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Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by victorian(f): 11:50am On Aug 24, 2018 |
chimauk: He's a wise man Thanks 1 Like |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Nobody: 11:51am On Aug 24, 2018 |
queenfav: You haven't change |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by victorian(f): 11:51am On Aug 24, 2018 |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by victorian(f): 12:02pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: If I say my life history. You all will feel am lying and making up stories.. So no need. I brought up her story cos it's way different from mine and it also shows that there are men out there, who are happily taking care of their wives ,in-laws if need be and extended family without blinking an eye.. Without coming online to scream that Nigerian women are leeches and oloshos. Cos that's all most of u guys here are good for.. Screaming leeches, bitches and oloshos.. Lol U people should go to the real world and see how successful men take care of their families without grumbling. And they get blessed more and more. Awon aranguntans Lol. |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Oyindidi(f): 12:06pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
pocohantas:Poco baby you be wife material 100 yards 1 Like |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Nobody: 12:19pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
queenfav: Na so I think oh, my cousin watched Black Panther 5 times. Just because 5 different guys were desperately showing their interest in her. I know this is irrelevant to the topic but the same goes for marriage where Women should be taken care of, in essence the money a woman makes is for herself alone. |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Nobody: 12:37pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
Bigdeeee: You must be dreaming to be spending $6k- 15k a month. Wake up from your slumber ... |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Jimi23(m): 12:55pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
mayorhy: God bless you for your observation and wisdom He is BROKE male pretending to be female. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by charleff512(m): 2:14pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
Never seek advice from Nairaland The blind will advice the sighted on how to choose colours The deaf will advice the one whose ears are normal on how to distinguish between sounds And so on and on. Even people who can't manage a female friend will advice you on how to manage your family! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by queenfav(f): 3:27pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
cruchenutii:That's not true.. The way it works, if you provide for your wife, she too will hold you down when you are not buoyant. The kind of man i married can empty his account for me.He doesn't ask or have interest in my money. What i do is to buy him stuffs or buy something for the house without telling him first . You can't say you love a man or a woman and you don't give!I can fund a vacation trip for both of us, because he deserves it and even more. When man be Akagum, pray you don't become broke cos most women won't send you then. If a man has, spend on your wife. There is nothing there. Forget if she is working or not! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by queenfav(f): 3:28pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
Elder001:at all. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Nobody: 3:37pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
queenfav: Great !!! |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Nobody: 3:41pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
queenfav: Why? |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Bakrabas: 3:41pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
kenlinzo: More blessings boss... Thank you 1 Like |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Nobody: 3:44pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
queenfav: Every man mustn't behave like your husband.. not all men have the same principles or ideologies he has. The earlier you realize that forcing your opinion on people doesn't make sense, the better. I don't know when women started defining what a man is supposed to do and what a man shouldn't do, who is a real man and who isn't real man. Just live with people who share your ideology. |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Nobody: 3:48pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
cruchenutii: We both know that's a lie. |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by queenfav(f): 4:07pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
pocohantas:lol.. God bless you. |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by queenfav(f): 4:17pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
Elder001:Oga, we are not fighting neither am i forcing anyone to be like my husband. No woman is happy paying the man's bills at home. That's the natural order of things, even backed up by the Bible. A man who doesn't have can be assisted by his wife, but it's plain wicked when you are seeing money but finds it hard ti give madam. I am an advocate of "elevate your woman so high, spoil her and she won't be easily swayed by another man's money". Those that don't have can hustle, but pls... Make no mistake, no woman is happy being the provider. That's a man's job. I didn't come to your house with a gun pointed at you to reason like my husband. It's only recommended. He spoils me, i spoil him.. We are both happy that way. Even if your wife is a millionaire, "honey pls take 20k to make your hair and get your toiletries isn't a bad idea". Most married women are prostituting today because their husband at home is tight fisted.Apart from food money, they don't give her anything extra for herself. Even as rich as Beyonce is, Jay Z still buys her diamonds. He doesn't say "B, you sold 2 million copies of your album this year, you can pay for your own diamonds." She can afford it, but he still goes ahead to spoil her. Life isn't hard. I am not lazy but at the same time, it makes me happy knowing my man can take care of me. That's every woman's dream. 4 Likes |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by generationz(f): 4:21pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Nobody: 4:26pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
queenfav: We've talked about this on this section before if you can remember. |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by queenfav(f): 4:26pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
NoToPile:lol.. Pls tell them.. The kind of men we have today won't mind a woman singlehandedly paying for their marriage ceremony, house rent , children's school fees. Many don't have shame at all! 1 Like |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Nobody: 4:31pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
queenfav:@bolded... but she'll also be seeing money, okay? I'm not Jay-Z. Thank God most women aren't like you these days, Tufiakwa. I told you before that even if I'm a billionaire I'll still share bills, I can never encourage laziness. And yes, I share house chores too but that doesn't mean we both won't spoil ourselves. |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Nobody: 4:32pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
queenfav: That's a lie . We only want them to contribute to the running of the family. A good woman doesn't feel at home if she doesn't contribute to the day to day running of the family. |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by queenfav(f): 4:36pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
Elder001:Lol... Am done talking to you Oga.Whatever rocks your boat. I am a Queen, so won't stoop to your level. The man that married me is so proud and happy to be my husband. You know why? I make enough money for myself, whether he gives me or not. Still, he takes care of my needs regardless.. That's what real men do! Bye. |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
queenfav: Stop forcing your ideology on people then. You've no right to define what a real man should do or not. I don't just understand why Nigerian women are scared of financial responsibilities. |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Nobody: 4:50pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
queenfav: Which level are you talking about? You're not a small child and with your experience in life I believe you should know that you don't speak to random people this way. Maybe it's because I'm on nairaland. 1 Like
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Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by queenfav(f): 5:04pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
Elder001:I am talking about your level of immaturity. I stated my points without insulting you , and the smartest thing you could think of was "I'm not Jay-Z. Thank God most women aren't like you these days, Tufiakwa." How does that translate to you being mature? I tried as much as i can to answer you politely whilst stating my opinion. Since you are Bill Gates, pls get off nairaland or.. Better yet, how about you stay out of my mentions? It funny you can talk about the right way to talk to random people. You are lucky i am a grown woman now, else me of 3 years ago would have replied you the way you truly deserve. Please get over this obsessive need to reply my comments even when i clearly wasn't referring to you! 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by InvertedHammer: 5:06pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
generationz:/ You ain't Zuckerberg/Gates. They are not living simple lives by the way--bulletproof cars, body guards, private jet, are not simple way of living. They are not loud because they have nothing to prove to anyone just as Dangote is not flaunting. People that flaunt are looking for validation. / 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Nobody: 5:14pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
queenfav: You that is forcing your ideology on people, which do you think is more childish? Every man who doesn't behave like your husband isn't a real man, kid, stingy and wicked according to you . Please move on, it seems you're living in a village because a civilized individual can't say all the ridiculous things you've said on this thread. Move along, immature lady. |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by queenfav(f): 5:19pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
Elder001:Get help please.. Many are mentally ill, few are roaming the streets. Have a good life! 1 Like |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by ImaIma1(f): 5:50pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by generationz(f): 5:53pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
InvertedHammer: huuuh that's what I'm saying bruh I'm not them now doesn't mean I can't be richer tommorow and when I'm rich I'll live a luxurious simple life like them. |
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