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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by dirtyhokage(m): 11:16pm On Nov 16, 2017
@times I don't even know what reality is anymore.....why would a man be sleeping with his own daughter? May God help us all
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Spaxon(f): 11:16pm On Nov 16, 2017
xynerise:


The way people will mind their business when you are in danger

I had a reason why I said that...
If it didn't go well with u..
U should have asked why I said that
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by deolurexy1(m): 11:17pm On Nov 16, 2017
Gulderbottle85:
I will do my best for her...... I will give update as we proceed
This is very sensitive, you should meet him and give him an ultimatum or else you'll him to report him. As for the girl take her to a facility where she would cared for the councelled, but I advise you counsel her first.
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by raphy(m): 11:17pm On Nov 16, 2017
The best thing to do is to kidnap the girl and put her in tht child protection agency when the man start to look for her he should go there n cm be caught so his neighbor won't knw wht he has been doing.

I hop you guys see things My way..

Just tell the child when her dad not home we are going somewhere then take her there..
I hop am helpful.

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by jaxxy(m): 11:19pm On Nov 16, 2017
Gulderbottle85:
Putting him behind bars will have effects on the child. Who will take care of her?

Anybody bt him needs to takecare of the child. Its the highest form of betrayal by a father to his daughter. The man is no longer a father bt a wicked and worthless beast. The gal can go and leave with her mum or granny. Call child protection agencies fast.

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by onadana: 11:19pm On Nov 16, 2017
I called that female neighbor and told her what I saw.....we told a friend we all questioned the little girl she confirmed it to be true.


Fake news.I thought you said you saw him on top of the daughter..so what are you questioning the little girl for again.To confirm what you have already seen.You are a suspect too.

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by aribisala0(m): 11:21pm On Nov 16, 2017
Gulderbottle85:
Long story short.....I have a friend who lives with his 13 yrs old daughter...... Recently a female friend who is a neighbor called me and told me the little girl confided in her that the father is harassing her sexually.

I was shocked but sometimes I stay in there home I used to notice some funny moves but I couldn't place my finger on it cos it all seems to me like Father and daughter love.

I couldn't ask the little girl cos I wanted to have a proof. Recently I came visiting and he started that rough play as usual but because I was already tipped as a result I was at Alert. I quickly told him I was going to the shop.....But I didn't go anywhere I came back immediately and went straight to the window. I saw him bouncing untop of her. The expression on her face broke my heart she is not happy.

I called that female neighbor and told her what I saw.....we told a friend we all questioned the little girl she confirmed it to be true.


Now what do we do? We planned to confront the father is this the best step to take?


I just want him to stop.

Honestly you lack wisdom and I don't think you will ever get it

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by bakarekabir: 11:21pm On Nov 16, 2017
I'll rather advice you to take the matter to all these NGO saddle with such responsibilities. You can equally report the man to police so that he won't have the custody of the girl any longer

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Edonojie007(m): 11:23pm On Nov 16, 2017
Goldenbottles,whats Wrong With You? Get That Guy Jailed! Then You,the Neighbour And The Police Should Discuss What To Do To The Girl.
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by cimag: 11:23pm On Nov 16, 2017
Only God knows how many years he has been abusing his own blood daughter.The girl is 13yrs,has she been living with the evil dad for these 13yrs?And if no,at what age did she start living with him?Why is she not living with the mum since the girl was born out of wedlock,so the monster called dad cannot claim sole ownership of the girl?If she was living with the mum for years and later brought to this idiot called her dad,what made her leave her mum?Was she taken forcefully from the mum?What's the age of the paedophile and why is he not married?I stop here for now.

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Tisham20(m): 11:24pm On Nov 16, 2017
blood of Zachariah, this one weak my body
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Nobody: 11:26pm On Nov 16, 2017
Guys he is denying it tomorrow we are taking it up

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by domchike(m): 11:27pm On Nov 16, 2017
khome:
Is he the real dad?
FOR GODS SAKE SHE IS 13 ,this is Abuse

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Jesusgirl92(f): 11:27pm On Nov 16, 2017
selflessmaya:


you're either a pervert or absolutely stupid. a man is raping with his 13 yr old child & u're asking who will take care of the child. do u think the man is fit to care for her as is? he is raping his own child!
seconded.

