ubunja:
if roles were reversed and men offered to nurse children and women be faced with the 9-5, who do you think will complain?

Your missing my point. Am saying in case of divorce, how will they share child support. Am advocating for 40% for who ever that is getting the child custody then 60% for the other partner. Reason, it takes a lot of effort/responsibility to raise a child. Some companies even consider this before employing you. This is one the ways it can affect your earning.

ubunja:
leave her bros. a woman will naturally fight for best advantage in these situations. if they played fair they would never stand a chance.

I blame myself for replying her in the first place.

I don't see any reason why a reasonable man will support child support unless it's going to be paid equally by both men and women.

Child support is a scam that must be resisted in Nigeria

kense88:
Sure some women use it as a bargaining chip, but some are genuily consigned about there children. How well do most men perform when it comes to nursing babies. Generally women do better. Any lady that can provide 40% of the child support and still be able to look after her children, is not a goldigger and should be respected.

if women are not comfortable with that then they should be allowing men to take custody of the kids! nobody forced you to take care of the kids.


@bolded the man can hire a nanny that he'll pay less to take care of the kid when he's not around till the child gets to 6-7years.
taking care of kids isn't a problem for any man.

makydebbie:
I really doubt this, I may be wrong tho.

I thought so too
I did some research and I found out such laws exist in South Africa but not in Ghana.

I am not even bothered because 'Child support' agenda can never be realised in Nigeria.
Why should a woman take custody of the child, dictate to you when you will see the child and still expect you to take fatherly responsibilities?
If she want the man to take fatherly responsibilities, then she should allow the man take custody of the child.
If you know you can't have that, why still clamor for pecuniary help from the husband you felt is no more good for you or isn't meeting up to your expectations?

I mean, If you don't want him again, brazen it up and cut every connection you have with him.
Fu*k him and any of his help, but if you think you still want some concessions from him, why leave in the first place?
If it's because of the child, why not leave the child with him?

I trust Nigerian lawmakers, such proposition can never see the light of the day.




Signed,
Sola.

valentineuwakwe:
its good. .atleast it will reduce divorce rates in the country

and increase murder rate :-), have you heard of crime of passion? Personally No person ( I didn't even say woman) no repeat no mofo will scam me out of 50% of my property, my property and be alive to enjoy it period. I don't care what they say that's just me. Any man that likes they idea of child support is a fool if only the know the real agenda behind it. its basically emasculation and will also increase the number if female whoreness, trapping mofos with pregnancy while they use the child as ATM. Have any of you supporting this child support seen what it did to the Black American community?! The black women turned to numbskulls, a BT1000 like Tommy Sotomayor calls them. Call me whatever women are not supposed to be given such power because naturally women turn into tyrants when they are given power and history have proved this.
Well I trust the useless senators on this issue, they won't allow it, the west always pushing propaganda on Africa. That's how they brainwashes mofos that being gay is OK, putting too many gay nonsense in their movies to desensitize people on Homosexuals. If its not natural I hate it. They idiots say its natural to be a fkin gay Yet I've never seen any male animal fkin another male animal, what the FCK is this world turning into?!
Gay
Feminism
Hate speech( wtf is hate speech?! what happened to freedom of speech),
GMOs,
Child Support,
Alimony (how? why? women like it because once it benefits them most women don't care whether its killing the men. Most women lack good sense of judgement except very few like Annie Coulton, Judge Judy de try sha)
Cancer ( Its a money making machine for the elites)
HIV ( They cure is out but HIV is big business for the elite so they hide they cure and kill any doctor that tries to expose it),
Population control
and many other things are just hidden agenda to fk up the society yet most people are too fukin blind to decipher the intentions of these things.
Sometimes you just say fk it, let them keep using people's dumb brains to actualize their agenda.
Another example BBN that program is used to increase, encourage and program the mind of the society that immorality cool and rewards, when a number if fools are being celebrated for doing nothing but sleep, eat, dance, party & fuk are being rewarded with millions and given contracts by corporate bodies while the students that ace Waec, Neco, finish university with Distinction are given nothing or given 10k and people think its cool?
How can you sit down to watch people do nothing meaning BBN? tweet and vote for it? with tour time? TIME?! The average Nigerian is a stupid mofo, sad but true.
Now videos of small babies are twerking and people think its funny?! The society is big time fukd. I apologize for the typos its just that these kind of things infuriates me.

Elder001:


if women are not comfortable with that then they should be allowing men to take custody of the kids! nobody forced you to take care of the kids.


