sekxy:

my dear nothing like lie..you don't have the heart to leave a good lady doesn't mean others don't.....guess you haven't seen things..I said it happened to two of my friends. .the other girl even dated her bf for 8years..

DeeTus:
I strongly believe that your friend didn't tell you the whole truth. Something is still fishy here!

Erums:




Wats dis one saying... How can u be dating someone for 8yrs....wen pple are doing 10yrs marriage anivesary..... Keep dating

Kondomatic:
No guy leaves a GOOD woman who stood by him when he was poor.

Lemme Highlight Some Things.

1. Dating a broke guy doesn't mean you are a good woman

2. Dating a broke guy and building a future with a broke guy are not the same

3. Dating a guy because you've looked into his future and seen that he will turn out great is not love, dating, support or whatever you girls take it to be. It is an investment into his blessing with nothing and every investor losses.

4. If you date a guy when he was broke but didn't invest in him or support him(and prayer isn't the support I am talking about here, his mama prayers for him even in sleep) , he owe you nothing and can break up with you anytime

5. Dating a broke guy is like sponsoring a lady's education when she is not married to you, they come back with another guy instead of certificate most times.

rosalieene:
I see some biased judgement.

It was this kinda scenario that made Toke makinwa to bleach her skin, today what happened?

If you decide to date a comfy dude, they will complain and call you are a gold digger.

if you decide to stand by a man, the possibility of him ending up with you is 50-50.

Empower yourself as a lady, don't give in too much in a relationship and don't expect much.

Going by experience and others experience, I don't blame those who say "do not put all ur eggs in one basket " I have come to realize that 80% of those who follow this rule always have the last laugh.

sekxy:
Ithappened to two of my friends but lem me talk about one..

Their relationship started this time last 5years. When this my girlfriend was just in her under 20's. So this guy came to her when he had nothing. Though it took this my gf time to actually accept him. Then I would advice her to at least date when she turns 20 at least to know a lot about relationship but due to her love for the guy she accepted him.

Then the guy graduated from university and luckily for him he went for his NYSC shortly when my gf accepted his proposal.. Then this guy would visit her without giving her anything, they were loved up and she was cool with it..she loved him so much that nothing about him pisses her off..

hmmm, so many times this my gf would go to visit him but because he doesn't have money she would transport herself...the guy then loved her.. Maybe because he was still broke.. I would then ask this bae if she cheats on him but she would say no, even to the extend that she doesn't club or do any social stuff because of his guy, she prays and encouraged him.

Fast forward to this time last year, the guy started making money ..bought cars and started building ..he has many investments.

Just last two months she called and was crying that the guy had broken up with her and I was like ...please calm down and tell me what transpired. .she said that the guy chatted her up to tell her that he likes light skinned ladies...and that he doesn't love her enough to marry her because of her skin colour..

I called the supposed bf and the guy was actually telling me he Will cheat on her if he eventually marries her...but this bae suffered with him all this while for 4years and he didn't notice her dark colour until he started making money.

sekxy:

how does this relate to the post...
spoilt child

durentchigozie:
dude, shut up

Kondomatic:
No guy leaves a GOOD woman who stood by him when he was poor.

Lemme Highlight Some Things.

1. Dating a broke guy doesn't mean you are a good woman

2. Dating a broke guy and building a future with a broke guy are not the same

3. Dating a guy because you've looked into his future and seen that he will turn out great is not love, dating, support or whatever you girls take it to be. It is an investment into his blessing with nothing and every investor losses.

4. If you date a guy when he was broke but didn't invest in him or support him(and prayer isn't the support I am talking about here, his mama prayers for him even in sleep) , he owe you nothing and can break up with you anytime

5. Dating a broke guy is like sponsoring a lady's education when she is not married to you, they come back with another guy instead of certificate most times.

sekxy:

the guy actually confirms all she said..like the bae can't hurt a fly
..she was too good to the guy...but it was quite unfortunate that she believed in the wrong guy

Josh44s:


I am a very popular NLer with this hidden account. The fact your gf had a bad experience does not mean all broke guys are like that. I met a gal two years ago when I finished my nysc and at that time I was worst than broke, in fact my brokeness then was legendary. She is the type of gal many will say "a broke guy can't keep" she look like an half cast, got the killer body and everything dat can make a any man drool. All her friends where like "Bae what are u even doing with this broke dude?" Just under 6 months I met her I blow up, start counting my millions, and the more prettier ladies started coming from all corner but I never abandoned that one woman who loved me for who I am, a broke guy. Today we are married and all her friends who hates my guts wants to be like her. Some even wants to eat frm her precious and golden cake by trying hard to be side chick. It's all about individual mindset dear, whether a rich or broke guy.

sekxy:
Ithappened to two of my friends but lem me talk about one..

