victorian:

No, at all! Am not like that.
Am a free minded and positive minded person. I feel we all have our own destinies and life on earth to pass through and fulfil. Have accepted my destiny, it wasn't pleasant inbetween and I can't change it. That's how God want our different lives to be.

We are simply pencils in the hand of God, no matter how hard we try to have what we want or desire at certain times in our lives.

I understand.

Thanks...

Bluezy13:


Thanks...

you are welcome


Keep it up! .. Your replies are constructive, precise and matured.. Unlike some wild aranguntans on this website, hope I got the Yoruba pronunciation well?

victorian:









you are welcome


Keep it up! .. Your replies are constructive, precise and matured.. Unlike some wild aranguntans on this website, hope I got the Yoruba pronunciation well?

Hahaha...

I hope you did.
I'm not Yoruba

You should get some sleep.
So as not be dull on duty later in the day.

Bluezy13:


Hahaha...

I hope you did.
I'm not Yoruba

You should get some sleep.
So as not be dull on duty later in the day.

Lol

Oh,my bad. I thought u are a Yoruba guy.

OK smiles.. Rest well too

And have a lovely night ahead.. Goodnight .
Cheers

victorian:








Lol
Oh,my bad. I thought u are a Yoruba guy.
OK smiles.. Rest well too
And have a lovely night ahead.. Goodnight . Cheers

Goodnight too Cheers...

Well it depends.if na slayqueen u marry..lets say of Daniella Okeke calibre..then lets say as from 500k-600k for her monthly upkeep. But if na local mgbeke u marry as wife then 20k-30k will be enuf for her monthly upkeep.

Must you give her money monthly. It's a relationship, not a job opportunity.

Bluezy13:


Emmm...

Mr Offpo!nt, are you there??

Well, I think he must have been asleep right now.

Mr Offpo!nt, don't hesitate to lemme know when you wake.

I'm awake now, I don't know when I zoomed off to the dreamland... morning boss

tee59:
Your whole salary now and you be suffering till another month ending .Since ,she is disabled and liability that can't work to make her own money. Be wise in spending.

Oh you pipu should just kip chut! using Female monikers to comment, therein no lady that doesn't want monthly upkeep even when she is earning the same pay as the spouse, so just keep your hypocrisy to yourself.

OP asked a valid question

victorian:







God bless you! Thank God for seeing it, the way it is.

I knew the person behind the moniker is a guy who been heartbroken by his gf or wife. So he bashes women with his moniker. He's a danger to himself and society.


Anyways inbetween op, you can start from N60k monthly if u earn much more than 60k. That's what my friend collects monthly from her husband. And he still takes care of everything in the home and also assist both his family and hers join with all gladness and God keeps blessing him more.
So It depend on your salary.

How much does he earn please.

cruchenutii:


How much does he earn please.

I don't know o.

Am not his wife.. And I didn't ask her, how much her husband earns?
We went shopping, I saw lots of cash in her bag as she was about to pay for her things, then I said u are loaded o. She beamed with smiles and said thanks to her Oga. He always transfers 60k to her every end of month for her upkeep. I replied u be madam cash o, even without working lol. Make him always happy o.
Then, We laughed it off.

victorian:









I don't know o.

Am not his wife.. And I didn't ask her, how much her husband earns?
We went shopping, I saw lots of cash in her bag as she was about to pay for her things, then I said u are loaded o. She beamed with smiles and said thanks to her Oga. He always transfers 60k to her every end of month for her upkeep. I replied u be madam cash o, even without working lol. Make him always happy o.
Then, We laughed it off.

Okay sha, 60k a month is pretty much. Also we need to consider if the money for her alone OR for the home in general, food stuffs, children snacks etc.
Her husband has to be earning close to a Million, else that Family will go poor by excessive spending.
I know some graduates that earn less than 50k a month.

On a serious note sha, you need to connect with your friends Husband to link you up with his friends, 60k a month is like a full time Salary oh

cruchenutii:


Okay sha, 60k a month is pretty much. Also we need to consider if the money for her alone OR for the home in general, food stuffs, children snacks etc.
Her husband has to be earning close to a Million, else that Family will go poor by excessive spending.
I know some graduates that earn less than 50k a month.

On a serious note sha, you need to connect with your friends Husband to link you up with his friends, 60k a month is like a full time Salary oh

He has already settled food and drinks at home.. Their store room is filled with yams, bag of rice, garri and the rest. It's not for food at all. Fridge is filled with all kinds of drinks. This Sallah was eat and drink til u can eat no more
It was great fun.

He Should be earning much and he's a top official in a federal government office .

My dear, I have a big link am working on with my lawyer which is 100percent concrete and legit . Also with my kind of biz and the kind of links I want is different from what the husband can link me to.
But my lawyer? That man knows people and has worked for a lot of top shots.. So am better off with him, than with my friend husband.

