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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by soflygerian(m): 2:48pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Angelcute:Honestly, if u can't offer sex in a relationship, what else can u offer 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by fadaonyenna(m): 3:15pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
True tok.......happened 2 me,dia was diz gurl ai have being dating for 3months nao...wen we started sha she told me no sex ai cme gree as a badt guy tinking she wuld change her mind along d line,afta two months na onli kiss and romance she dey give me ooo...As a sharp guy ai made her fall in love plenty plenty wit muah...by d ending of d third month ai called her and told her dat ai wanna break up,unless she give me kpomo chop ..... To cut d long story short we nao bleep abawt 4days in a week ...she dey njoy am pass me self 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by naijaboiy: 3:21pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Fabulocity:Truckload of senseless Crap! 7 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by kkins25(m): 3:26pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
safarigirl:Damn gal. I wouldnf want to be in ifedithshoes right now... you hit the nail on his HEAD. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Ifedith(m): 3:43pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
kkins25: As in ehh, dat one weak me sef, but dat if na true o, otherwise na herself she dey deceive. In any case if she's is as she says, kudos to her, That's why i com ask her if she dey into any serious relationship? You know say who dey drive car with mouth no dey get accident 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by safarigirl(f): 3:53pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
JeffreyJamez:Jeffrey, no need to be so vexed...feel free to exclude yourself in the general rule, but the general rule stands. Black men do not understand nor comply with the idea of romance, it is not a part of us There will always be exceptions of course, but you need not agree with it. Fact is fact |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by thesuave10(m): 4:00pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
ikp120: I heard Louis Vuitton will give 20 chics |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by ikp120(m): 4:02pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
thesuave10:Hehehehehe 1 Like
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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Bobbiet(m): 4:05pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Very funny. ... I've taken my time to read through this thread And I understand one thing, a particular statement can be understood or do I say interpreted from several angles. A relationship without romance is friendship. Romance without sex is being 'selfish '. So why does a lady want romance and not want sex? Answer; she has more alternatives to sex which is all embedded in her erogenous zones and romance is the key. But we the MEN, our satisfaction comes from 'penetration '. Now to the topic. .. The reason you don't want sex in a relationship should be good enough a reason you should stay off relationships and keep your self. Or better still, make it a clear 'friendship '. Or why should you go to church and hate being a Christian or go to The mosque and forbid putting your head on the ground? Now to my guys, you see a girl you want a relationship with and she wants a 'no sex' relationship. Can you cope in the relationship without sex? If yes, go in and love her with all thy heart. If you can't, move on. Same goes to the ladies. But if you are blessed and she agrees to a sexual relationship, then love her with all your heart, body and save the soul for marriage . Now to those saying if the girl wants sex, fine and if she doesn't, let her be. Why do you feel having sex should be the choice of just the ladies? And tame the guy's sexual need as "konji"? I am a strong advocate of breakups and I have very strong disdain for cheats. In a nutshell, being in a relationship is being happy. If you are not happy in your present relationship, please don't even think of cheating. Just dump the sorry ass and move on. Like I'll always continue saying, don't sacrifice happiness on the alter of relationship. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Transcendwonder: 4:15pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
safarigirl:But you still prefer them black anyways 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Denko2721987(m): 4:23pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
naijaboiy: *Laughing so hard here* Bro.. My hand no they oooo before them come swallow us oooo... I done evacuate... 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by hollagokay(m): 4:27pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Silentscreamer:Who is this... okay I get it now. You're one of those girls he's talking about? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Gerrard59(m): 5:57pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
FILEBE: Well, it is the hypocrisy by most Nigerians. No doubt, not every relationship should involve sex (OP did not say every relationship should be sex oriented). However, romance connotes different meanings to different people. So if as an individual, you abhor sex during a relationship or before marriage, then date someone who has same values. Different people have different value systems. Unlike physics where like pairs repel, this is biology where like attract like. If you do not want sex in a relationship, date someone like that. @Bolded, What is wrong with having sex? Is it not nature again? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Angelcute(f): 6:19pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
soflygerian:Yea...more like love, care, support, prayers, sacrifices and defense |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by DLioness(f): 6:38pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Rapmoney:y ar u giving fornication beautiful colouration ar u wiser dn God? I pity ur soul! |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by naijaboiy: 6:39pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Denko2721987:it's actually a funny issue bro. I see no need dragging things with them when we all know the story. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by kkins25(m): 7:57pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Ifedith:true talk mehn. |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Blecool(f): 10:30pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
. Like seriously? OMG... I cnt stop laughing sha. Blecool wetin u no go see. Mkpo ase aba orisiriisi sha Bikonu wetin person neva see. Some comments here re irritating and it makes me wanna throw up. Am typing my remaining comment. Please nobody shd quote me,i'm nt feeling fine. |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Blecool(f): 10:42pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Typing..... |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Blecool(f): 10:49pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Anijay1212:. Lol....Seriously i would not want to intrude her school thought,bt judgimg 4rm some comments here,i think to an extent she has d right to say that |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by octopusfreaky(f): 10:51pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Silentscreamer:I dont understand the guys on nairaland. A man's strength is in his ability to have self-control over sexual pressure. Weak men everywhere. Same also applies to ladies. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by octopusfreaky(f): 10:58pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Bobbiet:Yea you made some valid points, but remember God condemns this act of fornication and we are all called to repent of this deadly act. A man's strength is in his ability to hold himself, i mean hsve self-control. 1Cor7:1-10 or so emphasises the need for a man to marry if he cannot hold himself. Seriously, you guys should stopp shying away from the truth. Cmon. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by octopusfreaky(f): 11:04pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Angelcute:That is how they were made and wired by God. 90% sex and 10% thinking of other things. The only problem is fornication. A friend of mine married a devoted Christian brother and she was amazed by his sexual fantasies and prowess and I told her all those attributes were in him, all he did was to wait for d right time" wedding" to explore them. He contained and controlled his sexual desires. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Angelcute(f): 11:13pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
octopusfreaky:yea, am really amazed 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by EmmyDJourno: 10:45am On Aug 16, 2017 |
lefulefu: Guys need money to get girls because girls need money to be gotten My first chick in Germany took me on an tourist excursion around the Berlin Wall, just to tell me the story around it, we had lunch, then went to a love Park and ended up with a lovely dinner at little or no expense She never bothered about me replicating, though I always did, she only wanted a funny guy to keep her laughing and a good lips to suck on (her exact words) When chicks don't need money, guys would revert to the lover boys they truly are, until then the MONEY/PUSSY game continues 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by EmmyDe25(m): 10:58am On Aug 16, 2017 |
lefulefu: What if she's not getting any financial benefits from the guy. |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by EmmyDe25(m): 10:59am On Aug 16, 2017 |
EmmyDJourno: LOL..This is true. That kinda girl is rare these days man. |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Nobody: 11:32am On Aug 16, 2017 |
EmmyDe25:then it could jus be the emotional support she"s getting frm d man.look,women wont tell u to ur face if they are not sexually attracted to u.they bring excuses like no sex before marriage,my pastor told me not to do it etc.its left for u to read between the lines . |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by S5155: 12:53am On Aug 17, 2017 |
Yes the Nigerian Man is sex Driven.it's all they live for |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by openmine(m): 10:20am On Aug 17, 2017 |
S5155:....my apologises ahead for d intrusion... but are women not also sex driven? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Nobody: 10:29am On Aug 17, 2017 |
Angelcute: See jokes abeg 1 Like |
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