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Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by Amarabae(f): 7:15pm On Jul 03, 2018
MhisTahrah:
Sincerely I don't think it's bad to go to your in-laws place and do those things you mentioned. So long your partner reciprocates.
you said in law place,
Your boyfriend parents are not yet your in-laws
Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by Nobody: 7:40pm On Jul 03, 2018
Babyforever:
You're welcome smiley they know me nah I can't bring myself look so stupid all in the name of marriage it's never gon happen..... Men are everywhere so don't stress yourself over irrelevant people
Men are everywhere but real men are scarce.
Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by Nobody: 7:46pm On Jul 03, 2018
I'm even tired of the whole wife material trash, all the wife material trash I did with my stupid ex what did I gain? if my boo no wan marry me, make him leave, its not by force, I don't like what I hate neither am I desperate. I will go to his family house and I won't do shii, ain't nobody complaining.

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Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by Nobody: 9:04pm On Jul 03, 2018
Babyforever:
Sarkin wink
who's sarkin undecided
Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by Nobody: 9:12pm On Jul 03, 2018
I'm working to get to that level that no man will ever want to reject my proposal. A level I will show love to one and millions will fight for it.

I will walk up to him and say "Marry Me" cool
Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by Stycon(m): 9:24pm On Jul 03, 2018
Why would a sane lady do all these in the first place? undecided
Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by Amarabae(f): 10:53pm On Jul 03, 2018
Stycon:
Why would a sane lady do all these in the first place? undecided
many desperate ladies are doing it
Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by Nobody: 11:05pm On Jul 03, 2018
Eco99:
....

Truth is you girls aint worth $hit without a man....

Argue with Linda dat got pregnant after forming $hit for years
Or
With Chimamanda who is forming $hit but is with a husband and kids

Bullshit




#Eco99#

Don't mind them. One olodo will just think of useless thing and rush to Nairaland to type it and other olodos will be clapping. When the olodo clock 30-40 without husband, they will be crying upandan that village people is doing them.

I'm ashamed on behalf of Africans especially Nigerian's

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Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by KingTugreat: 11:12pm On Jul 03, 2018
Op you just described the perfect wife material,selfless.This is what any man who wants a real wife should go for and deserve.

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Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by KingTugreat: 11:19pm On Jul 03, 2018
Jamariwolff:
I'm monogamous dear. Don't be a hypocrite and claim you've never done anything sexual. Trash
If you listen to these girls on nairaland,am sorry you might end up single and searching at 45. Forget some of them forming feminist here,some even lie down on the ground for their boyfriends to climb on top.Most of them are hypocrites,forming feminism online while outside there are slaves to men

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Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by Nobody: 1:50am On Jul 04, 2018
Amarabae:

it's true that men are everywhere but good men are scarce that's why you have babymamas and more desperate girls than boys. don't let this men are everywhere talk deceive u...other than that the write up makes sense.
Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by luminouz(m): 2:26am On Jul 04, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
Whoever that has eyes, let her read and assimilate. This is very intelligent. I commend this, Amarabae.

Several months ago, I was in a relationship with whom I presumed 'Loved' me so much not to loose me. I loved him too. It was an abusive and intolerable relationship. I didn't want to loose him, thereby I did everything in Love's book to keep this guy. Not that We had plans of settling down soon, but I was ready to do whatever he bidded. At a time, I used to visit his parents' home to say 'Hello'. I always did this and His mother abused this use. She'll always want to send me errands like her slave. I patiently adhered to this torture for sometime until I couldn't tolerate further. Her first Son and his Fiancée visited. I happened to be around on that day.
What actually infuriated and perplexed me was that she asked me to go to the kitchen and boil rice for the 'Fiancée'. What nonsense!
I had an appointment. I was vexed, and my ignorant boyfriend couldn't explain to her about this development. I was surprised i was polite all through the fracas ensuing. I wasn't my normal self anymore. I was raging. I told her sternly and firmly that I wouldn't be able to do what she asked. She felt slighted. Oh, so the girl doesn't have hands to boil rice for herself, right?
I politely excused myself.
Thereafter, my boyfriend called and told me that I had a negative attitude. Oh really? Is that how 'A Wife Material' is being known in your village? He told me to come and apologize to his mum on my knees. I cursed and ended the phone thereon. He never called. I never called. He took my desperation for stupidity. I learnt the hard way.

To the ladies, never allow a man treat you like trash. You all are phenomenal. If he doesn't accept you for being a lady with poise, excuse yourself. A better relationship awaits. I'm not discouraging that you shouldn't help when the need arises or when you find yourself in the midst of a gathering like that, but then, NEVER over-do it. Washing their clothes will not earn you a 'ring'. It's not bad to be principled too. Know your worth.
I'm happy I took that decision. I've never been more happier. If he is meant for you, no force can tear you apart, and vice-versa.

All I decoded from the above was that ur now free n unattached!!!
A coupla monikers have been on my neck about you...
Let's get u hooked up ASAP!!!
Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by luminouz(m): 2:30am On Jul 04, 2018
MariaLavina:
I'm working to get to that level that no man will ever want to reject my proposal. A level I will show love to one and millions will fight for it.

