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Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Sparklee(m): 11:44pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
QueenSekxy: How? Was she falsed to abort the baby? Did he promised to marry her, before and after the abortion? Guy apply your wisdom in this kind of situation because that lady can commit suicide because you. If na me i go marry am sha. 1 Like |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by RealityShot: 11:45pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
badoi:You think treating girls "nice" will make them like you or be good to you or not dump you abi?? its clear them never call you "Mr Nice Guy" before 5 Likes |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Eberex(m): 11:45pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Marshalxv: Age wise. The lady being 27 isn't the end of the road. If he doesnt want to get married to her, will she force him? 1 Like |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Donjazzy12(m): 11:46pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
8stargeneral:No na your own name be DEVIL.Why do you derive Joy in trying you force a man into marriage. 1 Like |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Iriruaga100(m): 11:46pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
op, whatever decision u take better draw near to ur God or ur baba because one Bae here is ready to ruin ur life if u don't marry d said lady. |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by jaxxy(m): 11:46pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
isaacsegun: My question is very simple. Do u love her? Do u value here in any way? Have u ever seen her as sm1 u wud love to be married to? Well for u to hv dated her dat long u probably saw smtn in her. Wat ever u do try to make her happy and be there for here cos shes been tru alot for u and with u. And if her parents don't want u for her then let them find sm1 for her and hope dat she likes him to 4get u. 10 years is no joke I can't do such unless I planned on settling down with that person so be a man about it. 2 Likes |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Sarah20A(f): 11:47pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Donjazzy12:it will take the grace of God for the girl to be herself again 10 years is not 10 days neither is it 10 weeks nor 10 months we are talking about years 1 Like |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Augustinecool: 11:47pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
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Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by lelvin(m): 11:49pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
I salute you brotherly. Some very stupid guys will sit somewhere and type rubbish. What about the guys that invest so much in relationships and at the end, the girl says she's not doing again? Guys are emotionally raped everyday and at the end, the girl plays the victim. Donjazzy12: 2 Likes |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by gemale(m): 11:50pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
isaacsegun:Op i honestly don't know what to tell you. I cannot judge or condemn you because i am way far from perfection but there are certain grey areas in your story. Are both your parents aware of the abortion? Is that why they kicked against you 2 being together? Do you really want to get married to her? Or are you trying to stylishly use the guise of your parents not approving of you guys to dump her because you fear that the abortion BOTH of you carried out would impair her child bearing should you marry her? if yes, then you are adding a tanker of petrol to fire. You committed fornication, murder & now want to add deceit all to attempt avoiding the consequences of your actions. Remember that there is God, who sees all & 1 day (which you don't know when), you would stand before Him & give account of what you did. I'm ill qualified to advise you on whether to marry her or not. It's only God that can direct you. The both of you should genuinely repent, confess your sins & surrender to our Lord Jesus Christ. Cry out in humility for God's mercy because human blood in its most innocent form was shed. Remember how the blood of Abel cried out to God against Cain? I believe that if you both do this in sincerity, God would lead you both to a solution. Marriage is no trivial matter. Both of you need a green light from God to proceed. Seek His face earnestly. God bless you. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Nobody: 11:51pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Donjazzy12:Go and do your research. Women are most fertile from 20 - 25. Shes nearly 30 and that's when fertility declines fast. If this man decides to leave her, who knows when she'll be able to find someone else? Just stop quoting. I dont have the time any longer. 2 Likes |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Donjazzy12(m): 11:52pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
purples25:My sister cannot even support them to go ahead in this type of situation. The guy obviously does not love the girl again. There is nothing anybody can do. 2 Likes |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by ceecee0703(m): 11:53pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
AlexCk: Bros eeh ur comment got me lolz |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Donjazzy12(m): 11:54pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Safiaaa:Nothing you said here is any reason to force a man of woman into a marriage he doesn't not want. Get your brother to help out and marry her na! 1 Like |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by EmperorTayo1864(m): 11:55pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Donjazzy12:oh my,this stupid thing qouted me. nw stay off my mention cos i will never exchange words with you that your studity is as vast as the litstosphere nd its depth is as deep as that of an ocean, so Bleep off!!! 3 Likes |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Nobody: 11:55pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
lelvin:did i say its useless to a mans life? I said its more detrimental to a womans life, and you know thats true deep down. She's on the losing end, simply because this man is looking for silly excuses to leave her. Its as simple as that. |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by isaacsegun(m): 11:57pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
[quote author=RealityShot post=59579000] She is a SUICIDAL MANIAC the Op said so up there. isaacsegun: Don't marry a suicidal maniac! Are you the only one that she has ever slept with since that time (2007)? Marriage is not by force!! That girl will blame you for ever, whether you marry her or not! better not waste your money and create yet another marriage that will end in a DIVORCE![/quote so many people that were bashing me up and down here cannot really understand the opposition that I'm facing from her parents 1 Like |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by RealityShot: 11:57pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
