magikalz:


Whatever else you do. Don't answer this question.

magikalz:


Whatever else you do. Don't answer this question.

Hussmanov:
Please help bro
Her : what's it u want from me
Me : ........No response yet

Hussmanov:
Haha .......
Lol ,l am not Oliver twist ooo
Are my words this magical
Like l said earlier ,u look like someone I need to know
Wait till then when we meet by coincidence or it could be better if we fix a date ....Then l shall tell u what I want

*My response*
Don't mind my long story ..... Persistency n consistency are d keys that have brought us this far

Hussmanov:
Please help bro
Her : what's it u want from me
Me : ........No response yet

osic:


Wait, do all Nigerian girls have a meeting where they are told to ask this question?

HARDDON:


Huh? Elucidate

HARDDON:
@SnakeXenzia


How does it feel to be sleek with flow sense?

Kul?

Btw, we don't respond to every huff and puff of a lady 's squint.

Lead the lines where you want it go

mavric202:
Harddon said sumtin bout home chicken.

Well der's dis gurl in my compound, curvy, beautiful, tall....after going thru the drills here decided to put all I've learnt here to de test. To my greatest surprise these drillz work lyk magic.

It all began 1 Saturday evening, I was chilling in my veranda listing to Hit FM when I heard "gud evening" mehn she's got a sexy voice (no exaggeration) u knw dat kind of voice dat makes de average nigga hand his TwoBigBalls to a SHE on a platter....

as she walked by thoughts began rolling thru my mind in a split sec...before I cud say JACK ROBINSON there's alrdy a contention b/w my heart nd head...

Heart: guy, why don't u try Harddon's drillz on this bae.

Head: o boy forget dis very1, remember Harddon also said somtn abt home Chics

Heart: jst fink of de pleasures u cud get frm dis bae....

To cut the long story short, I eventually gv in to de to heart. But one thing was certain, I knw I was in for some real SAGA....

brandon180:
HARDDON u should start lectures on chatting..am really struggling here..

HARDDON:
Don't sell your soul for a freaking morsel of grub.

Don't lose your sense for a lil dash of the waist.

Don't abandon your dreams, waste your resources/opportunities for the fine back of a soft bone.

There is way more to life than the cleft inbetween a woman's thighs. In the final analysis, ain't nothing in there really!

Satisfaction only comes from Your tru source : God.

No, not power, money, fine wine/woman, fame nor fortune. The more you get, the more you lack and love to get.....
......Don


Now i sound lika preacher man!

Samalabz:




Preach!!

HARDDON:



One of my very finest! With def calculate steps only ghosts robed in fog cud afford.

You are sighted

DeadRat:
even With All These Drills, temperament may Still Affect Individual's action... Most Especially Phlegmatics and maybe Melancholics...

Mobsync:


I've been following the asewo thread for almost three years -- followed it from the old thread to the new one. I saw it evolve from just sharing contacts and sexacapades to more sensible discussions (even though numbers and sexacapades are still shared), HIV awareness and the likes. In fact, at this moment, they're debating over whether pussy is gold.

That said, regarding the first bolded: it isn't that you won't ask the lady out. You'll ask her out but not directly or immediately. You see, regarding those two ladies I talked about earlier, I left one part out. The first one that told me she was thinking about my proposal (after accepting), told me something when I reminded her that she had earlier accepted. She said "Hope you know you are not the only one asking?"

That line is true with most ladies. In today's society, even the ugly ones get hit on several times a day. Now imagine how many times the semi-beautiful ones get hit on. Not to talk of the beautiful ones. In fact, there are some categories of ladies that these drills won't work on, no matter how you do it. One of this category of ladies are the slay queens. I mean, the real and hardened slay queens, not the 500 naira tight wearing broke girls claiming slay queens these days.

