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Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Originalsly: 11:12am On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO: Fine.... but has he ever accused you of cheating? To some guys this little exchange between you and me amounts to cheating. |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 11:43am On Nov 04, 2019 |
pocohantas: This is just totally wrong LMAO, people date for years far more than that & they still get married. Did you even read the part where she last saw him 2 years ago? Who the hell is a relationship in same country that takes 2 years to see each other. She has been dating herself all this while. Also, this seems like a sexless relationship, Men don't wait that long to be honest. 1 Like |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 11:49am On Nov 04, 2019 |
rosalieene: He was right, wasn't he? Don't you agree that you have a good heart. Currently, are you not with someone that now treats you like a Queen? Some people may not like you as you want but cannot deny you are actually a good person. Being good doesn't make anyone stick with you, once they have attraction for someone else. Your "good" doesn't matter anymore. That is why some people remain in toxic relationships even when their partners are evil to them. 5 Likes |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 11:52am On Nov 04, 2019 |
Guest007: ASSUMPTIONS, how do even know he was holding his balls while typing? Ehen! How do you know? |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Fortissimo502: 11:54am On Nov 04, 2019 |
Gaspardd:You get sense so? Na the ex bf go asaba. Abi na the ex bf contact you want? 1 Like |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Fortissimo502: 12:02pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO: I know how much this can hurt. |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by pocohantas(f): 12:03pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Emaprince: He is just trolling. Emphasis on HE. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 12:06pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
lefulefu: LMAO, maybe during that 5 years. Nigeria was in Civil War, so she couldn't travel down to Asaba to see him She even stated that in 2 years before the break up, they didn't see each other because they were both busy. Mtchew! Baba nla Red flag. 1 Like |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by okewumi: 12:07pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Sometimes it is not just only call Madam VISIT him in Asaba. South-south terrain is very different from Lagos. During your annual leave visit him. No place is very far to the person we love. I have work in those environment and my travelled down to visit. I value it a lot and respect her for that |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 12:07pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
pocohantas: She said they dated from school oh, She said so. Should I look for the comment for you? He's not even a grown man or financially stable. |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by farady(m): 12:08pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
OP just move on with your life, whether the guy gives reasons or not. I just chuckled when I remembered that while I was walking along a street this morning, I overheard a woman singing along a song from one sound speaker across - "I can't kill myself". Though I am not a fan of these boys oh but come to think of it, will you kill yourself? If he walked away, it means he wasn't meant for you. I had this sister in my university days that i respected and loved so much like an elder sister I never had. She was some two years ahead of me. I grow so fond of her that when we used to communicate by letter writing during her youth service, by then I was in my penultimate year in school. In one of my letters I told her if not that she was my senior by age, I wouldn't have mind proposing to her; then probed into her love life. She replied that she was engaged to some guy that was outside the country, that she engaged to this guy when she was in her first year and the guy in his final year. Fast forward to some years later. Do you know she waited for nine (9) good years and when the bobo came back, he got married to another girl without explaining my sister's offense or why he had to call quit the r/ship. Thank God my friend moved on with life. Was she heartbroken? Yes, it hurt deeply but as a child of God she took it and God gave her a very good replacement. In life we must always strive hard to be on top things we can control and handover to God, the things that are outside our control. You would be fine. Just occupy with the things of God, loosen up and engage in activities that will bring out your radiance, smiles and laughter. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 12:10pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Fortissimo502: Ahan ahan, why are you trying to c0ck block this guy na? I'm also in Asaba & about to shoot my shot to the OP, please don't put sand in our garri abeg. |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by donchukwu25: 12:13pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
bobowaja:She has been begging me to d extents she came to place with my frds and her frds to beg me, l swore in their present I will never take her back, she still continue disturbing me, na her business be dat, no going back @op am free, chat me up, let console ourselves |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by rosalieene(f): 12:18pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
truthsayer009:It's TRUE |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 12:20pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
greypencils: See ehn, It's sometimes necessary for Women not assume that they always know how a Man thinks. That's why it's good Women should have a Male figure in their lives, perhaps Father or a close Uncle/Friend they can relate with & reveal some important info. Red flag that has been showing since. Even Pilots & Iraq soldiers don't spend such time away from their loved ones. Na ordinary Asaba to Lagos 3 Likes |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by CosmicJames(m): 12:21pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