@bolded the man can hire a nanny that he'll pay less to take care of the kid when he's not around till the child gets to 6-7years.
taking care of kids isn't a problem for any man.

Have you ever attempted to take chic away from a hen? Is just natural that women as bad as we might see some of them, have in most cases stronger bond with there children than there father. The reason why I am against this child support( I mean the 50 50 share of wealth) is that is very much in favour of the lazy partners and encourages golddiging, which is mostly the females. Any lady that can pay 40% of my children support, did not enter the union with me solely for money, and will definitely have my respect.

But why all these fuss about child support.

According to the Mafia manager b4 taking vows, find yourself a lawyer who is an expert on matrimonial and divorce law.Have him draw up a prenuptial contract spelling out in details who get what in the event you and your spouse split up - and the odds are pretty good that you will. A small lump- sum settlement, agreed upon in advance, will keep your spouse out of your business and bank account.

Jackossky:
I am not even bothered because 'Child support' agenda can never be realised in Nigeria.
[b]Why should a woman take custody of the child, dictate to you when you will see the child and still expect you to take fatherly responsibilities?
If she want the man to take fatherly [/b]responsibilities, then she should allow the man take custody of the child.
If you know you can't have that, why still clamor for pecuniary help from the husband you felt is no more good for you or isn't meeting up to your expectations?

I mean, If you don't want him again, brazen it up and cut every connection you have with him.
Fu*k him and any of help, but if you think you still want some concession from him, why leave in the first place?
If it's because of the child, why not leave the child with him?

I trust Nigerian lawmakers, such proposition can never see the light of the day.




Signed,
Sola.

Who ever that initiated that idea, most be a very bitter soul. It was a consentual sex, why punishing one partner

kense88:
Have you ever attempted to take chic away from a hen? Is just natural that women as bad as we might see some of them, have in most cases stronger bond with there children than there father. The reason why I am against this child support( I mean the 50 50 share of wealth) is that is very much in favour of the lazy partners and encourages golddiging, which is mostly the females. Any lady that can pay 40% of my children support, did not enter the union with me solely for money, and will definitely have my respect.

and in Nigeria how many women are ready to bring their 40%? from the threads and opinion and even life experiences you can see that women say your money is ours but my money is mine, some say that the husband must be the one to take full responsibility of everything in running the family and yet demand respect too how? if I'm paying for everything basically you're my slave and when I say jump! you ask how high? unless she's knows her place as a queen but if she's a that or you married a selfish woman treat her like she deserves. What type of man will not want to take care of his child? such male ( not a man) should be castrated.

Deji63:


Calling the mother of your children worthless points to how irresponsible you are. No wonder you are vehemently against child support but it will be implemented in Nigeria eventually. So tighten your seatbelts and be ready to face the consequences of your action. If the child bears your surname why should you even think twice about child support. Simple as avoid divorce like a plague. Don't get divorced hoping to shy away from your responsibilities towards children who bear your surname and not their mother's. They are letting your generation continue not hers. Let us be fair and square.

Any woman who didn't contribute to the success of her husband whether she have kids for him or not is worthless .
what is the use of getting married if you can't contribute any meaningful thing to the life of your husband?
you didn't help in acquiring any property..

Mr man.. I repeat any woman who didn't contribute anything in acquiring of properties or contribute to her husband's success is worthless.