Their relationship started this time last 5years. When this my girlfriend was just in her under 20's. So this guy came to her when he had nothing. Though it took this my gf time to actually accept him. Then I would advice her to at least date when she turns 20 at least to know a lot about relationship but due to her love for the guy she accepted him.

Then the guy graduated from university and luckily for him he went for his NYSC shortly when my gf accepted his proposal.. Then this guy would visit her without giving her anything, they were loved up and she was cool with it..she loved him so much that nothing about him pisses her off..

hmmm, so many times this my gf would go to visit him but because he doesn't have money she would transport herself...the guy then loved her.. Maybe because he was still broke.. I would then ask this bae if she cheats on him but she would say no, even to the extend that she doesn't club or do any social stuff because of his guy, she prays and encouraged him.

Fast forward to this time last year, the guy started making money ..bought cars and started building ..he has many investments.

Just last two months she called and was crying that the guy had broken up with her and I was like ...please calm down and tell me what transpired. .she said that the guy chatted her up to tell her that he likes light skinned ladies...and that he doesn't love her enough to marry her because of her skin colour..

I called the supposed bf and the guy was actually telling me he Will cheat on her if he eventually marries her...but this bae suffered with him all this while for 4years and he didn't notice her dark colour until he started making money.

Lsofdk:
Going by the emboldened, you're endorsing cheating… goodluck on your quest.
By the way, how did you come up with that statistic?

rosalieene:


I ain't endorsing cheating anyway, just stating the obvious fact.

Irony of life

Av seen runsgirls getting marriage proposals from various guys while the good ones are either single or trying to put up with a guy Prolly their bf.

It's just one of those things in life.

Fortunately, this girls termed as bad end up with the good guys.

Irony of life!!!

Josh44s:


I am a very popular NLer with this hidden account. The fact your gf had a bad experience does not mean all broke guys are like that. I met a gal two years ago when I finished my nysc and at that time I was worst than broke, in fact my brokeness then was legendary. She is the type of gal many will say "a broke guy can't keep" she look like an half cast, got the killer body and everything dat can make a any man drool. All her friends where like "Bae what are u even doing with this broke dude?" Just under 6 months I met her I blow up, start counting my millions, and the more prettier ladies started coming from all corner but I never abandoned that one woman who loved me for who I am, a broke guy. Today we are married and all her friends who hates my guts wants to be like her. Some even wants to eat frm her precious and golden cake by trying hard to be side chick. It's all about individual mindset dear, whether a rich or broke guy.

Gegz:

So don't date a broke guy... is that what you're saying?
PS: I didn't read the story though

sekxy:
Ithappened to two of my friends but lem me talk about one..

Their relationship started this time last 5years. When this my girlfriend was just in her under 20's. So this guy came to her when he had nothing. Though it took this my gf time to actually accept him. Then I would advice her to at least date when she turns 20 at least to know a lot about relationship but due to her love for the guy she accepted him.

Then the guy graduated from university and luckily for him he went for his NYSC shortly when my gf accepted his proposal.. Then this guy would visit her without giving her anything, they were loved up and she was cool with it..she loved him so much that nothing about him pisses her off..

hmmm, so many times this my gf would go to visit him but because he doesn't have money she would transport herself...the guy then loved her.. Maybe because he was still broke.. I would then ask this bae if she cheats on him but she would say no, even to the extend that she doesn't club or do any social stuff because of his guy, she prays and encouraged him.

Fast forward to this time last year, the guy started making money ..bought cars and started building ..he has many investments.

Just last two months she called and was crying that the guy had broken up with her and I was like ...please calm down and tell me what transpired. .she said that the guy chatted her up to tell her that he likes light skinned ladies...and that he doesn't love her enough to marry her because of her skin colour..

I called the supposed bf and the guy was actually telling me he Will cheat on her if he eventually marries her...but this bae suffered with him all this while for 4years and he didn't notice her dark colour until he started making money.

Kondomatic:
No guy leaves a GOOD woman who stood by him when he was poor.

Lemme Highlight Some Things.

1. Dating a broke guy doesn't mean you are a good woman

2. Dating a broke guy and building a future with a broke guy are not the same

3. Dating a guy because you've looked into his future and seen that he will turn out great is not love, dating, support or whatever you girls take it to be. It is an investment into his blessing with nothing and every investor losses.

4. If you date a guy when he was broke but didn't invest in him or support him(and prayer isn't the support I am talking about here, his mama prayers for him even in sleep) , he owe you nothing and can break up with you anytime

5. Dating a broke guy is like sponsoring a lady's education when she is not married to you, they come back with another guy instead of certificate most times.