Deji63:


You are denial personified. Why wont you choose denial? Apparently you can't even afford to run a home and be the head. That's why you got divorced in the first place and you are still as broke as they come that's why you are disgracefully against child support. I told you being responsibly married comes with blessings. You see why God has blessed you with nothing?

Elder001:


do you even know the consequences of child support?
and what makes you think child support will cure over population?

why American men are complaining about child support if it's nice?

LivingFree:


Absolute truth

Netanyahu1:
I pay child support, Am not complaining. The effect it has on me is that am zipping it . if the child support law in Nigeria is effective men won't be inpregnating innocent girls at the slightest opportunity.

Some men won't be having 10 children from 5 women.

Deji63:


As long as both parents are yelling in the labour room, getting their genitals torn and stitched up, changing diapers and bending their necks constantly to breastfeed the child, then they can both face FINANCIAL responsibilities.

For me, I think women have their hands full already with all they do. No woman who is pleased will ever want a divorce. They are very clingy to the one who shows them love. Its in their nature. So, you definitely aint pleasing her. You are doing something wrong and you know within that you are

Search yourself bro and act like a man. Brace up and face your responsibilities.Be diplomatic in marital issues and try as much as possible to avoid a divorce by behaving right. That is all you need to do.

Deji63:


You are denial personified. Why wont you choose denial? Apparently you can't even afford to run a home and be the head. That's why you got divorced in the first place and you are still as broke as they come that's why you are disgracefully against child support. I told you being responsibly married comes with blessings. You see why God has blessed you with nothing?

Elder001:


Oga which man doesn't want to take responsibility ?

I'm simply telling you that the kids are the responsibility of both parents not only the father. the father didn't produce the kids alone.

both parents should take responsibility

ubunja:

dont worry. the male Birth Control pill is coming. we'll show these women what it means to prevent pregnacy.

Deji63:


Why fear dey grip you like this? What is there in supporting your own child? . Use condom una no dey hear word. Now to face the consequences of your action you dey fear fear lol. Never have kids with a woman you do not love and who will not stand the test of time. So enlighten us. How is child suport a scam? To me it will reduce baby mamaism because people will have more responsible sexual relationships when they know they will be forced into facing their shi*t.

aureen:
Just know this now for the fact that you call yourself an elder on nairaland(A strategy you use so people can swallow whatever you push down their throat except your family members is very obvious) doesn't mean your opinions are 100% perfect/genuine/correct or you are perfect and better than anyone.

The rule is if you don't have the capacity to care for a child's emotional/physical/financial needs, have a plan for their future, how they can become great in the society then don't bring them into this world to suffer.

You are not my role model no matter how old you think you are.

APCsupporter:


I think you have comprehension problems. The op made it clear that he is not against child support but against the nature of the laws. If Dangote were to get into that trap he would be forced to pay over 5 billion dollars to a woman who contributed nothing to his wealth and still pay her salaries? What kind of child will need this money? And at the end of the day the useless gold digger will use it to live luxurious lifestyle while dangote gets bankrupt and even go to jail. It has happened to so many celebrities. Google it.

aureen:



Spy how much were you paid to write this? Who sent you? Why kill your concience because of money.

aureen:



Copycat, this shows how I have influence you , May your daughters and grand daughters marry a disgusting old fool like you.

nancyv:

I really doubt you are sane.You are the most worthless and senseless person I have encountered in this forum

Netanyahu1:
I pay child support, Am not complaining. The effect it has on me is that am zipping it . if the child support law in Nigeria is effective men won't be inpregnating innocent girls at the slightest opportunity.

Some men won't be having 10 children from 5 women.

Deji63:


Go get a job and be a man. Stop acting sissy like you didn't read my quote. Are you a parent or a run away dad? If you spent half of the time you spend on NL on trying to figure out how to erk a living you won't be here crying over chop money like Ubunja.