SexyDenzel:
and increase murder rate :-), have you heard of crime of passion? Personally No person ( I didn't even say woman) no repeat no mofo will scam me out of 50% of my property, my property and be alive to enjoy it period. I don't care what they say that's just me. Any man that likes they idea of child support is a fool if only the know the real agenda behind it. its basically emasculation and will also increase the number if female whoreness, trapping mofos with pregnancy while they use the child as ATM. Have any of you supporting this child support seen what it did to the Black American community?! The black women turned to numbskulls, a BT1000 like Tommy Sotomayor calls them. Call me whatever women are not supposed to be given such power because naturally women turn into tyrants when they are given power and history have proved this.
Well I trust the useless senators on this issue, they won't allow it, the west always pushing propaganda on Africa. That's how they brainwashes mofos that being gay is OK, putting too many gay nonsense in their movies to desensitize people on Homosexuals. If its not natural I hate it. They idiots say its natural to be a fkin gay Yet I've never seen any male animal fkin another male animal, what the FCK is this world turning into?!
Gay
Feminism
Hate speech( wtf is hate speech?! what happened to freedom of speech),
GMOs,
Child Support,
Alimony (how? why? women like it because once it benefits them most women don't care whether its killing the men. Most women lack good sense of judgement except very few like Annie Coulton, Judge Judy de try sha)
Cancer ( Its a money making machine for the elites)
HIV ( They cure is out but HIV is big business for the elite so they hide they cure and kill any doctor that tries to expose it),
Population control
and many other things are just hidden agenda to fk up the society yet most people are too fukin blind to decipher the intentions of these things.
Sometimes you just say fk it, let them keep using people's dumb brains to actualize their agenda.
Another example BBN that program is used to increase, encourage and program the mind of the society that immorality cool and rewards, when a number if fools are being celebrated for doing nothing but sleep, eat, dance, party & fuk are being rewarded with millions and given contracts by corporate bodies while the students that ace Waec, Neco, finish university with Distinction are given nothing or given 10k and people think its cool?
How can you sit down to watch people do nothing meaning BBN? tweet and vote for it? with tour time? TIME?! The average Nigerian is a stupid mofo, sad but true.
Now videos of small babies are twerking and people think its funny?! The society is big time fukd. I apologize for the typos its just that these kind of things infuriates me.

This brand of child support is criminal and will never see the light of the day in Nigeria and most west African countries. A much softer brand is welcomed, by which the man and woman is expected to pay nearly equal amount for the upkeep every month. The figure should be able to provide the least acceptable standard. In as much as we don't want one lazy, ingrate to reap where she did not sow, we should make a law in place to check mate irresponsible men and women, who have failed on there duties.

SexyDenzel:
and in Nigeria how many women are ready to bring their 40%? from the threads and opinion and even life experiences you can see that women say your money is ours but my money is mine, some say that the husband must be the one to take full responsibility of everything in running the family and yet demand respect too how? if I'm paying for everything basically you're my slave and when I say jump! you ask how high? unless she's knows her place as a queen but if she's a that or you married a selfish woman treat her like she deserves. What type of man will not want to take care of his child? such male ( not a man) should be castrated.

I'm just looking at the young man..
even if Nigerian women are asked to pay 25% they won't be able to pay! but they want to Heep up all the burdens on the men.

SexyDenzel:
and increase murder rate :-), have you heard of crime of passion? Personally No person ( I didn't even say woman) no repeat no mofo will scam me out of 50% of my property, my property and be alive to enjoy it period. I don't care what they say that's just me. Any man that likes they idea of child support is a fool if only the know the real agenda behind it. its basically emasculation and will also increase the number if female whoreness, trapping mofos with pregnancy while they use the child as ATM. Have any of you supporting this child support seen what it did to the Black American community?! The black women turned to numbskulls, a BT1000 like Tommy Sotomayor calls them. Call me whatever women are not supposed to be given such power because naturally women turn into tyrants when they are given power and history have proved this.
Well I trust the useless senators on this issue, they won't allow it, the west always pushing propaganda on Africa. That's how they brainwashes mofos that being gay is OK, putting too many gay nonsense in their movies to desensitize people on Homosexuals. If its not natural I hate it. They idiots say its natural to be a fkin gay Yet I've never seen any male animal fkin another male animal, what the FCK is this world turning into?!
Gay
Feminism
Hate speech( wtf is hate speech?! what happened to freedom of speech),
GMOs,
Child Support,
Alimony (how? why? women like it because once it benefits them most women don't care whether its killing the men. Most women lack good sense of judgement except very few like Annie Coulton, Judge Judy de try sha)
Cancer ( Its a money making machine for the elites)
HIV ( They cure is out but HIV is big business for the elite so they hide they cure and kill any doctor that tries to expose it),
Population control
and many other things are just hidden agenda to fk up the society yet most people are too fukin blind to decipher the intentions of these things.
Sometimes you just say fk it, let them keep using people's dumb brains to actualize their agenda.
Another example BBN that program is used to increase, encourage and program the mind of the society that immorality cool and rewards, when a number if fools are being celebrated for doing nothing but sleep, eat, dance, party & fuk are being rewarded with millions and given contracts by corporate bodies while the students that ace Waec, Neco, finish university with Distinction are given nothing or given 10k and people think its cool?
How can you sit down to watch people do nothing meaning BBN? tweet and vote for it? with tour time? TIME?! The average Nigerian is a stupid mofo, sad but true.
Now videos of small babies are twerking and people think its funny?! The society is big time fukd. I apologize for the typos its just that these kind of things infuriates me.