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Kemikay1: 11:28pm On Nov 16, 2017
The first thing that came to my mind was report him, but in a system where justice is an illusion, the nest thing will be to tell the child's mother to come get her daughter from that hell hole. Only God knows for how long its been going on... so oga u beta hurry before thr girl gives birth to her sister

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Nobody: 11:28pm On Nov 16, 2017
The little girl said her dad also force her to watch xvideos
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by sanpipita(m): 11:29pm On Nov 16, 2017
Gulderbottle85:
Long story short.....I have a friend who lives with his 13 yrs old daughter...... Recently a female friend who is a neighbor called me and told me the little girl confided in her that the father is harassing her sexually.

I was shocked but sometimes I stay in there home I used to notice some funny moves but I couldn't place my finger on it cos it all seems to me like Father and daughter love.

I couldn't ask the little girl cos I wanted to have a proof. Recently I came visiting and he started that rough play as usual but because I was already tipped as a result I was at Alert. I quickly told him I was going to the shop.....But I didn't go anywhere I came back immediately and went straight to the window. I saw him bouncing untop of her. The expression on her face broke my heart she is not happy.

I called that female neighbor and told her what I saw.....we told a friend we all questioned the little girl she confirmed it to be true.


Now what do we do? We planned to confront the father is this the best step to take?


I just want him to stop.

There is alot of inconsistencies in your story, you said this girl had already confided in your friend and you caught the dad ontop her what's the point asking the little girl again? and unless the said man is foolish he wouldn't start anything that will raise suspicious even before you claimed you are going to shop, many things in this story doesn't add up

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Veeflow(m): 11:29pm On Nov 16, 2017
U sure ?? 13yrs not a baby o
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Rick9(m): 11:29pm On Nov 16, 2017
Arrest the fool jor
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Nobody: 11:30pm On Nov 16, 2017
Gulderbottle85:
Guys he is denying it tomorrow we are taking it up
Be careful he might try to kill you tonight
Use your head
Don’t let him escape

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Boyooosa(m): 11:30pm On Nov 16, 2017
selflessmaya:

there's absolutely no need for OP to have to hide his identity in this case. if OP at this point still wants to maintain friendship with a man that is raping his 13 yr old child, then he's sick. i highly doubt OP's dilemma is not wanting to give up his friend to the authorities. OP is more concerned on what course of action to take to help the child. idk why anyone would not want to cut ties with a rapist, a pedophile and a father who is incestuous. there's no reason a person should feel like a betrayer for reporting a friend who's been fuccking his 13 yr old child since god knows when. the dilemma u speak of should not exist for a normal decent human being.



dude, not everything is funny. grow up, you're not a toddler. do better and stop embarrassing yourself.
Ode ni e! Must u mention me?
Look at the technicality of my text and not the sarcacism. If he can get the guy redhanded with evidence, the story will hold more water anywhere, even in court of law or any legal establishment for legitimate action.
Everybody is not you that hears hay and jumps into the river. The culprit in question can deny anything if there is no evidence.
My request for evidence is not for me to mastorbate on an unclad 13 yr old girl if that is your thinking but for the guy to have substantial evidence to deal with the situation. Abeg face front.

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Nobody: 11:30pm On Nov 16, 2017
deolurexy1:

This is very sensitive, you should meet him and give him an ultimatum or else you'll him to report him. As for the girl take her to a facility where she would cared for the councelled, but I advise you counsel her first.

take your advice, chew it up, swallow it and sh!t it out cos it's crap, what a pathetic advice! do u think a man who is raping his own 13 yr old child does not know it's wrong?? u think what he needs is advice or an ultimatum. are u high? OP is in NO place to counsel this girl, u must think the job of a psychiatrist is so easy that everyone can do it, u said it yourself, this is a sensitive issue. only ppl who have the proper sensitivity training should deal with it, it's OP's job to get the authorities involved, that's it, it's not his job to start fixing this child. stop doling out stupid advice, u mean if u found out a man is sleeping with a helpless child that he fathered, your first instinct would be to talk to him and not immediately get the helpless child away from him?
imagine the roughest sweatiest sex of your life and replace the girl with your mother, do u feel how repulsive it is? do u know what an unnatural order it is for a man to have carnal knowledge of his own seed? if u found a man raping your daughter in your own house, would u wait for him to finish, counsel her first, then give him a warning and tell him not to do it again? the way some of u think is straight up toxic. pedophilia and incest and psychological abuse are all serious issues individually, how can a combination of all 3 be so trivial to u? smh

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Niyinficient(m): 11:31pm On Nov 16, 2017
Gulderbottle85:
Guys he is denying it tomorrow we are taking it up

Get him arrested if he's playing too smart

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by nkhay(f): 11:32pm On Nov 16, 2017
You've been friends with a sick man all along!!!

