this is how you know demons

Some men are just pure evil. Devils in disguise. Shamless things.

isaacsegun:
Please fellow nairalanders, Ineed your urgent advice.
We started dating as far back as year 2007, then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s. I'm her first love, in fact, I was the person that deflowered her. I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted, the abortion almost took her life.

Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine, her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even up till today.

Please guys, should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side, but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything (like attempting to even take her own life)

After 10 years, you wanna go and find a younger and fresher babe right? If you don't marry her, i will personally curse you. I'm telling you now, you wont find peace in your life by doing evil things like this. Even if you find someone else, there won't be peace in that relationship. You better do what is right.

Safiaaa:
Some men are just pure evil. Devils in disguise. Shamless things.

I hope his story is a joke and just for entertainment purpose

We have your picture. Lol try and act up, and don't marry the poor girl after 10 years. You go see. Silly man.

Piiko:
I hope his story is a joke and just for entertainment purpose

i doubt it. I think he's serious.

u think u are smart now right keeping killing innocent souls

isaacsegun:
Please fellow nairalanders, Ineed your urgent advice.
We started dating as far back as year 2007, then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s. I'm her first love, in fact, I was the person that deflowered her. I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted, the abortion almost took her life.

Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine, her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even up till today.

Please guys, should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side, but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything (like attempting to even take her own life)

u are a bastard u slept with her de flowered her destroyed her womb now you want to leave her thunder fall on you

Village people at it again.

Una for no kuku comot am naa

After 10years. U suddenly developed feelings nd feel d relationship cannot work

This is witchcraft

Draei:

Now you don't wanna marry her for no
genuine reason? Nigger don't make me
plank you through the screen...mtcheeeew!

Lol, though the dude is a heartless individual but still have mercy on him and let the law of karma judge him

isaacsegun:
Please fellow nairalanders, Ineed your urgent advice.
We started dating as far back as year 2007, then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s. I'm her first love, in fact, I was the person that deflowered her. I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted, the abortion almost took her life.

Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine, her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even up till today.

Please guys, should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side, but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything (like attempting to even take her own life)

after using her u now want to dump her because ur parent(s) are not in good terms. my guy if u truly love her no matter what just get ur parents to accept the fact that both of u are meant 4 each other and marry her ASAP

empressteemah06:
If am the one. I would curse you... You wasted 10yrs of her life... Why didn't you break up with her since.. Callous guy

If she was 23years of age, would it have made any difference?

Nairaland pple don vex o . Bros u no try at all, after ten good years ehn

This guy doesn't know the wahala he has caused for himself. Its on the fp now, his picture is on his profile and his gf will probably see this. People that know them will see this, and he has publicly disgraced himself and his girl. Curses will definitely be laid on this ingrate.

after digging sokaway and borhole you now tired of it cause you have been nacking apako for the past 10 years bro your banna go change position as I take dey type this to you

Your picture sef. It's your cross bro. Carry it.

Rorachy:
So after aborting for you and almost losing her life, you want another man to marry her.

Some guys are not just worth it.

Is not for lesbians like you to say. Focus on your female to female relationships. Please allow normal people to discuss relationship between a man and a woman.

Eberex:


If she was 23years of age, would it have made any difference?

dont get

so confident coming here to say u deflowered her....bla bla bla. parents from both sides are against the relationship, she wants both of u to continue and u don't want it. if ur decision to end it is cos ur parents are against it, then u are an idiot(maybe na ur parents go live with una u go tell me). maybe u have been looking for a way to end it and ur parents have presented u with this golden opportunity and u want to take advantage of it, then u are more wicked than lucifer. if she curse u now u go sey she heartless

isaacsegun:
Please fellow nairalanders, Ineed your urgent advice.
We started dating as far back as year 2007, then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s. I'm her first love, in fact, I was the person that deflowered her. I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted, the abortion almost took her life.

Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine, her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even up till today.

Please guys, should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side, but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything (like attempting to even take her own life)

Op you didn't give any details in your story, you haven't said the reason you can't marry her so we can judge. What happened? And I am assuming this must have happened recently because she was good enough to date for over 9 years so what's the problem now? (Or is it an ongoing issue?)