APCsupporter:


How am I killing my conscience? I don't mind spending on my child but what will he need 50% of my income for (Assuming I am worth billions of naira)? Won't I get more children.

APCsupporter:


I think you have comprehension problems. The op made it clear that he is not against child support but against the nature of the laws. If Dangote were to get into that trap he would be forced to pay over 5 billion dollars to a woman who contributed nothing to his wealth and still pay her salaries? What kind of child will need this money? And at the end of the day the useless gold digger will use it to live luxurious lifestyle while dangote gets bankrupt and even go to jail. It has happened to so many celebrities. Google it.

Elder001:


The most provocative thing is these ladies now see the kids as bargaining chips.
The money for child support they use it to sort out themselves.

Elder001:
This young man probably in his 30s thinks kids are the responsibility of the father while the responsibility of the mother is to pop out the kids.
The way some people say shíts anyhow I don't just understand the kind of brain they have.

You better don't quote me next time.

APCsupporter:


Don't mind the gold diggers. That is how Emanuel Eboue, a great footballer lost all of his money after divorce to a woman who contributed nothing to his fortune. The silly men that are supporting it should go and read about him

ubunja:

having a baby with lazy women is like having a Test-Tube baby. the thing has no mother to speak of

APCsupporter:


What do you mean by innocent? Are they raping them? Start reading Harddon threads fast before you become a slave to women

Netanyahu1:
Seriously? So you have all the time to read some idiotic thread on nairaland yet you have not come across the word sexual abuse before? Grown men deceiving and impregnating underage girls and abandoning them and the baby?

I understand what the op. Is trying to say , but men like you is the reason we actually need strong child abuse laws, domestic violence spousal abuse and iron clad child support laws in Nigeria.

For your information most guys don't need harddoon abi whatever you call him to teach them how to be players , its a simple stuff .

Netanyahu1:
Seriously? So you have all the time to read some idiotic thread on nairaland yet you have not come across the word sexual abuse before? Grown men deceiving and impregnating underage girls and abandoning them and the baby?

I understand what the op. Is trying to say , but men like you is the reason we actually need strong child abuse laws, domestic violence spousal abuse and iron clad child support laws in Nigeria.

For your information most guys don't need harddoon abi whatever you call him to teach them how to be players , its a simple stuff.

Netanyahu1:
Seriously? So you have all the time to read some idiotic thread on nairaland yet you have not come across the word sexual abuse before? Grown men deceiving and impregnating underage girls and abandoning them and the baby?

I understand what the op. Is trying to say , but men like you is the reason we actually need strong child abuse laws, domestic violence spousal abuse and iron clad child support laws in Nigeria.

For your information most guys don't need harddoon abi whatever you call him to teach them how to be players , its a simple stuff.

Netanyahu1:
Seriously? So you have all the time to read some idiotic thread on nairaland yet you have not come across the word sexual abuse before? Grown men deceiving and impregnating underage girls and abandoning them and the baby?

I understand what the op. Is trying to say , but men like you is the reason we actually need strong child abuse laws, domestic violence spousal abuse and iron clad child support laws in Nigeria.

For your information most guys don't need harddoon abi whatever you call him to teach them how to be players , its a simple stuff.

Netanyahu1:
Seriously? So you have all the time to read some idiotic thread on nairaland yet you have not come across the word sexual abuse before? Grown men deceiving and impregnating underage girls and abandoning them and the baby?

I understand what the op. Is trying to say , but men like you is the reason we actually need strong child abuse laws, domestic violence spousal abuse and iron clad child support laws in Nigeria.

For your information most guys don't need harddoon abi whatever you call him to teach them how to be players , its a simple stuff.

Hanseel1:


what do you mean by deceiving and impregnating? Nobody is deceived into having sex.. stop deceiving yourself.
This guy you must be out of your mind..

and as for the sexual abuse stuff who told you women don't harass men sexually? most child abuse cases in Nigeria are committed by women so what's your point?