I will walk up to him and say "Marry Me" cool
DAMN!!!
This is deep!!! smiley wink
Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 6:32am On Jul 04, 2018
luminouz:


All I decoded from the above was that ur now free n unattached!!!
A coupla monikers have been on my neck about you...
Let's get u hooked up ASAP!!!

SMH. Did i mention I was looking for a BF?
Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by luminouz(m): 9:25am On Jul 04, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:


SMH. Did i mention I was looking for a BF?
Wetin concern me!??
I go find u one by force

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Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:06am On Jul 04, 2018
luminouz:

Wetin concern me!??
I go find u one by force

Very funny.
Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by fancy4eve(f): 12:44pm On Jul 04, 2018
Babyforever:
Girl you just say it like we want it.... That's why I keep telling my friends not to be a slave all in the name of marriage if he can't marry you the way you are he should use the door.
simple
Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by luminouz(m): 2:54pm On Jul 04, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:


Very funny.
Will tell them to send PM...but akwa ibom is a bit far o
Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:35pm On Jul 04, 2018
luminouz:

Will tell them to send PM...but akwa ibom is a bit far o

I don't reply PMs.
Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by luminouz(m): 4:41pm On Jul 04, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:


I don't reply PMs.
Lol...I ain't d one sending babe...
Good luck to the niggas who will...
Told them ur single n free.... wink
Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:22pm On Jul 04, 2018
luminouz:

Lol...I ain't d one sending babe...
Good luck to the niggas who will...
Told them ur single n free.... wink

That'll be a waste of time for them. Tell them not to flinch a muscle. I'm perfect being single. Relationship comes with a lot of mad stress. I can't deal.
Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by Nobody: 5:28pm On Jul 04, 2018
This thread made me realise that we don't all live in the same world... can someone who lives near an evil forest (collecting wood) have the ability to have a phone with Internet access and if so where does she charge it

The people op is speaking to probably can't access her information due to lack of a mass.

You can tell, I didn't read the op past 'evil forest' grin

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Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by BluntBoy(m): 5:38pm On Jul 04, 2018
Babyforever:
You're welcome smiley they know me nah I can't bring myself look so stupid all in the name of marriage it's never gon happen..... Men are everywhere so don't stress yourself over irrelevant people

That is how you people come here and make mouth. Who knows what you are even doing now. Who knows maybe you have just finished washing baskets of clothes for your boyfriend, his sisters (and their boyfriends) and his parents?

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Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by samysmoothfresh: 5:39pm On Jul 04, 2018
IamAirforce1:

You talk like Generalqueen cheesy
bruv you suppose know say na biacan be that na

everybody knows

if you know you know
Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by Nobody: 6:21pm On Jul 04, 2018
luminouz:
DAMN!!! This is deep!!! smiley wink
wink
Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by IamAirforce1: 6:28pm On Jul 04, 2018
samysmoothfresh:


bruv you suppose know say na biacan be that na


everybody knows


if you know you know

Lol grin
Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by luminouz(m): 7:32pm On Jul 04, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:


That'll be a waste of time for them. Tell them not to flinch a muscle. I'm perfect being single. Relationship comes with a lot of mad stress. I can't deal.
Lmaooooo
Now I know u REALLY need to get hooked up....
I've heard that 'i'm perfect being single' line a gazillion times n u know what It's a BIG,FAT lie.....

Look, rlatnships can be stressful but hell life is stressful..n that's what makes it fun..it makes u human,showing the capacity to FEEL....n that's how I know ur still good inside... otherwise I wouldn't give a fvck if u feel nothing,that makes u dangerous!!

Now....just let ur DMs be open 2mao..ok... wink
Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by luminouz(m): 7:34pm On Jul 04, 2018
MariaLavina:
wink

Lol..ur my kinda girl....I like em big,bold n brazen wink
Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by IamPlato(m): 7:49pm On Jul 04, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:

I don't reply PMs.
...

grin This Girl!

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Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by shaybebaby(f): 7:58pm On Jul 04, 2018
LivingFree:
This thread made me realise that we don't all live in the same world... can someone who lives near an evil forest (collecting wood) have the ability to have a phone with Internet access and if so where does she charge it

The people op is speaking to probably can't access her information due to lack of a mass.

You can tell, I didn't read the op past 'evil forest' grin
Numpty grin
Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by Nobody: 8:22pm On Jul 04, 2018
luminouz:


Lol..ur my kinda girl....I like em big,bold n brazen wink
I'm still working on it, you missed that part. lipsrsealed
Re: Dear "Wife Material"- (oriaku Rants Vol.1) by Nobody: 8:36pm On Jul 04, 2018
Who does that? Only pretenders anyway. Those kinda girls don't even have any place in my life. Things you'd stop at the end after marriage, so why deceiving yourself? Fiancee ko, finances ni. If that's the only way you can show me you are a wife material then you are still sitting on a long thing. Wife material my foot.

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