truthsayer009:Don't shoot any shot at OP. She's in Lag. Not Asaba. Besides, I think she needs some rest for now 1 Like |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Bahddo(m): 12:23pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Not sure what we are supposed to do with this information. You were the one in the relationship and if you don't know why he acted that way or how it could have been salvaged (if possible), neither do we. Sorry about the heartbreak though. Also, stop building your life around someone you aren't married to. |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by smat101(m): 12:24pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO:Stop trying to make it work... In every relationship there is always the lover and the beloved... If you're not the latter you will definitely feel hurt at some point... And it's obvious you're the lover... my one cent stop trying to make it work just let him be, I know its hard but try We men sometimes just need break... and the truth is that he enjoys sex with you while he was in Lagos (hence the love he was showing you)..Now that you're miles away from him...you can't offer him that any longer... If you think you still love him, Go visit him, get intimate...I assure you things will normalize... but the circle will still have to continue over and over again... |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 12:24pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
CosmicJames: Rest bawo! Oga leave me. Lemme shoot my shot Jejely Take time please!
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Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by meobizy(f): 12:25pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Mscheew. It was meant to become a tree? Go and find someone else. Life continues. |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 12:27pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Rednaxelot: Scavenging is allowed. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by thowbie7ven(m): 12:28pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO:Pls is this Ms ? is it that guy you once celebrated in a facebook post? |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 12:31pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
truthsayer009: He was having a verbal self-service |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by missingribs: 12:32pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Shit happens just take heart and move on 1 Like |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by CosmicJames(m): 12:33pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
truthsayer009:Op definitely didn't tell us the whole truth. She make us believe the relationship lasted for 5 good years. But the truth is that the relationship lasted for about 2.5 yrs. Even when the relationship was active, I'm not even sure if it was strong enough. Now people are commenting base on incomplete information. Is not good |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Kingzy4pep(m): 12:39pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
makydebbie:Exactly. 1 Like |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by LolaO(f): 12:40pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
thowbie7ven: Yes sir... you know me? Please, edit my name off |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by bigl: 12:42pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO: Why not give him a call? U don't have to always wait for him to call cos he's the man. And u cannot tell, what if he had an accident on his way and he's being hospitalized? So, don't assume. I hope you eventually re-connect but if not, "Shove your ass along lady" .... .... life is good and it goes on and on and on ... |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by pocohantas(f): 12:44pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
truthsayer009: Why you come quote me na? He is just a transitional bf then. It is normal they breakup. I can't even remember the full name of my bf that year. Wetin I dey use that kind mumu bf do? E pass "hello, I miss you. Have you eaten?". Toor! Na ancestor levels we dey now 1 Like |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by thowbie7ven(m): 12:44pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Annie001:So you think all married are happy? does the fact that she's married actually translates to happiness? |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 12:54pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
truthsayer009:abegi the relationship don already get comma and the bros was already looking for a way to escape and the asaba transfer offered a sweet opportunity and talking of the asaba transfer it could be he even formed that excuse to escape .its like op don already dey exhibit traits wey d bros no like so hence he just perfected his plans to leave her.u know some girls wen u bring up things u dont like they start creating drama and calling u insecure and bla blah blah .so to make peace reign just leave her alone,cut off contacts and go ur own way..who cares if she cries..she go see another man nah.i just like the way op boyfriend just handle the whole issue..he didnt quarrrel or b!tch like most weak men do(who even has the time to quarreling over relationship these days).he just made up his mind that enough was enough and cut off from the relationship .and as for the issue on why op no visit her guy for asaba u might not blame her on that oo cos if u want to leave a girl will u let her know ur new address? . 1 Like |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by thowbie7ven(m): 12:58pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO:Edited...I'm sorry I had to put up your name just wanted to be so sure it's you...You went to laspotech rite? I just wondered why I don't get to see you post anything about him again...it was such a relationship then which I was viewing from afar....All I know all will be well with you...take your time and this time shall surely pass |
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