Most ladies are used to hearing the same thing. "Tell me about yourself," "have you eaten," "I love you," "I see my children in you," "Can you be my gf," "Can I get your number," Let me introduce myself to you" and so on that they have gotten tired. And since they know the guy would almost always toast them, they immediately build their defences. The whole agenda is how to break this defence by being different.

In fact, I have a strategy that I use to chat ladies up on Facebook and get their numbers in ten minutes or less (if they're quick in replying) and it works 85% of the time. The 15% it doesn't work on are not slay queens. They are not even usually as pretty as the other ones that give me their number, yet, it doesn't just work. Funny enough, three still initiate chats with me on Facebook. Yet, they refused to give me their number. I too have a policy of not asking more than twice. I have asked two for their numbers once and one for her number twice.

I don't follow that useless strategy that most guys use. They say "hi," she replies, then they ask whether she has eaten. Thereafter, they tell her to tell them about herself. Ladies black out from these kind of chats and I would too if I were a lady. I used to follow the same strategy too and it rarely worked. The few that gave me their numbers started asking for recharge card after few days.

The major idea of this thread is "how not to give a lady the upper hand (your balls) in a relationship." You as the man should call the shots and not the lady. The moment she starts calling the shots, you'll run into problems. I allowed those two ladies call the shot for sometime and I ultimately regretted. I just did not allow them punch me into the maga zone. The one that told me she was still thinking about my proposal was even telling me to take her to "Dominos."

Another night, I called her and she started talking to me rudely. I hurriedly cut the call and didn't call or chat with her for some days. She later chatted me up and apologized. The first thing she asks me whenever I call is why I haven't been calling -- irrespective of when the last time I called her. I always ask her why she herself doesn't call and she says she doesn't have airtime. I tell her I don't have airtime either and our discussion proceeds from there.

At that point, most guys would have apologized and promise to call regularly or even everyday. I didn't. Had I done that, I would have given her the upper hand in the relationship.

The bottom line is: a man will definitely ask a lady out. But don't make it too conspicuous else she might start misbehaving. Don't make her think you need her more than she needs you. Don't make her think you're after the sex either.

Again, you should know that there are some alpha females out there. One of my female friends and ex-crush posted something on her WhatsApp status the other day. She wrote "Whenever a guy tells me I'm beautiful, I tell him that is an insult to my intelligence." Before that,
she written the name of her friend who taught her to always use that line to throw guys off balance. And truly, most guys would be thrown off balance, since they will never expect such from a lady.

That said, regarding the second bolded, Harddon (the OP) already stated that in the first page. To quote him, he said:



This thread was created for weaklings in mind. But at the same time, those who want to improve on their game or change/adjust their strategies will find it useful.

africanman85:
Pls can I get d strategy u use to chat ladies ? I met this girl ones and d chemistry was so strong and I collected her contact. She started chatting me on Whatsapp on a general discussion and asking me abt some things abt that program I met her. My problem is since she was d one that initiated d chat first, I want to shift d discussion from friendship angle for her to start seeing me from romantic angle. I admired her dimple yesterday night and ask her to change her current profile pix. I told her DAT I want to see more of her dimples. She has not changed it and no reply yet. I'm I following her in d right way ? Pls other gurus should say something.

africanman85:
Pls can I get d strategy u use to chat ladies ? I met this girl ones and d chemistry was so strong and I collected her contact. She started chatting me on Whatsapp on a general discussion and asking me abt some things abt that program I met her. My problem is since she was d one that initiated d chat first, I want to shift d discussion from friendship angle for her to start seeing me from romantic angle. I admired her dimple yesterday night and ask her to change her current profile pix. I told her DAT I want to see more of her dimples. She has not changed it and no reply yet. I'm I following her in d right way ? Pls other gurus should say something.

2dice01:
i prefer making calls when flirting with girls

It's makes more sense cause you can trigger her emotions...

Not all doss lol she types.. When chatting


Why dont you stop chatting for now...