If child support is allowed in Nigeria.. it won't be long before sharing of properties 50/50 will be introduced.


child support is a scam!
men have been taking care of their kids without child support scam

kense88:
Who ever that initiated that idea, most be a very bitter soul. It was a consensual sex, why punishing one partner

trust me, If we are to check, it would be a female that must have kick-start such idea.

Jackossky:
I am not even bothered because 'Child support' agenda can never be realised in Nigeria.
Why should a woman take custody of the child, dictate to you when you will see the child and still expect you to take fatherly responsibilities?
If she want the man to take fatherly responsibilities, then she should allow the man take custody of the child.
If you know you can't have that, why still clamor for pecuniary help from the husband you felt is no more good for you or isn't meeting up to your expectations?

I mean, If you don't want him again, brazen it up and cut every connection you have with him.
Fu*k him and any of help, but if you think you still want some concession from him, why leave in the first place?
If it's because of the child, why not leave the child with him?

I trust Nigerian lawmakers, such proposition can never see the light of the day.




Signed,
Sola.

I'm telling you.
men aren't granted unlimited hours with the kids but they're still expected to pay child support.. like what the hell?

if you can't take care of the kids then the child should be with the partner that can provide for him/her.

Child support is a scam that must be resisted by any reasonable man.

Elder001:


I thought so too
I did some research and I found out such laws exist in South Africa but not in Ghana.

Is 100% true i have many friends living in Ghana but many Nigerians living in Ghana does not know about the law. If you have any relatives or friends living in Ghana the can go and verify from any lawyer in Ghana. My friend girlfriend did the same to him last 2 year but she reported him to police my friend told the police what they are saying is strange. they police told him that ignorance of law is not an excuse to case law.My friend contacted more than 4 lawyers the told him what the police are saying is true The later settle the matter with police without going to court.

Lajet:


Is 100% true i have many friends living in Ghana but many Nigerians living in Ghana does not know about the law. If you have any relatives or friends living in Ghana the can go and verify from any lawyer in Ghana.

you mean if you live with a lady for about 1year the courts legally see her as your wife??

so Ghana has these useless laws?? I'm sure they're not implementing them yet else the men would've cried out.

I can't imagine sharing my properties with an ex wife not to talk of ordinary girlfriend.. what a wickedness.



These laws must be resisted at all cost from getting to Nigeria

Child support is a scam that any reasonable man must resist.

Elder001:


you mean if you live with a lady for about 1year the courts legally see her as your wife??

so Ghana has these useless laws?? I'm sure they're not implementing them yet else the men would've cried out.

I can't imagine sharing my properties with an ex wife not to talk of ordinary girlfriend.. what a wickedness.



These laws must be resisted at all cost from getting to Nigeria

Not for 1year if you live with your girlfriend in the same house for only 6 months. the law of their country legally see her as your wife. that's their law very strange but 100% true.

SexyDenzel:
and in Nigeria how many women are ready to bring their 40%? from the threads and opinion and even life experiences you can see that women say your money is ours but my money is mine, some say that the husband must be the one to take full responsibility of everything in running the family and yet demand respect too how? if I'm paying for everything basically you're my slave and when I say jump! you ask how high? unless she's knows her place as a queen but if she's a that or you married a selfish woman treat her like she deserves. What type of man will not want to take care of his child? such male ( not a man) should be castrated.

Lol. Don't mind those lazy leeches. If you think the courth can possibly force a man to part with 50% of his worth, why do you think the same courth cannot get women to pay 40% of child support. If the lady cannot pay 40% of child support, then she is not worthy to be a mother and at the very least should bared from coming any where close to those children .

As for the your money na our money and my money is money crew, I think is the husband that let them get away with it. You don't try to treat people generally, better than they treat you, including your wife. If she loves gift, she most also be willing to give something that matches her earning.

Any man who have no plan for his children's future is worthless and not qualified for marriage they must tell the other partner about their evil intention before they get married so she can decide(Some fools are looking for who to use to have a baby what a shame)

Ladies focus on yourself and become a better person and ensure you watch this movie acrimony( you owe no one anything)

[quote author=aureen post=67663088]Any man who have no plan for his children's future is worthless and not qualified for marriage they must tell the other partner about their evil intention before they get married so she can decide(Some fools are looking for who to use to have a baby what a shame)

Ladies focus on yourself and become a better person and ensure you watch this movie acrimony( you owe no one anything)

[/quoteAny man or woman who have no plan for his or her children's future is worthless and not qualified for marriage they must tell the other partner about their evil intention before they get married so she or he can decide(Some fools are looking for who to use to have a baby what a shame)

Ladies and gentlemen focus on yourself and become a better person and ensure you watch this movie

[quote author=kense88 post=67663554][/quote]

Why are you using my words don't you have yours? So you lack words to use

Sometimes we hear lines like I don't want an SS child this will result to great suffering that's why I want to have my baby with a lady that has AA genotype, this secret nobody knows.

