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| Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Nobody: 7:22am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Ithappened to two of my friends but lem me talk about one.. Their relationship started this time last 5years. When this my girlfriend was just in her under 20's. So this guy came to her when he had nothing. Though it took this my gf time to actually accept him. Then I would advice her to at least date when she turns 20 at least to know a lot about relationship but due to her love for the guy she accepted him. Then the guy graduated from university and luckily for him he went for his NYSC shortly when my gf accepted his proposal.. Then this guy would visit her without giving her anything, they were loved up and she was cool with it..she loved him so much that nothing about him pisses her off.. hmmm, so many times this my gf would go to visit him but because he doesn't have money she would transport herself...the guy then loved her.. Maybe because he was still broke.. I would then ask this bae if she cheats on him but she would say no, even to the extend that she doesn't club or do any social stuff because of his guy, she prays and encouraged him. Fast forward to this time last year, the guy started making money ..bought cars and started building ..he has many investments. Just last two months she called and was crying that the guy had broken up with her and I was like ...please calm down and tell me what transpired. .she said that the guy chatted her up to tell her that he likes light skinned ladies...and that he doesn't love her enough to marry her because of her skin colour.. I called the supposed bf and the guy was actually telling me he Will cheat on her if he eventually marries her...but this bae suffered with him all this while for 4years and he didn't notice her dark colour until he started making money. 82 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by SirMichael1: 7:23am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Give a man position/money or power and watch him act his 'real' self. The guy must have shown signs of betrayal but the lady was so caught up in love that she turned a blind eye to his faults! That's what love does. It's blinding! Sorry ehn 185 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by VargasVee(m): 7:26am On Jul 25, 2017 |
No pun intended, but this sounds like a load of Bullshiit. She's not light-skinned? Lamest reason I ever heard, Or he didn't see her before when he was broke? Ask Your friend, she is yet to tell you what she did. 55 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Brown14: 7:26am On Jul 25, 2017 |
if she poison the guy God will understand. 60 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Kondomatic(m): 7:28am On Jul 25, 2017 |
No guy leaves a GOOD woman who stood by him when he was poor. Lemme Highlight Some Things. 1. Dating a broke guy doesn't mean you are a good woman 2. Dating a broke guy and building a future with a broke guy are not the same 3. Dating a guy because you've looked into his future and seen that he will turn out great is not love, dating, support or whatever you girls take it to be. It is an investment into his blessing with nothing and every investor losses. 4. If you date a guy when he was broke but didn't invest in him or support him(and prayer isn't the support I am talking about here, his mama prayers for him even in sleep) , he owe you nothing and can break up with you anytime 5. Dating a broke guy is like sponsoring a lady's education when she is not married to you, they come back with another guy instead of certificate most times. 426 Likes 50 Shares |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by olagbemi118(m): 7:31am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Another nollywood script...na big fat lie be this one. What guy sees a good gal & leaves her cos of skin colour? OP, fear God oooo 12 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by enniewest(f): 7:34am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Eyaah |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Nobody: 7:40am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Yes its not a guarantee. And not all relationship will end in marriage. 16 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Nobody: 7:41am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Kondomatic:the guy actually confirms that the lady was too good for him..but his problem is that he is attracted to fair ladies...he told me that the lady was so nice to him that he feels bad whenever he wants to flirt........just that good ladies end up with bad guys 42 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Nobody: 7:44am On Jul 25, 2017 |
olagbemi118:my dear nothing like lie..you don't have the heart to leave a good lady doesn't mean others don't.....guess you haven't seen things..I said it happened to two of my friends. .the other girl even dated her bf for 8years.. 15 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by BEENUEL(m): 7:53am On Jul 25, 2017 |
This story is K-legged Your friend is all over the brokeness, she no even enjoy the moment...ewo ni"she will transport her self, with out him giving her money." Smh Oh, she was thinking, she's gon be his wife because she stood with him, when he had nothing....automatically? I think you girls should start reading dangote's biography, his first wife was never in picture! 29 Likes |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Kondomatic(m): 7:54am On Jul 25, 2017 |