Give that girl a call probably at night... When she is on her bed.. Start flirting with her

E.g

You: hey evening...i never knew you were diss shy
She: am not shy oo... Am eating that's why i didn't pick up quickly
You: see enjoyment... am coming to your house now... Hope ur dad dont have a gun
She: he has oo... Big one even dagger...
You: you know we gonna do... Just go open the window I will pass through there...
She: lol you are so funny... OK have open it



Make her addicted to you...

sexymonkey:
@ DavidTheGeek , HARDDON
I was suspecting my girl of doing something bad as we were chatting on tuesday, so I hacked into her fb account and what I saw wasn't good enough( she was giving almost all the guys too much audience which I told her I hate a longtime ago, she was even s*xting with one guy like that), then I called her immediately to ask if she was in or out and she gave no answer to my question and said she doesn't get me, I dropped the call and she later called back that I should stop logging into her account, that statement annoyed me and I hacked the account COMPLETELY and she'll NEVER have it back. I've not been picking her calls and neither am I going to call or text back. please I need your suggestions on how to build a wall stronger than the walls of Jericho against her.

ALihandez:
nice job... going on here.... HARDDON.....
I've really leant a lot from your thread..... and I have been putting it to practice....
it workout.....
my friend told me about this....
he saw that I use to be a nice guy... girls love to be with... cos they say am funny... but our relationship doesn't last cos they'd friend zone me..... what made me start reading this thread. was... I have girl... who use to be my friend... same street.. but we met on social media... so we became close... but then she wasn't schooling around...she school in another city.... she use to give me advice we talk we play.... but then she was really dating someone.... later when I came back from school first semester... she asked me to teach her how to skate... which I did... then I went back to school... but she kept calling me everyday... to ask how I am doing cos I introduced a girl to her as my bae.. which wasn't true... when came fire dis long holiday... she kept calling me.... coming to my house.. to See Me and my friend..
we take pics together.. we eat together.... but when she notice I wasn't really looking at her side... she do more things to impress me.. so one day my friend ask me to go for her...but I refused.. so he got my phone and texted her... she really fell in love.. with the scope... but.. she said she can't give me relationship... I just boned her (I ignored her) for like a month.. she called me one-day and said I don't use to be caring anymore.... I asked her that she should just say she's missing me... she said of course..... it was yesterday that she told me that she really love me... and she knew I love her too.. but I wasn't saying anything... but now it's too late... that she'd still keep loving me ...even if she has been acquired...
I can see she really still love me.....
BOSS HARDON is there any hope for me getting her back?
please your advice is needed....
I have used some past experience....
just really need to divert her attention
back to me..
thanks

sexymonkey:
@ DavidTheGeek , HARDDON
I was suspecting my girl of doing something bad as we were chatting on tuesday, so I hacked into her fb account and what I saw wasn't good enough( she was giving almost all the guys too much audience which I told her I hate a longtime ago, she was even s*xting with one guy like that), then I called her immediately to ask if she was in or out and she gave no answer to my question and said she doesn't get me, I dropped the call and she later called back that I should stop logging into her account, that statement annoyed me and I hacked the account COMPLETELY and she'll NEVER have it back. I've not been picking her calls and neither am I going to call or text back. please I need your suggestions on how to build a wall stronger than the walls of Jericho against her.

sexymonkey:
@ DavidTheGeek , HARDDON
I was suspecting my girl of doing something bad as we were chatting on tuesday, so I hacked into her fb account and what I saw wasn't good enough( she was giving almost all the guys too much audience which I told her I hate a longtime ago, she was even s*xting with one guy like that), then I called her immediately to ask if she was in or out and she gave no answer to my question and said she doesn't get me, I dropped the call and she later called back that I should stop logging into her account, that statement annoyed me and I hacked the account COMPLETELY and she'll NEVER have it back. I've not been picking her calls and neither am I going to call or text back. please I need your suggestions on how to build a wall stronger than the walls of Jericho against her.