by keeping it to yourself, you are an accomplice! it could be anyone's daughter...that's pure incest! and i'm very sure it is against her will...kindly report to the appropriate authorities to handle the issue...she is too young to be passing through that trauma!

Please NL take down this thread

cc Lalastica

DocAdray:


Confront ke? Are you for real? Who told you mere confrontation will make the he-goat stop?
Please take it upon your self to help that poor girl immediately, hence she'll be scarred and damaged for life. Report your 'friend' to relevant authorities, contact the girl's extended family and her mum too.
OP please, do something, don't turn a blind eye...

You are right!

Let me add this: @OP needs to find a way of laying his hands on the mother's mobile number, contact and inform her about it, no matter how 'irresponsible' the woman might have been, I don't expect her to hear a distress call indirectly from her daughter and still turn deaf ears. If you can't get her number, contact any of his family member whom you have his/her contact; I expect them to also take it up from there.

I used the word 'irresponsible' because it amazed me to know that a woman will leave her daughter for the man (father) to be taking care of all in the name of God knows what when she's very aware that the mistake they both made was irreversible

GraGra247:


Its possible that the poster has the same pedophile trait in him else why should he even hesitate or find it difficult to report the man and save the innocent girl.

Yes it is very true. Nigerians have become desensitized to rape, incest and pedophilia to the extent that they find it nirmal.

This is a very dangerous trend in this country.


and you are absolutely right. he might have similar tendencies too.

Gulderbottle85:



What about the stigma if people around finds out?

Jesus Christ. A 13 year old girl is violated by her father and you're worried about the stigma from people? My God!

Someone should show this thread to Nigerian Police and catch this poster and his friend for interrogation.

Gulderbottle85:
Please NL take down this thread
cc Lalastica

If I may ask, why do you want this thread taken down?

africanusvu:
whatever appears here is 50-50 fake/reality.many jokes away stories they can't help.like this.we can't help.but I don't know u in person and u don't know me.I av never ever wished u death.but for this ur comment.I send it back to u.your life will never remain same again.you wnt die but would soon beg for death

I know you will reply, even children won't comment as u have done next time comment like a human not like a zombie

The OP has deactivated o

marshalldgreat:
Blood of AMADIOHA!!! Chai i really feel for the poor girl

Amadioha no get blood

delishpot:


Oh shut the eff up, I have seen males laughing rape off, some even ask to be rapped by multiple women. While at the same time mocking female victims of sexual abuse. I have heard men even say underage girls are sexually seducing men and that underage girls are rotten hence they lure their own rapist. So please sit at the corner and stop blabbering about males when males don't publicly take such issues as big deal. I do not discriminate gender when it comes to abuse and kids are my passion. If men come out to condemn sexual abuse in all, I am sure the world would understand that guys get affected too. Rather young males say oh, ladies please come and rape us o . We want to be raped by ladies. And when a guys cries out, fellow men would shut him down so why are you surprised if people think rape doesn't affect men? Besides what I said, did I lie?

"Women are more devils" yet you say I am gender biased? at least they were not your mother. Father's rape both their kids, step kids and other people's kids. So let's decide which gender is worse while at it. It affects males and females I agree they both have to fight the psychological trauma but I the girl has her morality and physical wound to tend which males may not be pressured with. In future it is a girl that has to battle with virginity and other issues. A girl can manage to scale through but she can never buy her hymen back. She may become pregnant and forced to have an abortion all inclusive in the sexual abuse package. So yes, while it affects men, women have the added societal pressure to think that they are not clean enough. The only good thing now is that virginity isn't such a big deal these days if not what do you think the future would hold for such girls?

mumu

I guess you don't know the difference between an adult male and a minor male.

you talk because you're female ....you're not to decide how a male child that was abused should feel or react and that is the very reason males don't generally come out to say I was molested ....because you lot expect them not to feel anything negative and in turn Bleep with their mentality so there you have it don't blame guys if they laugh over rape cases ..

why will I want a female to treat me with disrespect while sexually harassing me....madam guys know that if ladies decide to rape them it will end up going against the lady because they/guys are physically stronger ...if those guys were beaten ..wounded ..hurt during these rape cases it won't be fun any longer to them...(and that is the case of a male or female child abuse ..so yeah shut up and face it stop crying like a baby)

adabekee12:


She is right it is a gender thing. After all majority if not all ethnic groups in Nigeria are patriarchal. WE do not live in an egalitarian society
I feel your pain and hope you were able to talk to a psychologist.
Your experience (horrendous) does not negate the fact that the ratio of male molesters to female molesters are unequal. With patriarchy comes the abuse of power and enforcing that power on those you view as subservient. That is why some religions allow 50 year old men to marry and molest girls under 12 yrs old. If most of us look at our grandfathers or for some even fathers you will notice that a lot of these men 25-70 years marry girls that were 10-18 yrs old. A lot of us come from families of pedophiles and molesters. Now mind you it was not viewed that way, actually it was normalized because of patriarchal culture.
So to eradicate this problem we are going to have to get rid of all Semitic religions and patriarchal practices that are detrimental to the girl child. To stop female molesters, they will need sexual orientation and really harsh punishments (like molesting them back) if they do not change with orientation.

you have your reply on delispost's mention above.