sekxy:This could be a consolation. It is not always true, we say it sometimes just make the lady feel good and not blame herself for the breaking up. sekxy:He's a prick head then. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Modragon(m): 7:59am On Jul 25, 2017 |
sekxy: Wen I read stories like this and the ridiculous reasons as stated,I wonder and question the truth in stories like this,just saying 5 Likes |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Nobody: 8:02am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Kondomatic:it's so sad 1 Like |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Nobody: 8:04am On Jul 25, 2017 |
BEENUEL:that is what my topic is all about.. |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Nobody: 8:05am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Always date a comfortable guy, when u yourself is also comfortable. But shine those eyes to see very well, and those ears to listen very well in between conversations. And in a lil while, u will know if he will stay or move onto the next victim. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by BEENUEL(m): 8:07am On Jul 25, 2017 |
sekxy: Ma'am can we forget your friend for now? We had a pending discussion last night... About you wanting a baby.. My manners.....Good morning. |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by KevMitnick: 8:12am On Jul 25, 2017 |
sekxy:There is something wrong with your story. It appears incomplete. If we hear the guy's side of the story, we'll be able to assess the situation better. 12 Likes |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by crismark(m): 8:42am On Jul 25, 2017 |
sekxy:From d way u talk u re sounding like all dis liability kind of girlfriend.. So d guy should give her moni anytime he visits or he should give her transport moni anytime she wants to visit him...BTW tell dat ur friend she should tell u d real reason she was dumped...men don't dump good women. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Martin0(m): 8:48am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Op are u really sure about this  1 Like |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Stevengerd(m): 9:00am On Jul 25, 2017 |
How will i leave a good woman, that has been with me thru the thick and thick because of money. Op yo a liability to ur man, just accept it 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by marklele(m): 10:19am On Jul 25, 2017 |
It is oo. A girl who stays calmly with you, encouraging you all the way and not adding to the fire you are facing and not comparing you to other successful one but gives you hope, she is automatically your wife except you don't like her and turns her down when she first came into your life not after eating her apple to your taste oo. I drop 13 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Olanrefront3355(m): 10:32am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Uh, I see no reason why this information is tied to "Brokenness" well, by now you shouldn't disappoint anyone here. |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Blackhawk03(f): 10:43am On Jul 25, 2017 |
I'll be back.  |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by rosalieene(f): 10:51am On Jul 25, 2017 |
I see some biased judgement. It was this kinda scenario that made Toke makinwa to bleach her skin, today what happened? If you decide to date a comfy dude, they will complain and call you are a gold digger. if you decide to stand by a man, the possibility of him ending up with you is 50-50. Empower yourself as a lady, don't give in too much in a relationship and don't expect much. Going by experience and others experience, I don't blame those who say "do not put all ur eggs in one basket " I have come to realize that 80% of those who follow this rule always have the last laugh. 48 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by raquel97: 10:55am On Jul 25, 2017 |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by MissRaine69(f): 11:01am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Kondomatic:You sir are a breath of fresh air There was a lot that was misconstrued in that story and it sounded very one sided as well. She seemed to have invested more in this than he did. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by MissRaine69(f): 11:07am On Jul 25, 2017 |
crismark:No one is going to say " I was dumped because I constantly reminded him of the help I was giving him!" Some women will help a broke guy out but she will remind him daily that she is helping him out and that if it were not for her help he would be nothing! No one wants to hear that. Based on the OP's attitude if birds of a feather flock together I can see why the friend was dumped. 22 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Lsofdk(m): 11:15am On Jul 25, 2017 |
rosalieene:Going by the emboldened, you're endorsing cheating… goodluck on your quest. By the way, how did you come up with that statistic? 7 Likes |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by y3mi(m): 11:20am On Jul 25, 2017 |