Elder001:


I'm telling you.
men aren't granted unlimited hours with the kids but they're still expected to pay child support.. like what the hell?

if you can't take care of the kids then the child should be with the partner that can provide for him/her.

Child support is a scam that must be resisted by any reasonable man.

This is one point I agree with. Because it makes woman some kind of god.

If a man is paying child support why can't he see the child he is supporting? Why only "visit"; you "visit" your own child. Dats wierd...

Elder001:


I thought so too
I did some research and I found out such laws exist in South Africa but not in Ghana.

Lol, I was surprised myself.

kense88:
Lol. Don't mind those lazy leeches. If you think the courth can possibly force a man to part with 50% of his worth, why do you think the same courth cannot get women to pay 40% of child support. If the lady cannot pay 40% of child support, then she is not worthy to be a mother and at the very least should bared from coming any where close to those children .

As for the your money na our money and my money is money crew, I think is the husband that let them get away with it. You don't try to treat people generally, better than they treat you, including your wife. If she loves gift, she most also be willing to give something that matches her earning.

Watch how the average Nigerian female will avoid this thread like a plaque or make unreasonable post here.
The agenda is to rope Black African men into prison, make then modern slaves which will lead those male children with no father figure 80% of the time into prison too where their father was sent to join their father as a slave too when they grow up because NO WOMAN CAN RAISE A MALE CHILD TO BE A MAN!! NEVER, a dog cannot raise a cub to be a lion that's why you see millions of these Black American males acting like b*tchessss because that's how he was raised. They had no constant male/ man figure to learn from most of the time and they women are so stupidddd, dumb, blind, porous brain that after so many years they still don't see the pattern?! its right in your fukin face!!!! You call cops on ur husband!!! if he's not a threat to ur life why call the slave master to come and take him away from his home?! the same thing that they're trying to introduce to our Nigerian society, they have succeeded with they homosexuality nonsense which I hate with every breath I take, even though they do it in secret and its not in the constitution. They have succeeded in making our ladies think wearing revealing dresses is classy and doesn't make u look like a LovePeddler, they have made twerking a national anthem, almost all ladies are quick to twerk on camera but their brains are as dusty as the golds buried in Egyptian pyramids. They average Nigerian chick can hold a mind or intelligent conversation for minutes but observe a group of ladies sitting somewhere all they talk about is mostly fashion, Davido, chioma, assurance, BBN, Miracle, When next BBN, how to apply for BBN and all the nonsense they yap about that's why one just fuk them because it appears that the functioning thing they have is their pussssi even some pusssisss are faulty and riddled with disease and stench too. A girl will see her bf making money but will never ask him to teach her how to make money! WTF!!! they only beg for money for useless things, like a bag, hair, nails, dresses and craps, school fees are usually when they want to extort you when they notice you're the type that don't role with their other trashy demands. All my life its only one girl have asked me to teach her how to get this cheddar, they rest only want one to give them. They come online here to claim independence while the data that they're using a male paid or sent it to them! That's why I don't even bother engaging them in any convoy or taking them serious. Leeches and ready to broke shame guys that are broke at the moment.
They guys, some of the guys too are sooooo stupid that you want to hit your head on the wall for them while trying to comprehend how a male got to be so stupid. I blame it mostly on whoever raised them or if they had no father or man figure but they should be able to learn from the street, a relative, a movie or something. There are many places to learn stuff though you need guidance sometimes but if you don't have guidance why can't you do it yourself!! The average brain is better than a laptop if you utilize it. Well WTF am I doing sef, all man for himself shaa.
Fukin mofokas.
Fuk the government, the world biggest gang of criminals and crooks with licence.

Any woman who have no plan for her children's future is worthless and not qualified for marriage they must tell the other partner about their evil intention before they get married so he can decide(Some fools are looking for who to use to have a baby what a shame)

Ladies focus on yourself and become a better person .


CHILD SUPPORT IS A SCAM!!!!!!

makydebbie:

Lol, I was surprised myself.

but a someone just confirmed it to be true