JennyOfOldstones:
The OP has deactivated o

Am sure he deactivated because of posts like this " Someone should show this thread to Nigerian Police and catch this poster and his friend for interrogation.".. and sad enough he may just leave the case to God and move on with his life as if nothing happened.

I keep my response to this abomination simple.

Hopefully there wouldn't be a next time, but next time When you see a child been abused by an adult in a lawless shithole like Nigeria, take a picture of it as evidence,the proceed to knock the motherf**ker out. Smash his head with any thing you see. If he dies, show the police the evidence you have snapped & claim temporary insanity if charged to court.

In an unjust country like ours , this is an example of when jungle justice is totally justified .

You can disagree with me all you want .

Dcholeric:

mumu

I guess you don't know the difference between an adult male and a minor male.

you talk because you're female ....you're not to decide how a male child that was abused should feel or react and that is the very reason males don't generally come out to say I was molested ....because you lot expect them not to feel anything negative and in turn Bleep with their mentality so there you have it don't blame guys if they laugh over rape cases ..

why will I want a female to treat me with disrespect while sexually harassing me....madam guys know that if ladies decide to rape them it will end up going against the lady because they/guys are physically stronger ...if those guys were beaten ..wounded ..hurt during these rape cases it won't be fun any longer to them...(and that is the case of a male or female child abuse ..so yeah shut up and face it stop crying like a baby)

Shut up Jor. I said what I said and you clearly have no point. I did not underplay rape of underage boys so I wonder why your rabies is pushing you to me. I never said to ignore minor boys who were victims rather I said if men should make it known as it affects them and not joke about rape wether (adult or child) people would be better for it. carry your frustrations and go make a post about what you experienced as a child and believe me , I will not knock you down for it. Crying like baby? Yeah, if you mean fighting for that girls right is crying like a baby then I will do it and you have to kill yourself or get used to my crying.

Op Don go oooo

Long story short.....I have a friend who lives with his 13 yrs old daughter...... Recently a female friend who is a neighbor called me and told me the little girl confided in her that the father is harassing her sexually.

I was shocked but sometimes I stay in there home I used to notice some funny moves but I couldn't place my finger on it cos it all seems to me like Father and daughter love.

I couldn't ask the little girl cos I wanted to have a proof. Recently I came visiting and he started that rough play as usual but because I was already tipped as a result I was at Alert. I quickly told him I was going to the shop.....But I didn't go anywhere I came back immediately and went straight to the window. I saw him bouncing untop of her. The expression on her face broke my heart she is not happy.

I called that female neighbor and told her what I saw.....we told a friend we all questioned the little girl she confirmed it to be true.


Now what do we do? We planned to confront the father is this the best step to take?


I just want him to stop.

um! HUMAN BEING, SOMEBODY CONFIDED IN YOU AND YOU CAN'T KEEP SECRET - SECRET.

THOU, I DON'T SUPPORT THE MAN

delishpot:



Shut up Jor. I said what I said and you clearly have no point. I did not underplay rape of underage boys so I wonder why your rabies is pushing you to me. I never said to ignore minor boys who were victims rather I said if men should make it known as it affects them and not joke about rape wether (adult or child) people would be better for it. carry your frustrations and go make a post about what you experienced as a child and believe me , I will not knock you down for it. Crying like baby? Yeah, if you mean fighting for that girls right is crying like a baby then I will do it and you have to kill yourself or get used to my crying.

lol
foolish woman who think men are her problem or the problem of the world ....

lol

emelda86:


I know you will reply, even children won't comment as u have done next time comment like a human not like a zombie

.yes I particularly replied cos I know u ar just new in NL.just joined 8months back with only 2hrs online.but i have to still warn u.many like u have regretted ever making some comments like this here.and I am assuring u.you may not know what hit u when u ar hit

Dcholeric:

lol
foolish woman who think men are her problem or the problem of the world ....

lol

Ignorant man, it would surprise you that your fellow man is calling out gender problems? LOL you so stupid and in denial you have chosen to be the center of attention in a child's sex abuse case. LOL. Carry your Ghana must go full of shit bag and cross to that side. Nwwweeeee, Nwwweeeee, me too, don't forget me I was rapped too why are you talking only about girls? Nwwweeeee I should be center of attraction and attention now!!