Get that little girl out of that house first please!!

And inform the mother and whatever agency in charge right away.

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Nobody: 11:32pm On Nov 16, 2017
Gulderbottle85:
Guys he is denying it tomorrow we are taking it up
I said it now it’s your word against his please next time have your evidence before confronting issues like this are denied

Growing up I escaped rape by treating the male staff in my house as brothers laughing and joking with them sometimes my aunties will abuse me that why am I laughing with them they are the help ...it saved my life so they saw me not as a target but as a little sister it helps too I had a big mouth but it saved me my virginity this issue is so real it’s not even funny

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by ocelot2006(m): 11:33pm On Nov 16, 2017
Good Lord!! Confront him! Save the young girl's life! He's meant to LOVE & PROTECT his daughter with his life, NOT ABUSE HER SEXUALLY!

Lord....this is heart breaking cry
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by texazzpete(m): 11:35pm On Nov 16, 2017
Gulderbottle85:
Long story short.....I have a friend who lives with his 13 yrs old daughter...... Recently a female friend who is a neighbor called me and told me the little girl confided in her that the father is harassing her sexually.

I was shocked but sometimes I stay in there home I used to notice some funny moves but I couldn't place my finger on it cos it all seems to me like Father and daughter love.

I couldn't ask the little girl cos I wanted to have a proof. Recently I came visiting and he started that rough play as usual but because I was already tipped as a result I was at Alert. I quickly told him I was going to the shop.....But I didn't go anywhere I came back immediately and went straight to the window. I saw him bouncing untop of her. The expression on her face broke my heart she is not happy.

I called that female neighbor and told her what I saw.....we told a friend we all questioned the little girl she confirmed it to be true.


Now what do we do? We planned to confront the father is this the best step to take?


I just want him to stop.


You are still asking what you should do?

From the moment you saw him raping her and you didn’t raise the alarm, you became complicit in her torment.

For all intents and purposes, you are now an accomplice and facilitator of child rape. May God have mercy on your wicked soul!

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Kayrich(m): 11:38pm On Nov 16, 2017
Gulderbottle lol. She is 13 years old girl will immediately suggest the father and you the dad's friend should be around 30 years old plus or even more. You are wrong to tell the female neighbour. You are old enough to confront your friend who is the girl's father of his wrong doings. You are as well the girl's father knowing fully well that you use to sleep in their house at times.
Have u forgotten the adage word that says nkan ti en wa lo sokoto wa lese sokoto. You are the messiah to save your friend and is daughter instead you choose to disgrace them.
Its by monitoring them as well as talk sense into your friend. That's all. Its even better to call your friend's relative for the solution rather than telling that female neighbour or even me. Cos you won't get the solution
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Nobody: 11:38pm On Nov 16, 2017
Boyooosa:

Ode ni e! Must u mention me?
Look at the technicality of my text and not the sarcacism. If he can get the guy redhanded with evidence, the story will hold more water anywhere, even in court of law or any legal establishment for legitimate action.
Everybody is not you that hears hay and jumps into the river. The culprit in question can deny anything if there is no evidence.
My request for evidence is not for me to mastorbate on an unclad 13 yr old girl if that is your thinking but for the guy to have substantial evidence to deal with the situation. Abeg face front.

dude stfu, u never said anything about evidence. u only said u understand OP's dilemma of not wanting to give his friend up. and i asked u what kind of man u are that cutting off ties with a man raping his 13 yr old child presents a moral dilemma to u. take your uneducated deflecting asss away form me, u came at me with insults and a defense to a point u never made in the first place. my point was and is, that a man like u who thinks of protecting his friendship with a man like this is sick in the head... choke on your own sh!t and stop mentioning me

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by slyrone(m): 11:40pm On Nov 16, 2017
delishpot:
Report the case to those child protection agencies around you. Tomorrow when that child begins to be promiscuous, Nigerians would say she is evil and an agent of the devil. More than half of Naija females have been sexually abused by males in their homes, religious institutions or school yet men turn around to play saint and require perfection from the girls they have damaged right from the cradle.
but I haven't damaged any

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