sekxy:First of all, there's nothing bad when females express an ordeal of this nature, be it the jilted or a girlfriend who does it on her behalf, but what I hate is whenever such lamentation is presented with so much INDIGNATION..like WTF! Sometimes Nigerian babes just makes me angry with their phony sob stories as if guys aren't the ones who get used and dumped the most. Is it because males in that same shoe your friend was don't voice out., I've being lovelorned, jilted and emotionally barbecued in 3 short-lived relationships so much that I'd begun to think love is a forsaken thing in this part of the world. I invested emotionally, physically and financially in the hopes of building a future together with someone you believe is your significant other, but only for me to turn out PUNKED...see Sexkyw abi na Sexksi sef...there are numerous authentic stories I can tell you that are bordered on this same premise wherein guy(s) are the ones who got torpedoed but there's this particular one that I've always wanted to share with guys here on Nairaland because it is so heart-wrenching and cruel it makes your fake or incomplete story sound like an Alice got lost wandering in Wonderland. It's a story every guy should read. As in you yourself go fear women after reading it. I was even contemplating whether if it deserves a thread on its own or to post it here upon reading what you shared on your GF's behalf, but I chose the former, however which, I shall remember to mention you as soon as I find time to write and thread it. And like I said, it's a must-read for every guy-in-love out there. Getting back to the issue of what happened to your girlfriend, I have this to say before leaving you with a story that transpired several years ago. Provided certain factors are satisfied, no guy/man, and I repeat no guy/man WILL EVER abandon his soul-mate for anyone else. Right now, I wish but I can't afford the time to start explaining why I'm so adamant on that position, but I can say it's simply because there are metaphysical impossibility attached to it, if such a guy per chance does that, his success is bound to crumble fast and sometimes irrecoverable even without her needing to haul imprecations at him. Only if you had stumble on certain posts and write-ups I've written in a long past here on NL wherein I approach issues from the esoteric angle (not with this username) then you may agree. Most don't understand what it means to be with one soul-mate or to find one's significant order as a certain Yoruba proverb prays. What happened to your girlfriend MAY have nothing to do with the guy as both of them may or may not be aware of what they were in it for, but along the line while she definitely took certain things for granted and her expectation grew bigger as the opportunistic 'Good-Bad Guy' latches on to enjoy her amusement park while her stock last and to process Kondomatic's first three point into a law applicable in her case, my verdict goes - she had it coming. Tell her to cry us a river. Late night radio talk shows even made a serious topic out of it with various revamping for listeners to call in and air their views. I don't remember the full detail but it was about this abroad-based, already successful Nigerian guy who has being in a love-made-in-heaven relationship with a Nigeria babe for donkey years. In fact from the way the whole thing was being talked about you'd wonder - of all the damsels in France or USA where I think he is said to usually comes from to meet and court this said Nigerian babe, why her in particular. It must indeed be 'True Love'. On that fateful day, as the story goes - this guy just popped up unannounced to surprise her, greeted her girlfriends, dropped her a nylon bag and told her he want to see some folks around, he will be back soon but assures her as he takes his leave that she will enjoy what's inside as it's different in taste from all the Nigerian ones she's used to, before taking off in his ride. As the OAP narrate the story: facing her girlfriends all of whom who reside together, she protested "...can you imagine, of all the thing he has bought and done for me, it is this big bread he thinks I'm hungry for...I can't believe this, I feel insulted" She dumped it in the bin. The Good-Good Guy came back only to find what had happened, he just went straight to the trash and brought the nylon, opened and tore it up, brought out the diamond ring concealed inside the bread, and showed it to her as his means of stunning her with a proposal. It was said she knelt down begging and apologizing. I thought the whole story was fabricated until I saw it on other gossip sites and even spread like wildfire on FB & Twitter, this happened couple of years back before the coming of Instagram. Wouldn't you say the Good-Good guy has being a sucker while the relationship lasted all that long only for him to find out he's being in love with a greedy, materialistic, unemotional, pretentious, gold-digging skank. It was even rumored that it was the guy who bought her the car she drives and pays for her accomodation too. Point here is you gals have got to stop making this whole ish appear as though it's a one way thing. Guys too always gets fvcked over, if not the most. 22 Likes |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by rosalieene(f): 11:23am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Lsofdk: I ain't endorsing cheating anyway, just stating the obvious fact. Irony of life Av seen runsgirls getting marriage proposals from various guys while the good ones are either single or trying to put up with a guy Prolly their bf. It's just one of those things in life. Fortunately, this girls termed as bad end up with the good guys. Irony of life!!! 28 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Nobody: 11:27am On Jul 25, 2017 |
He only likes omo pupa?  Nawa oh : 1 Like |
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