Be honest, in your family was your dad not the center of your mom's problem? Ewu Gambia forming funky.

Abomination

you are worst than that peadophilic so called friend of yours, you caught him Abusing his own daughter and you didn't Crack his skull open with a base ball bat?
give me the Address of that Animal and he will be taken care of ASAP.

africanusvu:
.yes I particularly replied cos I know u ar just new in NL.just joined 8months back with only 2hrs online.but i have to still warn u.many like u have regretted ever making some comments like this here.and I am assuring u.you may not know what hit u when u ar hit

What will you do The worse you can do is kill yourself & not me but if u try me u will know that not everyone is an island,,,u dey tell me make I dey fear you or wetin moreover I am always online more than you.

Abeg shift nor next time comment wisely

That man is just a biological father not a real father. A father will protect his daughter from any harm and not inflict it on her himself.
This just sad

Kobicove:


Do you even have any idea some of the things that go on in those motherless babies homes?

It can't be as bad as a father having sex with his own daughter!

There must be other options! It's better for her to be on the street than remain with that monster.

africanusvu:
.yes I particularly replied cos I know u ar just new in NL.just joined 8months back with only 2hrs online.but i have to still warn u.many like u have regretted ever making some comments like this here.and I am assuring u.you may not know what hit u when u ar hit

Try anything with me & face Gods wrath I know I wasn't suppose to use that kind of wishes on you anyway I am sorry for that but next time comment wisely cos what u commented was so disheartening.

Sorry once again & as a child of God I'm still sorry I wish that to your enemies & not you.bye

oloyede252:

Am sure he deactivated because of posts like this " Someone should show this thread to Nigerian Police and catch this poster and his friend for interrogation.".. and sad enough he may just leave the case to God and move on with his life as if nothing happened.

Yeah. I'm afraid the girl will not get the justice she deserves

Belafonte:



All you had to do was read and understand my poat, really or, at least, try to understand the angle I'm coming from.

Everybody knows you need evidence to have a case ruled in your favour as accusations are just what they are, accusations. Without proof, the suspicions would be there but the guy might still have custody of the girl without any because nobody can prove he's been molesting his daughter; this is Nigeria, after all. Jumping the gun and being all emotional helps the girl in no way.

No amount of good intentions will substitute for a good plan. Also, your last paragraph just got me stumped. How does that relate to the topic at hand? Your post makes you sound mentally unhinged. You need to keep it together, dude

U don't need any evidence. What evidence can be provided? U think judges are stupid?
The girls testimony corroborated with those who she confessed to and the op as an eye witness is more than enough.

delishpot:


Ignorant man, it would surprise you that your fellow man is calling out gender problems? LOL you so stupid and in denial you have chosen to be the center of attention in a child's sex abuse case. LOL. Carry your Ghana must go full of shit bag and cross to that side. Nwwweeeee, Nwwweeeee, me too, don't forget me I was rapped too why are you talking only about girls? Nwwweeeee I should be center of attraction and attention now!!

Be honest, in your family was your dad not the center of your mom's problem? Ewu Gambia forming funky.

men are only your saviour.... lol

I hope you enjoyed the rape moments...

fowl ..no it should be okuko Gambia
did i get that right?
go ahead kill your dad and husband and son ..(if you were able to have any ) they are the source of your frustration.

JennyOfOldstones:
Yeah. I'm afraid the girl will not get the justice she deserves

No body is even talking about justice for the girl sef. Let the girl just leave that her father's house to somewhere safe.

Where is gulderbottle

Pls listen to my counsel, reporting ur friend to law enforcement authorities will only bring about selfish interest and d little girl u are trying to help will suffer in d end.govt institutions in d country are very corrupt. A similar case happened in my area, and d matter was reported to d police and d police collected 250000 from d little girls Uncle to kill d matter, when d school authority where she attends heard what d police did the went and reported d matter to welfare and d welfare ppl contacted human rights lawyers association and they in turn brought in d state media before we knew it d matter was life with the girls face on a program in NTA. At this time d little girl had been taken from d police to welfare custody and was provided with little or no care.. To shorten d story . d girls uncle. Was charged to court and sent to prison, his company sacked him , his with with other children became helpless
While in bin awaiting trial a chief judge came to d prison and freed prisoners including this man because is was a civil case. The abused girl is still in d welfare till date. Case is still in court . d court is now after d man's wife who is also culprit. .I advice that u should help your friend by looking for a safe place for d little girl to stay. Away from d father. And make sure he apologizes to d daughter and try to counsel d girl to cover d Father's unclothedness NCOs no one is perfect.