We can't give you any help on what to do until you say why you can't marry her. Why are you taking this decision?


There is no reason for the girl to marry someone who doesn't want to marry her neither is there any reason for you to marry someone you don't really want to be with anymore. It's a disaster to marry someone you don't want to or who doesn't want to marry you. So if you feel so strongly about this then walk away. In the long run both of you will be better for it

However If she hasn't done anything wrong and there is no issue at all but you just want to leave for selfish reasons then tell her that you are selfish and in all honesty She would be better off without you.

Modified:
Na wa for all the people shouting marry the girl up and down, How can you guys support someone marrying a person he obviously doesn't want to marry? How can you support the girl marrying some one who obviously doesn't want to marry her.

That is not how marriage works, what kind of marriage will they have when the beginning is already a disaster, na wa o.

if he doesn't want to marry then he shouldn't. Simple

U are so damn selfish and wicked. How can u consider leaving her after all u've put her through? That u are even considering not marrying her shows your love for her is questionable; it's her I feel sorry for.

Guy. you are one of the bad eggs among Men..
Listen to yourself, you want to tell her to GO

After all those long term promise just because your family said no.

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Cmon who do you want to leave her for?
No no no... You must be joking
Better marry her and ask For her forgiveness



No court of law should hear this from you..

Sometimes, I wonder if some of you who post on Nairaland, actually do think before coming to post some of the dumb things your brains conceive. You haven't given any cogent reason why you guys can't be together. 10 years, you drilled her kittykat, had her do an abortion that almost took her life, continued drilling her kittykat after then, and suddenly woke up in 2017 to realize that you can't marry her? Better go and beg the old woman that used your brains to fry akara, to leave you. If you guys had spelt it out from the word go, that it was just going to be a fling and an affair just for fun, it would have been a different thing. I really do feel bad for girls who open their pussies for people like you though.

guy, do not be selfish. u deflowered her and the same time aborted the baby yet u are contemplating either to maryy her or leave her. who would u leave her for?

Op, if it won't work, please move on. Do not marry her out of pity, no matter what anyone says.

You cannot afford to be unhappy in your marriage life because of what some faceless online children say.

wunmi590:
Hummm, your matter got me in the corner.

OP, I won't advice you to get married early if you are not fully ready, my definition of fully ready coupled with (financial and maturity).

But be truth be told, if I were you, I would make sure I talk to her to give you more time, remember you disvergined her and she also aborted for you, so you need to always put her in consideration while planing your career.

The best you can just do for her is just let her relax her mind, assure her that you are going to marry her (that's if you intend marrying her), plan het program in your future agenda.

I know the reason why she's desperate to settle down is because of the abortion, so that it won't later have side effect when she gets to a certain age (early 30's or late 30's).

Don't let people push you to what you ate not ready for, so that your future kids would not suffer.

Dude marry that girl and enjoy your blessings

MissRaine69:
You are a very cruel and callous man. You don't deserve happines. She is good enough to deflower, get pregnant continue to keep sticking your key in her ignition for years and now you mention age and it won't work? Are you serious? It took you 10 years to work that out?

You are a terrible lady to be attacking him like this. It it your entire generation that does not deserve happiness!
What is there to deflower? What of him, didn't she also take his virginity? If it takes ten years to make a good decision, what is wrong with that?

When are you starting the wedding preparations?
you don get wife already

Make effort and marry her. You belong to her. If you don't marry her, you will have problems in life.

chronique:
Sometimes, I wonder if some of you who post on Nairaland, actually do think before coming to post some of the dumb things your brains conceive. You haven't given any cogent reason why you guys can't be together. 10 years, you drilled her kittykat, had her do an abortion that almost took her life, continued drilling her kittykat after then, and suddenly woke up in 2017 to realize that you can't marry her? Better go and beg the old woman that used your brains to fry akara, to leave you. If you guys had spelt it out from the word go, that it was just going to be a fling and an affair just for fun, it would have been a different thing. I really do feel bad for girls who open their pussies for people like you though.

Didn't she also drill his dick? For ten years she ate his money squandered his wealth, what the heck are you talking about? Free this guy abeg.