Anyone earning 60k as salary, should please look for other source of income.
Cause for me, am looking at other source of income o

Am not focused on just my company alone.

mehn Nigerian ladies, always rushing into threads like this to pretend they're better than other ladies feminists my left foot, to read and comprehend is an issue for them.

What if the wife earns triple what the man earns in a month? Is the man still expected to drop again??

MiztaFabulous:


Do you know how to read at all?

It is your fault that your headline does not appropriately and adequately summarise the content of your point.

You have to go and learn how to do that.

victorian:







God bless you! Thank God for seeing it, the way it is.

I knew the person behind the moniker is a guy who been heartbroken by his gf or wife. So he bashes women with his moniker. He's a danger to himself and society.


Anyways inbetween op, you can start from N60k monthly if u earn much more than 60k. That's what my friend collects monthly from her husband. And he still takes care of everything in the home and also assist both his family and hers join with all gladness and God keeps blessing him more.
So It depend on your salary.

2 of u have something wrong going upstairs

MiztaFabulous:


Do you know how to read at all?

i clearly understood what she meant. How come you didnt

Depends on how much he earns.

Bluezy13:


I like you.
I would have fallen for you if you were single.

You successfully and effortlessly disclosed your friend's own, but you didn't disclose yours.
And that's unjust.

So, tell me; how much do you get monthly from your husband??

bro just read the trash she wrote up there...
to be honest bro...any a reasonable woman will not spew those foolish words.
she talks like a small child.

20 percent of your income every month will be enough. I love women they can be prudent

MiztaFabulous:
In every reasonable way it is very necessary that a man gives his spouse a certain amount of money every month for the upkeep of the home whether she is working, doing business or not.

In your opinion, how much do you think is very reasonable for a man to give his spouse every month that will definitely be okay to maintain a comfortable home?

All things being equal 5k should be enough, this is for her to buy personal women things & if she is not working. But if she works just surprise her with gifts from time but no monthly allowance


But if you intend to travel alot, atleast 50k should be enough especially if you got atleast 4 kids, that's excluding school fees but includes all monthly house hold spendings. This applies wether she works or not as long as you are absent

Ok

Is that what your father gives your mother monthly??

victorian:







God bless you! Thank God for seeing it, the way it is.

I knew the person behind the moniker is a guy who been heartbroken by his gf or wife. So he bashes women with his moniker. He's a danger to himself and society.


Anyways inbetween op, you can start from N60k monthly if u earn much more than 60k. That's what my friend collects monthly from her husband. And he still takes care of everything in the home and also assist both his family and hers join with all gladness and God keeps blessing him more.
So It depend on your salary.

mrAMG:
N100million na

Bros you better go and marry a feminist so you can have peace of mind.

This cracked me up!

Offpoint:


I'm watching you on HD TV for the bolded statement

UyaiIncomparabl must hear it

Stop mentioning me unnecessarily.

Babe hustle your own money... Pay your bills.

Bluezy13:


I like you.
I would have fallen for you if you were single.

You successfully and effortlessly disclosed your friend's own, but you didn't disclose yours.
And that's unjust.

So, tell me; how much do you get monthly from your husband??

It will be much more easier for the camel to pass through the eye of a needle than you getting an honest answer from the person you are questioning.

But then again, using the usual Nairaland interpolation methodoly whereby friend equals self, I can deductively tell you that she is the same person as the friend she's talking about.

So don't ask or look any further.

Her husband gives her 60K and takes care of her whole family without complaining.

It's all good.

victorian:








No, at all! Am not like that.
Am a free minded and positive minded person. I feel we all have our own destinies and life on earth to pass through and fulfil. Have accepted my destiny, it wasn't pleasant inbetween and I can't change it. That's how God want our different lives to be.

We are simply pencils in the hand of God, no matter how hard we try to have what we want or desire at certain times in our lives.

I understand.

I must commend ur personality

What's this current trend of some chicks on here, trying to act all sanctimonious and independent. Pls, step on your fùcking brakes!

Nothing wrong in a man giving his wife money for house expenses.
If she's working, they should both contribute a percentage.

If she isn't working, they have to manage whatever he is able to part with. Considering they have other goals to achieve.

Una go come online dey form Miss Independent, na una type fit chop man destiny if im loose guard.

UyaiIncomparabl:

Stop mentioning me unnecessarily.

That wasn't "Unnecessarily" mention ma'am, it was really necessary.

MiztaFabulous:
In every reasonable way it is very necessary that a man gives his spouse a certain amount of money every month for the upkeep of the home whether she is working, doing business or not.

In your opinion, how much do you think is very reasonable for a man to give his spouse every month that will definitely be okay to maintain a comfortable home?

N2,500.00 only.