purples25:what did she loose? clearly you dont know that money is blood. 1 Like |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Nobody: 11:58pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Donjazzy12:Nobody is forcing the man. If he had a legitimate reason to leave her, would any body complain? He wants to leave because of a petty excuse and on top of that he's wasted 10 years? Its pure wickedness and that's where the complaints are coming from. Simple as abc. |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by ekwelive: 11:59pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
isaacsegun:guy! U must marry her oh. Na byforce oh. If u like ur life |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Donjazzy12(m): 11:59pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
lelvin:Gbam! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Donjazzy12(m): 12:00am On Aug 18, 2017 |
Safiaaa:The wickedness is from you who wants to forxe an innocent man into a loveless marriage.Any excuse is an excuse. Bottom line, he doesn't love her again. Simple. Please respect his decision. I have left a girl before. I just told her that I wasn't feeling her again. And that was it. 1 Like |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by YtivitissuP: 12:01am On Aug 18, 2017 |
In as much as I'd have loved to tell the OP to marry the girl, I think he's not telling the full story. There should be other reasons he's not interested in marrying the girl. As per everyone talking about the 10 years shit, drilling and abortion stuffs, comparing the male and female lives, everyone makes sacrifices in a relationship. No one knows the condition men are when they sacrifice money...So it's not about money can be replaced or not. It's about the situation or condition the men were while making the sacrifice. When I was younger, I'd have said money can be replaced but time can't.... Now I'd not even attempt saying that because those conditions are priceless. I've seen a lady break up with a guy after 8 years because she found a richer guy. He simply moved on, got married in less than 18 months afterward and he's better than he ever thought. No one killed her. She's fine too and enjoying her life. So I can't advise you to marry her because you've been together for 10 years or for abortion reasons. IF YOU FEEL IT'S RIGHT WITHIN YOU TO MARRY HER, DO SO. IF YOU FEEL IT'S NOT RIGHT, DON'T DO SO. LET YOUR CONSCIENCE JUDGE YOU. I'M NOT IN YOUR SHOES. 4 Likes |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Lorechino(m): 12:02am On Aug 18, 2017 |
the only way 2 be sure of ur future is 2 put her in ur plan or if na me na 2 embark on a dry fasting my prayer point will be #fada lawd bring her husband, if she get married u are safe, bt nt totally safe till she gives birth. i d fear woman ooo na wetin still kip me 1 Like |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by livinbygrace: 12:02am On Aug 18, 2017 |
lelvin: He no go better for everybody accusing this guy for his decision.If it were to be the girl that dumped the boy,most of you will be supporting her ,saying all sort of nonsense.Most ladies dump guys these days for better offer and heaven did not fall,so if the guy feels she is not good for him he has the right to move on.Moreover most ladies would do worse if they had been in same position.I am talking from experience .So guy move on . 3 Likes |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Nobody: 12:02am On Aug 18, 2017 |
isaacsegun:You are a big idiot and a kid!!! After almost costing her to loose her life over your carelessness and wasting 10 fuckinn good years of her life you want to push her away. YOU KNOW VERY WELL YOU WEREN'T READY TO MARRY HER, YOU SHOULD HAVE DONE THIS 9 YEARS AGO BUT YOU DIDN'T, YOU WERE ENJOYING FREE PUSSY. NIGA GO MAKE MONEY AND MARRY THAT GIRL. 2 Likes
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Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Donjazzy12(m): 12:04am On Aug 18, 2017 |
grossintel:Another foolish man. 1 Like |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by donnaD(f): 12:04am On Aug 18, 2017 |
The hearts of MEN is desperately wicked.see op ur people must agree to the marriage o.infact she is already ur wife.d fact remains that u don't love her,you are just looking for an excuse to escape from marring her.you are wicked.if I am the lady I will never marry u becuse u are not worth it.becuse it's better u don't marry her than to marry her under duress and frustrate her life with u.may book haream bomb ur head. 2 Likes |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Donjazzy12(m): 12:04am On Aug 18, 2017 |
livinbygrace:Gbam! 1 Like |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by YtivitissuP: 12:05am On Aug 18, 2017 |
In as much as I'd have loved to tell the OP to marry the girl, I think he's not telling the full story. There should be other reasons he's not interested in marrying the girl. As per everyone talking about the 10 years shit, drilling and abortion stuffs, comparing the male and female lives, everyone makes sacrifices in a relationship. No one knows the condition men are when they sacrifice money...So it's not about money can be replaced or not. It's about the situation or condition the men were while making the sacrifice. When I was younger, I'd have said money can be replaced but time can't.... Now I'd not even attempt saying that because those conditions are priceless. A lot happens to guys in relationships and they are simply told to man-up. Some guys go dey low so tey dem go dey do like person wey want mad cos of wetin girl do them. So no be say make we dey think say women na weaker vessels, make we come dey use different yardstick for them. I've seen a lady break up with a guy after 8 years because she found a richer guy. He simply moved on, got married in less than 18 months afterward and he's better than he ever thought. No one killed her. She's fine too and enjoying her life. So I can't advise you to marry her because you've been together for 10 years or for abortion reasons. IF YOU FEEL IT'S RIGHT WITHIN YOU TO MARRY HER, DO SO. IF YOU FEEL IT'S NOT RIGHT, DON'T DO SO. LET YOUR CONSCIENCE JUDGE YOU. I'M NOT IN YOUR SHOES. 1 Like |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by lelvin(m): 12:05am On Aug 18, 2017 |
Because a man has no future or what? So his reasons are not cogent simply because he's the guy abi. If it were the girl that said she wanted to breakup for the same reasons, am sure you tell her it's better to have a broken relationship than a broken marriage. Safiaaa: |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by chronique(m): 12:06am On Aug 18, 2017 |
Marshalxv: Sure. I really don't mean that. Just said that out of anger. 1 Like |
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