said only struggling men, in other words when they jam something good, they walk out right?

Don't just complain about this, seat down and do the following:

1. ask yourself what is the one thing, my boyfriends in the past have complained about?

2. what is it that I do and feel like I have achieved my aim, but later I regret doing what I did, because it hurt someone?

3. does the world not seeing things from my perspective hurt me?


if the answer to number 3 is yes, then my dear, you need to work on yourself before moving forward....

While building a man, you need to build yourself also, you can't clear the lawn of a neighbor if yours is bushy.

its either you have brushed or built yourself tons certain level, or you're building himself and you which seems unlikely and impossible.

take care

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